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This is actually getting out of hands. Ladies have now made sex transactional.

To find a genuine God festering lady to settle down with is now like forcing a full Camel � through a tiny Niddle hole. It wasn't like this in the past.

This is unimaginable so say the least!


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This is serious. Why are people like this?

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If only Op can learn from people like us, he will just be ok. Scared of loosing a girl? God forbid bad thing.

Op, you have a scarcity mindset and it will affect your dating lifestyle.

@ Bintabisiriyu

Blessedmercy8:
Share husband as Xmas gift for them now.

The truth is, men don't know what they want and true like you said, the lack of availability of jobs is also a major factor preventing the average Nigerian from getting married.

As for the single ladies, please don't show a man ( or the whole world) you're desperate for marriage as this can send him away. Just be yourself. What will be, will be.

I have never been to Shiloh and will never go there especially if it's for husband matter. I believe when the time is right, every single will get married ( that is if they are willing). No need to cry yourself to stupor because it doesn't bring the husband anyways. Rather it will make you age faster. I don't let it bother me even when people rub it in my face, reason I'm aging backwards.

This is not something one can make or force to happen if it's not yet time except you wanna go fetish about it which has its repercussions. So, I'll advise you live your best life. Make the best of your singlehood while it lasts and keep looking young.

Life is meant to be enjoyed, married or not. Don't limit yourself because you have not conformed to society s standard of "completeness" and "happiness." You will wreck.

Don't be deceived. The bolded is one of the reasons for many ladies above 30 still roaming around. It is this what will be will be.

What will be will be is the reason why many ladies are folding their hands and expecting a man to come carry them from their house.

Don't be deceived. What will be will not be. Encourage your folks to lift their hands and put in effort to make things work out with a man they desire.

What will be will be is what is making many crossing 30 and already approaching 40 without being able to maintain any reasonable relationship.

Don't be deceived. You can't reap where you do not sow.

77k

N7000 a month.

That's 7k X 11 months so far.

77k

FBS:
Anyone watching the world cup?
Australia thought they could do a Saudi but France had a different plan. Entertaining "contest" though.

Australia was just too weak for France. They defeated my Dear country 4:1. That's so painful.

But it is what it is. France is a strong team right from time immemorial. Brazil is their mate.

MallamChukwudi:
Well-spoken. Every reasonable man will agree with this. I think it's common for some women to expect affection to be a one-way street. That a man somehow is a machine not deserving of knowing she is into him.

Love comes with vulnerability to a reasonable extent. For example, make your affection known without going too deep, just give him the green light. Men having the duty to chase doesn't mean chasing stupidly. We intensify our chase when the green light is coming from her.

I don't mind moving things to the next step, but I won't be on the 10th floor when a lady refuse to leave the ground floor. I'll call periodically, and do some little things to show that I like you, but go off completely if I'm not getting that energy back.

I'll just think she doesn't like me which is totally fine, after all, not all women are my speck also. Men with serious intention likes a woman that is not too in her logic, can just be herself as an expressive, emotional being.

Some of these women sees being over-calculative (being in her logic) as a good skills, which of course it is, but it's usually wrongly applied. And it comes with the propensity of assuming the worse of a man, a place she won't want to be in, in reverse.

[b]Trying to guess 10 step ahead, projecting past experiences with other men on him, which gives him the vibes of a professional gamer, and everything seems too mechanical, lacking the warmth and uniqueness from her that characterizes a germinating relationship.[/b

Exactly. The thing is that they always project their past relationships baggages on any current man they want to go into a relationship with, making them look like manipulators.

If he doesn't call me, I won't call him. If he doesn't chat me up, I won't chat him up. Those are the kind of mindset they have. Are those the kind of women any sane man will like to be with? Not at all.

Ladies like that are emotionally damaged already, hence they can't just be themselves and act natural with genuine interest.

And ladies like that can hardly maintain any serious relationship due to their manipulative mindset and past baggages.

Even if a guy is passing through some difficult times or maybe sick and couldn't call them, they won't even call to find out why.

That's why it has always been advised that guys should only go for a girl that show genuine interest in them as far she is loyal and not a hoe. It helps save one a lot of unwanted relationship stress.

Please, don't let Amazon get to see this. NAIRALAND is a big site to the world. Keep this info off.

You're doing more harm than good with it. The small money you will charge to do this, have more negative effect than good.

Let's stop abusing the system. Use this energy you are using to advertise to write more books.

ScamHunter:
It's terrible. I've been trying to make a $100 payment but cannot because they've placed a miserable $20 limit on my naira account. For the USD account, they're saying they have no card for now. GTB is near useless.

Lol. It be like say you no dey the country since. Na now you dey know say you can't use naira card to make payment? That has been in existence since 8 months now.

Any way, sorry for the ordeal.

You're supposed to throw the question at men to get a bird eye view of what could be going through his mind too, not just merely asking girls to tell you how they attracted a particular man.

We men want to be loved too, don't you think so? The mistake most of you ladies make is always wanting the man to be the one to make every of the move. It doesn't work like that.

