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Thanks babe guys no more visiting, you people should takeover

Wow! This is deep. The so called brother just disfigured him for life Who can truly know the heart of man? I fear who no fear the brother

Bros you have been dating yasef for a very long time, and now that the truth is out and staring at you, you are asking us what you should do? Nwanne, biko marry her!!
PS: Don't touch her oh, let her carry her 0 to the 1 that she's been giving it to(let them continue) just forgive and move on

lefulefu:
married men na still hot cakes for single babes jor.ask some single ladies why they prefer married men and dem go give u various reasons.i don share story for here about my 78yr old landlord wey two young girls dey fight for for street.dis my former landlord is married and im even get grand kids sef but small small gurls no wan let am rest.hm na waoh

still it ain't right atall. How can a young lady fight over a leftover meal that belongs to another woman? I still believe it's best for the married folks to bleep themselves and leave the young ones alone.

It's not just Lagos, it's everywhere... But e better if married men dey knack their fellow married women, atleast the young guys and ladies will be exempted . Marriage is really scary these days

Everyone is playing the victim's card.. No one is saying how they were caught cheating though. This life sha!! Anyways, make I siddon dey look with my bowl of popcorn

martyns303:
Guy called and she couldn't talk properly, she was saying "hmm" "OK" "yes" "ok". snatched the phone from her and put it on speaker, the guy wasn't happy with her about something, he was yelling at her through the phone "is this how u used to talk to me"? "hello, hello!!!!!" I ended the call, she kneeled down and started begging.

Called the guy later with my phone, talked to him as man and he opened up and gave me the whole rundown. I died 1001 times within 5mins.

Oh! did I mention we had been dating for 6yrs?

Biko shift lemme faint

martyns303:
A lot of women don't orgasm via penetration, you need to learn what works for her. U have to be matured about this.

Op, follow this advice else you will continue sharing her with her fingers Truth is there are different ways to please your woman sexually, it mustn't be a penetrative sex. Some women derives sexual pleasure differently so find out what really works for her, ask her questions while at it or tell her to show you how to pleasure her. Dont be embarrassed or shocked, atleast be grateful that she ain't cheating on you with another man(well,except her finger)
PS: everything boils down to communication, don't act like you know her body(infact act like a novice and Tell her to show you how to make her feel sexually satisfied)
Always remember that what works for Miss A is not applicable to Miss B(they are all different and react to things differently) that Miss A derive sexual pleasure from penetrative sex doesn't mean that Miss B will cum in that manner. Don't work based on assumption, ask her the right questions and watch as she succumb to you.

godofuck231:
it's in a woman nature to over react ,but we men reason , imagine after soaking his bespokes in after with bleach she found out the woman always calling him was his aunt asking him to quickly marry the girl as when will she carry his kids before she passes , she didn't know own all these she hit the wreck mode , after all she still knelt down that she doesn't make the best decisions and she needs him to control and think for her sometimes, especially when she's upset, we stand de look Indian film for Mc Donald's that day, not long he proposed

Good for them Make she hold the guy well though. I really can't stand violence, I know say I get bad mouth but to raise hand hit someone (not to talk of a full grown man) na that one I no fit do abeg, fear sef go catch me

godofuck231:
then ghee go use me settle abi, one of my guys had such an issue, the slightest impulse his girls slaps him , in public most times , and he's well grounded in violence, but due to self control he endures , today thy are married and she worships him, it thought me something men will forgive women will destroy.

your friend tried oh.. If you mistakenly slap me, I go mistakenly pack my load go. But the babe chop liver Sha, slap full grown man for public Odiegwu oh

godofuck231:
so what are we not saying why is she not in jail yet

Lol.. Go and arrest and I'll personally support you. If the guy refused to press charges, then it's no one's fault.
Tell the guy to get her arrested cos he has every right to do so and the evidence is glaring so she can't deny it

godofuck231:
I thought the women here should be advocating for the man's head or not letting the woman slap him more till she's satisfied ,no woman has come out to condemn this curved slapper babe

if you had read further down, you would have seen where the act was condemned.. I don't support abuse of any sort, BTW, it will interest you to know that the dude is solely responsible for that embarrassment he received. It could have been avoided but he choose to remain with a woman who humiliates and abuses him at every given opportunity.

stubbornman:
You have spoken well... well can i foot the first bill to a decent date with you if you are in Lagos!

btw i had to bring you here cos i didnt want us to derail the previous thread...

