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Like the Muslims?

ITbomb:
I wonder what the flat earth protagonist would say now

Then why did you open this thread to cry?

supercase1:
I know u will support her u see, Y una no get sense, well janet doesn't deserve me and I will get a more prettier girl and a better car
u ladies can never make me feel bad godforbid

But when you people ditch your wives for white women because of green card you call it hussling. Sorry, I have no pity for hypocrites.

supercase1:
If only she was patient with me well!!! I would replace her but not now

It's funny how y'all expect women. To marry anything that crawls just because he professes love. You yourself can you marry an ugly, illiterate groundnut seller?

Is it not poor men whose stories of domestic violence against their wives hit FP everyday? Lmao!!

jakandeola:
when u see a guy who want to love and tresure ur heart u begin to play wit him.u ask if his fine.if his rich or can speak English den u miss it.why a girl who is more wise and despirate see d man and marry him.dey are in love and live happily forever why ur in pains.

Isn't America filled with crackheads,
touts, gang members, school shooters, serial killers, pedophiles, mental illness, all forms of depravity etc Just look at the state of Detroit and Chicago where killing and gunning someone on the street in broad day light is the other of the day.

HannahHitler:
homosexuality sha entered the conversation from no where!!!! Lmao. So you want to beat a gay child till he turns straight ABI? Just negodu. Upon the beating in Nigeria, just see how your country is filled with criminals and lawlessness.

According to which stupid pediatrics. Lol. The same pediatrics that now think it's okay to turn your male child into a girl if the child feels he was born in the wrong gender, lmao. The same kids in America that are allowed to bring home their bf and have sex under the roof. The same place where teen pregnancy is at an all time high, lmao.

Listen, have sense of your own. You must not copy everything from the whites. Those same kids were not abused still go on to shoot up Schools, are disrespectful to their parents etc but here in Africa and the rest of the sane world where kids discipline is encouraged, you'll find that kids are better behaved, more respectful etc.

themaestro08:
Using your logic some people should be assaulted if they commit an offence, right?

Flogging, slapping, canning or any form of corporal punishment is according to pediatrics not only dangerous and traumatic but also has long term effects to the poor child.

Mumu, rascality is not a gene and can't be passed on to an offspring.

selfemployed:
Where did the kids inherit the gene of rascality if not from the parents.

The parents should first submit themselves for punishment for passing on the gene of rascality to their children.

Its a serious offense.

How do you know that? It is not new a new thing that children in societies where rod discipline are prominent are better behaved than the others.
Eg, African kids are better behaved than their US or European counterparts. Indian, Chinese, Korean, Japanese kids are on average better behaved too.

sassysure:
Stop misleading people.
The cane used on u didn't make u a good child.
It didn't mould you one bit.
Stop supporting bad things.

Then relocate to America where you won't flog your child. Here in Nigeria,
it is in the African culture to discipline a child with a whip for correction.

Terrible parenting bla bla bla, that same country where parents allow their young teens have sex with their bf/gf in the home under their very roof. Nonsense!!

themaestro08:
How about someone who's parent never laid a hand on him ( discipline him through engaging in discussions with him and other smart methods) and he later turned out to be a Great man in life?

Flogging is terrible parenting, in fact it should be an offence just like an assault.

Why, this is so touching.

chigoizie7:
Yes it is.

But the question there is, as a parent, will you have the heart and mind to flog your child?

To even scold my sister kids de hard me, I mean, those innocent little kids that will always come to you to tell them sorry if when you were the one that made them cry, in that moment, I will be full of guilt. Thus, I hate making them cry. Those are my sister kids. I love them so much. Talk more of my own. Will I be able to raise that hand or that cane?


I just pray that I will marry a good wife and mother , who can always do that which I cannot do to the kids.

So Japan, South Korea, Singapore,
UAE, Saudi Arabia, Scandavia and most of eastern Europe etc are third world countries?

