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I wouldnt lie bro , I am thinking thesame direction, apart from all you mentioned, marriage now has a lot of uncertainties, what I have come to understand in this life is that you come alone and go alone , when you live here you are gone. growing up I always fantasized getting a girl friend and later get married to her and have kids , now as an adult haven experienced and gone through a lot in life, now all I think of is make money help people the best way I can and when is time for me to live this world , I leave without any attachments, give all to orphanage and charity , no kids ,no wife, just me leaving this world. A world full of hatred , pain, betrayal , lack of love , almost everything I was told growing up were all lies , so what then would I tell my kids if I had any ? That you must , steal , hurt people , pretend , hide your emotions, lie , decieve, be hard and try not to show affection, training a child now is just training future monsters without empathy. Is it the ladies, how promiscuous and entitled they are now imagine what it would be like in 20 years time . Marriage and relationship don't make sense in this day and age . When you go through a road and you realize that the route was rough and you successfully returned back would you want to tell your child to go through the same route ? That's how I see life , if you even love what you have in your loins you won't want them to come and experience what you have experienced. Life is just all about existing for survival, earth is a packaged hell .

Nice2023:
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some folks refused to marry early and now,many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourselves nor respect ur sisters at home and u come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves,even gamblers and cashless men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are a smart guy without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later or u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying early...whether u are a macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect anyone to eulogise u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,staying late night to care for the baby or even carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements(with due respect to those who had children late as a result of delay in child birth) and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early as, time waits for no one.

my brother let me tell you , any man that speaks this way has no sense at all, Do you know that most Nigerian girls are not marriageable currently? Let me let you know the issue here, this problem runs in circles. Have you ever wondered why Nigerian men are the most preferred in most African and European countries ? Is because we know how to love . Now let’s see this from the negative point of view. Have you ever wondered how most of these yahoo boys make it in romance scam ? (Which I totally condemn) . Is simply because of there projection of character with a negative intention , which is to say that they know how to make a woman feel loved and win her heart. An average Nigerian male youth grew up loving our girls only to find out the opposite later on. The same measure they used to like the ladies is equal to they measure the use in hating them .Most guys did not start cheating on there first dates until they were heart broken , then it became a pay back agenda. Today our girls, or most and not all are currently not desirable for marriage .promiscuous and entitlement mentality has engulfed them. I will tell you that some guys are not getting married, is simply because of fear and not money. What most girls do this days would make you give up totally on marriage. I have seen liquid money gees say that they can’t marry a Nigerian girl . In fact I just came back from a marriage ceremony in Rwanda, a friend got married to a Rwandan girl, very pretty and very humble and respectful. I know of friends that married to ladies from other African countries and I will tell you , they are not complaining at all. So back home where did we get it wrong . What is wrong with our ladies . You don’t just assume and talk, do your research and study the statistics . Our ladies are lacking a lot that makes marriage horrible hearing . I know there are still good ladies out there , they should fight against or try correcting these bad eggs , because they way I see it in future a lot of guys from naija would not marry Nigerian ladies, it has started already. So after suffering the hardship of this country you would want to settle with someone that would give you an untimely death ? The answer is No. And check the statistics , married men in Nigeria die more than they women . So use your brain and figure out the rest .

Nigerian ladies don’t know that very very soon Nigerian men will stop getting married to them . Growing up I used to like Nigerian girls because I wasn’t into them , but now I hate them with passion. I have discouraged 8 of my friends from getting married to Nigerian girls and now they are thankful. This girls forget that men go through a lot and at they end they take advantage of them. I hate these girls with passion to the extent that I don’t feel for them when they are used for rituals . I will always advice guys to go outside and experience dating and bet you will never want to have anything to do with nigerian girls again . In future I will float a dating site to connect Nigerian men with other African girls and girl abroad . I want to see these useless girls suffer and die alone . Almost all of them are prostitutes , I despise them so badly that I can’t even stand them in person . My advice to Nigerian men is love still exist , that girl you fantasized about growing up still exit , but I will tell you this for a fact , you can’t get her in Nigeria. So just move out and allow these jezibels to spend the rest of there life’s alone .

okoroemeka:
don't let economic reasons cloud your judgement,why does the west have highest divorce rate? feminism?or passport Bros?do you think an average African Americans black woman is better to be a wife than my woman from imo state?do you think you can marry a 50yr old American woman if not for papers and her money? Nigerian girls maybe dumb,stupid and low in your region but in my imo state our girls are smart,educated and beautiful.

