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Romance › Re: What Has Been Your Biggest Achievement Of 2024? by Michelle55: 10:56pm On Dec 19, 2024

Sonnobax15:

Well,my biggest achievement was supposed to be the fact that I almost got married but my keke engine broke down a month before the actual month I had plans to do that

So sorry about that, everything happens for a reason. I'm sure God would make a way for you come 2025. Just believe!

Travel › Re: How Much Is Your Transport, If You're Travelling Home For Christmas by Michelle55: 10:50pm On Dec 19, 2024

I paid 75k for both logistics and boarding for granny traveling, it may have increased by now. Journey mercies to those traveling.

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Romance › Re: Lady Rants After Brother-in-law Washed Her Clothes, Snubbing Her Pants by Michelle55: 7:46am On Sep 22, 2024

This woman is not normal, is your brother in law supposed to do your laundry in the first place talkless of seeing your panties? Kia, nothing person no go see😏😏

Food › Re: How Much Is A Bag Of Rice In Your State by Michelle55: 7:15pm On Sep 18, 2024

I bought for 87k(foreign) 2 weeks ago...

Family › Re: Young Man Finds Out Child Isn’t His, Months After The Baby’s Birth by Michelle55: 8:33pm On Sep 17, 2024

This hits differently, can't imagine the pains he's going through. To avoid all these unexpected headaches, they should make DNA test compulsory once a child is birthed so everyone knows their stands. It would be unfair to train someone's else child under the guise of parenthood, it's best he does so willingly than being lied to.

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Family › Re: He Is About Divorcing Me by Michelle55: 10:55am On Sep 16, 2024

MsJackson:
you're right. Sure will do that. He's always posting insulting quotes about me on his WhatsApp status for the world to see and ridicule me. I've blocked him sha.

Good! Block off all negative energy around you and concentrate on things and people that brings you peace.
I don't only block, I erase every traces of negative and toxic people and things from my life. I don't wish anyone bad but it's best they never existed in my memory that way everyone is happy and satisfied.
Learn to remove yourself from situations that would cause you harm or disrupt your peace of mind. Your main concern should be your child and your mental health, with time everything else would fall into place.

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Family › Re: He Is About Divorcing Me by Michelle55: 9:48am On Sep 16, 2024

Get busy, work and take care of yourself and child.. stop acting like your life revolves around him.
If he wants to divorce you, let him do that at least you get to leave with your life and peace of mind, nothing beats that.

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Politics › Re: Parents Protest At Lagos Model College, Eva Adelaja School, Over Fees Hike by Michelle55: 9:26am On Sep 16, 2024

All I can say at this point is " It's well" everybody go dey alright las las

Romance › Re: Who Else Had This Cup In Their Family Growing Up (pix) by Michelle55: 10:27pm On Sep 01, 2024

We still do. My granny's favorite cup

Romance › Re: Lady Rejects Her Boyfriend's Marriage Proposal In FUTA (vid) by Michelle55: 2:04pm On Aug 30, 2024

GorillaApp:
i lie down ontop bed do my own. shikena!

That's a good one! Person wey go marry you no go stress you, enjoy yours jare.
This public proposal is so freaking annoying and not everyone likes having their business publicized.
Mtcheew😏

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Romance › Re: Lady Rejects Her Boyfriend's Marriage Proposal In FUTA (vid) by Michelle55: 12:41pm On Aug 30, 2024

Are guys not tired of this public proposal stunts? They should give it a rest, and do it indoors. If she accepts, good and if she rejects at least you won't be publicly embarrassed. 😏

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Family › Re: My Daughter Eats Every 10 To 15 Minutes by Michelle55: 9:56pm On Aug 16, 2024

Should I say you are lucky that your kid eats that much in a day? Lol, mine is the complete opposite of yours, we've all learned how to sing, dance and shout just so she can eat. Whatever she eats well today will be outrightly rejected tomorrow, I've seen shege Promax and I'm still seeing it. I believe the feeding habit will reduce with time, so don't worry about it.☺️☺️

Family › Re: I Thought I Could Change Him To Be A Better Man by Michelle55: 7:01am On Jul 30, 2024

Which good man beats his wife at every slight provocation or have we suddenly lost the meaning of a good man?

