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biafranrealson:
All what you quote here are nonsense.
The bible is man made and man thought

No problem. BUT you know what defeats your argument? The presence of the HOLY SPIRIT. he is real, can be experienced, and intervenes in the lives of the believer. You can experience him for yourself if you want to

frank317:
The world ia suffering, children are in hunger, there is scacity of food and other means of survival,... But God ia very much in interested in this one's wet dream and mustabation... We instead of being such a usless God at least he tried in saving u from wet dreams

God is a spirit and is everywhere at the same time (omnipresent). He has the capacity to attend to everyone's problem, whatever they consider a problem, at the same time

LordReed:
LoLz. I am an atheist and I can speak in tongues. Speaking in tongues is not evidence of any holy spirit. The ancients thought it was a sign of the gods but it is just the ability to bypass the speech center of the brain to express pseudo syllables.

Who/ what is behind your 'speaking in tongues?' . Why are you speaking in tongues? What's the purpose?

Yes I know evil people too speak in tongues. But for Godly people they are INSPIRED by the holy spirit to speak in tongues (not by their own doing) to communicate at a higher level with God in language unintelligible to the devil)

Idonweak:
I can tell you with confidence that people claiming to speak in tongues do it out of their own accord and they speak gibberish on purpose. I have proof and i have challenged many so called people in the spirit. It's self delusion.

Not all of them. You can use yourself as an example. Assuming you're not a born again christian. Go to a good church. Assemblies of God, apostolic church etc. Accept Jesus as your Lord and savior. Renounce your sins Get water baptized. Holy spirit baptized. Pray and genuinely seek the holy Spirit. Be zealous, earnest, 'clean' in your godly dealings and watch yourself grow in the Lord, speak in tongues (it's a higher communication between God and the believer and is not understood by the devil)

Yes there's fake tongues, there's also genuine godly tongues

jaephoenix:
Do you have evidence of this spiritual aspects?

Like EVERYTHING else, spirits, whether good or bad can posseses stuff. You go to proper churches of God, or watch videos where when people are being delivered from spiritual bondage, the spirit speaks through the possessed person about how they are their spirit wife/husband etc, make them masturbate etc and messing up the life.

Sometimes no spirits are involved. In some other cases spirits are involved. It's what it is

LordReed:
Glad you know stories don't buy bread. And as I said I require evidence for your god and so far I haven't been presented with any. All I see are human beings trying to do the best they can in an uncertain world, no benevolent god is doing anything of note so until you can present me with evidence for this your god I'm really not interested.

You know the BEST way to experience God? Through the HOLY SPIRIT. he's alive, he's potent and he posseses the lives of believers and does wonders with/for them

When you hear people speak in tongues, do you think their making it up? When you see people get healed from problems, fall under the anointing of the holy spirit, do you think their making it up?

It's God manifesting his powers through the holy spirit. If you'd experience it, you won't doubt God's existence. It's beyond the physical 'evidence' of God's existence you want to see

Op since you're not masturbating and releasing stored up semen, the body is releasing it through wet dreams. It's natural. Nothing to be worried about.

tarantino1:
If you don't masturbate or have sex, your semen would still find a way to come out and that is through wet dreams.

Be a Christian all you want but at least be knowledgeable about the body process.

Exactly.the body is constantly producing semen, and when you don't bring it our through sex or masturbation, nature brings it out through wet dreams. Sometimes you'd dream you're having sex with a known/unknown person, next thing you know you're releasing semen

It's natural. Yes, like most things in this world, there're spiritual aspects to it too with the spirit wife/husband thing. But it's largely a natural thing

Women are very selfish illogical people. It's very frustrating negotiating with them, even if it's common sense mutually beneficial arrangements. It's their nature

Now that our women are becoming very educated, exposed, independent, rich, copying Western lifestyles etc, there'd be lots of stories such as yours all over the place. God help us

rvp2018:
What is there in undeveloped west africa that can pass for a tourist experience.
Tourist land in Accra - go to slaves dungeons in cape coast - take a picture in point of no return - imagine the horror of slavey.
Comes back to Accra hotel - go to local bar and eat local food?
Go to only park or garden to see rows of tree - mburi something - maybe see two monkeys?
Try to go swim - and find the pungent smell & slimy water too much.
Get into his plane - and never comes back.