whattttttttt ? Which imo state hellooo , I have lived in imo state for sometime , somewhere around ekenegbu and I can say with serious proof that owerri girls are the worst , don’t even say that . Owerri wey I know ? First na hook girls full owerri , I bet you can’t see any girl in owerri that does not do hookup , the place is a place where men come to have fun , so there entitlement mentality is very high. Don’t even go there , and even the the guys in owerri are complaining. If you date or marry an owerri girl your name na sorry . the like yahoo boys because they like flexing . Bro owerri girls are never ever good . But truely Nigerian girls are not marriageable, they are the number one worst in Africa . If you travel out of Nigeria to east Africa and date there girls you will never have anything to do with any girl from Nigeria in your life . I never knew how bad Nigerian girls are until I experienced other African girls . You go see girl wey get sweet shape, better yarnsh and fine face but still loyal . They believe in love and still send love messages . They are supportive and nice , homely and always willing to learn . If it is sex they will give it to you in a very lovely manner. Bro travel and see , don’t go far rather check East African girls like Tanzania, Uganda , Rwanda, Burundi . I swear if you come back naija you will never want to have anything to do with Nigerian girls. Bro dating a Nigerian girl is hell , and I can never marry them at all . It would be a nightmare . So bro don’t defend owerri girls they also have absolutely nothing to offer .

I believe there are good women but very difficult to find in Nigeria. It's that sad that men have given up looking for ladies for relationship but only for sex and guys try to make sexual relationships transactional to avoid attachments. It's very sad, and the funny thing is that these ladies know they have failed, and I know they wish this narrative about how men see them can change but it would only get worst. Do ladies know how bad they have treated men , that so many Nigerian men today are dead because the choosed to love someone and to do anything to make that someone happy and at the end the get caught and sometimes killed ? Do you know how many men now detest and hate women to the point of using them for rituals as a result of there opportunistic nature ( you no see me when I dey broke now you come see me now wey I don get money) . Do you know that by statistics married men die more in Nigerian than women as a result of heart attacks and high blood pressures . What I think Nigerian men should do is to try and find love else where . Just travel, if you still like black girls try other African countries then you will realize that love can be found if you are willing to go miles for it . Some of our African ladies are beautiful, lovely, caring, understanding, and would always want to connect with you . Nigerian men are prefered in most African countries and that proofs that Nigerian guys are never the problem in this unfortunate and stupid narrative Nigerian girls have formed . So guys if you want to get a loyal wife , try other African ladies I promise you will never regret it . Let all Nigerian men chase happiness elsewhere and leave this bitches to stick to themselves till 40 and 50 years .

CAPSLOCKED:
NAH, THERE'S NO NEED FOR THIS. YOU CAN NURSE YOUR DISDAIN QUIETLY BUT ONCE YOU START TO SPEAK LIKE THIS THE NEXT THING THAT'LL FOLLOW IS VIOLENCE.
THERE'S NOT A SINGLE REASON IN THE WORLD TO HATE WOMEN AND GO TO EXTENT OF CALLING ON FOLKS TO JOIN YOUR BASHING CRUSADE. WOMEN ARE PEOPLE AND PEOPLE ARE GOOD AND BAD DEPENDING ON THE CIRCUMSTANCES.

KEEP PLAYING YOUR GAME AND BEING THE DON BUT WHEN YOU INTENTIONALLY CHOOSE MISOGYNY IS THE POINT YOU'VE LOST YOUR MIND.

CHEERS.

Nigerian women , of course, and that's the reason we feel this way . Growing up we thought we were going to enjoy what we saw our uncle's enjoy in the blues old days when love was in the air, we noticed our dads eat with bigger plates served specially. Respect and love together with commitments were involved. Childhood relationships made sense , only to grow up to realize that the era of the blues old days had gone. The ladies now are something else, making men to loose total hope in Nigerian girls, our girls have developed a very horrible mentality towards men. Guys should try other African ladies especially from east Africa , you will feel like the blues old days again , Trust me .

rainmaker12:
Abeg answer, people dey wait.
E be like say na olosho full everywhere.
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I no wan hear church o. Na devil's full there.

