₦airaland Forum

kaeforum:
Stop overflogging this issue, the idea of sexual capability test is to safeguard the intending couples by ensuring that they are both free from sexual diseases and any inherited congenital defects in their reproductive systems.
It also ensures that they understand themselves in the area of compatibility, whether you like it or not sexual satisfaction has a direct bearing on the marriage and can determine how long the couples last in the marriage (emphasis is the marriage not the 1 day ritual called wedding)
If you dont see your intendeds unclothedness how are you sure that he or she is who they claim to be, remember what happened to Jacob in the bible, he waited 10yrs for Rachel but was given Leah, this was possible because he didnt perform test of sexual capability he could have quickly detected leah.

Lets apply wisdom, we live in the last days theres so much deception even in the church. Dont be fooled the proponents of sex after marriage dont tell you the real truth that they had seen the unclothedness of their mates before taking them to the altar, a truth any minister who officiates weddings knows too well but prefers to live in denial because of money.

hope you know that there are two sides to a coin. You just succeeded in viewing one side of it.

Amidst the proliferation of pre-marital sex done in order to avoid non compatibility of sexuality between partners, why then is the increase in divorce rate?

eagleccentric:
There is truly a disarticulation from our traditional norms and values.

Gone are the days when we respect the institution of sanctity of marriage

Now its all about testing

I wonder if there's any religious institution that supports testing??

If none, then all these guys clamouring for the entrenchment of fornication, my question to you is "where do you worship?"

blame it on civilization and westernization. Here Immorality is regarded as an active and normal life for an healthy adult.

scentmarlc:
Nice one op

you're welcome, scentmaric

kandiikane:
Erm, so you should wait until marriage to do all the testing and such, what if all comes back negative, what then? Na to manage am like that? Selfish! It is because you know many African women will just manage your insufficiency to please in bed that's why una dey say wait. Selfish, selfish!



I guess the topic is for testers.

The non-testers can pump away-safely of course.

just like your signature. We always pray for the best. To many the world we live in is a wicked place,but yet we aren't given any chance to test it before we are born.

Vision4God:
Raw truth. Weldon medley. God kip u

Amen. God's truth lead you always

mentorandfriend:
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hmmm. Flawless? Thanks.

lalasticlala:
Source?

i wrote it and every thing - the views so expressed are solely my opinion.

May be very soon i may have a column on a bigger platform(serendipity),still got a long way to go.

Nairaland offers a platform, to reach out to people.

A thread to support the shear resolve of some people in this age of moral decadance,can this make front page as others that have been laced to support immorality do.

Cc: lalasticlala

rawtouch:
Tested ok



I will advise not to have anything to do with non tested things

your choice bro, your choice!

The one sure thing that happens as the year goes by is the encouragement of immorality with convincing excuses.

Cutehector:
So the remainin three whr dem fly go?

i have cut their wings,the remaining have been uploaded.

SuperSuave:
op you said 7 na, you wan chop the remaining ni

updated!

Reason why Test of sexual capability and compatibilty before marriage is a recipe for marital crisis.

The avalanche of proponents that have consistently corroborated the 21st century believe that: women should test their husband-to-be to ensure he is good in bed, is just another one of the many excuses people raise up to encourage traditions and fashions that will further proliferate immorality and further take sodomize this world,the supporting arguments are all lies from the pit of hell.

Here are the reasons below:

1. If you are satisfied with him sexually, is he satisfied?

In a lady's quest to ensure that he marries a sexually active man, are you sure you will/have satisfied him, then the man has equal right to put an end to that relationship no matter how far it has gone - leading to lost of time(months and years) and potential suitors that gave up on you when you were in that relationship.

2. The tester may end up being decieved by an hit and run

some people can easily fake a non-existent readiness to marry you and in the end, when the crown of victory has been won for making love with you in your quest to find out for sexual compatibiliy, that partner looks for silly excuses to say it's over.

3. At what point will the test be certified tested OK.

I will never encourage anyone to make love on a first date, or even engage in premarital sex, so if this holds, and perhaps after some dates and a lady/guy that believe in testing for sexual compatibility engages in the testing excercise,when will you finish collecting samples to complete your research,how many times, and how long. Won't be surprised if this same person engages in mocking people that are prostitute - what then are you? Lets say after some years of testing,you found the partner not OK,what tells you the next will be?

4. You the tester,may become the tested.

The partner may even be dumped the next day after she had a certified OK test with her partner, only for her to find out that she didn't reciprocate same. this happening more than once in a lady's life ,will surely lead to a shattered heart torn in pieces.

