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So sad

skywalker240:
That was then

Now my wife de always make sure I chop before I comot house and before I return, food don bell up me

Nice one

skywalker240:
My guy come try eating out for Benin city make you know wetin life de talk

You go chop 1200 naira worth food in the afternoon, you go hungry before 45mins

Am safe to conclude, You might probably be in one of those northern states where foodstuffs and restaurants food's are excessively cheap and served in large quantities 8

Over here in Benin

2 meat= 200 each

4 wraps of fufu (the size of a 1 year old baby's fist) = 100 naira each

Vegetables soup= 150

Orha soup= 150

Egusi and ogbonor= free

As for spoon

Rice= 400 (na that one aldut fit eat)

2 meat= 200 each

Spaghetti= 200

Or

2 meat= 200 each

Boiled Beans=200

Rice=300

4 pieces of Dodo (fried plantain) =150

Boiled egg = 100 naira

In the evening

Palm Oil beans = 250 (na that one aldut fit eat)

Bread (small) = 150

Pap = 200

Milk = 250

Sugar (optional)=50

Calculate all those prices for a week, then you'll know nothing beats cooking at home even if it involves gas, stove, firewood or even electric plates.

As for variety, won't argue that, but cooking at home has its own advantage, as you can add what and what were not added to the recipe

But eating out variety or not, is darn expensive

Just see how you dey waste money

ashewoboy:
I'm serious. I'm about to make a decision.

Damn the consequences, eat out their food dey sweet

otipoju:
As you be so called big boy..you for buy your specs by yourself and let him stop disturbing you. Ingrate!!!

Asin just see the entitlement, hmm anybody try such with me you will never hear from me again you think say them do am from Village, everybody for area know say you be big boy yet you can't afford anything, you are headed for disaster, looking at your brothers money don't go and work for your own

Lord gave mercy upon us in this country, we have sinned, please forgive us, we will do the right thing in 2023..all these killings to what end please?, I wish from north to south and everywhere will be peaceful then we will truly enjoy Nigeria.. The post8c8e change has to start from the top

tollyboy5:
I like this man.

Na someone like fashola. He should just leave werey ipobians and do his job.

IPOBIANS militant are senseless

Don't quote me ☺️

I quoted to tell you that you are right

This Ipob guys don't have sense, so they even know what they are doing?, this one have passed agitation or political issues, they are just plain stupid

JAMO84:
I am waiting for statement from Peter Obi


Ipob Terrorists are making life difficult for Igbo presidential aspirants


If this happens in the north, we would have seen like a billion statements from southern leaders already.

Shut up, insecurity in the north has it ever stopped northern president?, you will just open mouth

dawnomike:
She sat up for those considered significant to her ..

What does she know?

fayetegany:
but what is that old woman looking for there, why is she even there to begin with!

It's Lagos, she might be going about her business and the crowd got her stuck there..

But they can kill

MrBrownJay1:
i understand what you mean and your "preferences, but just because YOUR EGO IS MISPLACED, doesnt mean they are different. the sole reason that you look down on one and not the other, is because another man is still alive aka in the picture. why should that be a problem to you? its not like you are gonna adopt the child and make it your own. you are dating THE MOTHER and this child already has a father and doesnt need a new one. just focus on your woman etc and basta. yes, you may spend a little money on the child, big deal, so what?! its a small price to pay for having a happy family.

Bros they are different, the father if alive will always be in the picture. If he is no more then mother and child are free to create a lasting bond with you but if the father is there after all his Bleep up, he can come and cry both mother and child will blindly forgive and leave you that have been struggling to cater for them for years.

To ell the truth, I banned my girl from putting lashes of all things. When I see girls with that long lashes next thing on my mind is they are call gurls, don't e surprised your toasters don't value you, they just see you as a cheap girl they want to do quickie with.. My honest truth sha

Zanzibar1:
I have come here to raise this issue because i believe someone must have passed through what i am going through at the moment.

There is this Lady i met in March, she is super classy and has all the curves and looks like a model. What brought us together was just a friendly convo and a friendly tease that i admire her nails and since then she has been all over me.
She asked me if i lived alone and i told her i currently stay with a friend because i just relocated to the city based on job hunting levels. She asked what my plan was and i told her that i would like to first get an apartment while i sort out other things.