Want to compare yourselves to kenya - these canadian couple been here for two years - and they always have something new to see or do.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zQJgeWUJyA

Kenya, TZ and South Africa just have huge diversity you'll never get bored.

And they are mostly developed as tourist product.

In Kenya you generally have microsom of earth in a small country it's incredible - it pristine, it reachable, it developed

And you can still see slaves dungeons if you want - as small thing

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AUur1z_1C_U

Ghana's tourism strength is CULTURAL tourism, so the slave dungeon stuff would continue to feature prominently in our package. We only have to spice it up with more experiential stuff, with audiovisual, live slave ship experience in the ocean etc etc. There's a 'ready market' of 50 million plus African Americans, African diaspora etc for our cultural tourism

Ghana's been described as Africa for beginners, we're also the centre of the world (closest country to it), with friendly people etc

We may not be able to match the Kenyas etc in safari tourism but our Mole national park in northern Ghana offers walking safaris next to elephants etc, and things can only get better. Highest waterfalls in West Africa, Wli is a beauty and would draw in large numbers if it's properly developed. Etc etc

rvp2018:
Again from girl video - look like Ghanian are just chilled out boys - I doubt their entire night life can even rival kenyamatatu nightlife - few places can - matatu alone nightlife are more than Ghana can handle - leave alone the bars & clubs - Nairobi at night is crazy - it loud obxonious - and everywhere. And Nairobeans or kenya just head to bar straight from job. Mos t of other countries I have seen - Uganda, South africa , nigeria, ghana - people go home - dress up for the night - which are semi-formal. Kenyans simply empty from office to bar at 5pm. Nairobi from 6-7ish it become a mudhouse - matatus start competing with bars for clients - and by midnight - almost all the bars are emptying out - as people are now drunk - by 3pm it's over. Matatus pick you if you use them and drop you with same loud music, disco lights.

Thank goodness bars in kenya were eventually regulated - to open at 5pm and most close by law by 11pm- otherwise it uses to 24hours of madness - a few have such license. Saturday and sunday they are open at 2pm - otherwise again people use to drink silly 24hrs - some dont even show up home.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7PxA18K0Xs

That your loud matatu thing doesn't make sense. Its village vibes. Why add to all the stress, traffic, work stress etc?

Hopeba:
what about cumin every 2 minutes and getting erect after some seconds to continue again.. that's how my dick behaves..I can cum like 10 times,, the girl would think iam done but within seconds iam up again.. those few seconds break is for me to suck her boobs or pussy then iam up.

for MOST men, after orgasm, the sexual tension leaves our bodies and we become relaxed, sleepy etc and need some time to recharge.


You don't really have a problem, especially as you're able to go through the 4 stages of sexual response: excitement, plateau, orgasm, resolution with some 2 minutes thrusting

Does your woman match your style, or they take longer to cum?

It's good you incorporate 'romance' into the mix. If they take longer to cum, increase the romance to make up for that.

Try practicing KEGEL exercise, where when urinating, try to hold your urine for some seconds, release, hold, release etc to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles and see if it helps

The most annoying thing for a woman is to not be sexually pleased.

Johndevmark:
thought i was the only one cos i sometimes last 5-7 mins first round but subsequent rounds take forever

And that's how it should be. The 'trick' is to do pre-intimacy so the woman comes before you or just about the same time as you, in the first round. Or be selfish in the first round, and spend ample time on her in subsequent rounds

ahnie:
One minute men everywhere

3 minutes in the first round is ok. 1, 3 minutes in subsequent rounds is a problem

Nigerians and anger issues. A typical Ghanaian would at most just insult you, there'd be no fisticuffs, end of argument. But an angry Nigerian has to make sure he hurts you severely, before he'd be appeased. What sort of people are you?

