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Family / Can You Use A Hired Wedding Gown And An Old Bouquet During Your Wedding? by meetmeonline: 2:24pm On Apr 17, 2012
Can you use a hired wedding gown on that day?

Can you use an old bouquet for it?

Will you accept to have your wedding reception in the premises of an old government school?

Will you say “yes I do” to a guy of only 26yrs who believes in early marriage but earns only N50,000 at the moment?

If he plans a “family-only” traditional wedding and a low-key church wedding (just to start this journey on time) will you go on with him?

Hi ladies, please air ONLY your “SINCERE VIEWS” on this…put your current condition and experience in finance, education, exposure, age and belief to test on the above and tell every one what you think

Hello guys, let the girls say their mind shhhhhhhh don’t blast anyone back please!
Politics / Re: If Nigeria Is So Rich, Why Are Nigerians So Poor? by meetmeonline: 1:03pm On Apr 16, 2012
I Know this very seller, I have bought some books from him in the past (just in front of C.M.S along Marina)...This Guy gets sales of over N5,000 and makes close to N2,000 daily...That's well above the International Poverty Line
Family / Re: A True Live Story(a Young Ladys Case) by meetmeonline: 5:49pm On Apr 13, 2012
Nobody should ever blame this girl, most people have done even more than this...95% of every school girl had one bobo that brushed her play-head and this kept it from becoming rusty (I do not mean to ridicule her please)


Babe live on with your life DO NOT BE ASHAMED; NO BE YOUR CASE BAD PASS
Family / Re: I Dont Trust My Wife Anymore by meetmeonline: 5:32pm On Apr 13, 2012
harakiri: I am neither married or engaged but i can tell you this. . .When you open up everything to a woman, you should be man enough to take the backlash. Dude, WOMEN TALK ALL THE TIME! ! ! The only confidential information a woman is capable of keeping to herself is damaging information about herself e.g

(1)She didn't graduate from school and has a fake degreee
(2)She has had at least one dozen abortions before she met you
(3)She still loves her ex and they communicate often
(4)She had a child at the age of 17 that is being taken care of by her parents
(5)She has contracted STD's several times before she met you
(6)Etc

These are the ONLY types of secrets a woman is capable of keeping. If you tell her how much you earn, be rest assured that all your in-laws know how much you earn. If you are having issues with your own relatives, be rest assured that her people already have that info. If your "thing" doesn't work right, be rest assured that they already know (especially her mother). If you're broke, they know. If you came home on easter night drunk, they know.

Point is, do not reveal any info to a woman that you wouldn't want shared to third parties because THEY WILL ALWAYS TALK! Just do your best to manage the situation and talk less and less about sensitive issues.

Nuff said!



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Family / Re: Can You Suck Mucus Out your Childs Nose With Your Mouth? by meetmeonline: 5:19pm On Apr 13, 2012
hot-angel:
cheesy Seen it before, infact my aunt did it to me, and almost all my cousins. She's pratically sucks mucus out of the nose of kids she meets in church. She tells their mother that they are trying to kill the kids, cos kids who can't blow the "idoti, our of their agbari", need the help of an adult.

Yes it's nasty, but i don't see anything wrong with it (throws up), i mean it helps the kids, (throws up again), as in you know kids cant really breathe through their mouths well, n the nose needs some space, soo, she just uses her mouth and sucks it all out (throws up -- MAJOR).

I would never do it again tho (i hope not), i mean i won't lie, i did it twice for my cousin, (okay yeah, cos he was crying so much, n i was alone with him, and cutton bud wouldn't help, He kept touching his nose and blah blah, so i decided to do wat big mommy does). Apparently it worked, cos dotun stopped crying.

Back to the topic, i think it's okay to do it, if you can. If it disgust you, just use cutton swab/bud, till the mucus gets out. I don't think there's any other way, cos kids can't "Blow" their noses.

