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This is pure obsession, not love. Ladies that have undergone terrible relationships and have become emotionally damaged are the ones that act this way. You can't repair them.

At a point, you will get fed up. To me, this is a toxic relationship. It's not healthy for any sane man who wants peace of mind.

Another thing is that: ladies like these can cheat, and when they do, they will try to manipulate you by accusing you of cheating on them, whereas their second name is cheating.

As a guy, trust me when I say this is toxic love and obsession. Peace will be very far from you if you are dating a lady like this, cuz she will never give you peace of mind that you deserve.

Debymayor:
Greetings. Thanks for your response. I don dey reason the matter since, I say make I run meet my NL people as I really doubt it despite the 100% assurance we are been given.

When a scammer wants to scam you, he will always promise you heaven and earth.

In this Australia japa, there is no short cut. I repeat, no short cut. If there is a short cut, people like us that have been in this thread for years would have been in Australia by now.

But here we are doing the right thing and following all due processes cuz there is no short cut to the land of the milk and honey.

Discard that thought of conversion of visitor visa to PR. That can be possible in the dream any way but not in reality for the Australia we all know. There is nothing like that. Except you guys just want to dash out your money to that well cooked cheap scam.

The person can help you guys apply for visitor visa o no doubt, which is usually 3 months visa, but converting it to PR, come on. Nothing like that.

Better follow due process and do your skills assessment to hop on the queue if you're qualified.

Shalom!

Mikelarteta:
1. Mini Hoe
2. Skid Steer
3. Escavator
4. Loader ( 988) the biggest size
5. Fork lift ( Hitachi ) 20 Tonnes

Thanks for this.

Mikelarteta:
Mini hoe. Loader. Skid steer, excavator

Don't be offended. Kindly number them for easy identification. You included full stop in-between do I am confused.

Just number them 1, 2, 3 for me to be able to identify them.

otipoju, Project Managerial is a nice skill no doubt. As a project manager, what path did you use to learn to become a project Manager?

Mikelarteta:
As a heavy Equipment Operator, I make over 6 figure’s easily. Way to go men no be all this university graduates without skills. This is why a country like Canada is working, thru put more empjyon technical education.

Which of the heavy equipment do you operate?

FuckYou:
This phone was once popular. If you know the name, you are ancient of days niyen

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This man should come for the seat of presidency after his tenure as a governor. He will transform Nigeria within 4 years.

Say no to cultism. Try and focus your efforts on how to create a better life for yourself and family.

Focus your strength on your hustle and stop putting your life on the line for a course that won't profit you in the long run.

A word is enough for the wise.

ThiefnubuBandit:
Many things dey happen.

Only in Nigeria many of these deadly/evil things do happen. Nigeria is a jungle where animals in human forms dwell.

I have said it before. Living in Nigeria as a country reduces your life span by 50%.

Do Police mount roads in the western world with bags of cements and causing traffic jams and obstructing roads users?

May their souls rest in peace.

IamCookie:
Kindly use "In case of necessity" next time.

Cookie the cookie 🍪, what are you cooking again today?

idahme:
Why will you remember when you have plethora of boyfriends all around? How on earth will someone remember 15 boyfriends? But if you have just two relationships all your dating life, you must remember their names even in 30 years time.

Continue to enlarge your coast , the strt is happy with you. More kpomo for the boys.

Instead of you to use your critical thinking skills properly, in your mind you want to read to respond instead of reading to understand.

I tire for Double0h7 o. The babe said she no remember guy she dated 2 years ago. Even satan go shock for this latest revelation o! This one body counts don yakpa! Chisoooooos! Body counts don surplus so tay she can't even recall any.

Nlanalyst:
Stupid like your cohorts.
I'm a man, a father, a husband and every responsible thing you could think of.
Get a life and quit the silliness.

Otumba, na shémale you be. She and a male combined. Talk true make shame catch devil.

Double0h7:
She must’ve been fine af because she had you bugging out for 2 years. I can’t even remember the name of the person I dated 2 years ago. All this is to console yourself and I hope it works. According to you you have won 🥇

Damn it! Did you just say you can't even remember the names of the person(s) you dated 2 years ago? Damnnnnnnnnnn! That simply means your body counts is nothing to write home about, if you can't remember the guys you dated just 2 years back.