Why are you covering his ass when he doesn't value you?

Are you fully dependent on him? All I see is a dependent woman making excuses for an abusive adult.

No one asked you to cheat on him so you don't have to bring that into the topic, real men don't beat their women or cheat in their faces so please stop misusing the term "a good man" it's a slap to those real and good men out there.

Is it until he beats you to death that you would find your square root?

Besides, all I see here is a woman trying to be heroic. What happens to his side of the story? Everyone is a Saint in their story until we hear the full gist.

He beats you, calls you names yet you are still there. Omo the story no clear because in this time and age that domestic is frowned on you are still there making excuses.
The Lord is your strength 💪!!!

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Romance › Re: In My Current Relationship, my guy and I retaliate a lot by Michelle55: 8:33am On Jul 24, 2024

MeghaneMorgane:
Our response to cheating is that the cheated person will leave. We have discussed this. If I cheat, he will leave me and if he cheats, I will leave him. We don’t intend to sleep around to bring the other person to check. That is outside our boundaries.
We communicate a lot. It is when the other person refuses to change that they get the taste of their drug. So that they can understand better your grievances. Because sometimes it is hard for people to understand when they cannot relate. And we don’t do this from a bad place. We do it from a place of I want you to change.

Retaliation is never a healthy recipe for a relationship that may likely end in marriage except you both don't have the plan of settling with each other then by all means continue.
All the best!!

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Romance › Re: In My Current Relationship, my guy and I retaliate a lot by Michelle55: 7:35am On Jul 24, 2024

What kind of relationship is that? Are you saying if he cheats you would likely cheat to keep him in order?

Omo, just prepare your kpekus for gwo gwo gwo gwo cos na you go hear am.
Why not communicate how you feel rather than being vindictive each time he offends you?

Can you keep up with this petty behavior if it escalates?

Are you ready to sleep with his friends as well if he
decides to cross the line with yours?

To what extent are you willing to go with this pettiness?

These and many more questions you need to ask yourself and if you can keep up then happy dating to you.
In this time and age, I prioritize peace of mind and happiness over anything else.
Light and love 👌

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Family › Re: G by Michelle55: 8:55am On Jul 22, 2024

New format springing up every day, you should be resting after childbirth but here you are seeking for congratulations from peeps who didn't even know you exist.
Smells like a format to me, no offense though.

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Family › Re: Guys What Should I Do About My Fiance. I Need Advice From Married People Please. by Michelle55: 1:32pm On Jul 18, 2024

Do you need the gods of your land to tell you how fast you should run?
Love doesn't make one stupid but from all indications, it seems she has used ya brain to prepare nkwobi hence you can't do without her.
You're lucky you ain't my brother because I don't understand this level of simpleton for someone who has never contributed to your growth in anyway.
Op, you are single know this and know peace. Find someoneelse who will build with you and not eat the little you have left🙄

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Family › Re: Partner That Keeps Malice For A Long Time by Michelle55: 8:20am On Jul 17, 2024

Magicalsineros:
Blacklist in your heart: that's really deep

I honestly can't deal with lots of things and drama is one of them, the moment I decide to blacklist anyone in my heart I don't care if they are family or not, they are dead to me.
I'm not good with lengthy communication and I find it difficult to forgive hence I try my best to be at peace with everyone but the minute anyone pushes me beyond my limit, that's it for me to cut ties.
I wish them well from afar but would want nothing to do with them, life is not that hard.
However, if it's a spouse that's involved it would be difficult since we will be in the same house🤣🤣.

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Family › Re: Partner That Keeps Malice For A Long Time by Michelle55: 8:42am On Jul 16, 2024

I wouldn't call mine malice, I simply blacklist the person in my heart and that's the end. Just don't have the energy for back and forth talks or messages.
It's called malice when you have a grudge against someone but it should be different if you're dealing with a loved one, there should be room for communication and forgiveness though.