I have also asked myself this question and came up with a conclusion that good girls are very difficult to find in a country like Nigeria, alot of things have changed in this country, our intimate relationships can no longer be sustained. It's all about what you can give to get , the juice behind love or connection is gone in this country. Almost every girl for naija dey hustle so no time to show good character. Dating in Nigeria would make you hate women and begin to develop a cold heart towards them, but I tell you it's just our ladies , Nigerian guys travel to south Africa and get married without a blink because of the quality there women project over there. When you go out of the shores of Nigeria to try Kenya , Uganda , Rwanda , ladies mostly east or other African countries, you are likely to show yourself as a spender because of our connecting code or pattern of showing workings to our Nigerian girls , if you do quarter of what we do for our girls to these ladies you will see gratitude and deep appreciation , there mode of dating is very different from ours in Nigeria, these ladies are lovely, caring, supportive , and they very pretty ones are still humble and homely and that you hardly see in naija. Infact guys if you really want to find good African ladies that still have love in them like they blues old days try other African countries your perception about ladies would change , then you will know how beautiful and lovely women can be , our Nigerian girls of this age have damaged they concept of real heart to heart connection which is very bad , Love still exist but no be for naija, leave naija if you really want to find very good ladies that would give you peace , but if you can contend with naija girls and don't want to try other ladies from a different culture then sooth yourselves or wait till you find yourself a good one and that could be two days after the second coming of Christ.

Realkenny:
I've seen hundreds of post on nairaland relating to the Effect of porn and masturbation ,a recent post I read listed all the negative effect like low libido, you become afraid to talk to women, you feel tired etc.

But my concern about this is that when people are done masturbating they release what we call SEMEN same as when they have sexual intercourse with either their wife or someone else, So if after having sex we still release the same SEMEN after masturbating then shouldn't the side effect of masturbation be the same as that of sexual intercourse.

So my question now is why do people create thread on how to stop the act of masturbation and not how to stop having sex.

to compare between masturbation and sex , my take is that sex is more and more dangerous than masturbating. masturbating has its own draw backs but it can not be compared with what sex can do to you. Sex is good when done with someone you are in a relationship with or someone you are married to , the feel is nice generally because you are doing it with a human being, but let us list down the effect of sex and what makes it more dangerous spiritually and physically.

You have sex with someone who is not hygienic and you begin to perceive horrible stinking smell that would hunt your nose for days .

You can contact some very horrible STDs that could make you cry and beg God with your dialect to spare you from this kind of sickness, then you give your life to Christ during they sickness period.

You can get infection and of course another terrible one by licking somewhere down below for those that do such a huge rubbish all in the name of sexual pleasure. In this case you swallow saliva together with the infectious content. And oh yes trust me from experience, your stomach would never be thesame when they effect kicks in , then as a result of this you start to call the names of your dead relatives to come and help you, and later start suspecting that you must have been poisoned by someone meanwhile it's you who is the fool that brought it upon yourself and if you call God and your ancestors for this you might be struck by thunder.

You can get waist pain or muscle pull during sex all because you want to satisfy an idiot telling you to hit it harder , harder . In some cases after the struggle you might faint or pass out and she might think she did well but without the notice that she might have killed you .

You might also have sex and some how die on top which is another horrible way of going, And a very serious stigma and shame you have brought to yourself that will go straight to a dark place in the after life and shame caused to those you have left behind .

You can contact a very terrible spirit of bad luck and spiritual problems attached to the person you are having sex with, then later you begin to wonder why you can not even afford a stick of cigarette and beer , and all promises for aid from your friends and family members would tend not to come through, because you have added like 8 other spirits from another person's background , so your family and friends can not recognize you spiritually again, Then later you sink into deep depression.

You risk alot during sex : your energy, your money, and in some cases your life or health . Masturbation has slight effect because generally , ejaculation of semen most times is not good because your semen carries your creative energy, the ability to have a sustainable strength and perseverance to achieve certain goals depends on your semen store house.

So there are lots of conflicting ideas about masturbation and sex . If you want to be strong and achieve goals in life don't just do semen wasting .

But to compare between masturbation and sex , masturbation is far safer than sex apart from the slight side effects and draw backs psycologicaly that can be contained .