I don't know what exactly she does for a living although she said she sells women hairs, bags and shoes. I have actually seen her post them on her whatsapp. What surprise me the most was that she doesn't deny me access to her phone. This made me to loosen my grip a bit regarding my phone privacy ... Then one day, she saw a loan app message requesting me to pay my outstanding debt, she asked me how come and i told her the truth that i was seriously broke and i wanted to take her out. I wanted the two of us to go swim together and have fun. And that was why i took the loan. She frowned and asked why i was stressing myself to impress her .
She transfered some money to me to offset the debt. it all happened like juju. i am still trying to wrap my head around that.

I am trying my best to fit in with her but something is really off somewhere. I don't want to assume i know entirely what she does for a living but then, i have grown to really admire her. I wouldn't want to call it love but all my thoughts are always about her nowadays. Like 4 days ago i questioned her about some friends of hers i saw on her icloud and since then she has been giving me tough time.

Lately, she told me point blank that if i cant get my own apartment, she'll have to stop dating me. she said she is ready to even pay part of the money involved but a nigga got nothing to afford even a face me and face you room. I have tried my best to explain to her how i am even surviving and how broke i am to get a 150k self con. She keeps saying i am going to get a job and ill be fine, that i am a man and i will certainly raise the money if she as a lady can raise part of it.

I dont know why she believes so much in that tho cuz i have been very opened to her. My mind has been filled up and i dont have anyone to share it with thats why i brought it here. i have my doubts about her but i love her.

Please pardon any typos, i am writing this straight from my heart

You see someone trying to push you to be better you in your own does not believe that you will be better, instead you believe in loans and poor decisions... Try and raise any amount and get whatever you can afford

Onyi22:
To the mod that banned me for 8 months, it will never be well with your wife

lol

Abetterperson:
Have actually tried that, but he seems to sink into a huge depression, any way I can help with that.
Yesterday would have been a month he stopped intake, but his brother request for money and he was so depressed on how to get the money he wanted that stuff again.
He's the one paying for his brothers university fees, his mom lapo debt, his sister school fees.
He's carrying the responsibility of a father at the age of 22
Mind u his not into Yahoo, he works from morning till night, sometimes I see the pain in his eyes but I feel helpless, I'm still a student
How can I help with his depression with telling him to cut his family off, they clearly the problem, his mom as even advised him to enter Yahoo, imagine

You want him to cut his family off so that what will happen?, look girl can you just leave that guy alone?, he smokes weed and so?, nobody is perfect, if you can't cope and he can't seem to stop then go find the person that doesn't smoke na leave the young man alone, you are selfish

decub:
I've made the mistake of using BCOB in formal correspondences (email though) a couple of times but I noticed the recipient once responded with the same abbreviation.

We actually get along as partners but his superiors are always copied in the mails. Sometimes I get carried away because of the ability to respond to official mails on the go.

BCOB is quite normal to an extent

Sir please spare us all this story

Sonyboom765:
Lunatics like you deserve to be St NW to death or burnt alive with every member of your household. You same igbos that insult Tinubu Fashola Oshibajo Amechi Akpabio Lai Okorocha of being fraudsters without conviction are the ones demanding conviction for this daredevil Pandora kleptomaniac criminal Peter Obi after the bastard was caught red-handed with over N250 million cash in his convoy. It is God almighty that will punish you entire household for demanding a court conviction for this criminal before he can be exposed.

Prove of the Pandora kleptomaniac criminal are everywhere starring you in the face. W wey cried you bastards accuse Buhari's son Ganduje Akpabio Tinubu Amechi of are all allegations as well but you continue spiking their name I wonder why that of a daredevil criminals like the Pandora kleptomaniac criminal like Peter Obi should now be different.

Thunder fire your fada you dey mad, bring proof you just dey spit for here, what's my business with all the nonsense you are saying?

Opolopoopolonio:
Because he has his eyes on top job and must not be seen to be rebelling against his boss.

Lol okay

Opolopoopolonio:
Even PDP praised him when he as acting as president...

He should have resigned so that your father will become VP abi The VP platform is going to help his push for the top job.

