Not entirely true but since its your experience that goes without saying. lemme just type dis, dere was diis gurl proving "hard to get" and dis same gurl has never gone out with any guy in her entire life. after she succumb to my sweetness (I am actually sweet) I asked why she took that long to say yes, guess what? she said "I wanted to see how long you can persevere??

sayyid:
if u truly love her u can make some investigations abt it. aldough shes nt suppose to b annoyed in da first place bt if d rape story is true its a pain she will always rememba for d rest of her life and for u jst asking dat kind of question straight to her face mayb she was shock and u knw mayb she taut u already knw abt her story and stuffs like dat.

OP, what dis dude said is true. The question u asked might have come to her like a shock and she must have already pondered on how u found out for the period of two weeks as u mentioned. But I think u should dig deep and find out if the story is true and she's just using that to get back with you. she may be casted for all we know. what u find out should give you an idea of what you do...leave her for good or continue? Btw, did u have an intention of putting ring to it I mean before the question thingy? cos I saw someone typing something marriage related?

Mrs or miss, what's the source?

just saw this on the MTN official facebook page. Guess it's that time to #NETFLIXandchill.

babatgtr:
Correction : Apostle Joseph Ayo Babalola never the founder of Christ Apostolic Church, he is the general evangelist of the church.

Actually sir! he his. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Ayo_Babalola

babatgtr:
Correction : Apostle Joseph Ayo Babalola never the founder of Christ Apostolic Church, he is the general evangelist of the church.

Actually sir! he his.

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kenny091:
@op, in fact forget all that one. olamide's diehard fans have refused to see beyond their noses on this matter. when an award was given to Reekado and Olamide climbs on stage saying Lil Kesh deserves the award, they expect Don jazzy to overlook the affront.
what's more painful to me is the disrespect shown to Adekunle Gold, instead of ur record label boss to congratulate you on the award you just won, he collects the mic from you and says your award belongs to Lil kesh. what Idiocy!!!

As in thank you very much @kenny091 for highlighting the adekunle Gold "part" seems pple are more keen on the "jabs" thingy. "Let's be sincere, adekunle Gold, this award doesn't belong to you lil kesh is our next rated" like Wtf is adekunle not a ybnl soldier? I know his genre of music is different but that speech is just outrageous the guy just dey smile for stage?

kenny091:
@op, in fact forget all that one. olamide's diehard fans have refused to see beyond their noses on this matter. when an award was given to Reekado and Olamide climbs on stage saying Lil Kesh deserves the award, they expect Don jazzy to overlook the affront.
what's more painful to me is the disrespect shown to Adekunle Gold, instead of ur record label boss to congratulate you on the award you just won, he collects the mic from you and says your award belongs to Lil kesh. what Idiocy!!!

As in thank you very much @kenny091 for highlighting the adekunle Gold "part" seems pple are more keen on the "jabs" thingy. "Let's be sincere, adekunle Gold, this award doesn't belong to you lil kesh is our next rated" like Wtf is adekunle not a ybnl soldier? I know his genre of music is different but that speech is just outrageous the guy just dey smile for stage?

mostly hausas and fulanis. just passing by.

Febby9:
. Dat agama was my friend sha..ma mum used 2 settle dem sha..Agama, Exprano, Danger man...I left dier in10/11 set..Lt col AKUYILL..if dat man conk ur head ehenn.. d man later became full colonel sha..bcame d inspector of edu ..saw im wen I was in oshodi..u remember/Know him??.

yea sure. I graduated with the 11/12 set.

LEGITLAYO:

I slapped spesh.

You remember him?
That not so good looking man.

An xcommando cool! what's the name? I also stayed in murdeless back in the days. U slapped spesh? am sure he deserves it, just don't try the same for agama"

Neduzze5:


Ahhh! Thank God say my bae no get am ooh!!

halleluyah!

daclint:
Me must test every car wey I see o until I find the one wey I like.

choose the best, u will know it when u see it. then u can test drive.

daclint:
Me must test every car wey I see o until I find the one wey I like.

not at all. read the comments biko?