This is a bit off-topic, but do you know how they feed kids custard, and the child doesn't want it, and they turn his head like up-side-down, and the close his nose, and "ro" thru his mouth? I mean that's torture! lol,


I just like the way you write; it reflects I'll always enjoy your company grin cheesy wink kiss coolmail me on k.vs.o2012@gmail.com let's connect
Family / Re: Pls I Need An Advice, 2 Weeks Preg. And My Hubby Does Not Want The Babe Now by meetmeonline: 4:14pm On Apr 13, 2012
When my parents managed a room at Ijesha Lagos, I was born 1yr2months after my elder brother while my younger came 11 months after me (ie by their third anniversary, they had 3 children). My parents are happy and fulfilled now seeing us graduated and now working. Yet my mum still remains the most beautiful amongst her peers...you may be holding back another Mandela




Better still>>>>>>>go to a good prayer-house and see where your contemporaries are forcing themselves to consuming a whole bottle of olive oil just to give birth to even an slowpoke (sorry for this but I mean it) then you will come back home thankful
Family / Re: Why Is It That Our Wives Ask Us To Be Romantic When We Foot All The Bills? by meetmeonline: 4:26pm On Apr 12, 2012
Sex has got everything to do with strength and vitality. No wonder idle people indulge in it often. This is normal and since you may have stopped having children, silently get her into what takes her time or saps her energy and you will do the balancing...regular sex fuels the union in a marriage...but 2ice a week is not too bad for a couple.
Romance / Re: Pls Advice Me On What To Do Now by meetmeonline: 3:37pm On Apr 12, 2012
THIS GUY LOVES YOU THE MOST!!! wink kiss


Yes this is because he brought you to his kitchen and took the trouble to go out for Uju

You do not pay his bills so he will have nothing to fear you for but just to respect you

If he does not pick her calls in your presence then he respects you

If you need a creature that minds only you and bites every other person, then you must go for a dog and not a man

Our Nigerian women should wake up to the fact that no normal guy thinks only one babe

The big question is ARE YOU HIS NO 1? which (by your story) I bet you are

Cheer up...you are leading!

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Romance / Re: Pls Advice Me On What To Do Now by meetmeonline: 3:36pm On Apr 12, 2012
THIS GUY LOVES YOU THE MOST!!! wink kiss


Yes this is because he brought you to his kitchen and took the trouble to go out for Uju

You do not pay his bills so he will have nothing to fear you for but just to respect you

If he does not pick her calls in your presence then he respects you

If you need a creature that minds only you and bites every other person, then you must go for a dog and not a man

Our Nigerian women should wake up to the fact that no normal guy thinks only one babe

The big question is ARE YOU HIS NO 1? which (by your story) I bet you are

Cheer up...you are leading!

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Family / She Wants Me To Pay For The Fees Of Her Ex-boyfriend's Child by meetmeonline: 10:13am On Apr 12, 2012
Just when I needed a friend, I requested for one in a public medium, a good number of girls responded but one of them won; she bluntly revealed that she had a baby out of wedlock. I got interested in this girl that could be so open and bold in telling the truth from day one because I felt if she could do this then I must be in for a transparent relationship.

We made arrangements and met each other after a while of phone romance. Her appearance and style was a little away from what I wanted but by this time, the connection was already done and she was already living in me. This time, I discovered that this girl (of early twenties) was still a nursing mother and had her breast still milking but I was strong in my heart to love her no matter the sight, I was learning to marry for-better-for-worse and could still fire the relationship.

I pretend not to hear her friends say “babe how you manage catch this one!” when she introduced them to me and this made me press her hard to my chest and sometimes kiss her to make her proud and make them die of envy.

Do not see me as an “anything-goes” kind of guy because “T” (not to call her name here) is truly a nice girl and have handled me the way no woman has and for a good time, makes me enjoy being in a relationship. I have done every investigation and trailing to catch her cheating on me but have found her innocent. She takes her time whenever she serves my meal and cheers me up me when I am depressed. One would say she did this for her status but I tell you she was still young and sound enough to be resold even if taken to the show glass (sorry for this statement).

