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ok fine, if you say so, u know all, rite? even if 9/11 was as a result of some stupid block head callin himself/herself a muslim dont judge the other muslims based on that. but like i said, i dont want2start arguing dt out, i shld be sleepin but i cant, Allah answers my prayers, u have no idea how well.

tell me its my imaginaton but do i sense some kind of hostility from u? why?

ok lets see, i want to know right from the beginnin that the friendship isnt entirely innocent as in, i know he wants me, he lets me know he wants me and that i drive him crazy, but he is willing to take it slow for both of us.
slow, but not too slow, in the sense that, when i strat flashin my red lights to you, u dont turn a blind eye to it(ie, if we watchin a romantic movie and i scoot close to you, maybe i want to be kissed but that dont mean i wanna have sex oh!)


" if I'm interested in a girl i'm either trying to date her or hit it, both of which i think are very innocent drives/missions"---0h so, u think tryin to hit a girl is innocent? lol, interestin, give me an idea of a scenario in one of ur dates, without the explicit images,lol, maybe i van try and explain what i mean

zebudaya:
That's what I'm trying to do now, you know go from friendship to lover, but you women have a funny way of leaving a brother in [b]friendland [/b]unexpectedly. and you don't even give him a return ticket. That's why i always go for the kiss on the first date sometimes it feels rushed. Then that kind of commits you. However i don't really feel attracted to female friends who like me. I guess I'm conflicted.

---it depends, if i know ur intentions from the beginning are not entirely innocent but u still give me time, then why in the world would i leave you in friendland, when im ready and i really like you? i would like to take things slow but not too slow.give me time to get to know you, to let you see me in my rattiest t-shirt and know i dont always look like i just stepped put of a glam magazine etc, b4 we decide that we r gnna commit

about not likin girls who like you and likin those who dont, guess what? u arent alone!!!we girls(some of us) are suckers for assholes! so relax, it aint a problem, i think?

Tayo D, i beg to differ, how can Islam as a religion, be the root cause? Islam as a religion that has taught me EVERYTHING good about myself? Tayo D, i seriously disagree with your statement, there is absolutely nothing bad about my religion but there is something imperfect about the people practising the religion, we are ALL imperfect.

don't generalise, it aint rite! just because some muslims do this, doesnt mean all muslims are like this, its just not rite. i NEVER generalise, i let your attitude determine my attitude towards you-christain, muslim, jew, atheist or whoever. im not God, i never judge so why should you judge me by someone else's actions?

and yeah, pious men that go to paradise have been promised 72 virgins, well, i dont know why but sumfin dt God has said, mere mortal minds can not figure it out, so dont try to and drop it! and where in the Qur'an, have you seen where it said, violence is the rite way? pls quote.

i think i've dealt with the different accusations, and i hope ii did it well, now can we go back to the issue at hand? incase you have forgotten its the "middle east crises"pple pls come up with realistic ideas! thanks in advance.

m4malik, ok i admit it, i was a lil bit nasty to you and thats bcuz i have read some of your posts and i'm seriously not impressed, u sound like someone who just hates muslims! but thats ok(not really) because they are alot of muslim haters here and they(some of the christains) quote the hadiths(real hadiths or fake) just to try and support their claims! the real hadiths, they twist it to support their arguments.

i'm willin to forget my prejudices, only if you promise we discuss this civilly, no name callin(its not my thing), no false accusations, any accusations you make, you must have a solid proof,ok?

m4malik:
Please don't be so hurt - truth hurts, yes. . . but we're all seeking to understand these matters. It's not that people just don't want to understand your religion; what we can't understand is why all the hate and instigation in the Qur'an against non-Muslims? On the one hand Muhammad said there should be no compulsion in religion; and on the other hand he actually tried to coerce people into Islam and won't let them be if they chose not to follow his religion. The point is, why put them to death simply because they chose other religions?

what proof have you that Prophet Muhammed(SAW) killed anybody who refused to accept islam? you know thats not true, rite? muslims actually believe in Jesus, we think he was also a prophet but not God. like you said, there is no compulsion in religion, i wont respect you any less because u don't believe in my God, what makes me respect you is the way you handle yourself and the way you treat me. by coerce, i think u mean force? then no, he didnt coerce them, he just tried to convince them but never forced anyone


"As for the idea of pressurizing Governments in whatever country to act towards a cease-fire, that may be a brilliant idea; but in reality it will achieve virtually nothing while the war goes on. I'm still of the view that negotiations and diplomatic round-table talks based on "political correctness" is only scratching the surface of the matter. They should come full circle with the issue and address its roots without treating such groups as the Hezbollah with kid gloves. "--- i'm glad you think its a good idea, and yeah i agree with adressing the problem from its roots but for now, and we take things step by step and so lets start by stoppin the killin of these innocent people in the middle east through cease fire, then we can start discussin issues, killlin people isnt dealin with the matter from its root, you know?

