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Dzzzz:
..You definitely not making sense.No matter how you try to explain,You are just a victim of heart break and we all are but you still need to heal…Do not talk about age cause am sure you not my age bro so keep your advice..When you don’t heal,Your next relations is bound to crumble cause you still hold on to your post.HEAL and enjoy life bro.

I wasn't making sense because you've been pussified na. You don't want to learn. How old are you? I bet you are not up to 35, and you haven't really had much experience with women and have time to spend enough time with women of all sorts, maybe that's why you are acting all wussy and sissi. To be frank, I am ashamed of you being the woman in your relationship.

We've seen people like you many times, they end up crying foul later on. Truly they said, a man who has been emotionally caged by a woman, no one can advise him and he will listen.

You think what you feel is love? That's some emotional lust you are feeling right there. You've been pussified and we want to redeem you but you are acting all stubborn now. You don't want to learn and take advice.

Nobody is telling you not to love, but you are doing it in the wrong way. You are acting like the woman in your relationship. It's guys like you that will cry foul when that same girl will start cheating with other guys.

Isn't guys like you that will place a lady on some monthly allowances, train her to school and will still end up dumping your sorry ass? You have to learn pussy man, and stop this your sissy euphoria. You are still a small boy that's why. If not, you are supposed to know more than being a pussy boyfriend to a woman that still see other guys aside you. We've seen your type a lot. Your case won't be any way different, trust me.

Shame won't let you come back to create a thread when that same girl you want to die for is being trashed by other men. Stop building your happiness around a woman. You still have alot to learn.

Go and follow Agba John Deo on twitter to open your eyes more to reality. For you to even be vouching for a Nigeria girl of this generation shows, you are still lacking behind in your experience with reality. Also, follow TheGidRedPíller here on Nairaland. Go and read all of his posts. Don't be a stubborn fly.

Don't be a wussy. Receive some sense and stop this display of insanity. Your display of euphoria is due to lack of experience. You never even reach 30 years so I understand.

Your display of juvenile delinquency is understandable. But we won't watch you get used by a woman.

I put it to you, you are not the first, you will never be the last. But take this from me, you've been pussified and you will learn and you will definitely learn the hard way.

Don't say we didn't warn you.

We pray so much in Nigeria because Nigeria is a jungle where animals in humans form dwell.

Nigerians are filled with evils, committing all sorts of iniquities and crimes, both young and old.

SocialJustice:
No risk taken, the God described by religion is fallible. A little common sense, you see it does not add up, then religious folks ask you to believe, blindly.

If you see God as the intelligence behind this creation, it makes a lot more sense not some dude sitting on a shiny chair punishing, blessing some and forcing some to pay tithes. 😂😂😂

The patriarchy in religious God self.

God the Father, God the Son, God the Holy Spirit

What of God the mother? Ojoro

You don smoke Colos again abi? Stop smoking Igbo social justice. It's not good for your brain.

ABSAO:
Greetings EduLanders!!!!
Please I need a guidance on how I can verify whether any Nigerian university certificate is genuine or not online without asking for official transcripts from university authority. Thanks in advance

Check NYSC website and locate the senate list or list of graduated students. Search the year the person graduated. You will see list of all the students that graduated that year by selecting the name of the university and the year the person graduated.

Dzzzz:
..My brother you need to heal from all the breakfast you collect for woman hand…We have been dating for 6yre now,So it’s not about Age here.

It doesn't matter how many years you've dated.

Breakfast you said? How can a high value man experience breakfast? I am not a sisi type of guy. If you know me very well, I am the type of guy that don't get emotional over women. I maintain my frame.

I have had my fair share with women of all types and shapes, so what makes you think I am the type of guy that will fool myself around women? I put it to you here and now that you still have alot to learn about women. The euphoria you are feeling now is just momentary.

I learned about women at early age of my life in my 20th. Probably you are still in your 20th, that's why you are feeling like someone that won a visa lottery over a woman that is still getting piped by other well to do cumrades. You need some nugget OTs to know that you can act all these hay wire towards a woman and still get pipped behind you. This is the reason you need to maintain your masculine frame and stop acting all feminine with your frame.

When you act the way you do before a woman, it will create see finish. She will never take you seriously. She will get bored over your incessant praises and display of emotions. Leave that for the woman to do. That should be the work of the lady not you. She should be the one acting all happy for being with a king. Know your position and role as a man. Leave women things for women.

You are acting like a feminine already. At the end of the day, you will be the woman while she will be the man who dictate the tone in the relationship.

