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Eeeeeh,make she dey beat me 4 house abi(some,or many of them visit d gym daily)! Or when I gt tired and unable 2 perform on bed,she threatens me with AK47 after a smack on my face? Lmfao

In as much as I have no personal dislike for GEJ nor Atiku; I don't see either of them as the answer to the long standing problem of leadership in this country. Both men lack the vision and tenacity with which to govern. This is a new age,we need fresh,sound and convincing ideas.

@1one, help me tell them o! By the time a man (rich or average) spends over 75% of his earning in tending to women(as the case may be),isn't that slavery. A clear case of "monkey dey work baboon dey chop." Its like living out our lives to please women. That's unfair! Once had a gf who asked what I'd buy for her on my birthday. That's stupid! Look at it this way,very few women buy their bf/hubby occassional gift items.

Female high dependency (or gold digging)is the main reason women in dis part of the world are still suffering and subjugated. How do u fight for feminism when 95% of women don't even want it? When u as a woman wait on a man to do stuffs for u that u ursef can do with ease,then its lik giving him the right to do anything he pleases with you. I respect a woman who is independent and thinks of self-actualization. That's the type I pray to marry. Dnt gt me wrong,I don't mean if she's genuinely in need she shouldn't ask,but then it shud be a rare occurence. Love is abt sharing of responsibilities.

oyinbo85:
@Mcleo007
obviously staying in love doesnt have to do with race but the way you act with the ones you love does. maybe not really with race but with the culture and the upbringing

Culture plays a less role in determining the subversiveness of an individual. Same with upbringing. Am from a polygamous home of 16 children,but can tell u none of my siblings is looking in that direction. A cheat is a cheat,whether he's yoruba,ibo,italian,german or whatever. My advice, tell him how u feel about everything; that ur feeling hurt and can't tell the future between you both. You'd know what he's up to from the response he'd give (be careful though,some pple are good at conceiling their emotions).

Staying in love has nothing to do wiv race. I believe,you know the answers(solution) to ur plight. So,act up and save yourself.

Nice one there @poster.

Bad one there, that's if the story is real.

No. 1 rule of the game, "Never brag of ur accomplishment."

@poster, how does his being gay impact in ur life? Please, do a proper thinking before u post anything. Think of how people will accept it. You may want to pass an info, but ur manner of presentation does matter.

yeye mimicry!!!

This is not so good for the koko master. Dude needs more money,

Why are people so quick to blame when matters of infidelity sets in? For God's sake, they are both adults and are responsible for their actions. Let them be.

@Rokiatu, I so love ur analysis. That's terrific.
@190, hw do u mean o?

I'v lost faith on iwp. Versions 1 and 2 hav been blocked,and here peeps are saying 3.2 rocks. I need some convincing!

Its like some persons dnt the point asked. Look at it this way- you planned a date with a girl(whether ur main or new girl), at the given day,u got to her place promptly to pick her to the place(an eatery or somthing). On the way,u guys talked and laffed. U eventually got to the date venue,made ur orders interchangeably and u had fun. The fun was warmly gotten(u both had a nice time). When the waiter comes forth with the bill, before u could say ok, the girl drives straight to her purse or handbag (u may not really consider d move,as u may think she's going for her hanky or lip gloss). While ur dragging with ur wallet,she hands the waiter the money and tells him to keep the change. How will u feel?

Hey guys,I want honest opinions on this. I'd personally feel slighted, especially if the outing was my own making.

I thought of that also. Am on os4.6. Would upgrade soon. Thanks

People keep calling on Sneidjer but fail to point out what criteria to judge him with. At Inter,he was not top scorer(Milito was),neither was he top assist(Maicon was). At Barca,Messi was top scorer in europe(including the champs league) and highest assist. What else? Again,the fact that some players in past won based on world cup performance doesn't make it a standing paradigm.

TCD:
from what i've heard, i've not seen any download limit for etisalat. no such info on their website and i've not heard of a download limit from friends who use etisalat. calling their customer care should help clear the air.

Well,I'm back to mtn. May try them nxt time.

Please,for some days now ever since I tried another sim on my bb its been going off on its own. What culd be d cause?

I believe none of us here knows more than those who voted him as the best. Aside being a fan of Messi,there is no denying it that the guy is hyper-fantastic. And what is the award given for- the best player in the world. Look it at this way:- the boy started his career as an attacking midfielder,operating from the flanks. Between last year and present,Messi has played in more than 3 positions and have been outstandiing in all! He scored five hattricks in the year in review.
And then,u cannot use the performance of his national team to judge his world cup outing. The whole world knws Maradonna is whack and the argentine team performed woefully becos of him. People won't talk of xavi,iniesta if spain didn't win d world cup. Same wiv sneidjer if inter hadn't won d treble. But Messi? He is at d center of every attraction. He's too much!

Trim body. Hmmmmm! I'm glad u knw wat attracted ur hubby to u. With that knowledge u can always keep him to urself. Funny some women don't knw this.

@TCD, I use vuclip and youtubemob, but u knw it won't go well when on gprs. It will be interrupted by buffering nodes. As for etisalat, do they have an unlimited bandwidth plan like mtn?

@phate07, aint married as well but I counsel married ppl.
@iyatrustee, u have a fair point there. I quite agree wiv u,but aside make-ups (whc obviously doesn't last) are there other ways u as a woman stay attractive to ur husband?

I used to do that a lot especially when I initially joined fb. I stopped it the day I saw the way a girl I saw sitting beside me at a cybercafe hissed at her friend invites and passed dis comment, "some people are just annoying. They think they can jus add anybody to their friends list anyhow they like. Abeg,make I ignore them jor." The guttural way she sounded abt it really got at me.

Let time be the healer. Same way,look to building a mutually exclusive friendship btw u both.

Hello NL'ers, I wrote an article on this topic on my blog last year and actually felt like raising it up here for discussion. There is no denying it that in marriage,even courting relationships; there are moments or times when you don't find your wife (sometimes,its the other way round) attractive to you. It may that something abt her which used to draw her to u suddenly dissappears. The reasons are not peculiar actually. I want educative responses on this please.