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BluntBoy:
First of all, your inferiority complex is worrying.

Who told you someone is better than you? So, because he claims to be a medical doctor, he is automatically better than you? Hope you know that many medical students regard themselves as doctors?

And supposing he is even a medical doctor, what makes you think he is better than you? Because you think you are unemployed, even though you sell stuffs?

My advice is that you work on yourself. Because even now that you are employed, you will still think of some people in your workplace as better than you simply because they earn higher than you or are your seniors at work.

Have you not heard of a clerk who is better than a manager?

If you work on this inferiority complex, then maybe you will be more open-minded. Because as it is, your idea is that girls leave you for better people. You equate being better with being employed. But being better goes beyond mere employment. If you don't work on your inferiority complex, it will still be there even if you become as rich as Dangote.

Great input.

KingSatan:


You are not ashamed to share your stupidity to the world.

What the hell happened to Growing up Mr?

She called and you gave her 2k to buy foodstuffs. BROTHER YOU ARE MAD! AND I CURSE YOU

A "Nigerian" Woman treated you like used rags because she didn't see the big picture, now that you are made she is crying and you are asking us what to do in such situation?

If you don't open that your smelly mouth and tell her to G-E-T T-H-E F-U-C-K O-U-T, then i will terminate your manhood.

Hungry leeches looking for free meal tickets.

Terrible

Of all the disease conditions in the world where ur mind go na hiv. Do u wish the girl well at all. I wonder where girls meet these psycho guys and accept to date them.

amiibaby:
Lol this is so stupiiiiiiiid... op I guess u are high on them weed even to mention different names of condoms shows how wayward u are ... spits on ur rotten totooo

She knows all the names of the non-invasive contraceptive device and u presumably do not and it's wise to conclude she's wayward. You are very very... and with zero brains. A skulking skunk to whom logic means nothing. Na wetin u be

lyndaway:
Not all women are after a man's cash even though it is important some women can stay with a guy for years and won't ask him for money and she will be fine

Read this trash again and use it to judge the level of ur thinking.

Hamachi:
Send her a dm before someone takes her

Lol oh my world.. .

movingclouds:
You dey mind all these mumu? These are just weaklings believing all their problems are invented by the whites... They waste energy thinking of how the whites ruined their lives, when they could easily expend the same energy to shame the white by developing their minds..

u got the gist. but develop which mind exactly? where the mind de?

lol this one na stray dog no be lady

black women

firstking01:
Prayer warrior

lol guy u funny

oga jona na hate speech oo

eyinola:
Still available?

how about now, still available?

Larryfest:
If the government is truly serious about this basically all the factories run by Indians, Lebanese and Chinese in Nigeria will be closed down cos those guys use naija people anyhow they want without any remorse or consideration.

ills of capitalism

dominique:
Either the husband is a closeted gay or has very low libido. It's her cross, let her carry it. Sex is neither food nor oxygen you need to have to sustain yourself.

human beings are sexual beings and as a result, the WHO is going to classify inability of a human being to find a sex partner as an ill-health ok a disease that requires treatment, just the same way inability to breathe oxygen is called hypoxia and inability to find food is called anorexia.

900k for the accord

engine needs replacement. i offer 700k

900k pics of engine and speedometer asap

hadduni:
Well op, you are really silly. You knew quite well for the past 2 years that you don't want her has a life partner yet you kept on digging her... Her pregnancy is your cross. You can't eat your cake and have it.
You are more concerned that you discovered that she has gone past are first trimester... She probably hid the pregnancy because she tot you will ask her to abort it.

maybe Jesus Christ or Budha needs to come to the earth again and explain to Nigerian girls that being a girlfriend does not in any way translate to being a future wife and also that women are not on the receiving end in intercourse. it's called intercourse because each gives and each receives but physiology has to take place.

Cuccitini:
I would prefer a lesbian to a feminist cos if a fvck d hell out of d lesbian she will be straight

Lol my guy. Once the living hell goes out of her she will be delivered.

This one is ogbako ndi lunatics.

Bhadgirl:
There are independent women out there,it all still boils down to Nigerian guys ego of wanting to date someone they can control, still some men are pure bunch of hypocrites and losers

Hmmm bad indeed.