KingAzubuike:
It's usually common in 3rd world countries. I just see it as a cruel , inhumane method of discipline. I see no reason why you should cause a child severe and unbearable pain all in the name of correction. I've seen 2 cases where kids were flogged to the extent that they gave up the ghost. It's just pathetic.

I have seen men's joysticks while they're urinating on the street and I didn't suddenly feel the need to rape them. I've seen a man playing football on the street wearing that was like a pant only and I didn't feel like raping him either.

Timson01:
Some ladies are really very confused if you come out like this how do u want the guy to see ,if I am the one self I will be thinking in my mind like see prostitute now they make boys list after them and tell us they are only looking for attention what kind of stupid attention is that one they put men on too much pressure yet they pretend to only be trying to look good pure nonsense why will you dress out like this and all you want is the boy to see that you are fine ,ladies should understand that we men tend to address woman by the way they dress

Stacking degrees is not reflective of having a vision and purpose. There are several broke and jobless people with several degrees who make it seem like their only aim in life is stacking degrees.

Thiwalade:
I am a young man in my mid twenties, I am a PhD student in a federal University earning 10k as stipend. Do I have enough vision yet?

So it is when talking about a broke 30k earning man that you know his wife can work and earn as well?
But before now when talking about working class women y'all would be calling them hoes saying women who work sleep with their bosses.

Lmao, Nigerian men and double standards.

Mgbadike80:
you can get self contain apartment in outlying areas of Onitsha for 60k a year (or more sha), public yards with shared facilities costs less. They should plan tgeir lives accordingly, and stop assuming that the lady is unemployed, she should get her own 30k job. how much do you think a man should be making before thinking of marriage?

Abeg shut up. What part of Christianity tells you to kill someone for money? Instead there areverses in the Bible encouraging people to work hard as there's no food for a lazy man.

It is even in traditional African religions where such rituals are common so say what you know.

Drince:
This is what happens when we take religion too serious.. Because you want to be rich you don't need to work hard, all you need to do is to just go kill somebody and you will get rich.. Who brought this mentality? They should be killed.. When need to amend or change our laws

Don't mind them, saying what they don't know.

Temple1288:
Stop saying what you know nothing about.. Even White people preform rituals.. They invoke all kinds of spirits and stuffs!

You're the one that has been brainwashed to not believe the supernatural exists.

Typhoonsbane:
Some brainwashed folks will come for you now

Shut up your stupid mouth. If that was all you had to say after reading the story then you really are mad. You yourself how many girls you don fvck for your life? Being sexually promiscuous doesn't justify murder, idiot.

northvietnam:
Please if u have comprehension deficiencies don’t bother read my post...





From the first photo, and from what they are saying, she’s is pregnant.

From the first photo,the one she’s wearing a black top, the belle don dey show abi? And that means her parents knows she’s pregnant...
And this same girl carry that pregnancy and told her parents that she is going to meet a friend ... if na that guy give an belle, she won’t introduce him as a friend to her parents that she is going to see.

While she went to meet the man she just met 2 months ago and
carry another man belle dey go meet another man for hotel ...










Even after getting pregnant, she still Dey waka waka with other men...

RIP shaa

Telling someone is not just enough.
Let the person you're going to meet know that someone knows you're meeting him.

sexymoma:
Naso one of my ex tell me say make we meet say he wan apologize
Mtcheew, naso i yarn am say "u sabi my house, come and apologize, i'm at home"
this should be a lesson to girls too, No matter what, tell someone where you are heading to... if you can't tell your parent, Tell your close friend

Lmao

onegig:
More reason I really don't get women in Nigeria and their overjoy to just get pregnant.

If I were to be a woman . God knows I would fuxkkking stay away from.pregnancy.

You loose your body, you are burdened for 9months and even after that you either get depressed and suicidal from post partum depression or this above. Add to the risks of childbirth and the stress of sleepless night tending to babies.

I can't really wrap my head why women are so joyous to go through all these multiple times. Like are you guys masochists and love pain and trouble so much?

Let me tell you something. My second cousin married a wife with this issue. I was a child then but I knew what was happening.