With this euphoria you are feeling, I bet, she has the upper hand in the relationship. If she threatens to leave you tomorrow, we all know you will commit suicide and not eat for a whole week. That's what you get when you put all your life on a woman. Make the pronouncement of how you can't do without her. What mindset do you think you are creating in her mind?

That's what you get when you don't know your value as a man when you meet a woman. So grow up and learn from OG like us who have seen it all in the dating world.

Stop building all your happiness around a woman. It doesn't always end well. Learn how to be without her in case of necessity. So that if the relationship cast tomorrow, you can move on easily without being all emotional and end up crying like a baby tomorrow.

But I doubt with this frame you are creating around her, you can never live without her which is very bad for you as a man.

My little advice.

Dzzzz:
Many people say,No love in Nigerian..We have all been through breakups and it keeps going but I can testify that true love exists her in Naija..My woman is Everything a man wants for himself..If my account balance is 100k,I will give her 99k and use the rest smoke Cigar..My brothers don’t give up cause good ladies are out there.

What has she done for you? Some men are just too quick to term a woman good even within few minutes of meeting her.

Someone you have not spent enough years with, you are already praising her as heaven on earth. Tomorrow when she starts showing you shege, you will still run back here and be lamenting.

My advise to you: don't be too quick to praise a lady. Take your time to know her true colour before going all emotional. If you're already so quick to be dishing out praises on her like this, it will get over her head and will start misbehaving. It is high time men begin to wise up. How many times has she praised you like this?

Stop being too emotional over a woman. We have seen all these with people here, at the end, they still ran back and start lamenting.

Men, make una learn o. They no dey carry woman matter for head o.

Parydelegate:
Old story...she no even get the full details just wanted to quickly create content. Weytin be homeland security in UK

Na wa for 9ja content creators....well message passed. Hope dem go learn

No mind the content creator. It's not fake nursing degree she used. The husband was the one that run everything. But the woman was actually a nurse in Nigeria. But the husband run the parol base on she was a registered nurse.

Old story


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PEA25JiILE8&pp=ygUtU3Rvcnkgb2YgdGhlIGRlcG9ydGVkIG1hbiBieSBoZXIgd2lmZSBmcm9tIFVL

Kwaramustgoodag:
Fake stories just to trend. Come back home and see by yourself what People are facing

Which one is fake story? You're not current na, how will you even know what's going on.

That happened 2 months ago. Go watch the full story here. The shameless woman that asked the authority to remove her husband from her COS.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PEA25JiILE8&pp=ygUtU3Rvcnkgb2YgdGhlIGRlcG9ydGVkIG1hbiBieSBoZXIgd2lmZSBmcm9tIFVL

Urgent1Million:
You pay a rent of 3m naira p.a., give your wife 8.4m p.a. for family upkeep, excluding school fees and you still use a legedes benz?
Let me look for my iphone 16 promax charger, I'll be back.

Ogbeni what are you trying to do? Hope you are not trying to wipe Egbon Oraimi cord o. Abeg o!

A virtuous woman is a woman who can manage her family even with the least amount of money.

No amount will be enough for any wasteful spender. Now, I know why men die so early unlike women. It's because they spend all their lives fending for the family at the detriment of their mental and emotional health.

A woman and in quote a supposed wife is supposed to be supportive. Whatever the husband gives her, she is supposed to manage it, especially now that the economy is telling hard on everyone.

This is the time she is supposed to bring out her A+ managerial skills as a wife. While it is not totally wrong to spend on a family, spending wastefully can be detrimental to the future of a man. This is because when a wife spends wastefully without her contributing anything to the expenses of the family, it can create a chronic deficit on the the man's personal financial reservoir. This means that, the man will neither be able to save nor have any tangible asset he can fall back on if things go sour.

What if in a situation where by things go sour for the man and he goes from square 💯 to 0? Such a wasteful wife will definitely leave the man once he can't sustain the standard she has created for herself with the man's money. She will abandon the man and run away from the marriage.

This is why we see so many marriages crashing on a daily basis. Some was because the man was no longer doing well as before. We have seen wives leaving their husbands. This is the main reason I will advise every man never to abandon their personal well beings at the detriment of caring for a family.

At this point, you need to cut down on every unnecessary expenses. If your wife wants to live a frivolous lifestyle that she doesn't seem to know how to manage things, caution her and if she refuses, tell her to make use of her own money to balance up to live flamboyantly.

Are women not supposed to support their husbands with expenses in the home? Of course yes. That's what keep a good family running. But today, we no longer have such women who can happily support their husbands at home to handle some expenses.

If your partner can't support you, how about she learn how to be economical? What I see here is your wife being inconsiderate and wasteful. The why she is being such a wasteful spender is because she is not contributing anything to the welfare of the family. The moment she starts contributing to expenses and spending her own money to cater for some things in the home, you will discover that she will start being economical.

