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Travel › Re: Top 10 Cleanest Cities In Africa 2019 by merits(m): 9:12am On Aug 07, 2019
[quote author=Codedrock post=80996413][/quote]We can't take this,Lagos must be included.
Romance › Re: DJ Dimple Nipple Storms Benin Club Braless (Photos) by merits(m): 9:04am On Aug 07, 2019
Famousbabe:
Source:
Omo wali asiri
Politics › Re: Owolabi Salis Wins At Appeal Court by merits(m): 8:57am On Aug 07, 2019
shadelek:
I don't understand why these aspirants keep listening to bad advice. You've lost, accept your fate. If them like, make them carry the hearings go Abuja, you've just niyeh. By the way, I saw Atiku's picture some days ago, the guy is reducing in weight. He's yet to recover from the shock he experienced during the last general election.
grin d guy man lost money no be small oo shocked
Romance › Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by merits(m): 8:52am On Aug 07, 2019
SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help
Bro plzzzz lets swap cuz me am tired of them already.all wat i need now is money,to blow hard!!!!
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo's 55th Birthday Dinner, Slays In Cleavage-Baring Outfit (Photos) by merits(m): 8:43am On Aug 07, 2019
VRDroid:
Is illiteracy a virtue?
Gla doh mu,dts hw u b.
Politics › Re: Indians Welcome Zakzaky Medical Tourism To Their Country by merits(m): 8:42am On Aug 07, 2019
tsdarkside:
no no....let asia have their wahala....

too much enemies for him in nigeria....

you are forgeting sunnis dont like shias....
Ok tnx,for d broad idea i appreciate.
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo's 55th Birthday Dinner, Slays In Cleavage-Baring Outfit (Photos) by merits(m): 8:39am On Aug 07, 2019
VRDroid:
You can clear up your mind even though it is a mess. You can even change your mind. But it is literal, you will practically use all your hidden energy and twitch your mental power for hours for effect, but you may not be able to sleep some nights due to the effects, but after which miracles happen.

A very hidden science only few have mastered but hard to teach. Very hard.
.
It pain am,that's how star do grin
Yu cn neva understand, check yor bak is already ablaze. huh
Politics › Re: Indians Welcome Zakzaky Medical Tourism To Their Country by merits(m): 8:36am On Aug 07, 2019
pressmanng:
After Court had granted the leader of Islamic Movement in Nigeria popularly Known as Shiites, Ibrahim Zakzaky Bail to go for Medical Tourism to India, Some Indians have started welcoming him ahead of his arrival.

India is not a Muslim Nation but of the Muslim nationals in the Coutry there are sizeable amount of Shiites among them.

Indian Shiites have taken to Twitter to show their joy of welcoming Zakzaky to their country.

Below is the screen shoot of what some of them are saying:

https://www.pressmanng.com/2019/08/indians-welcomes-zakzaky-medical.html?m=1
So no any special hospital can treat him here in Nigeria,so why do we still have medicine as a course in our institutions?when federal government don't have confidence in them as a medical practitioners.
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo's 55th Birthday Dinner, Slays In Cleavage-Baring Outfit (Photos) by merits(m): 8:21am On Aug 07, 2019
itspzpics:
Controversial Kemi Olunloyo display her cleavage in a gorgeous outfit at her 55th birthday dinner she organized.

Many celebrities like Iyabo Ojo, Pretty Mike and others attended the birthday bash to celebrates with Madam Kemi. In one of her post after displaying her cleavage, she said Tpyin Lawani said her breast still look firm at 55. Lol

See more below

Gist From Praizenews ; http://www.praizenews.com/kemi-olunloyo-rock-cleavage-barring-outfit-at-her-birthday-dinner/
See as she be like undone moin-moin.

Phones › Re: NCC Fines Airtel, 9mobile N136m For Violating Industry Regulations by merits(m): 7:17am On Aug 07, 2019
johnaruson:
AIRTEL SCAMMED ME: The dangled 3GB for 1k but when i paid the gave me 1.5GB instead of 3GB which they offered. Which way Nigeria?
Bro,awoof dey run belle oo.
Phones › Re: NCC Fines Airtel, 9mobile N136m For Violating Industry Regulations by merits(m): 7:13am On Aug 07, 2019
When they pay all this fine,where the money dey go seff.na so so figure we dey see everyday.....
Phones › Re: Telecoms Services Worsen Over Interconnect Debts by merits(m): 7:06am On Aug 07, 2019
That's not a big deal na,debt na normal thing.even 9ja seff owe debt.so this shouldn't be an issue.
Plz next.
Travel › Re: My Summer Trip To Lyon, Geneva and Chamonix Mont-Blanc! by merits(m): 11:25am On Aug 06, 2019
davide470:
Hi Guys,

In the spirit of the season, I will be detailing my visit to these beautiful cities on a tight budget. Lyon and Chamonix Mont-Blanc are in the South of France while Geneva is in Switzerland.