Know how to drive a car
Know how to cook
Know how to be handy/DIY
Know how to make friends/do small talk
Know how to speak in public

rvp2018:
I dont care about such provincial details of Ghana. The point is your tribal differences are mild compared to kenya and your boarding school contribution to national cohesion is exaggerated.

So you guys NEED the boarding school system the most with your 'no dominant ' ethnic group, unlike Ghana where the Akans dominate with almost 50% peopling

Your kalenjins, kikuyus, luhyas etc don't command even up to 20% of the population.

vankelvin:
To add to it, boarding school system promotes national cohesion.

One of the reasons Ghana has remained peaceful till date is because of our boarding system.
In our boarding schools you will find students from almost every Region in one school and that help students to learn new things. By the time you complete SHS you would have become more tolerant and enlightened about other tribes than you were before.

Today there's almost no tribal conflicts in Ghana because of some of these deliberate policies and systems we have in place.

A tribally polarized country like Kenya should learn from Ghana. Boarding system is very expensive but it's the best.

Thank you Van. Even the expensive boarding system lots of stuff can be done to beat it down if we really want to. Etc etc

rvp2018:
You must be a Ghanian to be able to reason (or not) like this. You guys are arguably the daftest folks.
You can have 3,000 boarding with 200 teachers or 20-day schools in each village with 150-200 kids; 10 teachers.
Which one is better?
You will be "developing" areas with large boarding schools while leaving the rest to become desolate villages.
Gov should focus on standard school package for every village; that should equalize education.
Every village will therefore have electricity, water, name it;
Schools should have lunch program - and that is it.
Even Colleges - TIVET - should be established in walking distance or at least 10kms radius from every village.
Universities should be within say 20kms distance from every village.
Boarding schools, hostels in universities, or college should be an exception.
It cheaper for everyone, spread development and really education like any gov services should be available anywhere and everywhere.

There are things that need to be consolidated in one area - like factories - your 1D 1 F is totally crazy. You want to have factories in one area to benefit from economies of location. So factories are best located in one special economic zone or industrial zone.

There are things that need to be dispersed - these are gov and social services - to at best walking distance from everyone. This a right to everyone. Every Ghanian deserve quality education right in their village.

Otherwise you will create a society where rich kids go to boarding or university or college - but poor kid in the village - cannot - because it expensive for them.

Heck reading from Ghanians here - you have already replicated the British class system - where kids who went to XYZ fancy high school - are more special than others - while in rest of world - 90% of people go to local schools, local college, local university - because they are of the same standards - with what obtains elsewhere - except 10% who need something really special or better.

there's a policy here where 30% of admissions to the boarding schools is reserved for 'poor' students from the environs of the school. So that 'takes care' of poor people not getting admissions

You speak as if it's easy to just build day schools in EVERY village. How long must students wait for a school to be built near them so they attend? 10, 20 yrs?

What about issues of land availability, conducive location etc etc? Students would STILL have to pay for DAILY feeding/transportation as day students. It's cheaper where they're congregated in one place

Do you know the number of day students who 'opt' to become boarders during exams times especially so they benefit from the discipline/structured learning timetable/no disturbance environment etc of the boarding house?

Just40:
Even all the 80 day senior high school are being converted into boarding schools to make it possible for students and teachers to stay on campus

It's the way to go. Lots of advantages in having the boarding system. Ghana if we'd be serious, do school farms to feed the students, harvest their toilets for biogas to cook their meals, electricity, procure school cloth/materials locally, feed the students with local produce etc etc imagine the contribution the 'school economy' would add to our economy?

obaaderemi:
Of course, the boarding system has a lot of advantages and multiplier effects, not to mention the building of character in the students. There was a time up to the early 80s when all elite secondary schools in Nigeria were fully boarding.

So is the boarding system still dominant/popular in Nigeria? I hear you people combine your junior and senior secondary schools all in one location. The secondary school system especially the boarding school thing is VERY strong here in Ghana. A certain youtuber compared between Ghana and Nigeria and said for Ghanaians, the senior secondary schools one attended is highly regarded, whilst for Nigeria it's the university one attended that's highly regarded

rvp20182:
I rather vaxx answer. Boarding schools are all over the world as exception to the rule. They are for special purposes. Probably 1 in 1,000 schools.