Trust me when I say, your body counts will be running up to nothing less than 100 and more for your brain to have blacked out the names of those you dated 2 years ago.

We ain't even talking about the number of rounds that went down the drain in that 100 body counts and other side parols u engaged in o.

Girl, let's give it up to you. We definitely need to give you an award for this, trust me.

Minimum wage shouldn't be nothing less than 100k. If they peg it on 100k, that's quite manageable. But not that meager 48k they are negotiating.

Nigeria government are too wicked. They don't care about the poor masses.

Nigeria is a Jungle. Living in Nigeria reduces your life span by 50yrs cuz our lives are not safe here. If you have the means, leave this jungle without looking back to a more saner nation with strict gun rules.

We4all:
Okay. I will keep you updated. Thanks.

All right

We4all:
Done

Try and contact the person to ask for the money.

This is what you get when you invest too much in a woman who doesn't invest anything in you and the relationship.

Don't save it. The more you try to save that relationship, the more you will be at the beck and call of that acclaimed partner.

You better move on if you value your peace of mind and know what's good for you. You can't save this relationship. It's already a dead relationship. Unless you just want to fool yourself around that lady.

Don't be stupid is not a curse. Make sure you follow this guy on Facebook and be free from things like these.

Lukmanraji

All ladies should endeavour to be like this lady on the screenshot below. She is definitely in the right direction.

This is the type of mindset every lady who truly wants to build something serious with a man should have.

It shouldn't always be what I will get from this relationship. It should be what can I contribute to this relationship. How can I add value to my partner to make him sees me more than just a mere fvck mate. Hope you grab!

Swaelyf

We4all:
Done

Ok. You can remove your name now.

Ok. Noted. You can now remove the name. @ We4all. I forgot to ask for your name too. Include your name.

Just edit the same post with your full name. Will ask u to remove it once I have gotten it.

God is great! Whatever you are doing, do it diligently and back it up with little prayers. Sit and watch, you will be shocked with the results.

This is not for those that don't believe in prayers any way. Work hard and back it up with prayers. That's what we are preaching.

Don't forget that Bible verse that says heaven help those who help themselves. I guess you remember that verse.

So, prayers work when you have something doing. And if you don't have anything doing, but you're positioning yourself for better opportunities, prayers will also work for you.

The thing is, don't just sit idle hoping for mannahs to fall from heaven. Put in the work and back it up with prayers and wait for the results. You will be shocked how things will turn out well for you.

In whatever you're doing to make it in this life, never ever think of giving up.

Stay dogged and keep pushing, your breakthrough is very very near.

Swaelyf:
but you clearly advised dont invest in any woman, if you're telling someone to go into a relationship with such a mindset then you are telling them to only play mind games. These men you claim their girls don't invest in them, hv you asked them wht their girl does for a living?they'd clearly see a girl who has no source of income or a student woo them and then cry abt her not doing anything for you, like were you blind to the fact tht you chased after a jobless girl. I don't sub to going into a relationship with mind games...do hookup if you want even Fwb but dont deceive ppl's feelings because your creating another broken person

Or course I advised guys not to invest in a woman if the said woman is not investing in them in her own little capacity.

A relationship where the man is the one doing everything is nothing but a parasitic relationship.

A true and genuine relationship is supposed to be symbiotic in nature. You benefit from me and I benefit from u, and we build something amazing together. That's how a honest relationship should be.

That's why you will see a man will train a lady in the university, spend money on her and cater even for her and her family, at the end, the same lady will graduate and end up telling the guy he is not his spec. This is where symbiosis comes in.

A symbiotic relationship will help checkmate things like that. Anything order than that, doesn't always end up well.

There should be no room for a parasitic relationship in any sane man's life. A man that truly knows his value will not give room for one sided parasitic relationship with any women that can't bring any value to him.

We4all:
Not a deal gone wrong.

Ok. Try and get the person full name and post to me here. Once I get it, I will ask u to edit and remove the post.

luminouz:
He is a real nigga

I'm telling you.

Swaelyf:
so in essence your advising them not to start a relationship but a competition of who plays the better mind game

This is not mind game. Any relationship that is one sided won't last. If you love your man, you will definitely spend on him as much as he spends on you. Both of you will be open to each other about your finances. You will put in much efforts as much as he put in efforts. This helps to balance things up and prevents selfishness and self centeredness. It's for the good of any relationship or marriage.