I don't hate our Nigerian girls but I wish they could do better , it's so disappointing how our girls have turned out to be this way . You can hardly see a good girl to get married to in this country , now you hear fellow Nigerians recommending you to other African countries that there ladies still have marriage culture grip on them, it's so sad that as a Nigerian guy you can do the best you can in a relationship, try to be the man but your effort would never be regarded by these ladies , I have dated and I have heard stories from fellow men the result is always thesame . The fact is that we don't hate our Nigerian girls but we wished they are good and we can be proud to defend them else where but we can't , they don't appreciate anything you do for them, well I wish they change . Nigerian guys are prefered in other African countries not because we love to spend for ladies but because of how we treat women and we understand our responsibilities when it comes to taking care of ladies and they always love Nigerian men for that and they appreciate us , and those are the reasons Nigerian men don't prefer to come back home to marry and even if they do the marriage don't last because they have tested yam and cocoyam and known the difference, I pray they change but as for me I have given up on our Nigerian girls and I can't see myself getting married to them . Let me try some other ladies in other African countries. As for my Nigerian sisters please you ladies should change because you are gradually loosing Nigerian men , because soon Nigerian men would no longer see marrying you girls as an option .

I don't know why I hate and detest women so much, even my own sister. Please should I be worried? If my sister ask me for 10k (I've the complete money) but I would send 5k and tell her to use her body to get the remaining 5k it's non of my fuckin business. Afterall she has other brothers, I'm not the only son. (it's becus she's my sis that's why I'm helping her sef)

I have nothing to do with ladies except sex. Even the sex, I always try as much as I can to make it transactional. Everyone knows I don't help or do favors to women and I don't expect any fvckin help or favors from them.

There's this runs girl I brought to my house last week around 8pm, she said a night is 7k, I gave her the money, later she said I should offer her food nw. I told her if you're hungry, go outside, buy food and eat afterall I've paid you already, Infact immediately I had sex with her I told her to leave my house around 10pm. She was like bros abi you said a night nw.

I guess there was harmattan this morning, I saw some of my colleagues drinking hot coffee at the office canteen, so a female colleague asked me to buy her a cup of coffee, I told her "no bi only a cup of coffee, na a cup of agbo, I go buy for you rubbish" ...she vex but I don't care.

I ride Honda accord popularly known as 'evil spirit'....so another new female staff asked me to please give her a lift. I told her "no bi only lift na forklift I go give you" I wind up and drove off. My guys in my car was laughing and saying that's not fair. But I don't care

I'm 31 years old, I can't remember the last time was in a relationship, no plans of settling down sef, no lady has bought a gift for me in my life, not even the boxers and singlets simps do complain about.

Women said I'm heartless, stingy, rude, wicked, I'm not romantic, e.t.c. the funny part is I don't give a fvck about what they say. And since I joined nairaland 2018 it's been worse, from frying pan to fire. My mother has talked to me about this hatred for women yet no changes.

Please is this normal

but seriously women are the most annoying creatures created by God , and I am pretty sure he must have regretted creating a woman after she lured Adam. A lady would not like you because you don't have money to give to her then when you make money they will expect you to connect with them let them suck the living day light out of you, they are opportunistic creatures and that's why some men get back at them to use them for rituals. I really do not like them as well and the reason I could talk or even exchange pleasantries with them is because I have a sister and mother. Women are the most difficult creatures here on earth , you can't please them, op I understand you . Some guys here would say trash but when you look indepth you will notice the reason why they are not the best of creatures here on earth. All the know is to form with all fake stuffs , sometimes I ask how do people cope with them in relationships and marriages and besides the married men don't go back home after work , they choose to go home when they are drunk all because they don't want to encounter bad moments with there wife's . No one is perfect but they should stop forming with all the fake things so that guys can reduce there expectations, op I really feel you , but hate the ones outside but just love your sis and mother .

Gatekeepers:
For the fact that you listed all these points And you still think and talk about marriage, it then means you are seeking for who will advice you against the right thing to do.

Irrespective of wrong advices you will read from this Nairaland, be reminded that God your creator sees marriage as good. He said it's not good that a man should be alone. If God said singleness is not good, and he made it good by providing Eve to Adam as a wife. Are you the one that will now say marriage is not good?

If you find your real wife/husband all these complains you listed will disappear.

let's not go there, read your Bible further and read what eve did to Adam. They world you are seeing today is the craft of eve , the evil and all.

I had an interesting conversation with a close friend who traveled through Adis Ababa on his way back from Israel.

An Ethiopian travel guide warned them to be careful of their interactions with Ethiopians especially "toasting" their babes because according to her, most Ethiopians hate Nigerians.

