Romance › Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by mhizbel(f): 4:59pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
lefulefu: if a lady is too ridgid and laying down rules upandan the guy will think twice in marrying her. A normal man will want a lady who relaxes when she's around him and fun to be with. No be the babe wey go dey put down rules and dey put deadlines for the man to marry her sharp sharp . I am not too rigid neither am I boring. It's just that I have my own principles... yes, I can compromise a little bit but no, I can't compromise. |
Romance › Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by mhizbel(f): 8:26am On Dec 17, 2018 |
mogbojaiye: I suspect u are not married Becus u go too Tay for your papa hux
I will not cook for him until preparation are already kicking off
I will not wash his cloths untill preparation are already taking off
Hope u will b ok if he doesn't give u money untill untill both of u are married
But I kw u are still an undergraduate,,,,,,becus na there their sense day reach Ok.. |
Romance › Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by mhizbel(f): 8:25am On Dec 17, 2018 |
majekdom2: the problem is many of you see these things as big deal in relationship. Serving the other doesn’t make you lesser. Ask yourselves, if the same guy is able to wash my clothes, do my dishes, cook for me, why shouldn’t I do the same. This are. Or what relationships is about. Be emotionally intelligent to know the sacrifices the other person is making. Relationship is about sacrifice! You are making sense... You see, I have learnt to enjoy friendship/being single. If it is not yet defined it is just friendship, and if it is just friendship, there shouldn't be too much expectations. The problem some ladies have is that they allow themselves to be so tied to a relationship that is not going anywhere. I strongly agree with op said. You are not ready to get married, what then are you in a relationship for? |
Romance › Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by mhizbel(f): 8:07am On Dec 17, 2018 |
kandi006: Those were my stupid naive old days dear, ain't doing that shit for any man anymore.. let's all be having sense together now   |
Romance › Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by mhizbel(f): 7:44am On Dec 17, 2018 |
kandi006: They will secretly wanna study you for years thereby secretly wasting your time?
My dear, I’ve been there before trust me.. I washed toilet and clothes tire.. it doesn’t matter how domesticated you are.. A guy can study you for 5years and still not find a reason to commit, it the cruel world we find ourselves in today. Somany unrepentant time wasters out there. My dear you get strength o... I make sure I define my relationship from the very beginning. Oga I wee not cook for sombori who is not my husband, I wee not wash or clean anything. The least I can do is to give him some assistance while he's at it. In fact, I wee not even go visit him at his place till the relationship is very defined and preparations are already kicking off. |
Romance › Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by mhizbel(f): 7:28am On Dec 17, 2018 |
Toks2008: Trust me sis,its easy to dump a guy who have not had s.x with you but will be extremely difficult to leave a guy who have had his way with you countless times so i understand you. This is so true. |
Romance › Re: Is It Possible For A Girl To Break Up With You And Still Love You?? by mhizbel(f): 4:33pm On Dec 15, 2018 |
From what I read... I think you jumped into another relationship immediately after to spite your ex... Well, congrats! It worked. Some people make the mistake of immediately jumping into another relationship when they are yet to heal from the previous one(s). So, I'd advise you to take time to heal before you walk into another relationship. |
Romance › Re: Cute Pre Wedding Pics Of My Elder Brother by mhizbel(f): 11:12pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
Awwm... So beautiful! And they kinda look alike. I wish you a smooth ceremony and a fruitful marriage. |
Romance › Re: Lovely Pre-wedding Pictures Of Husband-To-Be And His Military Wife by mhizbel(f): 4:17pm On Dec 11, 2018 |
DanDeeBoss: Lol... It's a choice though... Abhii you be soldier?? No way! |
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Romance › Re: Lovely Pre-wedding Pictures Of Husband-To-Be And His Military Wife by mhizbel(f): 2:57pm On Dec 11, 2018 |
DanDeeBoss: Military wife No Military husband no, no, no, no. |
Romance › Re: What Did Your Last Relationship Teach You. by mhizbel(f): 2:52pm On Dec 11, 2018 |
It taught me that having a boyfriend is not a necessity. |
Romance › Re: 11 Things A Man Should Never Do For A Woman No Matter How Much You Love Her by mhizbel(f): 10:34pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: 11 Things A Man Should Never Do For A Woman No Matter How Much You Love Her by mhizbel(f): 10:33pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: A Nairalander And His Beautiful Fiancee's Introduction And Pre-wedding Pictures by mhizbel(f): 10:32pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: 11 Things A Man Should Never Do For A Woman No Matter How Much You Love Her by mhizbel(f): 12:25pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
All I can say is give expecting little or nothing at all in return. This applies to both sides. |
Romance › Re: A Nairalander And His Beautiful Fiancee's Introduction And Pre-wedding Pictures by mhizbel(f): 11:57am On Dec 10, 2018 |
sekembaakesan: The lady fine oooo...