It was my house they always brought her to for prayers. My cousin (her husband) stood by her every step of the way and never loved her less despite her condition. Honestly, this issue brought so much shame to the entire family and some people even adviced him to leave her but he didn't.
He stood with her through it all and even when she insulted him and harassed during her paranoia and hallucinations, he never responded back or abused her.

Today, she is perfectly healthy and they are living happily.

Mind you this happened 4 times.

Alooone:
I never had it before, the sickness was diagnosed barely two weeks after delivery

If you didn't see this, you'd have been shouting olosho like the rest of you do.

Welrez:
So sorry to hear that. It is impressive to see her like going into farming to augment entertainment earnings.

A biological father has no right to his own child if he rejected her and wasn't in his life for 16 years. No right whatsoever.

meobizy:
If you reread his original post this is what he has in mind.


They can do this, which is the right step. Visually they can tell if the man is capable enough to cater for her.


Being the legal father affords him more right over the OP in the child's welfare.

Mumu. A child is owned by both parents. Any parent that neglects his child loses the right to that child forever. At this point no court anywhere in the world will grant custody of the child to the father who rejected the child, disgraced the mother and was absent from the child's life for almost 2 decades.

Now according to even Igbo customary law, a man has no right to a child who's mother he didn't pay bride price for.

So either ways, it's a lose lose situation for the deadbeat father.

jidamsel43:
The whole world knows that you have really trued on the girl up to that level but the truth is that you are not his biological father. Whether now or later , man must claim his property.
In Africa , a man owns children and he has right to claim it anytime. Forget about denial or irresponsible , he is still the real father of the girl.
Discus with him on what he needs to do . I believe he will be willing to do it

Shut up your stupid mouth. I had similar dreams severally in 2014 and I definitely know it's a sign of things to come.

If you have nothing sensible to contribute then get lost.

Jimi24:
This is the low mind, low IQ wishful thinking mindset that makes most prophecies a scam in this country.
In your emptiness you see the God of all creation as a SE Nigerian.
Nigeria is not a joke, it is just that most Nigerians cant think because of a soft materialistic attitude to life

You too can earn on IG. Or are you paying you to use Facebook and the other ones you use?

24kmagic:
That one concern him followers.

Facebook, WhatsApp and Nairaland don do me.

Any other social media is not for me

That's a very lovely picture.

OgenemaroKessy:
My friend, it's a sign of responsibility and maturity that you think this way, some folks in their forties hardly reason, it all depend ofn what you want, like I for example, I wanted to marry at 25, but Amaka disappointed me and I have to find Inakeme, which took another two and half years, it has nothing to do with your salary, once your a hardworking man, and you believe yourself, Nwanne your good to go. I sealed � my deal at 27 and at 32 Nwanne I muchara Nwa, now am fully into my profession and hustle. The earlier the better. That's the only decision that I took in my twenties that am proud of. �

You're very very senseless and you have no one to tell you.

womenareapes:
let me advise you!

KILL THAT STUPID FEELING

If you want to have heart attack at early age, be my guest.

Naija women are useless, I repeat Naija women are useless to have a serious relationship

Those apes roaming the streets have serious entitlement issue, and them will drain your life both emotionally and financially.

Apart from sex and bringing bastard to this world, nothing they can offer you.

You are too long to be thinking of settling down.
Just find a young girl and be fvvcking her, that's all.

With that 50k salary of yours, you can accomplish many things like building House, taking good care of yourself, buying yourself a nice electronic to enjoy the flavour of life.

Once you dear add a woman into your life. BOY!
YOU WILL NOT ONLY HATE YOURSELF BUT WISHING YOU WERE NOT BORN

You see those biitches out there called Naija women? there are destiny breakers with low mental self esteem!. There are all just looking for who to dumb there miserable life on. Don't fall victim and spread the word.

Money does not rule the world, Power does. Money gives you just a bit of power but a person in power can still make or mar you even with all your billions.

Ahamefuna0001:
Lol.everyone got their different orientation and opinions.
Thanks a lot.