guys, i sigh, why does this have to change to another islam hate thread? the head of the thread says "what can be done"? not why islam is like this or why you guys only see the bad side of islam, but (aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh, i sigh again) i guess i have to deal with the different accusations, one by one.

diddy4:
where were u when 9/11 happened? isnt it the same muslims that caused the wahala huh? pressurize which government? for which country? go to aso villa and see if baba wont send monkeys on you. i said pray and u no one pray abi your muhammed (forgive the spelling) no dey answer prayer?

- well, 1) have you ever watched the documentary about the 9/11 commission(inquiries into what really happened on sept 11? if u have, how can u still say that its muslims that did this? have u read Micheal Moore's book, Fahrenheit 9/11? if u have and u still still blame muslims for 9/11, then we need to talk and besides even if Osama bin Laden actually did that, which i don't believe he did, how can you blame muslims for his actions? he is an independent being and i am an independent being, you can't blame me for his actions, just the way i can't blame you for Judas betraying Jesus or for the actions of some nasty christains on nairaland just because you're all christains.

Pressurerizing the govts doesnt mean, you go to the presidents house to talk to him personally, u can send letters, email or what'er to head of your local govt or whoever is in charge! and besides, it was just a suggestion, if u have a better idea u can bring it up, i am open to ideas.
"isnt it the same muslims that caused the wahala huh?" diddy, you're totally misunderstandin me here(purposely or genuine, i don't know) but do u know its not just muslims who r being killed in this conflict? there are so many Americans who are there for tourism. Isreali's are also being killed and Isreali's are not muslims as we both know.

so please lets get back to the issue, if im the only one feelin this sort of sympathy for the victims, you can just tell me to take my head and stick it where the sun don't shine and cry my heart out ok? i wont die, i see suffering in Nig, i know i'll get over it but i just want to feel like i've done something, i may not succeed but it wont hurt to try.

just tot i'd deal with this, we dont see Prophet Muhammed (u got the spellin rite) as God, ahn ahn, he is human like us and not above makin mistakes, he acknowledged that himself. Allah, is our only GOD.

@ diddy4, yup im a muslim, a non apolegetic one! i love my religion and it hurts me to see that people just dnt understnd it or just don't want to understand it.
and thanks but u know whta i think we can do? everybody in general, christains and muslims, we can all get the addresses of the govts in whatever country we are in and pressurize them.that way, maybe they'll be a cease fire and they can talk things out. most of the people sufferin are civilians and i saw a 19yr old, isreali soldier, you could tell the guy was scared sh*tless! lets do sumfin, please, this saddens my heart, this are human beings and i don't know what i'd do if i were in their shoes!

about Afeni being a human being, i was just being sarcastic,
and m4malik, i said no meanies! ok? learn more about islam b4 u start postin false accusations here, ok?

look guyz, nuff of the hate threads and all, muslim or christain, we are all human beings(apart from Afeni ofcourse) and forget your prejudices and think and think fast, apart from praying, what do you think we can do about the situation in the middle east? i mean, we have got to be able to do sumfin apart from seeing people suffering and cryin out our hearts!

i mean today, i saw something on CNN, and they showed an 8-months old baby, the brother and the mother(who just recieved news of her husband's death!) i mean, couldnt hold back the tears, a rocket had hit them and it was packed with a chemical that burns whoever it hits! the baby as well as the young boy had burns, the young boys own was so bad that he couldnt open his eyes and his screams and cries were soul tearin, thinkin about it is painful. you should have seen'the baby's spasm when being treated!

guyz we have got to do sumfin, pls, soon.

what do you guyz suggest? and please no meanies here!!!

lmao!

For Seun: The Site Administrator

Hi Seun, I need your help please.

How do you send personal messages to someone?

And how come, when you are replying a post, you can't insert a quote from the previous page?

how many brothers fell victim to the streets
rest in peace young nigga, there's a heaven for gee's
be a lie, if i told you that i never thought of death, my nigga relax whats left
and life goes on---life goes on-2pac

word!!! u tell 'em!

lol

Seun:
This is a commendable goal but the best way to achieve this is to own a profitable business with 'manly' jobs and employ women. The NGO route is not the right route to take.