We've gone past that era. Women now make the move order than just waiting for the guy to always be the one doing everything.

I am speaking from the perspective of a grown up man mature to start a family. But you know, ladies are just too lazy to put in the work. If you are waiting for me to be the one to always chat you up every time, call you and do everything, I will ghost you. Cuz I won't see you as a partner I can build anything reasonable with.

That's just my own perspective of girls that always waiting for guys to do everything and make every move.

I will make the move initially, but along the line, I expect you to check after me on your own from time to time. Only then I will see you as a genuine lady I can consider taking things to the next level with.

All ladies should try and learn. Don't always wait for a guy to call you before you call him. We are humans too. We want to be cared for and cherished just as much you ladies want to be cherished.

Please, kindly take note.

@ jackals

Temmylee01:
the thing is m, creating a content is not the problem but seeing engagement is the issue, I was once a content creator, my Instagram refuse to grow my Twitter remain in one place, is only my Facebook page that grew from 5 followers to 1000+ and most of them are Afghanistan or Iraq I don't even know why they're the one following my page on that Facebook.
Being a content creator is not moi moi ooooh, imagine creating like 30 videos yet my Instagram followers no pass 64.

You need to promote after creating o. You need aggressive promotion to get subscribers and followers, if not, you will give up.

40% creation and 60% promotion. You will see improvement if you do just that. If you don't promote your videos, they will gather dust and you will get no single views. Also, create on what people are searching for.

It's after you've gotten enough subscribers before you can relax and focus on the creation aspect more. But at the initial stage, focus more on promoting your videos.

Here is a video I published on YouTube on 22 Nov, 2022. I got these views through aggressive promotion. Immediately the video got 500 views, it by itself started flying up.

Every 30 minutes, the video started getting 100 views by itself. Before you know it, the algorithm will pick it up from there and YouTube will start suggesting it to people to watch.

In essence, I have done the initial work by promoting it immediately I published it.

Op to me, I think you travelled to the abroad blindly , that's why you're feeling the way you're feeling.

You expected too much from your destination country. Your expectations were just too high from the get go.

You believed it was all heaven on earth travelling out and when you don't get to have that heavenly feeling, you blame it on the Said country that granted you the opportunity of seeing beyond the shore of your mother's land.

Your reason for traveling was too trivia, I must tell you. If it was just to get away from the too much noises you claimed, you should have relocated to a much more quiet city in Nigeria like Uyo and Abuja and still achieve your desire of wanting to get away from the too much noises.

This is to me a missed priority. Your priority was not right from the get go.

You will be surprised that other people that had more serious reasons for travelling to that same Canada are enjoying that same Canada cuz they had more top-notch reasons for relocating order than just wanting to get away from the too much noises in Nigeria.

But just before you plan coming back to Nigeria, try and get your citizenship first. Don't make the mistake of rushing back to Nigeria only for you to get here and feeling Nostalgia and start thinking of going back again. We have seen many like that who hastily come back to Nigeria and started regretting all over again why they came back.

If you come back hastily without having your CANADA passport first, you will have yourself to blame.

Do the needful and stay back till you become a citizen. I believe it only takes 4yrs starting from the day you landed in the country.

A word is enough for the for the wise.

@ Aareona

We all know how this could feel no doubt. If it were to be you, I definitely know you will feel the same. Won't you?

Besides, do you know that there are lots of unbelievable facts about sex you still don't know till now?

Check out these shocking psychological facts about sex that no one will tell you even if you point a gun at them.

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Follow your heart. If the lady is good, don't let your mother be an issue. Except if the girl is not good for you, only then you can listen to your mum.

It's always good to at least have someone on time, so that you won't get caught up. At 29, you ain't a baby any more. You should be thinking of starting a family.

The only thorn on the back issue is finding a good girl these days. Most have taken into runs and hookup in this era, so it's quite hard to find a really good lady.

But, if you find any homely and cool headed girl who isn't into hookup and the rest and independent, go ahead with your plan to seal it if you have the means.

Besides, do you know that there are lots of unbelievable facts about sex you still don't know till now?

Check out these shocking psychological facts about sex that no one will tell you even if you point a gun at them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8nF98Su71EM

But unfortunately, most ladies now see dating as poverty alleviation program. Anything that makes you ask them out to be your partner, from that day, you automatically sign to carry all of their lives burdens.

If you don't, you will be broke shamed as the broke guy. What a mentality! But it is what it is.

Always go for ladies that are independently inclined in mindset. Don't say I didn't warn you.

Besides, do you know that there are lots of unbelievable facts about sex you still don't know till now?

Check out these shocking psychological facts about sex that no one will tell you even if you point a gun at them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8nF98Su71EM

DaddyCK:
bro .., yor ex girl friend friend...have u yansh her yet?

Mr Londoner! How is your London baby mama doing today?

Don't worry. If perhaps you knew some of these psychological facts about girls, you won't even feel bad she pushed you away.

No 34 will shock you:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6niPD1LK2I

If you know some of these psychological facts about girls, you won't even bother going to codedruns.