I was really surprised because ive heard of the hated South Africans have for Nigerians but not Ethiopians.

Is it true?
And if it is why?
Any Ethiopians in the house or Nigerians who have experienced any such hostility?

truth be told bro , Ethiopians do not like Nigerians, I heard a conversation with one sometime ago and she said it to me openly that her people (Ethiopians) do not like Nigerians. Bro I laughed at her because I have never seen myself liking them for once , there women are pretty no doubt but they are very very very poor , and poverty mentality has finished them , I have never liked them for the fact that they feel they are African half cast and they easily fall for white men and don't like to mingle with blacks , if you see an Ethiopian marrying a black man they must have met abroad , Ethiopians to me have nothing to offer and I have never considered them to be Africans for long , they way they talk, admire an Ethiopian girl online and mingle with her in person you will surely regret , and pretty as they are they have poor hygiene, all that glitters are not gold , so if they hate Nigerians who cares , I personally do not like them and don't even have any intent to mingle with them . They are too locked and backwards , na just name old name Dem get . A friend of mine told me he travelled to Ethiopia and this people's hospitality was very horrible at a point they nearly even bit him up . Well I told him he is a fool for going to such a place , I know they don't like Nigerians and as a Nigerian I don't like them either . So bro if you want to hear the fact truely yes they don't like you as a Nigerian, and you are not supposed to like them either . There are places that don't worth visiting.

jpphilips:
Like I said, you are a very low IQ, you don't deserve a woman, its too risky to allow you spread your genes to an innocent generation.
Being a man isnt determined by privates but your ability to reason, you lack the later.

well a mugu would always be a mugu , mark my words in 5 years from now many Nigerians would leave Nigeria to look for good ladies else where , and I know you are female ,you will be the one to regret it . Nigerian ladies are the worst in Africa. And that's the fact .

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Oregbe17:
If the love is subject to "money only" then it is a bad foundation to start out.

very true , this is how the have made Nigerian girls into thinking relationship is all about money, too much spending on women kills there morals , I don't blame south African men for hating on Nigerian men , our men killed there relationship game. Nigerian men are suffering it even here in Nigeria , we don't find good girls in Nigeria anymore, We they guys spoilt them , now we are going to another man's country , spending on there women and snatching there girl friends. There were still responsible south African men that were taking care of there families , what we did is to tell them that men need to do more , which is very bad

ngbedesamuel:
Without minsing words, Nigerian girls are one of the most beautiful women all over the world not just africa...

The level of exposure Nigerians have cannot be compared to anywhere in africa and so influence their behavior. You don't expect our girls to be so naive ( sorry to use that word) as these other african countries...

Big hips and thighs don't tell anything about beauty in my opinion, I see these eastern and southern african as mama because of their sizes and style of dressing and make up... big and dirty and cheap and always happy to mingle... no class just readily available for cheap fun....

I don't mean to degrade any woman from any country, but compare to Nigeria, they can't match up.....

thank you for giving them Nigerian girls hope, and you know it's a big lie, most girls from naija don't have anything to offer , most men home and abroad complain thesame thing. I am happy I am off the thought of having anything to do with them ever, the no get peace for mind and Dem dey brutal , a Nigerian girl can betray you and would not even blink , though there are good ones but very very very few and difficult to find . Well I am off the search for naija babes , guys the kind of lady you settle with determines your happiness in life , check statics of deaths in marriages in Nigeria it's always the men that die more, why? no peace , for relationship na drama for marriage na die , I fell bad anyways the bad girls have made things unbearable for the few good ones .

frozen70:
I have already done that to him

after south Africa then go to Rwanda go to other African countries there girls are finer than Nigerian girls, Nigerian girls are ugly and ill mannered, I can day that anywhere , if you like naija girls just try and travel to any of this African countries you will throw away Nigerian girls.

hn show for your yansh

how did you feel when the girl you were supposed to marry cheated on you Mr nobody , you better stop talking none sense, let's tell ourselves the truth our girls are bad , may be few are good but most are horrible, if you help them the think you are a fool , I see them as devil's witches. Bad blood

jpphilips:
This is what you get when you get into women affairs without your brain, sane people dont experience all these because they know their check out time. get psychiatric help ASAP

you are not well for saying that , so if you love someone and give the person your all and you get bad in return so it means the person is not mentally ok ? You are not ok yourself, and you men saying these things your sons will suffer these things , instead of you to atleast analys it and confront it you are saying this, let me tell you ,travel round expecially African countries and you will see good pretty girls that are not moved by what they look like , go to Nigerian dating sites you cant see any decent girl for dating. All the girls are all hustlers .

spanishkid:
1) THEY LOOK FOR VULNERABLE GUYS AND SCAM THEM WITH LOVE THAT DOESN'T EXIST IN THEIR HEARTS.


