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greatnaija01:
BRO is the TEST done before or during or after sleeping with them??

Before dating

A lot of girls keep asking why most guys don't want to settle down with them and fail to ask how many simple tests have they rather failed?
If I decide to buy a brand new car and carry the car straight to my house without asking pertinent questions to know if my dealer is genuine, then I must be a joke. If the car develops a fault the next day, who do I call on?....I got myself to blame.
Same ideology applies to relationships. A friend of mine once told his wife;- Did you know you were the third girl I gave a simple test and you passed it even three times. The wife was just bemused at what my friend said. She asked him;- how do you mean dear?
'' Remember the day the car crashed on the road and we almost called a mechanic until it luckily started again, that was no crash dear. I did off the engine myself''. You were the third girl that decided to help me find a mechanic and even offered to check the engine oil filters and the radiator. The last two girls got angry and boarded a taxi leaving me on the spot.
I was listening to my friend with rapt attention. He was making a lot of sense and I borrowed a clue too. Earlier this year too, another friend of mine told me to help him look closely on the type of girl his girlfriend was. I agreed and I gave her very serious tests which she failed all woefully. It became obvious she was looking down on my friend because of material possessions which she thinks I have more than my friend but the reverse was the case. The truth was that my friend hid his real social status to evaluate her values.
My dear nobody goes to the market to buy trouble. A lot of people come from distorted family background and very poor upbringing and are busy looking for the fool to inherit them like a disease. Some wise ones discovered their mistakes earlier on time and made a U-turn.
Its time to think back and ask ourselves where did we got it all wrong?
Self re-evaluation is bae!
Guys testing you sometimes isn't a bad thing. Your social intelligence will make or mar his social status if you don't know. So be wiser and prove to be really prepared to want what you wish. The best things in life are free

Remain casual friends with them. If a serious guy comes into your life with a serious package(marriage), you will know. He will do all he can to prove to you that he wants to settle down. Leave them f^^k boys for now. Keep your break and defence intact. Marriage should be your goal now. You don't want to get older falling in and out of shady relationships. Get closer to the working class and busy ones coming your way. A serious minded man aint hard to detect

divicode:
flattys, over to you!!

Mangoes headies over to you

RockHard:
Yeah, and yet since independence no single SE state is even mentioned among the top 5 economic contributors in Nigeria alone, not to talk of Africa. Doesn't charity begin at home again?? I think what you meant to say is that Nigeria will become the drug-trafficking capital of the world within 5 years. Sometimes I wonder the kind of egbo some of you smoke before typing. lol

Even if your brain cannot understand anything......compare the era of Okonjo Iweala and Adeosun economically....banza

lol

ndidibabe:
MMM money. Hmm....

FISH BRAIN.....very easy to detect

What happens to the washing machine?
Old man washing our flag as we wait tirelessly
SMH

Saw it coming after two collabos

He needs a washing machine before 2019 catches up with him

Yea had such a job one time like that and I called their bluff as fast as a lightening. Dropped my resignatoion on them at the least expected time. yeye people

Thieves always denying since 17BC

JuicyLucy:
And only fools fall for it. Exhibit A: YOU!

I knew you aint even a girl...lol

JuicyLucy:
I am complete; unlike you. So I hope you find what you're looking for (woman).

I pray oh.. with your dp its uhuru for your searching game, lol

QueenSuccubus:




I no bros ooo...

sorry then

JuicyLucy:
I don't understand what you're getting at. I don't like your dp too so. ...

don't get it twisted, but hope you get a good hubby soon

JuicyLucy:
Yep so save your pm

And you are posing like that on your DP
which way na?
that's my concern

QueenSuccubus:





The word MAN HUNT sound so harsh.. It like looking for a man and then slaughter him

Bros I almost got slaughtered na

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JuicyLucy:
I'm an old woman

like 35?