She got pregnant for a guy and got seriously battered by guilt, regret and heartbreak when this young man (living in the same town) never showed up or took her calls from early pregnancy and till date. His reason for doing this was that he wanted an abortion which she refused.

Our relationship has lasted a while now and we have gotten so close to each other that I do not see any other girl. My love for her has made me see this infant as my own son and think of his welfare even while at the office. She calls to tell me when she had just fed him and reports every slight fever he develops to me first before anyone else. Whenever she is to return to campus, she leaves him at her home but if she was with him, I play the role of the father (away from town).

I am not ashamed to go out with a girl of this mishap because the peace I find in “running her package” (sorry for this language) is just one I have yearned for all my life. When you have a girl that calls in to say “good morning”, realizes when you are tired and needed to rest by just phone conversation and would reject taking a drink for herself at a bar but to share yours, then you overlook every other thing that colors her black.

Now, this is the real matter:
This boy is now schooling and this has suddenly gotten her broke. She now gets so desperate when it is time to pay his fees and I no longer find this funny. I once spent a whole bedtime thinking if I should opt into taking over his fees and making him my son but this will take a good percentage of my income and there are also some other strong reasons that has held me back ever since
1. I must not fall into an illusion that this is my son, he was not adopted by us, he has his father only hanging around the corner.
2. The fact that her ex-man demanded an abortion passes a message to me that he acknowledged this is his seed.
3. There is no court in the world where I will win a case later if he came back for his boy.
4. The family of this guy have also remained mute and pretend they do not know about the matter but since they live not far from this girls home, I suspect they have quietly marked his birth and are monitoring.

I fear for all the above reasons because I am well aware that anything can happen tomorrow and this same boy everyone rejects today may become the bone of contention at that time. Please forgive me if I say I do not want to have him partly but all of him or none.

I have come to like this baby boy so much and ready to sacrifice for him but common! I cannot sit and watch another guy (whom I may even be more fertile than) stand to my face and call me a thief over his son.

She is still mad at the neglect she gets from this family and vows to cater for him till university even without them. This pressure on her is beginning to destroy the shattered heart I fought to restore, the gladness I succeeded in putting in her lips and beauty all her friends thanked me for.

She is beginning to see me as heartless (forgetting I am only innocent) all because I have stood grounds on my decision on this boy’s welfare.
I have given her an option to take the boy to his paternal grandparents and present him to them and upon denying him, I draw an agreement to have the baby’s father and his parents sign that the baby has been adopted by my me irreversibly and this agreement cannot be revoked by any court or law and when this is done, he automatically becomes my first son as I sign to cater for him till adulthood. But she has called me “bad” by thinking like this, saying that she is sure they will not sign it.

I want you all to tell me how I have faulted in this matter and give me a direction on how to go from here. Kindly “read only” and do not make any comments if you have any playful or negative feedbacks as I hope to obey what the majority go for.

Professionals in Law, Medicine and even Relationship, please comment
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You may mail me on k.vs.o2012@gmail.com if you want it private

Write on I am reading…
Business / Re: Dangote To Invest $7Bn In Power & Petrochemicals In Nigeria In 3 Years by meetmeonline: 12:13pm On Apr 11, 2012
aca77: Good initiative no doubt. But we must note that Dangote is a capitalist, and so there is nothing altruistic in this ambitious new project. Hopefully this would help triple his net-worth if it proves successful. Therefore I can only commend him for being a focused and smart businessman, not 'thank' or 'praise' him for an initiative that is clearly profit orientated and not in the least charitable.