2) THEY ARE INTO A TYPE OF BUSINESS CALLED MULTIPLE BOYFRIENDS. THE HIGHER THE BOYFRIENDS, THE HIGHER THE MONEY DERIVED.


3) AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN LADY IS NOT CONCERNED ABOUT HER MAN'S FUTURE. ALL THEY KNOW IS HIS CURRENT FINANCIAL SITUATION AND ONCE HE'S BROKE THEY RUN TO THE NEXT VICTIM ON THEIR FAKE LOVE TRAP.

4) THEY ARE LIKE A PLAGUE IN EVERY SERIOUS GUYS LIFE, THEY DISTRACT YOU FROM YOUR ACADEMICS OR MAKING MONEY WITH THEIR FAKE LOVE CRIES. DON'T BE DISTRACTED, THE END GAME IS TO DRILL MONEY OUT OF YOU TILL YOU GET BROKE.

5). THEY ARE INSATIABLE. HENCE AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN GIRL KEEPS AS MANY GUYS AS POSSIBLE AND ALL SHE OFFERS THEM IN RETURN IS PUSSSY MAINTAINED WITH ALUM TO MAKE HER LOOK TIGHT AND DECENT DOWN THERE.

6) THEY HAVE TERRIBLE HYGIENE. MOST NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE DIRTY AND PRODUCE TOXIC STENCH IN THEIR VAGINA DURING SEX. SOME CAN WEAR A PANT FOR 3 DAYS


7) THEY EAT LIKE GLUTTON AND GROW BELLIES LIKE A PREGNANT WOMAN. IF YOU DOUBT THIS, WALK TO A NEARBY EATERY AND SEE THEIR LEVEL OF GLUTTONY. YOU WILL SEE THEIR TABLES FILLED WITH FOODS AND DRINKS THEIR PARENTS CAN'T AFFORD TO GIVE THEM AT HOME COURTESY OF A NEW MAGA IN FRONT OF HER SMILING LIKE A ROASTED GOAT WHILE SHE PATIENTLY EMPTIES HIS POCKET.


NIGERIAN LADIES SEE RELATIONSHIP AS A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. ONCE YOU'RE IN THEIR FAKE LOVE TRAP, THEY EXPECT YOU TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES THEIR FATHERS CAN'T TAKE


Once you spot a Nigerian girl showing you green light, be careful as the smile is fake. The quality and quantity of love you get from her depends on how financially buoyant you are and what gifts you have to offer.

very few Nigerian girls are good, very very few are good . If you want to marry a good lady , pretty ,and yet humble go to other African countries .

Sorry I can understand the state you are in. .You are probably recovering from heartbreak..so sorry for that..

we guys are also the ones spoiling these girls , do you think it is easy for someone to come here and post these things about his country girls , it's because it hurts , and maybe he must have taken the step too far but most of what he said is the truth, have you asked your father's if they experienced what we are experiencing from our girls currently ? If your mother was not well behaved your father would not have meet her or decided to marry her, that post was written years ago, and currently in 2022 our girls are now the worst girls in Africa by statics, ask Nigerians in other neighboring countries the will tell you . It pains me because I also have a sister too and cousin sisters , I know there are good girls in Nigeria but the bad ones are more , what is the solution? with what is going on most guys even scared of trying they good girls because they have given up in the search for good girls in Nigeria, what most guys lookout for is just girls to bash, but not love and intimacy, guys if you were lucky to find good girls good for you . But most guys now in 2022 have given up in the search for true love and relationships. it's painful let we guys tell ourselves the truth we are not happy. My dream has always been to marry a Nigerian but I have also given up . Naija girls can kill your love life, it's not about money, there is this mentality that I don't know where it came from, give them all the will still disappoint you , well girls make una see una sef chop . I cant support anyone to stick his ass here looking for love. Go to other African countries, there women are still ready to love . You see this sharpness una carry come these girls very soon girls here in naija would look for men for marriage but the will never find. The time is coming .

sweetestguy:
We always complain of how greedy naija babes are, and how they love money a lot,but come to think of it, you meet a girl who obviously doesn't even like u,not to think of love,u now use money to impress her. Why won't she play along to dry ur pocket, she's just a smart girl,and there is nothing wrong in being smart.