5. The partner you certified OK, may even fail the next day.

The most amusing fact is that africans before the 21st centuryHardly engage in courtship and yet they grow old together and die loving each other forever. We have courtship and we are still unsatisfied. Your partner that has been superb in bed, may become weak when you are married,what happens? Would you cheat to augment? Sue for divorce? See beyond sex as the only pillar of marriage,so far the man/woman can procreate? The world want to make us believe we can figure every thing out all by ourselves,but truly,marriage is a leap of faith. The test you carried out may even make you a young baby mama after 9 months or worst still you tried aborting and ended up with a spoilt womb,will you still insisit on testing afterwards,because i doubt if majority do this test with condoms.

6. The partner may be using some sexual enhancers.

We can't deny the existence of sexual enhancers,what will you do when he stops after marriage. If this is the basis for being married to men can go the extra mile to deicieve those that have this topmost in their criteria for an healthy marriage or relationship.
What would you do afterwards? Be the next sugar-mummy in town when he travels out? I won't advice so.

7. Would there be further test to confirm if both partner can procreate?

He is good in bed, she is very experienced,bla bla bla, etc. Is he/she also good in making children? Would you get pregnant before going into marriage? This may be the next line of excuse for immorality,may be not now,may be in ten years time.
If marriage is all about sex,then the purpose is invalid.
Casual sex is as rampant as the days go,Marriage should be also about companionship, friendship, and a union where two people support each others to reach their most cherished heart desires. No matter how it is painted pre-marital sex as a way of ensuring he/she will be good in bed is decietful and mostly counter productive.

Micky002:
Its false cos an nysc advert for procurement of kits for batch B corp members indicates dat d batch b nysc orientation course will hold in november

do you know what their inventory of kits is like,and how there maintain buffers and also considering lead time of procurement. The sept. Orientation may not be outrightly ruled out.

The lacuna and faux pas in this time-table is that batch A 2015 online reg. Lasted for a month,while this one is just 3 days.

temitemi1:
Nonsense!

source:
thenationonlineng.net/new/apc-rejects-saraki-dogara/

Its now crystal clear that APC don't believe in democracy that brought them into powers, we have at the center a set of power mongers and warlords ready to do anything. Buhari will really need a lot of prayers.

lai mohammed has just issued a press release rejecting the election

source:

www.thenationonlineng.net/new/apc-rejects-saraki-dogara/

The All Progressives Congress (APC) has rejected the newly elected leadership of the
National Assembly, saying it will use all constitutional and legal means to resolve the leadership tussle in the Assembly.

The party’s National Publicity Secretary, Alhaji Lai Mohammed, said in a statement shortly
after the emergence of Senator Abubakar Bukola Saraki and Hon. Yakubu Dogara as Senate President and Speaker of the House respectively that the elections that produced
the duo were unacceptable to
the party.

Mohammed described the processes as highest level of indiscipline and treachery,
adding that no individual should place himself above the party.
The statement said, “Senator Bukola Saraki and Hon. Dogara
are not the candidates of
the APC and a majority of its National Assembly
members-elect for the positions
of Senate President and House Speaker respectively.

“The party duly met and conducted a straw poll and clear candidates emerged for the
posts of Senate President, Deputy Senate President and Speaker of the House of Representatives, supported by a majority of
all Senators-elect and members-elect of the House of Representatives.

“All National Assembly members-elect who emerged on the platform of the party are
bound by that decision. The
party is supreme and its interest
is superior to that of its
individual members.

“Consequently, the APC leadership is meeting in a bid to re-establish discipline in the party and to
mete out the necessary sanctions to all those involved in what is nothing but a monumental act
of indiscipline and betrayal to subject the party to ridicule and create obstacles for the new administration.”

The party decried a situation in which some people, based on nothing but inordinate
ambition and lack of discipline and loyalty, will enter into an unholy alliance with the very same people whom the party and indeed the entire country worked hard to replace and sell out the hard won victory of the party.

Fashola the 'best governor' in Nigeria,though he won't be forgotten for carrying out project,that can be financed with lesser amounts, after his failure to sign the FOI bill,and the use of the media to trumpet his achievement and never get criticised.

there are strong indications that GMB will deviate from the norm of impunity and bad governance,and turn Nigeria around. I think our part to these is to pray for him,because the hawks won't like this

This is the best definition of giving back to the society. Instead of waiting for birthday when you invite all the media houses cos you want to give clothes and indomie in an orphanage home.