What about the large 'school economy ' that the boarding school system creates where there's a large market of/for consumers/producers of school furniture, books, teachers, administrators, cloth sellers, food sellers, carpenters, etc etc?

I've been saying Ghana should even increase her boarding schools to take maximum 3000 students. Day schools should do 1,500. We should build storey buildings/high rises to accomodate the extra numbers

Anywhere schools especially boarding schools are established, the local economies of these places also flourish. Add to that the extras of academic excellence, discipline, no to and fro transport costs etc and you'd see boarding has lots of pluses

Sailingnorth:
I've known this lady for a long time now, I am in my twenties and she's two years older than me.

Note: Please bear with me this will be a long read, I need help.

We were once neighbors, she later parked out of the compound.
It was a face me I face you kinda compound, on several occasions I do accidentally bump into either her or her sister who is about 26 years of age now naked.
Most times they leave their door open, it mostly happens in the evenings, heaven knows it wasn't my intention of seeing them but it happens, and I just sometimes look sometimes I walk off.
I sometimes peep sha, it was 4yrs ago, I wouldn't do it now.

They have noticed it twice.
The junior one has seen me looking twice and from the look of things they didn't really care.

The junior one which is 2 years older than me , sleeps around a lot, has been giving me green right from time, but I wasn't really sure so I just ignored it and assume never happened.

So three years later fast forward till now, I live with an aunt and both of them are friends of that aunt.
They do visit, and on one occasion it was a Sunday morning when the junior one visited.
We were alone in the house.
she took her bath in the house and after bathing she asked me for cream to rub, the clothes she was wearing was really revealing and it made me have a boner.
I bet 100% she saw it and was excited or kind of moved.

She started walking around or trying to ask me to help her out with something so as to draw me closer to her.
As for the cream I searched the whole house and honestly couldn't find the cream and I told her I can't find it.
She looked disappointed.

Recently she visited again, this time she was well dressed and while bending to check for stuff in a box, just as every guy would do I was just looking at her ass and he was pretty sexy so I had a boner again this time a serious one.

She saw it again and as I expected it got her excited I could tell from the tone of her voice and her behaviour that she saw it.
She resumed that attitude of trying to get me to help her out with things.

At some point she saw it, it was very visible and I was enjoying the show I won't lie, while standing she came closer and went down to search for things at where I was standing, she was occasionally shifting sideways in order to have her hand touch it (my erected p).

While stepping out of the room she came back in an gave me this look on her face as if she was expecting something and ask were you calling me, which I replied no.

They later left, and the elder sister greeted me goodnight. Something she has never done before and I wouldn't expect her to.

I forgot to add, her elder sister 26 -yrs just started giving me greenlight all of a sudden.
She will walk away from the building where they were and come over to where I was carrying out some task outside in the compound and gist with me while moving her clothes.
I swear to God this girls are damn sexy, I've masturbated severally and always fantasize on having sex with the older one which is 26 years of age and the second one which is 2 years older than me.

I have never had sex in my life and I am pretty scared of contacting bad energies or sexually transmitted diseases but broooo, these girls have nyarsh.
I'm not a pervert, I just want you to see the picture that is in front of me.

But nature is putting heavy pressure on me right now, I don't know what to do cause the next time they visit things may move to the next level probably not actual sex but it will get me closer to the main thing happening.
I can feel It, I trust my instinct in my life.

I recently had a dream of holding something beautiful in my hand, it look so beautiful with different colours and it broke.
In that dream I felt like I knew it will break and I could have done something to prevent it from breaking, I felt regrets in that dream and I think that dream relates to what is going on.
My dreams do happen in real life.
I fear I might regret straffing them.

What is your advice on this I would love to know cuz I'm at the crossroad and I've always been excited about having my first sex in life.
I am 22 years of age by the way.