Don't be deceived guys. There are some psychological traits girls possess that no one have ever told you. No. 45 will shock you.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6niPD1LK2I

Entitled ladies are a thorn in the ass. How? Here are some list of psychological facts about girls that you never knew exist. Don't let any girl deceive you.

Find them out below. You will be surprised:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6niPD1LK2I

DaddyCK:
Son...am a Londoner, u in Nigeria. In London, we have somtin called microwave ((((GOOGLE IT)))))...it look like small fridge but not fridge..we use it for cookin...hopefully this will make sence if u can ever reach London.....real mans dont cook sir!!(no oofencse)!!!

Lol! Chaaiiiii!

DaddyCK:
yor parents born you to be a warrrior sir.....not to coook.
but if u no u like cooookin brother..why dont u apply for housemaid job sir? (no ofeinse)

Na your mates dey cook dey make millions for here so.

No be only your parents born you to be worrior. Akpaomu! You can't stay abroad be that o. Cuz men do cook there, do house shores sef.

You better learn o.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4_iFEgXiVKw&t=769s

Omo, to get a passport in Nigeria is a thug if war all over Nigeria. The long waiting during filling of the form and cross examining documents is no joke. You need to have a good waist, if not, your waist will cake if have no chair to sit.

Thank God, my capturing date is first week of next month. I don't want to go through that stress I went through any time soon. So, I went for the 10yrs passport. At least before I will renew that, we should be looking at 2032.

thorpido:
Thank God you are about to be promoted.
Pray to God that he should use the man that collected your number to be a blessing to you.

If the man calls you, explain your situation to him.
No need going to beg at your former place of work.Keep a positive mind that something better is coming.

Ready100 , follow this advice. Something big is about to happen.

Jayboi:
I'm a graduate of elect elect with 9 yrs experience. I just did my ielts and had 6.5/7.5/8/8. Tho married, can I claim single and then is there hope if I apply for the regional nomination pathway?
@Tunlex @Bellong

My little advice: Follow due process. You don't want anything that will later cost you your Australia relocation and still land you 10 years ban at the end.

Go ahead with your assessment with that IELTS score above. You don't need your wife to scale through. Include her along with your kid(s) if any. Your 9 yrs experience is enough to scale through.

But what you should do is plan to write PTE order than IELTS to aim at superior scores. You have more chance to get superior score with PTE than IELTS. Your years of experience scores with your superior English score should be enough to get you ITA. This is just the surest way.

Don't bypass the process and make sure you include your family in your application even with or without your wife contribution or claiming partner points. She is a dependant. If she doesn't want to write English to claim 5 points, no problem. Just ensure to rewrite PTE after your assessment so as to get 20 points ( superior scores). First, go ahead with your assessment with your IELTS while making plans to write PTE.

You're good to go.

SavageResponse:
Stop talking nonsense, 7million is not enough to build a 3 bedroom house!

Don't mind the guy. This is how they deceive people into going into projects with too much high expectations and will end up not completing it. That 7 million Naira for a quality house, won't raise the house past foundation.

This is with both filling o. Even cut and lay house will gulp 5million naira to raise it past foundation. Let alone a quality house where they don't economise materials.

The one my bro is building, has already swallowed 28 million Naira. Though it's nearing completion. And the budget is 38 million Naira.

talk2hb1:
Okay Sir.

@hopemanfx 7million can build a 3bedroom bungalow.
https://www.dailytipsfinder.com/cost-of-building-a-3-bedroom-bungalow/

https://thearchitect.com.ng/cost-building-3-bedroom-bungalow-nigeria/

Lol! If it's cut and lay house yes it will but just know it won't take it past lintel. That is a cut and lay house. But if it's a normal quality standard house, where they don't economise materials, have a rethink.

My bro is building a quality 3 bed bungalow, all those types with parapet design, security doors, tall roofs with stone coated roofing sheet. 28 millions naira has already gone down. Still yet to complete it. Though they have done the roofing, German flooring, plumbing, electrical and P.O.P. 38 million Naira will enter the house.

That's why I said if it is cut and lay, then even that 7 million won't take it past lintel stage. House materials had skyrocketed. This is not 2015 o. We are in 2022 where many things had gone up.

Exercise is the way out. Do alot of exercises. Head on to Google play and download a home workout app and get started. Keep to it consistently for 1 week and watch, you will see huge improvement.

Also, blend water melon and drink before meeting your partner. It's very good.

However, if you want more insights, check these 60 mind blowing psychological facts about humans behaviour that you never ever know.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-psGlRwGjM

NoToPile:
The queen primer

I am
Is he to go up?
He is



Everything has gone up, spag is a bit cheaper than rice now I think, crown is 380 naira carton price.

You too like beans.....



and plantain.


Yeah I said it.

Pls pls don't remind me of childhood if you can't take me back to childhood just to have a feel and zoom back.

Don't let me she'd tears Please, I use Tutubu beg you.

naijamanyoutube:
What do you think about it?

It goes well. That guy is too good.