It's a good step to fighting corruption,but won't be remarkable if the US always give us orders as if we are still a state under their colony. OBJ and atiku,if indicted, i don't need any other reasons not to vote for GMB in 2019

how is this possible? Was he not squarely beaten in the elections? What special thing did he do when he knew he would be treated like gbagbo?

I trust Nigerians to sign petitions in change.com for outright repudiation and removal of the prize if he eventually wins.

This same people forget that he won't be held responsible for any crisis,if he had contested the result. Its is a right

will it be out of place to say, let us wait for december when the contract terminates. Sincerely,this amnesty deal shouldn't be joked with,unless there is a short-term measue and long-term to aid the communities.

The world of God - The Bible - In itself clearly shows that we are in the end times.

Many happenings have proven - gay rights and propagation of homosexualism, uprising of different terrorism, wars and the neglect without remorse of Gods love and laws.

Just pray you won't be left on earth,if you are still alive to be the one telling people that rapture has taken place.

iykebesbt1:
Op U no dey sleep? U be witch??

successes achieved by great men alike,are by burning their midnight oil,when others slept. The morning,afternoon and evening is sometimes too small to do a little more.

One thing is certain; it doesn't matter who wears the topmost crown of leadership in Nigeria, what we should be concerned with is - can Nigeria be taken to an unreached height of success in the echelon of countries.

Far worse than the menace caused by boko-haram is one's wish that this new regime should fail,to corroborate and affirm all our earlier assertions, projections and calculations. If the country begins to experience good governance, boko-haram wiped out(even if it happens from may 30,we shouldn't conjure obscure imaginations that anyone has a link in it),& an unparalled investment boom etc.

We all will be rejoicing. Who says Nigeria can't feed children in school? Who says we can't have 24hrs power supply? Who says unemployed youth corpers can't be paid? Who says we can't become an exporting country? - in bad faith and previous records held, its a No No; but this is a new era.

what if companies pay their taxes in full? What if ports corruption are stopped? What if oil revenues Are not stolen? What if our senators and reps. In the upper and lower chambers(respectively) slashes their salaries and allowances? What if project are not inflated and overblown? What if borrowed funds are actually used judiciously and optimally(considering what happened in the power sector)? What if oil theft is no more? What if agriculture experiences recrudescence? What if contractors don't elope with funds?...

The set goals and vision of the new regime may not be what seem achieveable today,because we are used to the lie we've been told and Nigeria's poor record of leadership at the top; but lets believe it can be achievable tomorrow.

May be not in 6-months,may be in a year; but at the end let Nigeria be called a nation,that's one - devoid of tribal and religion bias and bigotry, growing daily in leap and bounds were non-oil revenue will be our major earner for forex. For a Nigeria we all can be proud of,were our fine brains outside see reasons to be part of the Nigeria project and our youths not dying daily for illicit offences outside Nigeria in search of happiness(even in poor countries that Nigeria's GDP is bigger than).

lets take that leap of faith.

What are your prayers and wishes for the mohammadu Buhari regime?

who then was on strike. Because it baffles reasoning that an administration that has kept a good record in managing fuel scarcity in Nigeria for years during its regime,suddenly became evil. Was there no plan to destroy that record and paint a bad image?

I expect this government to live up to the expectations of Nigerians,because Nigerians are wiser and will demand such. Lets political leaders say things the way it should be - in reality. There won't be need to tell people not to expect miracle.

Though the programme is a week long schedule and provisions will by made for world leaders and others with them,so i will not conclude on the amount being extravagant until i see what was budgeted for each activity. Nigerians and their craze for billions will only scream when billions are mentioned.

when you have someone like FFK head a vital political position in a party,then you ask yourself is that all Nigeria can give?

Nigeria will be better when we start seeing the state governors as a very imporatant part of government. The federal government can't solely be blamed in the failure to meet the needs of the populace.

NOI should just bow out from public service,because some people won't sleep until they have finally buried her name under feet,though she keeps getting recognition outside Nigerians.

The fact is that Nigerians are looking for those that will bear the blame for the failure of the government. Since we all now believe in the law,lets wait till she has been found guilty before destroying her name. This is democracy.

Federal character in Nigeria is only remembered by the region affected when it's not their gain. Funny country

the same oil subsidy that GEJ tried to remove in full that oil cabals used Nigerians to fight against it. I just want to believe that the Buhari will let the masses benefit from it removal.