Never forget that even the largest political party in Africa (PDP) has not been fair enough on the over $50bn that has gone into our eonomy from crude oil since 1999. They sign contracts, steal the pay and only paint the fences of the dam then we go ahead to clap for them by voting them in the next elections
Romance / Re: A Voice From The Grave By Late Mrs Ogochukwu Onuchukwu (nee Onugu) by meetmeonline: 6:46pm On Mar 30, 2012
[b][/b]My Granny hates and would never want to see or let you play any movie of a dark-in-complexion popular Igbo actress, known for the many roles that painted her an evil mother-in-law in most Nollywood movies (you know whom I mean) but ironically, I know this woman (personally) to be a very kind person.
Have you not asked why the law still brings someone even with a blood-stained shirt and holding a dagger to court to hear the case and consider if he is guilty of murder or not?
Dear readers, Let us not slaughter Kelvin or his associate first. We must revisit the passage and do the comprehension exercises we did back then in school
I left the office 4 hours past closing just studying this story. I have culled just the same words the writer used…let’s dig and see if we may find something conflicting


Read on:
*****WE STARTED TO FIGHT OVER LITTLE THINGS. THE FIGHTS WERE WORSE AFTER YOU VISITED HOME OR ATTENDED ANY OF YOUR NUMEROUS FAMILY MEETINGS.*****
Reading the lines above, teaches me that:
Firstly, the quarrel must have been mutual, she resisted and fought back always and not the case that Kevin would beat her. The pure story should have been ***you beat me over little things***
Secondly, the fact that the writer feels the family meetings were numerous means she never liked him attending them anyway



*****I REMEMBER WHEN YOU TOLD ME THAT YOUR FAMILY HAD ASKED YOU TO REMARRY. YOU SHOWED ME DOCUMENTS OF ALL YOUR NUMEROUS LANDED PROPERTY INCLUDING THE HOUSE WE LIVED IN. YOUR BROTHER WAS LISTED AS NEXT OF KIN. WHEN I ASKED YOU ABOUT IT, YOUR ANSWER ROCKED THE GROUND I WAS STANDING ON*****
Reading the above, I understand:
Firstly, it is still conflicting how a man who does not love his wife would decide to spend his time exposing his evil motives by expressly showing her papers of his properties rather than being outside with some other woman…what led to this showing of documents?
Secondly, I have not (in my whole life) seen where property documents bear the owners next of kin; even receipts may bear Mr&Mrs…have you seen Mr&Mr?
Thirdly, only a husband that has a little respect for his wife will ever tell her the family’s evil plan…he may have presented it forcefully to her with a bitter and confused heart during a fight



***1**IT IS FUNNY HOW TO MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS, I WAS THE BEAUTIFUL AND LOVING OGO, WHILST TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY I WAS A WORTHLESS PIECE OF RAG.*****
***2**I HAD NOBODY FOR WHOM YOU HAD ANY REGARDS WHO WOULD SPEAK UP FOR ME.*****
Kindly read the above two statement (from one person) and try matching them if you can…if 1 (above) is the real thing, I ask myself…was Kevin afraid of his in-laws and her friends?


*****I TOLD MYSELF. I HAD ALREADY TAKEN MY VOWS TO BE WITH KEVIN UNTIL DEATH DID US PART.*****
*****TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY I WAS A WORTHLESS PIECE OF RAG. YOU CALLED ME BARREN. I COULD HAVE FLED BUT YOUR LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE WAS OF MORE WORTH TO ME THAN THE LOVE AND ADMIRATION OF THE WORLD OUTSIDE OUR HOME.*****
*****I WILL KILL YOU AND NOTHING WILL HAPPEN BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO ONE TO FIGHT FOR YOU”, I KEPT ON STRUGGLING TO GET YOU TO LOVE ME BECAUSE, KEVIN, YOUR VALIDATION WAS IMPORTANT TO ME.*****
Reading the above I understand that:
This woman truly was ready to die for love…should you come into that union or curse Kevin for it? No!