Romance › Re: Nigerian Woman Arrested For Allegedly Assaulting Her Husband’s Side-chick In UK by Michelle55: 7:15pm On Jul 06, 2024

Serves her right! Don't take your razz attitude overseas, keep it in your country.
The earlier some of y'all realize that not everyone is worth fighting for the better your life would be, I'm pissed that she neglected her self worth and peace of mind to stoop so low to fight another woman over a man who ain't shiit.. mtcheew!!
Go and cool off in police net a little just maybe your senses will return and you will choose peace of mind over violence.😏

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Romance › Re: What Lifestyle Of Yours Did You Have To Change Because Of Your Partner? by Michelle55: 8:34am On Jul 06, 2024

Ishilove:
I can't believe people still write like this

Beats me!
Once you send me a whatsapp message in this format, just forget getting a response from me. I can't stress my brain.

Family › Re: What Have You Stopped Buying Due To Economic Hardship... by Michelle55: 6:02am On Jul 03, 2024

Absolutely nothing! I still buy things the way I've been doing, the only thing is my monthly budget for restocking increased and that's okay.
The economy is biting hard on some people so I don't bother arguing prices of some things anymore, I simply pay and move on.

Family › Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Michelle55: 1:42pm On Apr 30, 2024

It's nothing new or special.. there's no need to announce it to the world.

Health › Re: What Kind Of Brutal STD/STI Can Cause This, (graphic Picture) by Michelle55: 2:33pm On Apr 26, 2024

Some women dey marry nonsense sha.. make God help your wife because I honestly don't understand your obsession with prostitutes. 🤨

Family › Re: Home ‘n’ Moore — Kitchen Appliances/Utensils/Souvenirs At Best Prices! by Michelle55: 12:00pm On Apr 22, 2024

UyaiIncomparabl:
Nne, I was outta the radar for a while. I recently returned. You remember I mentioned travelling out to you.

I will send you a message now.

Yes, you did. Are you back now? You left me stranded okwaya, I'm glad to have you back. ☺️

Family › Re: Home ‘n’ Moore — Kitchen Appliances/Utensils/Souvenirs At Best Prices! by Michelle55: 11:53am On Apr 22, 2024

UyaiIncomparabl:
Delivery is nationwide.

Where the heck have you been my sure plug?🤔

Family › Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Michelle55: 10:21pm On Apr 20, 2024

Mine is already driving me bonkers and she hasn't gotten to that age yet, once she's awake trust me no more sleeping for you. I'm already contemplating running away for a week perhaps she will calm down. My phone screen is gone and changing it is one heck of money thanks to my madam who decided to use it as gum scratcher.

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Science/Technology › Re: I Have 350k, Can I Install A Single Solar Panel For My Appliances? by Michelle55: 8:56pm On Apr 20, 2024

Trust me, it's not feasible at all. Even with four panels and batteries, I minimize the number of gadgets I use especially at night. During the day, I can comfortably turn everything on but once it's 6/7pm, I drop some loads. 350k can't set up anything at the moment. Please save more and do it right.

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Family › Re: My Friend Faces Dilemmas Over A Partner's Child Adoption. by Michelle55: 10:35am On Apr 07, 2024

Babinski:
He can adopt the boy on the basis of abandonment by the biological father. If the biological father has not been responsible for the feeding, schooling and fending for the child in anyway, it is considered that he has abandoned the child.

It is wisdom for the man to insist on legally adopting the child before becoming financially responsible for the child. By that action no other man can come years later to start asking for his abandoned son after someone else has spent time, money and efforts raising and taking care of the child. That would also signify the woman breaking completely with the child's father instead of entertaining the possibility of the man coming back.

The adoption would also help the boy integrate with the new family because the man will now see him as his own without any discrimination and he will also see the other children in the family as his siblings. In fact the boy would be entitled to any future inheritance from the man just like his biological children.

The woman's resistance to the adoption may either be out of ignorance and misinformation or a hidden agenda to keep her options open with the father of the child.

Apt💯

Nairaland General › Re: Based on your birth year, which of these generational groups do you belong? by Michelle55: 8:37pm On Apr 06, 2024

Gen Y with my full chest🌝

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