The signs will be very clear that she doesn't care about you, yet you won't mind spending dough to win her and after you come here to post on how naija babe are bad.

Have you ever noticed that some girls that drains the guys pocket have another guy they don't even ask for anything?

guys grow up, we still have plenty of girls who truly love, just find the one that that suits you.

big lies naija girls don't love. The are all thieves , I will say it anywhere .

kaziblake:
Like your sisters?

naija girls are not good , try other African countries and don't even tell them you are Nigerian the will treat you well .

Micromaker23:
I am a Nigerian too and what he said is true

the op is right .

ari3l:
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You just scribbled total bullshit here. Possibly a "bad girlie " with big nyash and breast has deceived you. Na we say make you no shine eye before u get babe?

I am a Nigerian too and what he said is true

Danfuster:
This dude is just stupid. Tho naija babes can sabi fvck up but niccur you is a pvssy, your nothing but a low self esteem sissy stale sucking a55 niccur. You sell your own out like this cos you got one dumb white pig smelling like girl somewhere who only loves you on logic.

My Naija ladies are nothing but LOVELY and FABULOUS

big lies

Premiumwriter:
you are not a redpiller bro. Stop deceiving yourself

I wish this post would be here in the next 10 to 15 years , my advise to my son is to never date a Nigerian girl for anything what so ever they are horrible, I personally stopped a white guy from dating a Nigerian girl they are terrible .

donbachi:
Enjoy ur new found love.u've been looking for a woman dat will take care of u.u've gotten one.leave naija girls alone.just say u cant afford them.

mugu Nigerian ladies are waste ask them apart from pussies what can they offer .

Which Nigerian girl will date you with your quarter to tear penis.Nonsense and STD carriers

why say that , Nigerian girls are messed up .

I seriously don't care bout nairaland men, sorry boys.

don't worry you will soon become a lesbian. No man for you pretty soon

MissRaine69:
This has been a reoccurring theme here and on other forums . All the Nigerian men in my circle of friends, family and acquaintances are adamant that they will never date or marry a Nigerian women I find this point of view very unsettling so I will ask the Men of NL....What particular aspect when it comes to MOST Nigerian women do you struggle with?
Bear in mind you have sisters and aunties that are Nigerian think about it first before dishing out the insults

my opinion, I really don't know if it has to do with civilization or development, and I don think our fathers experienced what we are seeing today when it comes to relationship with our ladies, it is very terrible and horrible, I ask this questions why do married Nigerian men die more than they women? it's just a question, Nigerian girls are not the best candidates for marriage and I also have friends too that got married to non Nigerian ladies and they are happily married, it is very difficult to get a good girl in Nigeria these days , go to tinder and Badoo you can't see a decent girl for relationship, almost all are hustlers. I ask, is it the economy ? Is there life all about slaying for money ? by rating in relationships in Africa Nigerian men are the best men , I hear this from my friends that live in other African countries because they say we are caring and loving , we take good care of our women but in return they don't like us , all we get is cheating, pretence, and when it tends to look rough in difficult times they leave you. And guess what these Nigerian guys now bounce back by using them for rituals which is very terrible and I am totally against that, Nigeria guys are going through alot and what they need to keep them going is love and encouragement, and not cheating and heart breaks, a man's world and a woman's world are two different experiences, from all I have seen and witnessed in Nigeria I can't even think of getting married to a Nigerian. Even if you get married to them because you have money, wait till you start having difficulties you will then notice that you got married to a stranger that would nag you,insult you , compare you with other men, then you go for check up at the hospital they doctor tells you that you have high BP . She won't stop o ,she will continue till you die and that explains why married men in Nigeria die more . There are good ones but very very very few and difficult to find. You like Nigerian girls because you are used to them , try other girls from other African countries you will write Nigerian girls off totally. As for me from my experience and what I have noticed from other Nigerian guys that have travelled out to search for love say it's difficult to find in Nigeria so I advice that if you as a guy really want to experience true love be willing and ready to travel out to get it . It's unfortunate our Nigerian girls can't give you that without something attached .