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SaucyBenks:
you don't keep such from a bro... Bros always must gat another bros back.

How did he break the so-called bro code? They ain't even friends, just neighbors. What made you think that the said neighbor will believe him over his girlfriend? Besides even if he wants to tell the guy, what proof will be provide to ascertain his claim?

Keep minding your business my brother because if you dare snitch on her, she will definitely deny it straight up 100% and the dude will believe her. So maintain your lane biko before dem go use you settle for bed.

This wan weak me

Please you guys dropping your contact details here kindly read the instructions again and apply accordingly. Don't always be in a haste and to think y'all are teachers Just wondering what the kids are learning since the teachers can't follow simple instructions.
Send him a mail with your information (he dropped his email address to make it easier for you guys)
Op, God will replenish you in thousand folds as you remember others.

Eze2000:
Michelle, manners!

yes sir I'm Sorry, I lost it.

Y'all should mind ya business do you know if that's where she breaths from ni? Her dress her business! Sanctimonious hypocrites everywhere

TBH, I'll just tell him and if he feels that I'm not good enough anymore then so be it.. It's best he hears it from me rather than a third party who knows about it from my past. Just keep a clean slate.

Jgoldie:
I repeat I will never ever attempt suicide because of a man.....like who does that....all because of loveeeee.......I spit on love...I shit on love....e no go better for love.....100k....God punish poverty.....girls pls pls try n be independent so that 100k will be like change...

babe calm down, love no do you anything na What they call love now is trade by barter True love is kind, patient and all good things put together. Na we just dey deceive ourselves with this fake love scenarios

Godsfavour78:
move on. The elder brother paying you back your money on the spot was a very loud statement.

He doesn't want you to have anything to do with his sister or FAMILY again.

Just forget she ever existed if she ever contact you warn her strongly to stay clear. She won't be good for you anyway so I don't know what advice you are looking for.

Be guided.

Op, this is the best you can get. Either you take this advice and move on or you can choose to wallow in self condemnation that wasn't your doing in the first place.

Perhaps the man can't perform well in the oza room and the bodyguard drilling skill is topnotch so madam switched

Please increase the volume so that those patronizing them will hear

Dickhead02:
Chai women are scum

Good afternoon sir, your moniker befits you perfectly! Do well to maintain being a dickhead, it looks good on you..
Note That you've come across some women that did numbers on you doesn't mean that all women are scum, always get your assertion right before typing that which comes to your mind. Enjoy your day!

Lemme park here.. What's soo special about the preeq that she's willing to risk her own life? If the preeq is occupied, Ogbeni find another one Really don't seem to understand why some ladies prefer married dudes to single ones E just tire me

alphaNomega:
Timi also said he met his wife a virgin and has probably deleted the evidence too. I'm waiting for a MOD to close this thread

After a forensic analysis, nothing can be more true...
Facts are as follows.

1. Pst Biodun did not violently r@pe Busola. He manupulated her into agreeing to open her legs after being romantic with her.
2. Busola was a virgin prior to her experience with Biodun
3. They had multiple consentual s3x as at then
4. She fell madly in love with him as at then
5. He broke her heart as a result of a promise he couldnt fulfill. Maybe she expected him to throw his wife and marry her later on I cant say what that was its between both of them.
6. She became promiscuous due to the emotional trauma Biodun placed on her at an early age.
7. She left a trail of whoredom before she met Timi.
8. They started having crisis in marriage. Timi made her talk
9. Looking back at her life over the years, and how messed up it had been, she connected the dots back to Biodun blaming him for her misery
10. she then came up with the rape story because she felt that consentual sex at that age was still rape(she didnt know at that time tho)
11. shes a pained woman living in regrets of how she ruined her youth and blames Biodun for her mysery
12. She want to see him suffer thats the only way she feels she would heal..

"Hell hath no fury than a scorned woman"


Everyone who has lived a promiscuous life will always try to escape the shame by blaming someone else. She already had in it her to be able to knack the guy on a car bonnet.

We know them. Spoilt adventurous brats. Her sister too was the same and Biodun chopped that one too.