Women will only be economical if they start spending their own money. They will do everything to avoid spending wastefully. That's because the money is coming from their own pockets.

So OP, try and ask your wife to start contributing little to running the home and see her reaction. I am afraid, I sense that woman might leave you some days if things peradventure go bad for you and you go to square zero, I forbid it for you. But I don't see that woman staying if this scenario occurs.

So, make it a habit now to start saving for your own future as a man. Don't let your wife wreck you. If you are wrecked today, she will abandon you and run away. Some women are very selfish. So, you need to be wise as a man to plan for your old age.

Don't waste all your resources fending for a family wastefully as a results of having a wasteful wife who lacks sympathy and human consideration.

Your children will soon be adults and one day, they will all leave you and your wife. Take care of yourself, wellbeing and mental health now, save more and plan for your old age. The family will survive even with 500k upkeep. Don't allow your wife to make you leave above your means.

Deeegbee:
Great thread, this happens a lot in the West.

For some like me who is bold and outspoken because I fear nobody except God, my parents and a man with a GUN lol, you bring the racism bias to my doorstep especially in the Workplace. I immediately give you a stern warning straight up and give you reasons why you should not throw shit to me. I do make them understand I don’t belong to the categories of other Africans like the (Somalians and Ethiopians) as they often treat them like a piece of shit.

This method has worked for me as they tend to be very scared, they later choose to be friends and accord me respect thereafter.

I do advise my African brothers to be confident of themselves, be outspoken and they should always exercise their right no matter what!


DisGuy front page material

I love this. This is action man. You're the true son of your father trust me. I hate it when African guys dey suegbe and zuor for whites. Put them where they belong, they will behave.

They can only do that rubbish with low self esteem guys. Guys like us that hate being intimated, only my countenance always pass a message. In as much as I look gentle in my face, I don't tolerate nonsense.

All african guys abroad need to grow up and stop crying like babies before white people.

That's where self confidence comes into play. I don't believe a pure Naija guy who has experienced Nigeria hardship and the ghetto lifestyle will travel abroad and get intimated by soft white beings.

Let's every guy be like iLgendd. That guy self confidence is something else. He is one of the most mocked and trolled Nairaland users I have seen in this platform. People always have things to mock about him. But he has this I don't give a fvck mindset. He will always put anyone where he belongs if anyone tries mocking or intimidating him. That's how guys should handle others white bullies.

Whites are very emotional people. Put up a stern warning and see them run into their shells.

TheGiftedOne:
Your landlord haven't seen body-heat, if I were you, e would have long done the needful.

The Ministry of environment would have acted if you complain to them had we a working society. But alas the con3 is long gone.

Nigeria is a jungle my brother. Say no more!

I've always said it that Nigeria is a jungle where animals in form of humans dwell.

The way people drive in Nigeria is not obtainable in the western world. That's why some that relocated abroad do fail their driving tests up to 3 to 5 times before passing. That's because, if you think you know how to drive, get to abroad first, you wil discover that you have been driving rubbish in Nigeria.

Nobody is penalised for overspeeding in Nigeria. People just drive any how without considering other road users. They overspeed when they shouldn't be overspeeding and overtake foolishly in overly bent corners where they are supposed not to overtake.

When you are driving on the road in Nigeria, you will discover that your life is not safe, cuz no one obeys rules of driving here in Nigeria.

So many persons's lives had been cut short due to the unprofessional driving of other drivers on the road.

You will hardly see incessant accidents happening in abroad. That's because there are cameras everywhere to capture all road offenders and overspeeding drivers.

Pls, if you have the means to leave this country and you are still dragging feets, I beg you with whichever God you serve, make the move now because tomorrow might be too late.

We don't enjoy any peace of mind in this country. Bad things always happen, majority of which are caused by the unprofessionalism and ignorance of other people.

Leave now that you can for your peace of mind and total safety before it is too late.

May his soul rest in perfect peace.

Hmmmm. This is one disadvantages of marrying from a large family of a partner that has so many siblings that are not doing well for themselves.

If they are all doing well, they won't even reason your house or come stay weeks in your house. It's one disadvantages every single young man should look into before considering marrying a girl. Just know that if you marry a girl who has siblings that are not doing pretty well for themselves financially, just know they will turn your house to constant visitation.

If you are not financially buoyant, make it a decision to marry a lady that don't have many siblings that are still not fully financially independent or buoyant on their own.

While it is not wrong to feed extra mouths, but that will definitely wreck you in this economy if you are still struggling with your finances.