-thanks but u say the NGO route isnt the right way to achieve this? what exactly do you mean? if you are talking about UNICEF, its really an inter governmental organizatoin. and that should give me the leverage i need. but thanks anyway, but correct me,if you dont think i understand you.

lol, favour5.
i cant believe u guyz dont know? wow! and here i tot i was surrounded by intelligent pple! well, i guess its my job to educate you, when the guys get married to the women, the men become monsters,cheatin on them, beating them up and etc, so its simple, they put rat poison in their foods!
shockin innit?lmao, okay, guyz i have a sick sense of humour! i was just joking, i hope i havent scared guys like Zebudaya and Orikinla who think the singlelife is paradise? u knows why guys die earlier? only God knows!

abi? guyz r so wrong that, as soon as you marry, she relaxes cuz all she needed was a guy to put a ring on her finger!
u guyz must think that the world of women revolves around you? uhn? itry and put yourselves in a married woman's shoes!

roflmao,. u guyz r soo mrean and funny!
like RHea said, see levels, the guy wan use style get babes nos! u no even say "calling club"flashing club!!! my God, u r either a damn good comedian or a clueless guy! lol, flashing club, its still ticklin me!

lol, ka, the scenario u invented is really funny, esp the part where ka calms down, after ku has told him, he'll triple his pay! lol
guys!!! and u say women r all about money!lol

under pressure, i lose it! so like Seun said, i plan in advance, i absolutely hate pressure(imagined or real), i just hate it.

(15/09/07) 22:19 PM
hmmm, was lookn at my previous posts n came across dis, actually, I try to avoid workin under pressure cuz i like to think I gave my best in every sense but if push comes to shove, i dont mind pressure, keeps me on my toes.

i guess it depends on what u would like to do, i definitely would love to reach the high ranks but being my own boss, it doesnt sound too appealin to me. i would love a partner maybe, someone to share ideas with, to discuss decisions, a shoulder to cry over wrong decisions with, so i guess, im not so crazy about being my own boss.

gem87:
for me - i'm going to be a social worker because i want to help people and make a difference in people's lives
then open an NGO (non-governmental organisation) to help young people
and open up a business - the last 2 in naija of course

---*clap,clap,clap* good4u!

lets see, what i'd like to do with my life?, i'd like to work for an organization like UNICEF because it has to do with helping children and disadvantaged women, i'm doing that with law ofcourse, so i'd like to be a damn good lawyer, an excellent one.
i'd like to practise in Africa because my loyalties lie with Africa, i'd really like to see the end of child abuse(in all forms), i'd like to see a woman doing the jobs considered "manly" without eye brows being raised! i'd like to make a difference in the situation of women and children all over.

really touched my heart, its the way by Clay Aiken, my God, just thinkin bout the video is giving me goose bumps(its really lovely)_{aahhhhhhhh, why dont things like happen in real life?}

zebudaya:
so me,myself how would you like to be asked out, whatz your dream scenario?

Zebudaya, u really wanna know my "dream scenario" truth be told? i've got none! i dont expect to be picked up in a party or on the streets like im some kinda , i expect us to be friends then gradually it grows. "i guess, im a dreamer.

lol guyz, laughin real bad, e pele oh!!! well, u guys r all makin me laugh, sorry mexxy.

kelvinO:
me,myself
you build iron gate around your heart not knowing you aslo imprison your heart.
telling yourself its ok would not mend your heart. you might not know it now, but believe me when he comes around you would.

---*thinkin* so what do you suggest, KelvinO? that i set myself up for heartbreak? nah, dont worry bout me, i aint worrying. but thanks

lol @dbou, ofcourse he's gotta have money like hot angel said, we all need money not for frivolous things or wat'er but for security, and then i dont want2bcum his sugar mommy or sumfin,

LiquidMind:
When ever you see a hot chick alone.
just walk straight up to her and say

Dude: Hi (and wait for response)
Hot chick : Hello
Dude : I am suspecting your dad is a terrorist
Hot chick : what do you mean
Dude : yes, I think so but don't be angry with me
Hot chick: why (wondering in her mind what is going on)
Dude : yes (with a smile shining his teeth's licking his tongue)
Hot chick : (got confused )
Dude : I think your dad must be a terrorist cause you are a bomb

Just be sincere and tell her your intentions that you are impressed

oh puhleaze!!!! u got no idea what goes on in girls mind(obviously), if a girl is hot, these lines would definitely not work4her! cuz she's probably heard them lik, 90000000000billion times!!!! be more creative(no offence meant)

[quote author=dbou link=topic=18181.msg503995#msg503995 date=1153348649

@ topic all women want is money ( I am not be killed for this )
[quote][/quote]---awwwww, why not? kill joy!!! lol

lmao, e tire me oh!!!