Every reasonable non-mischievous person knows Buhari and Osinbajo are light years apart in terms of leadership skills with Buhari being the villain here.

He worked for villian without complain for 8 years sooo...

Opolopoopolonio:
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Gerrout!

We saw what he did when he called the shots in acting capacity.

It's time for his own chance.

You too gerrout

It cos his oga is a collosal failure that's why it was like he was better but after 8 years they are one and the same... If say e wan be president and wants better he would have resigned abegiii spare us

That one consign you, you had your chance with your oga

Sonyboom765:
It is foolhardy for any rational being to support a criminal like Pandora after he was caught with N250 million cash in Lagos. So fool claim that was was small but this bastard graduate to laundering over $500 million dollar into his daughter Pandora account few years later proving he is now a big time thief.

Nigerians should shine their eye this type of criminals are not what we should fight to have southern presidency. Oshibajo Amechi Wike etc. Are there we can chose from not this Pandora kleptomaniac criminal some fools are trying to sell as saint after he as been exposed as a diehard criminal.

Are you done?, pandora pandora just talk no concrete evidence, it's a shame you just posted only headlines from blogs and stuff.. Go and find more on google

Wetin dey worry this one?

oseahumenb:
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Pics attached..

About six months ago, I returned home from work and discovered that my wife and four children were no where to be found. I also noticed her that belongings and that of the children were missing.

I quickly dashed out of my flat and went to my neighbours to enquire of their whereabout. I was shocked to my bone marrows when they narrated to me how a man accompanied my wife to move out her belongings. When they tried to intrude the man warned them of serious consequences.

That was when it dawned on me that my wife whom I have caught severally on the phone discussing with her lover on the phone has finally done her worst.
On two occasions I caught her sneaking around with her phone, in the midnight I discovered an Sms that the so-called lover sent she was fast asleep . I cannot divulge the content here because it was disgusting to me at first.
I reported to the pastor and she was warned. Then the identity of the lover wasn't known to me. I just let it go, because I still needed the marriage for the sake of my four children.
However, I began to investigate without her knowing. Then I discovered that the secret lover was a custom officer, named Adeniyi Adesola, he was in Ibadan command. He is married with children.
One day he called my wife and I just could bear the insults, I confronted him on phone I warned him to stay away and reminded him that she was married.
Then he started abusing me and even threatened to kill me. He revealed to me that he knew my wife before I married her. He told me to backoff and let him always have access to her or he will kill me.
I reported the matter to the ekpan police station warri. The IPO who was a lady advised me to thread with caution and report to my family which I did.
I am from Edo State and my wife is from Ondo state. The custom officer is from Ekiti state. The custom officer, Adesola was intimidating me because I was not understanding their language.

I gave my wife everything she needed. I got a loan of 5m from a bank to set up a business for her. She squandered the money and there is nothing to show now in the shop. The bank has started moving in on me, I don't know what to do.

The custom officer I heard has kept my wife and children in Ibadan because his wife couldn't take it.
MY children are not in school and my wife just gave birth to a baby for the custom officer.
Meanwhile, she has not returned the bride price but she has delivered a baby for the customs officer.
Now I want the custom officer, Adeniyi Adesola to release my wife, Helen Bose and my children with immediate effect because he has charmed them.
Pls nairaland admins put this story on front page pls.. I need my children. They are not in school.
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Sir please and please forget about your wife and your marriage, even If she comes back do not agree, that woman can kill you in cold blood, I know you love your children but let them be please... Relocate from your current life and begin a new life

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

Please just leave her alone it's not your business

quinox947:
Must you drink anything you see? Assuming it was Ogbanje or Otapiapia that was written on the bottle would you have also taken if. I like you NEVER you try it again. You hear?

tans sir

habsydiamond:
Dead man's finger!!! For naija we no dey fear even if dem write dead man's coffin.. My people go still take.. Las las na to dey donate for them to do transplant.

Wetin that drink do me last year ehn, make them arrest them please

bro4u:
Christianity is the real definition of Peace. No protest, no killings etc.



Weak? You call Christians weak?? Bro we've passed that stage of conquest cos Christianity already conquered the world and it is still firmly in it's grip.

When the Christians of old were setting up crusades then I even fear those guys more.. But we believed in God and work by the new testament now

Una don start