If they are contributing to the feeding in the house, that will be a different case.

The girl's senior brother that you said do come to stay for weeks, if he is doing well for himself, he won't even have time to be going to his in-law house to stay for weeks and eating free foods.

That implies he is not still doing well, reasons he comes around to stay to feed freely as things are hard. But that's a big Bleep up for a senior brother.

They are supposed to know with their common senses that, their coming around to stay for weeks upon weeks will put a big hole on your pocket in terms of feeding. It's not easy to single-handedly feed grown up adults in this hard economy.

Domaining101:
Hmmmm, i think I'm seeing something. The lord is whispering into my ears saying "last" , "last".. I see coffin, I see crows... Please we need to put this lady in prayers, i see crowd. Speak to me father.

Mumu . No be only speak to me father.

jom28gy:
I don't get it

Shey you be that guy that always sit in back of class that year? Johnbosco if u know this thing ma bend.

ICTspecialist:
thanks so much for this

You're welcome.

Get dettol. Be adding dettol to your bathing water to bathe. And try and get medicated premier cool soap. Be bathing with that and the Dettol.

Then to cure it from inside your body, get scent leafs and gingers. Peel the gingers and cut into piece. Add the scent leafs and the gingers in a pot. Boil the content for 30-40 minutes and be drinking morning and night, twice a day. Continue doing that until you see results.

Don't just do it once o. Continue drinking the water day and night until it heal completely. If it finish, add more water and reboil. Keep doing it till the infection disappear.

Thank me later. Come back for testimony once it works for you.

We cure things using natural herbs.

ICTspecialist:
it was a iphone right?

No, it's an android phone. Mi cloud for Xiaomi phone. I am a Xiaomi fan. So, I always link all my Xiaomi phones to my Mi cloud account and turn on find device in case it get loss, I can track it remotely, delete things remotely and lock the phone remotely any time.

See the stolen phone on the second pic. That redmi note 8 was the one that was stolen in 2020 that I locked.

ICTspecialist:
which device did you use to login to your icloud that night your phone was stolen

You can login with another person's phone into your iCloud account. I logged in with my password using my brother's phone. The phone was stolen in a broad day light..not even night. In the afternoon.

phemray:
Lolz, I think our understanding and beliefs are quite different. A laugh when people say Thier unborn children. But anyway, I still maintained that other countries will soon be willing to come to Nigeria of tomorrow, very soon. Afterall, japa is all about money making and security.

Brother that's a big lie. Nigeria will never be great now with all these corrupt leaders. It will be great of course but not in this our generation. Maybe in the coming generation.

Remember, Nigeria gained independence since 64 years now. Let me burst your brain: in the next 36 years, Nigeria will still not be great, bet me. By then, Nigeria will be 100years old and I am telling you that, it won't be great with the levels of corruptions.

The only thing that will make Nigeria to be great as soon as possible is revolution and we are not ready for that now.

Omo, na so this chair dey cost? My back dey pain me, I said ma just order this for my work station. Over 100k don go vrooooom just like that o. Body dey pepper me like this as over 100k wan leave my account. But man have to get it so I can work my ass off to leave this shithole. Chaiiii, the hustle is real. The zeal to leave this country is on another level o.

rickleye:
500k with 10% tax. 2000 pounds you pay 40% tax.
Good roads , security , low inflation , good economy. I’ll take the UK job

In the west, they don't tax that way. They tax according to your income. Low income earners get low tax rate. For instance, they don't tax the first 1000 pounds for low income earners. And the tax is not up to that 40% you quoted.

phemray:
I understand but
Individual differences, I don't think UK/US is a passport to heaven or best life. Nigeria will be great and an so confident of that. Am not saying to japa is bad, but am sure UK was built as well by their citizens without japa then.

Brother, Nigeria will never be great in this generation. Don't let anyone deceive you. This generation will pass away and it will take the grace of God for this country to get better and look like western countries. There is no hope of Nigeria becoming great any time soon. Know this now and know peace. Let's stop deceiving ourselves.

I am after securing better future for my unborn kids. At least, make them have the freedom and have the world on their palms with dual citizenship. That's the goal o.

I don't want Nigeria to happen to my unborn kids o. That's the goal. So, better stop hoping and start having plan B now. No put your hope on Nigeria o. I don talk my own.

uvie66:
...my brother I concur because I am on 2.5 k a month net and live in London but always still manage to save 500 every month out of it, despite coming to three times a year to flex. The trick to living in London is do not punch above your weight.

Now we've heard it from the horse 🐎 mouth. This is someone living in London.

I still tell people, stay within your means and you will just be fine.