Weed is whack
Coke's no joke

i will be in one of the first three countries next year God willing. Hustle must pay

This statement is not always correct. most nigerian men are obsessed with sex, they so much love it they feel they can't do without it. As a result, a nigerian man goes into relationship with a girl only with the goal of having sex and nothing more. If the girl happens to be celibate, the rlship wont survive the next day. Some will stick with the decision because they only want to test the girl's ability to maintain her resolve against their gimmicks. This shows that nigerian men have placed a high premium on the vagina making it a gold mine and as a result, sex is the main selling point to any girl that wants to stay relevant.

NeedAdvice00:
Lol. It's not about money, on both sides.

see this one

ask her for her account number

Riele:
Are you indirectly saying no Nigerian man should get married? .

Cuz the 60k salary is like heaven to some .

How much is ur salary? Concentrate on that.

mamajj17:
Na dem dem EastAmaka

Even at ur present age?

Zooposki:
Do you see those country running to Nigeria for jobs. Stay and develop your country to be like theirs.

Lol.

Zooposki:
Nigerian Authorities should remove Jamb or make it more like SAT, and build more private/public universities, so all the monies wasted in foreign countries should be invested in Nigeria.

and after schooling u give them job in ur father's house to mop the floor and remove cobwebs

writing is a tough job. i write all assignments and academic papers for 4 nursing students in california and one psychology student in canada, money is great sotee my medical degree is lying fallow and i am loosing touch of my diagnostic and curative skills. i cant outsource these work because of the technicalities and sensitivity in them. i write so welll my psychology client score 92% on his essay papers, a fit he cant achieve so he pays heavily. if you are smart, money wont be a problem at all. but writing doesn't come easy. sometimes u have the ideas but no perspective, sometimes u have the perspective but the ideas dont sound convincing, sometimes u are tired, want to take a long walk, just sit down in a pub and watch drunk dudes laugh and merry but ur mind is working to find the right ideas and the right perspective.

Dantepet3000:
I dated this very beautiful girl. The very beautiful type that elders would warn you about. For an average nigerian girl shez 7/10 weda in movies or reality. Sweet face, brown skin, nice fix in the right areas and extremely attractive. Everybody wondered what she saw in me coz to be honest for a nigerian dude I am 4/10.
We enjoyed our relationship coz she was just 23 while I was 30. She was a novice and a virgin so the only thing I did was to pamper her, cuddle and kiss but no penetration as I was saving her for marriage.
I work with a construction company and I was mobilized to another site outside my area of residence. Kaduna became my new home and I left her only to come back every monthend, spend two days and go back to site.
Our love was perfect until my elder brother called to tell me she had changed. Tho not to a bad girl but that another guy in my area is getting to close to her. I simply knew that was it. She wasn't materialistic but needed attention and I couldn't afford coz I was away. She denied it consistently until I gave up on the relationship while the continued.
I waited until the news of thier engagement got to my hearing and that was when things changed.
The revenge was not against her but him coz he knew about my relationship with her. Lol. He bought her an expensive ring cloths and everything, he took good care of her but I this juncture I came bk bigger, wealthier and better. Whatever he did, I did twice. I did not do all of these before thier engagement but after coz all I was after was revenge.
I somehow found my self bk into her loving embrace.I played it so careful that he never saw us together I decided to make love to her and realized she was nolonger the virgin I tot she was but this guy loved her to death sha. While she was at my apartment, he would call her more than 3times in 1hr. So in my mind this is the girl I would have married evEn tho she isn't cheap or bad but I made sure went 7 rounds with her until she was exhausted. This happend for months until the engagement ring in her hand became useless. This girl told me she tot I was impotent because I didn't want to have sex with her before I left for the site. Me that was claiming good guy. She got the bad guy now.
This guy now confronted me telling me what I was doing with his wife to be. Imagine. I told him he could take back his thing oh. This girl became extremely rude to him, doesn't regard him anymore coz the kind of sex I gave her in one day will last her a whole month. My guy was even planning for the wedding forgetting he first broke me when he stole her from me.
I was immature to get a revenge I know but it made me feel like an alpha male. Now she broke up with him to be with me then my company now sent me to another site yet again.... That was how I left her again. That heartbreak turned the guy to a pastor as I type this which is good for him and as for the girl she is getting even prettier and now way above his class as na only big men dey comot with her now. I mean men who can afford Dubai trips without stress.
Pardon my typo error. Am just reminiscing.

At the bold i stopped reading.