If your dream is telling you they're bad news and best avoided and you can avoid them, then avoid them

Other than that, then grab a pack of good condoms, next time the opportunity avails itself, have your way.

Make sure you're protecting yourself from STDs, pregnancy etc

The thing with these sexual feelings is it'd just be increasing in intensity until you finally satisfy it with masturbation, sex etc.

Daniel7543:
You people will just be saying what you don't know. If you claim these African countries are blessed with good leaders so why are they still unemployment and dirty roads in those countries you listed.

Rwanda is only good at quality education, the government create a good learning environment for them. Every student (from primary school - university level) has free laptops and free internet wifi to browse and research that's all. While everything about Rwanda is absolutely nothing to write about.

I have been to South Africa and I will tell you there's no difference between Nigeria and South Africa. When you mention Ghana I was just laughing.. Ghana is not even near civilization not to talk of producing good leaders.

The only African country that is near to standard and I can advice people to visit is "Mauritius". Majority of the system is working well. Good roads, there's always light, good leaders, good education, good health care service, good employment and working hours. There are also white people living there comfortably.

When we're talking about 'proper' African countries, don't mention the likes of Mauritius, Seychelles, Namibia, Botswana, Cape Verde etc

Less than 2 million people, tiny Mauritius is what you want to praise? How many African migrants are in Mauritius? What's Mauritius' influence in African football, politics, sports, night life, trade, African American 'emancipation'/return to the continent, African music, movies, festivals etc etc?

The Ghanas, Nigerias, Egpypts, South Africas, Kenyas, Moroccos, Algerias, Rwa ndas, Congos etc are the big boys on the continent, and the 'happening' places on the continent. Pray for, wish them well. When they prosper the whole continent prospers, not the tiny Mauritius, Botswana etc

Wish her the best

pokilo:
That's cheating also

Just asking, what if the other partner is made aware of the mast.urbation. Would it still be cheating?

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

I'm sorry to tell you but you'd eventually succumb to these pressures. The sexual urge is like hunger. It has to be fed. Unless you're a spiritual person then God, other forces intervene for you

The homestay, 'aloneness' are also not helping. Masturbate. It's better than cheating on your man. Just don't overindulge

Op you're really on a roll with your Ghana hate. Continue

Nobody should be alarmed. All these courses, especially those of the reputable universities would EVENTUALLY be accredited. It's not​a big deal. The accreditation process takes a long time and the accreditation body is overwhelmed. People must be educated. Education can't be put on hold

mariahAngel:
Na wah o!

You see what your people do? They go to another man's country to willingly go and commit crimes

Chiraq77:
IGBO Women Need to Stop the Madness,They are fond of this Shit

Fond of what?

chudez0147:
A customer sent some thugs to collect back the money he paid to me for a job I did for him . I got the customer and one of the thugs arrested, the customer gave back the money the thugs took from me to the police. When I got home that day, more of them thugs attacked me again for arresting their friends in their own country. They beat me up and robbed me of 2,600gh and some other items I had on me. I managed to escape to the police station.

We made another arrest, but they released them on the ground that the thugs work with the police as informants.

I went to the office of the PPSB in tafo. At first they promised to help but later asked me to go back to the police station and work with the station commander.

I wasn't safe with the commander because he started cooperating with the thugs parents'. So I had to write a petition to the IGP in Accra.

When they invited the officers involved to Accra that was when they called me to come to the station for peace talk. When I got to the station they told me I want to make them lose their job in their own country. They got me arrested, seized my car before repatriation.

I hope this will do!

So when the customer collected your money from his thug and gave it to the police, was it given back to you?

I didn't know the police has local PPSB offices, I thought they only operated from Accra. Your best bet is to still contact the PPSB, the Accra headquarters.

If the 'thugs' are informants of the police like you're saying, it'd be difficult to deal with them. You know how these things go. If you've hard evidence the courts, IGP could help. But at least they should hand over your monies etc to you. You should have CCTV cameras on your premises to document stuff

Get the Igbo, Yoruba etc chiefs of your area/Ghana involved in the case
I take it your immigration status is not 'regular'?