I'm sure she is not Igbo So Igbo girls are not beautiful? |
Romance › Re: Beautiful Pre-wedding Photos Of A Nairalander That Will Take Your Breath Away. by mhizbel(f): 5:10pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
GuyWise101: ARSEless and BREASTtless girl mtcheew....
The man made a wrong choice. So big breast and yansh na correct choice ba?  |
Family › Re: What Should I Do Now??? by mhizbel(f): 10:24pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Lajet: You don't want your future husband relatives to live with you. but you will allow your own relatives to live with you I said I don't want any relative living with me. |
Family › Re: What Should I Do Now??? by mhizbel(f): 10:15pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Wuraola01: Lol.
Wives with siblings with them are trying a lot.
They have to just overlook and ignore everything done by them  Try to correct their wrong doings and you'd be tagged wicked. |
Romance › Re: My Life Is At Stake by mhizbel(f): 10:08pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Respect55: I didn't Well, next time involve prayers. |
Romance › Re: My Life Is At Stake by mhizbel(f): 11:05am On Dec 07, 2018 |
Respect55: I did. As a matter of fact, both parents work in the church. NO BACKGROUND STUDY CAN REVEAL THE REAL IDENTITY AND PERSONALITY OF A PERSON. I agree with you to an extent... But did you involve prayers? It's part of the background check. |
Romance › Re: My Life Is At Stake by mhizbel(f): 10:22am On Dec 07, 2018 |
Respect55: The last time I checked, it is not a crime to date provided one so that go silly about the whole thing. I never said it was. Next time you feel you wanna date someone try and do a good background check. It's not all relationships you go into and jump out of it just like that... I'm sure you're very clear on this one. And about picking a partner in a club house... I would not advise anyone to. Ever heard of the phrase 'wolf in sheep's clothing'?? Yes I guess. Lest I forget, I came across this and I'd love to share:
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Romance › Re: My Life Is At Stake by mhizbel(f): 9:43am On Dec 07, 2018 |
Bloooody: The rapist you see in news don't go to church abi Don't mind him. |
Romance › Re: My Life Is At Stake by mhizbel(f): 9:36am On Dec 07, 2018 |
Respect55: That's the tradition at AG. The worry some part of it is that of u are interested in any girl and u dare meet that church board, u are expected to get married to her within 6 months. Since you know the tradition of your church, why then do you go ahead and date a girl when you are not ready to get married? I'll keep on saying it over and over again that this boyfriend/girlfriend shit is totally irrelevant, it's a waste of time, resources, feelings, organs and whatever there is to it! I worship with AG and as a matter of fact, my dad is a strong member of the Marriage Committee. So, what am I trying to say? The AG I know would help finance their members' wedding if the persons involved are ready to get married. |
Family › Re: What Should I Do Now??? by mhizbel(f): 8:51am On Dec 07, 2018 |
Wuraola01: Whether ur wife initiated it or not, it is quite rude of your brother to slap your WIFE even if it is in defence. I would advise you sit your brother down and make him apologize to your WIFE and promise you never to do that again!!!
This is the problem with bringing in siblings  Exactly! I don't want any relative living with me when I'm married. Exception to sick parents though... |
Family › Re: What Should I Do Now??? by mhizbel(f): 8:40am On Dec 07, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by mhizbel(f): 8:29am On Dec 07, 2018 |
JasonScoolari: If only some nairaland hornny bastards can just respect themselves and stop giving this 2019 jamb candidate unnecessary attention.
There are some matured ladies in this forum, this thing is not one of them. Now that was damn funny... |
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Romance › Re: Scientists Reveal How You Can Tell If Your Girlfriend Is A Cheat by mhizbel(f): 8:24pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
Interesting... |
Romance › Re: Nigerian man reacts after seeing photos of a white couple very simple wedding by mhizbel(f): 8:14pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
I love the simplicity but... I think there should be some witnesses apart from the Priest. I would like to do a closed door marriage ceremony, especially the Traditional marriage. |
Romance › Re: Argument About Who Created Sex And What Its Purpose Escalates On Twitter by mhizbel(f): 7:28pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
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