*****I DESPERATELY SOUGHT TO BE LOVED BY YOU, KEVIN.*****
*****I WOULD MAKE YOU LOVE ME ONE WAY OR THE OTHER AND I KNEW THAT ONE SURE WAY WOULD BE TO PRODUCE A CHILD*****
*****I WILL KILL YOU AND NOTHING WILL HAPPEN BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO ONE TO FIGHT FOR YOU”, I KEPT ON STRUGGLING TO GET YOU TO LOVE ME BECAUSE, KEVIN, YOUR VALIDATION WAS IMPORTANT TO ME.*****
Reading the above, I pondered:
Was she really struggling for his love or mostly his attention?


*****AFTER SEVEN YEARS OF MARRIAGE, OUR PRAYERS WERE ANSWERED. GOD BLESSED US WITH OUR SON*****
Reading the above, I understand:
Kevin also prayed for his wife to conceive…why then did he beat and hate her anyway during those 7 year period?


**1***THE COLD AND RUDE SHOCK OF THE WELCOME HIS BROTHER’S WIFE GAVE ME SET OFF AN ALARM IN MY HEAD*****

***2**THESE PEOPLE DIDN’T THINK I WAS SPECIAL.*****

**3***I REMEMBER MY FIRST CHRISTMAS AT IHIALA AS A NEW BRIDE. MY BROTHER-IN-LAW’S WIFE WOULD SNEER AND CLAP AND REFER TO ME AS “NDI JI UKWU AZO AKWU”*****

**4***THEY NEVER REALLY WANTED ME, I CAN NOW SEE. BUT I WAS TOO BLINDED BY LOVE TO REALIZE THAT. I NEEDED TO DO SOMETHING TO CEMENT KEVIN’S HEART WITH MINE.*****
Reading the 1-4 statements above, I understand:
Firstly, she always had quarrels with her brother-in-law’s wife (not even his sisters) who was also just the same as she was: A JUST-COME
Secondly, this woman (brother-in-law’s wife) seemed to be the leader of the ***they*** team…does it mean the others were mere supporters?
Thirdly, why then did Kelvin’s evil mother stay silent and let someone else steal the show of molesting someone she hated?
Fourthly, how come our Esther could not be loved by Mama but Jezebel was…does it mean this brother’s wife bewitched Mama?
Fifthly, what in the world was this brother-wife woman fighting after, the property of a man she was not married to or what?
Sixthly, The line 2 tells vividly of what she may have thought of herself…”…didn’t think I was the legal wife” should have been the words of a humble woman and not the arrogant “…didn’t think I WAS SPECIAL”



*****SHE WOULD SING TO ME ALL DAY LONG TELLING ME THE ONLY REASON WHY THEIR BROTHER MARRIED ME WAS BECAUSE OF MY BEAUTY AND COMPLEXION*****
Reading the above, I could understand that:
The brother-in-law’s wife actually acknowledged she was better than herself and may have rather suffered inferiority complex but not full hatred…Why then did she not see this and get positive?


*****KEVIN, YOU LOVED ME AGAIN. YOUR FAMILY ACCEPTED ME. LIFE WAS GOOD. AND ALL WAS QUIET AGAIN. …………………… FOR A WHILE.*****
Reading the above:
I now get a little conviction that she had agreement issues with the family
But let’s ask ourselves, why should he start loving her first before the family began the loving? Why then did the writer try to make us understand he hated her more each-time-after he met them?



**1***YOU AND I GAVE NUMEROUS AND VERY GENEROUS DONATIONS TO DIFFERENT CHURCHES IN THANKSGIVING TO GOD*****
**2***YOU HAD REFUSED TO GIVE ME MONEY FOR MY MEDICAL TRIP TO LONDON. I KNEW THEN IT WAS BECAUSE YOU HAD YOUR HANDS FULL WITH CARING AND CATERING FOR EVERYBODY WHO WAS DEAR TO YOU*****
The above makes me think Kevin was generous…but why did she stop loving the act? Did she only believe in thanksgiving or never wanted his loved ones to benefit from his wealth too?...why did she not end with the word ***was dear to us*** rather than ***was dear to you***…did she oppose them?