I have seen this exact thing happen to a couple before and they did blame someone else after the husband found out after 10 years that he married an ex runz girl.The man was furious and was pushing the wife to help him file charges against the accused figure. We advised him against it because of the revelations we knew witnesses will bring which his did not know about.

After all the drama they still went their separate ways. The Dakolo guy is in something bigger than he can handle and his wife will never tell him the truth

Guys like Dakolo who place themselves at the top level in terms of moral values never recover when they stupidly start digging up their wife's past. After the anger with Biodun ends it will refocus on the wife.


Biodun 15 years ago was a young boy like Busola with both their hormones raging. The Timi guy is a disgrace to manhood. You dig up your wife's whoring history and she easily manipulated you with the most basic lie that comes naturally to a girl cheesy cheesy "I was raped when I was 15" " I lost my virginity while riding a bicycle" That babe will wake up at night, go to the bathroom open Twitter and have a good laugh at how dumb the world is. I'm starting to like her now sef

Look at this way, fine clean boy Pastor with women throwing themselves at you. His mission was none other than CHOP ONE CHOP ALL. Let's not judge him by who he is now. Times were different in Nigeria then and clearly did not rape her.

He chopped her and the sister and still chopped her again after Dakolo came into the picture. He has a right to be angry. The pastor made an error of judgement and so did the spoilt brat.

THE BIGGEST TRUTH OF IT IS THAT THE DAKOLOS ARE PAINED THAT BIODUN MOVED AHEAD TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL. IF HE WERE A POOR FARMER OR TRUCK PUSHER MRS DAKOLO WOULD HAVE HEALED YEARS AGO. THIS BEHAVIOUR OF BITTERNESS HAS REPEATED ITSELF SO MANY TIMES IN HISTORY. I AM NOT SAYING BIODUN IS CLEAN..NO HE IS SOILED TOO. BUT BUSOLA IS PAINTING HIM FAR DARKER THAN HE IS.






"Got pregnant twice o...all for the choir master (Timi). got married in same church and received car gift from the same pastor.... Krest kee you there!"

Lol You did not also mention she got "raped" on multiple occasions. hahaha cheesy

Lol. it just shows u sexual promiscuity is in her body. She's still probably pained Biodun never made her his final choice. Also for her unfortunate husband, that one was busy feasting on her when he was choirmaster - thinking he was d sharpest man around. Gossip must have got to him later on in his marriage that the Pastor don chop him wife waka pass, clean mouth.

That must have been a real real pain and bruise to his ego. I feel for him. U know what it feels like to have sex with ur wife but keep seeing the image of someone who had got there before u. U cant understand the psychological damage. It serves men of his kind right: see the way he was worshipping his wife in his 'iyawo mi' video then; who would have thought she could have had such dark past?

Women may have some innocent-looking face or manner but u dont wanna know their secrets; where theyve been. U would be shocked! 90% of them!!

You've said it all!! Biodun isn't all that innocent but I believe Timi's wife is hiding more than she's letting out. They should be properly investigated

To avoid issues.. Take your wife out and have the best time of your life.. It wasn't stipulated anywhere in the constitution that your house will be the only place for you to copulate. There are nice places you could do that with your wife or whenever your MIL is not around, you can utilize the opportunity. You have sooo many exciting options you know Either you bring the bed down, or make use of the bathroom /kitchen or you go out with your wife. before you know it, 2months will elapse

calgaryFriend:
It is called having a standard.
I understand some people can just tag along with anybody, the moment I make my intentions known to you and we are already talking about future, it is expected that we show respect to people.

If someone does not understand respect then it is going to be a big problem in future.
The quality of training have reduced these days so some things appear as not so bad but they are signals to some deep red flags that a man should try and avoid.

And I gave room for mistakes and adjustment , that was why I corrected the person twice and she still continued. That kind of person have absolutely no regard or does not understand the basic human way of behaviour and interraction.

Some people are slow in learning you know, you just have to be patient. BTW, I understood your point though!

Heromaniaa:
my blood can wash away your sins. Can I judge you now?