Most people struggling are those who always want to flex muscles with the money bags around them.

No go do pass yourself as a man is always my advice for all young men.

Even in London, you're doing well with 2.5k per month. And someone is here saying, 500k naira a month is better than 2k pounds a month in UK. In this dieing Nigeria.

Ucheamani:
There's nothing like £2k in UK just like there's nothing like 500k in Naija.
UK is made up of 4 different countries with many cities, towns and villages. In Glasgow, Scotland where I live, £2k can pay my rent, pay my council tax and electric bills (I don't use gas) feed my family of 5, buy my monthly bus ticket, pay my phone and house internet bills and I will still have small savings.
Unlike England, I don't have to pay for prescriptions, children under 22 don't pay for public transport, primary school kids eat free. All excursions within the city are paid for by the council. So make your comparison specific.

Interesting. Everybody kept mentioning London as if London is the only city in the UK. There are other cheaper cities to stay but some persons always follow the crowd.

They want to be living in London where millionaires live and be rubbing shoulders with millionaires instead of going for other beautiful cities with cheaper cost of living.

I feel some persons are just doing too much living above their means in that UK. They better cut their coats according to their sizes.

Macdeey:
Nigeria will be great....... Is what we have been hearing since birth ......😂😂😂

Don't mind them. Make them dey give themselves hope.

Let me give my elderly advice. Let's analyze it based on the current reality of Nigeria.

As a man in this current economy, 500k can't sustain a family of 3, assuming you have a wife and a child.

Even if you are single, you can manage to go by 500k. Using myself as an example. I work from home. And I make an average of 450k-500k. Just last month here, I made 540k. But averagely, my earnings revolve around 450-550k. But I am not still satisfied even as a single guy.

I will advise you to move if the job of the 2000 pounds is already waiting for you. Below are the reasons why I will advise you to go for the UK job:

1. You will get more international exposures and recognition

2. You will be exposed to more opportunities, growth and personal developments

3. You will gain more international experiences

4. Career wise, you will add more values to yourself and CV

5. You will have more career growth

6. You will have more value for your money and standard of living

7. Your life expectancy will increase and you will live in less fear and worries

8. You will have the opportunity to become a permanent resident and possess dual citizenship in the future

So on and so forth.

Go for the UK 2000 pounds job if there is room for career growth in your job. With time, your earning will increase.

doggedfighter:
Mcslize, you are just forming egbon 😂

If we check well you may just be 22😂

You no well. 👀 Old man like me? Me wey belong to the council of Nairaland elders na be 22? You dey jonse ni? I no be small pikin o. I am a sweet looking, hotcake and very respectable and reputable young looking man in his mid 30th. I just celebrated 13,150 days on earth a week ago. You dey whine me?

Better withdraw that your statement now before I summon you to the council of Nairaland elders. Don't say I didn't warn you baby girl.

Always avoid late night movements in Nigeria. Evil people always perpetuate their evils during the night. I have made it a habit that 7-8pm, I should be in my house.

I was also robbed in 2020 with a gun pointed at me in a broad day light during Christmas Eve. A day to Christmas of 2020. I just gave them the phone. A new phone for that matter. A phone I just bought. They were robbing a POS lady at the time when I just bumped into them.

The place was very isolated and quiet. A POS shouldn't be operating in such an isolated place. I didn't drag with them. I handed the morón the phone. They were two. One was operating with a gun, and the other guy was on standby in their car.

Immediately I got home, I logged into my iCloud account and locked the phone to become non usable for life. Even if they sell it, the person can't use it. I even wrote on it, stolen phone. If found call the nearest police station. Immediately they switch on the phone, that's the text that will show on the screen. I did all that remotely through my iCloud account.

Do all you want to do during the day time. Once it is getting dark, start rushing home. Don't stay out late or start gallivanting in the night looking for what is not lost. Remember, Nigeria is a jungle.

May his soul rest in peace.

IbeOkehie:
Free advice. Going by the trajectory of similar economic crises in Venezuela, Lebanon and Zimbabwe, the government will LIKELY seize those dollars and force you to take naira. In fact our CBN already tried in the past 1 year, that certificate thing they were offering.

Good Luck to Nigeria.

Nothing will happen to dorm accounts. It's just lamba. Some banks actually put an interface where you can convert to naira by yourself. Government will never do such. It's just rumour. Domiciliary accounts have been in existence for quite a long time. Banks only put an interface in their banking apps where you can convert directly to naira at a good rate on their banking app. No be today.

Mom007:
That is not a tomato. Its either a zucchini or courgette of the pumpkin family.

Even mummy G.O belongs to indomie generation for you to say that's not tomatoes.