*****THE MIRACLES STAYED WITH ME BECAUSE 18 MONTHS LATER THROUGH ANOTHER PROCEDURE, CHIMAMANDA WAS BORN. HER BIRTH WAS BITTER SWEET FOR ME. SWEET BECAUSE YOU KEVIN, MY HUSBAND, AND MY IN-LAWS WOULD LOVE ME MORE FOR BEARING A SECOND CHILD*****
*****YOU SAID THAT OUR DAUGHTER, MY AMANDA, WAS A GIRL AND THAT YOU HAD NO NEED FOR A GIRL CHILD BECAUSE SHE WOULD SOMEDAY BE MARRIED OFF. I REMEMBER, IN PAIN, THAT YOU DIDN’T ATTEND AMANDA’S CHRISTENING BECAUSE YOU WERE UPSET WITH ME. YOU TOLD ME YOUR MOTHER WAS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU THAN “THESE THINGS” I BROUGHT TO YOUR HOUSE. YOU WERE REFERRING TO OUR CHILDREN, WERE YOU NOT? “THESE THINGS”.*****
Reading the two statements above:
Firstly, I could not figure out how the birth of a girl child could bring joy to a man that was to hate her in few years time even when still innocent
Secondly, the writer explains clearly and in simple language that the reason why he did not attend Amandas christening was not that he hated the girl but that he was only upset by his wife
Thirdly, will you still go for an event together with your spouse when a fight between yourselves was still red-hot?
Fourthly, we must understand that most of Kevin’s character and words in the passage were fully captured mainly during fights…were they all he said or did in 12years?



*****WHEN AFTER ONE YEAR OF MARRIAGE THERE WERE STILL NO CHILDREN, THE PAINFUL JOURNEY THAT SENT ME TO MY GRAVE STARTED. I WENT FROM SPECIALIST TO SPECIALIST, INGESTED EVERY KIND OF PILL*****
*****AFTER WE’D BEEN FROM ONE DOCTOR TO ANOTHER I DECIDED I HAD TO RESORT TO PRAYER. I WAS FRIGHTENED. I WAS TERRIFIED. I WAS THREATENED. I STARTED TO FEEL UNWELL. I HAD DIFFICULTY BREATHING. I NEEDED TO SEE MY DOCTORS*****
Reading the above I understand:
She explained clearly her primary killers and the fundamental causes of her death…were these from Kevin?



*****BY TELLING MYSELF THAT YOU WERE UNDER A LOT OF STRESS AT WORK AND THAT YOU WERE ALSO PROBABLY REACTING TO ALL THE MONEY THAT YOU HAD SPENT ON MY TREATMENTS.*****
Reading the above tells me that;
If she could ever acknowledge that a bad Kevin spent ALL THE MONEY then he really must have spent big on her

*****I HAD STAYED THREE WEEKS IN LONDON AND KEVIN, YOU NEVER CALLED, SENT A TEXT OR INQUIRED HOW I WAS FARING.*****
*****THEN KEVIN, I RECEIVED THAT E-MAIL FROM YOU*****
Reading the above, I must understand that:
Either, she was able to defy sickness when it comes to checking her mails
Or, Kevin (or someone else) told her of the unread mail
Or, she was rather strong enough to browse the internet during the three week stay in London


*****APPARENTLY YOUR EMPLOYERS HAD CALLED A HOSPITAL IN LONDON TO INQUIRE ABOUT ME*****
Reading the above, I understand that:
The news only got leaked to them from some strange person because Kevin would have given correct details,…or do they track her movement?...If they knew of her trip, why calling London to verify?...Who was telling?...Who masterminded the telling?