Setaje:
Size matters too .





My opinion.

yes, your opinion is universal.

feaworaoja007:
if one is impotent,he is automatically infertile;infertility can be checked in the lab, and therre are 3 important factors to consider,these are motility,sperm count and morphology...based on WHO standard,a guy needs @ least 20mil sperm count otherwise he is considered as having "low sperm count", as for motility which means the ability of the sperm to swin,a man has to have @ least 40% motility rate,then for morhology which means the shape of sperm being proper on discharge,u nid @ least 29%...then also a man nids to discharge @ least 1.5ml of semen to 5.0ml....however,if u av a high motility rate and morphology rate,then it can balance for people who have less than 20mil per ml...hope ds enlightens a lil"

yes, I really appreciate this. thank you

Ruthbaro10:
What after test driving and you got married and along the line the engine got knocked, what would you do? I guess you'll keep on test driving. No excuse for test driving.

my sister you are harsh oo haba! Na to change the engine nah if u like the car design, whatyasay?

galantjoe:


i disagree with you that a man might change his mind if he has sex with his intending wife. if that is so then that man is not for the woman. secondly what if he married and wedded his wife and had sex with her, later divorce the woman. for the two which one is lesser evil. so it is better he dump the lady before the wedding than after they had being wedded.

this is contemporary issue and we should behave in line with changes, no more primitive and punitive customs.

the op was right because a lot of people who have sexual problem hide under the cloak of no-sex-before-marriage to rubbish the future of their

counterparts. if every one is sincere to oneself this issue cannot be a problem.

thanks op for sincere advice

you are welcome sir.

Neduzze5:


Oga abeg, wetin Genophobic mean?

oga neduzze5, na person who has a psychological fear of sexual relations or sexual intercourse

rita25:
hmmmmmm if I hear in dis our olosho days? over test drive dey worry pple oh......I was test driven and I test drive before I agreed to say I do oh....now I have a sweet product of recreation from my test drive activity.....lol!!!!!!

na so oo my sister, the main thing is it must yield positive from both the male and female.

emmanuel596:
Even if I won't say I do I will still test and drive

I will even do drifting and blow up the engine

If u fucck dey will say u are bad if u don't fucck dey will say u are dolling
















Fucck anyway it's healthy

haba! u suppose treat me with care nah, if u scratch am now who go buy am?

Vinshu:


I'm already married. When you discuss sex then you would know if he is potent or not and there would be medical tests and screening that would detect all that. This is 2015

better. the last I checked infertility in women and impotency in men no dey show for face. And besides, impotency can be detected by laboratory tests but infertility can't be until the deed is done. And if it can be detected please enlighten me.

Cutehector:
Godforbid. Chei. Thunder wey go fire am eh.

lwkmh

Harbosede02:
Dah was sooo long

yeah, the main thing is to get the message.

Cutehector:
d babe na weyrey... Na dem even do am pass sef

just pray say make u no jam or meet genophobic babe"

Vinshu:
It's OK to discuss sex before marriage. It's a good thing. But actually having sex before marriage is not needed. That is just lust.

so it's until honeymoon night then u discover that his kini cannot stand,.i dont think prayer can make kini stand sha". besides if the girl is genophobic nko? Wetin u go do if u be the guy?

Cutehector:
As d "good guy" people think I am, (may Dey not ne deceived) I was discussin sex wit a gurl, she is a frnd of mine sha, so she was like, so hector u knw all this things, I tot u wr a good guy, I come tell am, wait ooo, shey God no knw why him giv man dick and woman kitty?



Even pastors who u think are righteous do bad things in d bedroom.. Den na me, hector go dey form holier dan thou...

if u jt mention the word se* they will tag u as a fuckaolic" and create an automatic profile for you. There was this girl sef that I told: she said " I don't want to discuss sex until I am ready for it", so is it when u want to do it gan that you will now talk about it I said,na im she talk yes o.