JuicyLucy:
Man Hunt... Coming to a Cinema near you

LOL

Though everyone's destiny isn't the same when it comes to the age at which various women get a husband, there is a thin line between searching for a hubby and MAN HUNT!. Don't know why some older ladies will become so desperate as to start going after a guy much younger than you and who is not even interested in you at all. What kind of brazen attraction is that one?.....wonders
Was almost a victim of one desperate single lady who wouldn't just get out of my sight with her fifty year old face.*laughs out loud*
It was terribly annoying..i was gentle man enough to handle her advances with maturity but at a point, it became so offensive that I had to leave the environment for her not to ever see me again....Jeez
The truth is that most ladies don't even know how to approach a guy at all. Why even approach a guy that doesn't give a damn about you from day one. Them swear bad thing for you?. Can desperation get so bad?. Ladies should be taciturn enough to discern how to get a guy's attention. Sometimes its just SOFT WORK. Little help gestures appeal to many guys than gifts or nice outfits.
If only ladies know how many guys pass through sleepless nights to find a perfect way to get close to them or woo them, then they wouldn't act so dumb in approaching any guy they like. Being afraid of sounding cheap simply means being afraid of sounding like a dumbass. It means you can't even figure out anything creative to hit at your admire.
Years will pass you by and then you start MAN HUNT!. Why?
Sometimes give good gestures to guys you like with a clear conscience. Wear that cloak of friendship inside out. Smile often and eschew that anger part of you. Temper supercedes temper and until you jam the one that's higher than you, you will calm down by force.
Time doesn't wait on any lady but never a good excuse to do a MAN HUNT on anyone.

musco4me:
Hw much is land at CBN estate?

7.5 million

victorazy:
Salient points

Thanks O jare!

Damiiron:
lol

Oga you will care one day ooooo.
In Rapper M.I's voice;-you sef na human being o

Damiiron:
lol

Oga you will care one day ooooo.
I Rapper M.I's voice;-you sef na human being o

moskobaba:
Well said

Thanks

Am not yet married but I know almost every man at some point in the journey of marriage has asked himself this question directly or indirectly. The reason is because most times. different things bring us together which are far from the main thing that should.
No marriage out there is perfect. Just a few are close to free uphill or intermediate quagmire. I like Susan but why do I really feel that I would suddenly want Susan to be my life partner always remain an unasked question. Betty is pretty and presentable. I will like to wife her. Fair and good but is Betty really the type you can condone?. Before you make anybody your best friend, its wise to check your compatibility and tolerance level for that person's little irks and idiocies. Betty can be a beauty but can you stand her annoying attitude?. Don't rush to say yes. Ask yourself, for how long?. You better answer the question sincerely because if you end up running away from your home in future into the arms of other women outside wedlock, I will flog you. *laughs out loud*
Man should know thyself. With the right woman, you can focus better. Marry with your heart and not with your eyes.
The heart knows no bounds when it loves truly.
As for the ladies, haven't you asked yourself why most guys leave their girlfriends to propose to other different women?
When a man wants to get married, he stops thinking like a boy and thinks like a man. He begins to search for value and not just big a*s Nikkky or pinkie lips Mitchel. He rather begins to search his soul for a true partner but all the same, he is not completely wise!
You as a lady has a greater power than him. Its called the power of sensitivity. Men are deficient in these because they are more confrontational than women. So don't just sit down there and celebrate his proposal. Basking in the euphoria of bride-to-be.
Have you asked yourself why he thinks you are the one?. Ok that will spoil the show right?. Don't ever be afraid to ask him this question. It will help him think, re-focus and add more value to the life journey. Even if he changes his mind later, he isn't meant for you dear.
Am afraid of ever thinking of asking myself this question because it looks backwards and is always frustrating. Have you ever bought an expensive car and later regret buying it or asked yourself did I even made a mistake to buy this car?....
Its a moment of truth and can drive a man off balance. The solution is to search deeply. if you can count five genuine reasons or more why you wish to get married to her, then she is the one. Don't ever manage because its always a life journey.