Lol. You don't mean it

This is going to be a very long ride.. Season of rape! The men version

calgaryFriend:
I can relate with you OP. For me I am outside of the country and I already made up my mind not to marry from outside the country. I have been meeting people online but after relating with them for sometime I realise the extent of how ignorant, materialistic and focus-less most ladies are.

I was following up with a lady last week, then I saw her whatsap status - ENU GBE, E FUN MI LOWO ENU GBG (i am broke, please give me money I am broke). What kind of human being comes on social media to write such trash ? People dont even have respect for themselves or their families.

WheN i WAS in school I was placed on minimum wage and I tried to live within my means how can people just begin to behave like peasants, so that pissed me off and I just cancelled that babe.

The next one was even a little promising but on 2 occasions I was speaking to her and she was speaking to other people, imagine chatting someone and they admit they are also chatting up to 7 people at the same time.

Then I rebuked the person and the next few days we are talking on phone and the person is typing and after I asked what was going on she said she was chatting with people while speaking with me on whatsap call, I did not even react, but I just cancelled her in my mind.

It is quite tough really, the quality of women out there is really very low, we just have a few who are young and have proper sense.

Goodluck as we continue to search...

A perfectionist? Learn to give room for mistakes and adjustment. Things mustn't go your way or how you planned it most times. Relationships doesn't have set rules and regulations, just go with the flow!!

I don land, grab your own copy of chair Now!!! this is gonna be a sweet ride

DieselGen:
So, your point is no need checking out on your fiancee's phone, because there'll always be poo to see.
It indicates infidelity is a norm now.
Wrong people everywhere...

Please don't get me wrong! Dude already knew in his heart that there's something amiss(suspicion) but he just needed to confirm(proved) of which he got the answers he's looking for so what's the need of coming to SM to seek validation even when the red flags are all glaring?
NOTE The moment you start suspecting your partner of infidelity, everything you think you know about the person will be in question, so why not save yourselves the stress by going your separate ways? Remember that a Broken Relationship is better and more bearable than a Broken Marriage

What is big about the snake please?

shogsman:
Nigerian girls are useless,see this public property sef dey claim rape,guys don suffer.

kindly stop with the generalisation inugo.. We are dealing with Alot currently so be kind enough not to generalize

Warris dis bikonu?

eraj4real:
I am a young man, and at about age 17-18, a pastor often called me to his office in Port Harcourt to teach him to use computers and huged me tight behind the door of his office. Then used his penis to try pressing on me. Because of fear, and confusion I often kept quiet. Till a day at about age 20 I visited the church he was posted to in Onitsha as I was returning on a journey. He made me pass the night, and made us sleep together in the parlour (his wife traveled). That night he attempted having sex with me, but I resisted all night, but didn't say a word till I got into a bus the next day on my way back to Port Harcourt, I sent him terrible text messages. He apologized. I forgave him. 5-6 years later in year 2011, when he opened his church in Ibadan, I donated N264,000 as a NYSC corper (I closed my account) to support his fledging church. It was only today, at age 33 that I summed up the courage to tell him, "never contact me again". Pastors have a controlling power on members. I didn't add, I also put his son on scholarship for about 2 years but ended this year (I paid over 250k to support his son, mainly because though he tried hurting me, he gave me books and advice that really helped me in business and life in general. He also once called a young entrepreneur who gave me this advice at age 18, "what will you want you children to call you? Papa or Daddy". That influenced my actions for life. I suggest pastors constantly go for counseling to avoid destroying the same people they build. He helped me see my talent in computer than studying medicine even when my parents forced me to study medicine. Pastors have strong influence

You are brave and I commend you for letting it go!

Joromi12:
A hoe can make a good wife a virgin saint can make a bad wife. Life has no manual. Pastor chris okotie and oyakilome . Pastor iginla etc got it wrong despite their so called vision seeing skills

Aptly said!

The moment you start suspecting your partner, the bond between you two has been broken.. For you to check her phone(you already knew what awaits you) so asking us now is like seeking for validation on what to do next

You didn't do anything and that's the truth right? Stick to it!! Don't waver or be afraid of the unknown

What manner of fuckery is this biko? Please let them settle this wahala abeg