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I never asked a guy out. I will never.

You guys want to recreate the "definition" of virginity, so you can uplift your self-esteem


If you are non-virgins accept it, what the need for the criticisms.

Are you guys trying to find an excuse for why you are having sex?

You guys want to recreate the dictionary of virginity, so you can uplift your self-esteem.

@ bawomolo

I did not start this thread.


I am not a pro-virgin. Everyone should live their life the way they want. This is just my choice. I do not look down on non-virgins.

I do not like people saying that being a virgins is just la ack of opportunity or just no penetrations because of their guilty consciousness and jealous issues.

Since everyone is having sex, then that means that it is right.

Why don't you guys just be non-virgins without the need to put virgins down? To me, that shows that many are not happy even though they are having sex?

Live your life without putting others down.

You have to marry a woman that you know really well.

Don't marry any how.

You men are telling me that you would marry a woman who has slept with 50 men.

Character is shown through one's actions

You men are telling me that you would marry a women who has slept with 50 men.

Character is shown through one's actions

@ tipa stop trying to be difficult.

Unfortunately, Bill Clinton could have been divorced.

Children look up to their parents. The good and bad examples.

I believe that virgins are more likely to make better partners.

Even god is against premarital sex. That is enough said.

You can't compare a woman who have slept with more than 20 men to a virgin.

I am a virgin and proud to be one.

Keep Laughing.

How can you increase your possibilities of martial success? Do as many of these divorce proofing your marriage things as possible and the better statistical chance of remaining married you will have.

FIRST, keep your virginity, and don't marry any one that’s not a virgin, been shacked up, or divorced.

SECOND, don't marry any one that has a divorced parent.

THIRDLY, don't marry any one that has a divorced grandparent (this is almost impossible).

FOURTHLY, don't marry any one that belongs to a church that allows for divorce and remarriage. Now you say that is IMPOSSIBLE. Maybe for you and I but not for some people. We will all reap the fruit of the decisions we sow in life.

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Virgins are more likely to have a successful marriage.


That just COMMON SENSE.

Virgins are more LIKELY to have better relationships.

Lets speak the truth.

I said LIKELY

What is the big deal? so what?

Big Deal !!!

This thread is stupid. It is just filled with stereotypes.

It is a two way street

You can not blame just the Nigerian women for lack of romance or the men.

Both are to blame.

To the remarks that Nigerian women just want money, this is stupid.
Most Nigerian men use their money to get the women they want, but if you don't want
a gold digger then why are you using your money to impress her in the first place. You will be
surrounded by women who love money. You can not eat your cake and have it. Every thing comes with
a price.

I have been in situation when a Nigerian men wanted to buy me something expensive but I said no.
I could have used him for his money but I believe a relationship should be deeper than that.
Men give women the opportunity.

Men like Chacal come here to complain but he is the cause of why he date women that love money.
This is a fact because look at the Movie "Coming to America"

Coming to America is the best romantic movie of all time. Maybe it did not make the most money in comparison to other romantic films
but I think this is the best.

It all comes down to character, respect, and love
If the rich and ugly has that then he is my choice.
If the poor and cute has that then he is my choice.

@ Chacal

You are just showing your ignorance.

Not every Nigerian woman wear weave.

@ Chacal

He is acting like he just came from the air.

Every woman love us and we so good. LOL

@ Chacal

Why do Nigerian men have sense?

Their is a Nigerian women that raised them right.

Do not be disrespectful.

Also the father but since you were rude I just stating the Nigerian mother.

If you forget gender and skin color, Hillary Clinton is the best president.

Clinton for President!!!!

Clinton for President !!!

Obama is not going to win the general election Mcain will win in the end.

If the Clinton does not win Obama is not going to win the election, but Mcain will win in the end.

What do you women think about Nigerian men?

Just leave her.

Great Post. Thanks

How did Nigeria get their independence?