Lol.. Right now, I travelled to Mars because this Nigeria don tire me no be small.

olumalcolm:
is dat u in d pix

Nah

GLYCOLYSISS:
No man supports any man battering his wife,no man will ever do that.
But on situation like shown in that video where a woman think she could raise her hand & slap me
Let me not talk...

the man is solely responsible for that embarrassment the lady meted out to him.. If you delve deeper into their lives, you will discover that she has always been abusive in the relationship but the man choose to ignore it. Had it been he handled it well from the onset, he wouldn't have found himself in that ugly scenario. Don't put up with someone who wouldn't think twice before humiliating you in public, someone who wouldn't respect the fact that you are the man in the relationship / marriage.
If by chance you try to set her right and she refused, let her go. Don't put up with shiits all in the name of marriage / relationship!!

Angelfrost:
No one?... Your first line shows you are either not abreast with the recent social media trends, or you are being deliberately evasive.

none of the above, I believe no one has the right to put you down except you permit it.. You can't just let a woman waltz into your life and turn it upside down, for what? Caution when and where there's need to. But when you keep ignoring those flaws thinking she would change as time progresses the more the abuse and incessant quarrels escalates.
All those warning signs are there from the beginning but dude choose to ignore them thereby giving the lady access to act as she wishes

Angelfrost:
Your confused feminists don't want to reason along that line... For them, it's all about putting the man down at all cost.

no one putting you guys down.. If something ain't right in your relationship, take charge of the situation and reprimand your partner and if it's becoming a norm or toxic for you, simply QUIT. If you are being put down, it's because you choose to be put down. Period!!

stubbornman:
Hey Michelle55 you there

if he can foot the bills, no problem. It doesn't mean I won't treat him to a nice date another day if I can afford it.

olumalcolm:
He does not need to beat her beyond recognition, if he beats her, he will be jailed but dat does not give any woman the right or privilege to push any man beyond limit.

I understand but remember there are many ways to actually punish a woman without raising your fist try silent treatment(it works like magic) just act like nothing happened(keep her guessing what your next line of action is)
PS: no talk say na me tell you oh, as a matter of fact this is not my handwriting

Angelfrost:
Look it up... There are laws against such. There are suitable punitive measures against wife battery.

it should be made known as well that women that raises their fist against any man must be served with a certain amount of punishment too that way it will enable them curb their excesses.
What some of us failed to understand is that men ain't cyborg (they have feelings as well and sometimes they are emotionally drained and abused) just because it's not telling on them doesn't mean they ain't human.

doublecross:
what are you saying sef? woman don slap me finish you say make we settle am like adults! no let me download slap for you oooo

be a man and walk away

stubbornman:
Yeah I am .... just sitting down here thinking what you look like in real life.... btw I'm not very stubborn

Lolsss.. Imagine a very chubby lady with a round neck and puff puff cheek (then you have succeeded in knowing what I look like in real life) about you being stubborn, we'll see about that

stubbornman:
Yeah you're right....some people don't know how to handle the truth...small thing and they start reacting with weapons and words...

Michelle55 hope you're good??

Extremely good Trust you are too?

stubbornman:
My anything that will make Dem suffer is okay by ...I've never raised my hand on any woman in my entire life but if a woman has an itchy hand to slap me over issues that can be settled over the table!!!! then I'll have to download her own slap from Play store!!

Lolsss.. From play store? What if play store is down, Wetin you go do? TBH, violence is really not the best way to settle issues in relationships/ marriage. Have a healthy communication, lay down your grievances and trash it out like two adults that you are. Deep/ lengthy communication reveals a whole lot of things that you can ever imagine

Thanks for sharing, it's really educative. Fp things

stubbornman:
No woman has any right to slap a man.... Or abuse him in whatsoever way!!! Once a man lose his temper in cause of walking away she'll be treated worse!!!!

what about the men that batter their wives beyond recognition? What's their own punishment

What kinda rough play is that one kwanu? You know it's wrong to do that yet you choose not to believe it. Oga kindly retract from doing so to avoid stories that touch the heart and tickles the bumbum inugo

stubbornman:
Wetin concern me with curvy and say woman dey slap me.... Nwanne Wetin I go slap her for ear ehn ,she go SLANT sharp sharp....eh get some nonsense wey I no dey take oh, this one nah one of them.....weaker vessel kill you there...make I kukuma break the vessel make everybody rest... Nonsense

You don't mean it

You weren't doing it right to she felt the need to do the do by herself to save stress.. It's her personal decision to either stop or continue. TBH, what's the need for a d1ck if the owner of the tool can't properly make use of it
If you want to help her, have a deep communication with her during the act, don't act like you know everything about her body system

Cute couple Congratulations to them