The beauty of free movement among member states in the Schengen zone cannot be overemphasized as it has created lot of opportunities and revenue for the participating countries. Even Croatia, Romania and Bulgaria have applied to join the zone seeing what other countries are benefiting.

So my journey started from Paris. I booked a Bus from the Bercy Seine Station en-route to Lyon, the trip was about 5 hours and it costs €17.

My plan is to spend a night in Lyon and 2 nights at Geneva with a day return tip to Chamonix since it is just an hour away from Geneva.

So follow me as we explore wink

Pics - Bus to Lyon
Even their sky look good,not like our own angry sky here,cuz of atrocities we committed every seconds.
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Marries His Older Oyibo Lover. See Reactions by merits(m): 8:31am On Aug 06, 2019
chiommy123:
Gone are the days when men work hard to make geniue income.
But today reverse is the case
Politics › Re: Revolution Now Protest In Osun: Elderly Woman Brutalized By Police (Photo) by merits(m): 8:19am On Aug 06, 2019
Oshigun:
You guys are disgusting with your wicked and vengeful hearts. You only live to celebrate what you believe to be negative development for Nigeria/Yoruba/Fulani. It is only you nitwit deeming this a fight between Yoruba and Fulani. Last I checked, the number two and number four Nigerians are Yorubas so your mor.onic reasoning is dead on arrival

Even assuming all protestors were Yoruba, which can never be the case in Lagos, would it not make sense they are just protesting against the Government, which consist of powerful Yorubas, and not "Fulani". You guys are petty and parochial and this is the reason you are fifth class today and zero in Nigerian politics.
Why are you wasting your energy replied
the hope foo.l na?
Crime › Re: Stray Bullet Pierces Through Man’s Car While Driving Along Ikorodu, Lagos by merits(m): 6:12pm On Aug 05, 2019
GistMore3:
A man identifies with id @onosbarov escaped death after stray bullets pierces through his car while driving along the Ikorodu road in Lagos.

He shared the post in his twitter timeline with caption:



See more photos here; http://gistmore.com/stray-bullets-pierces-through-mans-car-while-driving-along-the-ikorodu-road-in-lagos
God really save yu bro.
Car Talk › Re: The All-new Mercedes-benz GLE Is Now In Nigeria (PHOTOS) by merits(m): 6:08pm On Aug 05, 2019
angryThat's how star do.9ja is a star.
Politics › Re: Police Lack Powers To Stop Peaceful Protests – HURIWA by merits(m): 3:38pm On Aug 05, 2019
chinwezdasilva:
No job right?
Bro,work be like work no dey jor,everything just tire person seff.
Politics › Re: Police Lack Powers To Stop Peaceful Protests – HURIWA by merits(m): 3:35pm On Aug 05, 2019
400billionman:
Two gun killings in USA in one day left 29 people dead.

The first was in El Paso Texas, an immigrant suburb, they are already protesting with placards that Trump must Go. Why that the killer posted racist comments online 24 hours before the act.

Nigeria is not practicing DEMOCRACY and illiterate people make mockery of attempts to enthron true democracy in this country.
Bro i understand you,but in our country here,everything seems abnormal, from protests live ammo can be use against the protesters by the security agents.that's why we need to away from trouble.
This country doesn't worth die for.
Crime › Re: Nigerian Taxify Driver Shot Dead In South Africa by merits(m): 9:25am On Aug 05, 2019
alphonsojaybaz:
Nigerian Taxify driver shot dead in South Africa
source: https://eyesoflagos.com/2019/08/05/nigerian-taxify-driver-shot-dead-in-south-africa/


The Nigerian union in South Africa (NUSA) on Sunday confirmed the untimely death of Benjamin Okoronkwo, a 43-year-old Taxify driver, in Johannesburg.
Okoronkwo hails from Okposi, Ohaozara local government area in Ebonyi state.
According to a statement issued by Ikele Odefa, the union’s assistant national publicity secretary, the deceased was shot dead by unknown assailants at about 3am on August 3, in his car.
Eyes Of Lagos reports that NUSA has visited the scene of the ugly incident and subsequently opened a case of murder at Mofartview police station in Johannesburg south cluster.
Odefa said the deceased is survived by two children and a wife.
He said the union was calling yet again on law enforcement to investigate his murder and whoever was involved should be prosecuted.
The death toll of Nigerians killed in South Africa has continued to rise, with more than 120 lives lost since 2016.
9ja no good,and you left to country to seeks for greener pasture.at the end death, vanity upon vanity.
Politics › Re: Police Lack Powers To Stop Peaceful Protests – HURIWA by merits(m): 9:13am On Aug 05, 2019
There is a serious protest over here.......