Hi there ladies, oh & gentlemen too. I was minding my business jejely on social media when I came across a post trending on Instagram, apparently written by a Victor Chigozie Ibeh. I’m assuming Victor is a man, so errm for a man to give this advice I would say we should probably listen. I didn’t say do o, I said listen.

So the post reads “Dear Lady, before you marry him, discuss sex. Don’t spiritualize it. Sex is important. Infact you can’t do without it. Be sure that he has a working penis. You need his penis more than you need his speaking in tongues. God created the penis and Vagina for a purpose; and they have to be put to use. Remember that any tree that does not bear fruit will be uprooted. Don’t allow anyone to deceive you. Speaking in tongues will not stop you from being wet. After the tongues comes the cock. –Victor Chigozie Ibeh.”

I swear I found it hard to keep a straight face while reading this, and I swear this is the problem with a lot of us Nigerian women. We cannot discuss bedroom matters with a straight face.

Back to Victor’s “words of wisdom”; I’ve always been a supporter of keeping your legs closed before marriage, and I applaud those who do it, but I do not judge those who don’t either. To each his own abeg. This was until my dear friend married a spiri-koko guy some 5/6 years back who would not even kiss her while dating and was even appalled at the mention of sex between non married folks. He believed sex was to be discussed by only married folks. This sounds like good advice abi? Well wouldn’t it be too late if you waited till you got married to discuss sex? Oh, by the way, bros spiri-koko could not get it up in bed and my friend who was dying to be a pastor Mrs. in future didn’t know until 2 weeks after they got married when she was more or less determined to rape her husband. The concluding part of their story is for another day.

When my friend told me what was going on, I swear my stance on “test driving” went from sitting on the fence to YOU MUST TEST, but DO NOT NECESSARILY DRIVE.  This is how I see it: Every time I’ve been to a mechanic, or a car dealership I’ve always seen either or both the mechanic and the car owner/buyer lifting the hood of the car up and taking a good look at the engine; and also leaning their ears in to hear the engine’s performance. I’m assuming by looking at and listening intently to the engine, the buyer/owner is making sure he/she does not take home a lemon. I think they believe if there’s a defect in the engine it could possibly be spotted by lifting the hood up and paying attention.

Now to be double sure that what they’ve seen matches the performance, some will take the car for a test drive before finally paying the mechanic or seller for the vehicle. Biko, what is wrong in applying this same methodology to your sex life? I leave the test drive part to each person (but please remember you don’t have to drive each car you come across) .Make sure you catch a glimpse of his “engine”, actually scratch glimpse, make sure you take a good look at the engine and make sure it can stand, there are no visible damages, and most importantly that it actually does exist BEFORE you sign the dotted line.

Some people will frown at what I just said but please don’t forget that the heart of man is desperately wicked (e.g. my friend’s husband who used Spiri-kokoness to cover the fact that his engine is defective and didn’t think it necessary to inform her before marriage). Once you take the “engine” home and everyone has associated you as the owner of the “engine” it is not easy to return it back for manufacturer defect or user defect; there is no 30 day warranty on these “engines” oo.

In essence, I agree with Victor. Bro, you have spoken well. Let she that has ears hear o. We don’t want to come and read stories that touch the heart on Aunty Bella.

Sex is not the end of the world – yes we know, but how would you handle it if you didn’t know your husband has a defective penis, I mean he kept it a secret under the guise of no sex before marriage?  Also, when people say discuss sex before marriage, what exactly are you supposed to say to each other? “Babe, lift up you skirt, abi take down your trousers let me see what you working with? “How often a week are we looking at? Are you a Christian Grey or a Christian Missionary? Should we order a karma-sutra book? Are we praying before or not?

I know I would be reeling in laughter if  I had a conversation about it and I definitely will not keep a straight face.

People, how did your sex conversation go with your intended? Please come and share.

Love is a beautiful thing.

source: http://www.bellanaija.com/2015/05/15/seun-akinlosotu-test-drive-the-engine/
cc lalasticlala ishilove farano

nice write-up op. but the RAM is not directly and necessarily related to the storage, it's the ROM that does that. (the part where you mention 2gb and 1gb, flashy phone...).