*****KEVIN, SINCE YOU WANTED NO PART IN IT, I HAD CONTACTED THE MEDICAL OFFICER IN YOUR COMPANY DIRECTLY FOR REFERRALS.*****
Reading the above I understand:
Firstly, Kevin had a strong reason against the last (killer) surgery
Secondly, she believed otherwise and was stubborn to his insistence
Thirdly, she may have actually taken their family issues to his office (against his will) which makes him think she was messing with his integrity


*****KEVIN YOU HAD REFUSED TO PROVIDE FOOD FOR OUR CHILDREN. KEVIN, YOU HAD ALSO REFUSED TO PAY FOR KAMSI’S HOME SCHOOLING.*****
Reading this, I understand:
This was where he got it all wrong…he portrayed a negligent father here


*****I WILL KILL YOU AND NOTHING WILL HAPPEN BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO ONE TO FIGHT FOR YOU”, I KEPT ON STRUGGLING TO GET YOU TO LOVE ME BECAUSE, KEVIN, YOUR VALIDATION WAS IMPORTANT TO ME.*****
*****YOU ARE DISTURBING ME, AND IF YOU CONTINUE, I`LL MOVE OUT*****
Reading the above gives a clear picture of the action that went on during each fight
These are not accurate statements to be made to a hated wife, it rather fits into what you tell a nagging wife


*****YOU SCREAMED. I SHOULD PAY YOU BACK ALL THE MONEY YOU GAVE ME FOR MY TREATMENT IN LONDON.*****
Reading the above, I pondered:
Was Kevin now putting to her what he never provided for?…but she did say earlier that he did not give her money for the London trip?




Fellow country people, we have not heard from any of this couple yet…What we read was only a second-handed information…let us not rush into cursing one side first but hear them or LEAVE ALL TO GOD’S JUDGMENT !
Remember, here in Africa, everyone stays out of the husband and wife matter…the both family did this…we too must also watch and listen like them
Do not doubt me if I say she may still choose to return to that same house if God sends her back to earth
Please DO NOT HATE ME if I say that if only the passage was the truth, I understand:
1. They were the kind of couple that do the fighting exercise twice/thrice a week
2. The woman was the kind of ***you must kill me oooooo, Kevin! you must love me oooooo, Kevin!*** (holding his cloth and fighting back during action)
3. The brother’s wife must have been a champion-trouble-maker that won everyone with her lips, they never agreed
4. Kevin was a principled man that takes no nonsense from his woman and damns consequences of action when vexed. By the story, he was truly a bad father but MAY HAVE BEEN a manageable husband to some other women.
5. To fight and still be together for as long as 7 years without taking another woman means Kevin actually may have rather loved his wife but was not getting something right in his home or was frustrated by something he kept in mind
6. The woman desperately, passionately and tirelessly wanted something she (herself) knew Kevin will not give (this we must find out…do not be too sure!). She never gave up in the quest and swore to fight for it to the end; that she simply did!
7. The extended family may have been bad but she rather took the battle to them, they may have disliked her but did not come to fight her, only Kevin fought her in her home.
8. She wanted a high place in the government of the extended family not wanting to patiently earn it, but to enforce it (but we learn the brother-in-laws wife was not a good woman, why did she earn this?)
9. The main factor that destroyed the union was the storm that arose as a result of the confusion and inability to bear and manage family problems (mainly illnesses)

Just to get to the roots of the matter and arrive to a conclusion, THE LATE MUST SPEAK HER OWN SIDE NOW (this account may have been written in a hurry) after her, we must also hear from Kevin. But two questions (from me to Kevin) that may not need her consent are
1. What made you suddenly retire from taking your ill son to the hospital and to start hating him?
2. What was/were your reason(s) for opposing the last operation on your wife and why did you sell her car?
It’s about 5am now and I have spent 13 hours working on this study (no sleep). I initially skimmed through it (just the way you did) and began hating Kevin, But reading the associate’s side of the story, sent me back to library. If you also have studied this story hard (like I did) then we may talk but if you did not, LISTEN!
These are only my views, I have not met or seen any of the parties, someone only gave the web link to me, I do not intend to put heads together or direct the statement to them; it is purely for the reading pleasure of other internet users. MAY HER GENTLE SOUL REST IN PEACE, AMEN!


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