Police should come to our rescue









Location: in my room grin








Guy stay away from trouble ooo.who protest help?
Politics › Re: 'Revolution Now' Protest By Sowore: Live Updates On August 5th Protest by merits(m):
Updates from my own side here:
i woke up in the morning,i took one of my almajir bowl,i headedstraight down the street with my left over #200 balance from paraga joint back home transport yesternight.
Me:mama basira do you have beans and bread.
Mama basira:yes beans dey with agege bread seff.
Me:give mama my bowl to mama to put beans #100 with plenty water and bread #100.
Mama basira: your money is #200
Me:ok,i paid and i left instata.
As i reached my house i dropped my food on the floor, and i went outside to fetched 4 litres gallon of water from my neighborhood tap.i came back,sat down with the food, i ate all,without any remnants for rats and coachroches to feed on,and step down the food with half of the water that fetched.Right now am still on the floor snoring and dreaming.in my dream i saw myself dining with bill gate,dangote and otedola in my own yacht...
Plz don't mind my grammar oooo.

I must be super rich one day,by God grace.
Good morning to you all,and stay away from trouble.
Events › Re: Checkout Photos From The 3rd Edition Of The Annual Port-harcourt Bole Festival by merits(m): 5:03pm On Aug 04, 2019
emeijeh:
Wow, nice.
I really enjoyed this meal combination with groundnut when I was still in Benin city.

Op, show us more photos so we can feel the carnival.
One picture is not enough .
Abeg,travel go there which more pics?you want my 10mb wey mtn just manage giv me finish ontop bole.
Romance › Re: Beautiful Pre-wedding Pictures Of Nicholai (slimchase) & Chiamaka by merits(m): 4:59pm On Aug 04, 2019
Raydos:
I just feel like crying, I don't know why!!!
Bro.why feel like crying na,are you not happy for them?
Romance › Re: Beautiful Pre-wedding Pictures Of Nicholai (slimchase) & Chiamaka by merits(m): 4:53pm On Aug 04, 2019
All nairalandians are super rich,bcuz of dividends we get from snake post per/hr. grin
Celebrities › Re: Davido Pushing A Physically Challenged Lady In A Wheelchair (Photos) by merits(m): 4:39pm On Aug 04, 2019
All na for camera stuff,davido the future governor of ede state
grin
Travel › Re: Inside Kim Jong Un Luxury Van For Viewing Missile Launches by merits(m): 11:02am On Aug 04, 2019
[quote author=dangoteinlaw post=80925237]now I see you are one of those Instagram dumb addicts. Real genius don't do Instagram, you find them on quora, reddit, YouTube, etc. Try using those apps more often to help your life instead of wasting your time on instablog and tundeednut. Happy Sunday [/qiuote]





Eyaah you are in pain.gabardine writer.
Travel › Re: Inside Kim Jong Un Luxury Van For Viewing Missile Launches by merits(m): 10:54am On Aug 04, 2019
dangoteinlaw:
stop being stupid. A tyranic president that decides to garnish all his country's income and spend on worthless rockets while his country wallows in poverty and hunger, that sounds A-okay to you right?
Have you being be there to know whether the country wallows in hunger and poverty?stop belief in bloggers and afar news.
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Buying Corn By The Roadside In Anambra State by merits(m): 10:41am On Aug 04, 2019
GistMore9:
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie shared a photo of herself buying corn and pear by the roadside in Anambra state.

The renowned author visited her hometown, Abba in Anambra state, and decided to get "oka na ube" (corn and pear).

Sharing the photo, she wrote: "Oka na ube. In my ancestral hometown, Abba, Anambra State, repository of so many happy memories."

See more here; http://gistmore.com/chimamanda-adichie-pictured-buying-corn-by-the-roadside-in-anambra-state
So i should go and race for traffic,abi.non.sense.
Foreign Affairs › Re: 9 Killed In Dayton In The 2nd Mass Shooting In The US In 24 Hours. by merits(m): 10:37am On Aug 04, 2019
Sellfish:
Hmmm

God's own Country indeed.... Imagine running away from Fulani Herdsmen in this shithole to Amelika only to get wasted by some crazy dumb fvck undecided
People that are saying 9ja is a shithole,no area is safe in this world untimely deaths everywhere.only God can save.
Foreign Affairs › Re: 9 Killed In Dayton In The 2nd Mass Shooting In The US In 24 Hours. by merits(m): 10:30am On Aug 04, 2019
naptu2:
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-49224816?ns_mchannel=social&ns_source=twitter&ns_linkname=news_central&ns_campaign=bbc_breaking
What's all this? Some people just wish to end this world by themself but God is above them.never be a trigger happy.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Gunman Open Fire In Texas Walmart, Killed Over 20 (Pics) by merits(m): 1:32am On Aug 04, 2019
Explorers:
Local reports indicate that at least 22 people were killed in the shooting in El Paso on Saturday.


Nearly two dozen people were reportedly killed and at least 22 others, including a four-month-old baby, were wounded on Saturday after a gunman reportedly opened fire inside a Walmart in El Paso.

One suspect is in custody.

Dan Patrick, Texas' lieutenant governor, said that the suspect in custody is a 21-year-old male.




https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7317905/El-Paso-police-say-theres-active-shooter-local-mall.html
What's all this for God sake?
The way am seeing things,their is no end time.humanbeing we use their hand by themself.

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