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I support this too.....

Good morning NL
I'm a 26 years old graduate dating a 22 years old undergraduate.

I have been dating my girlfriend now for 3 years plus now, for most of the 3 years she was very passionate, loving and caring, the best girlfriend any guy could as for. As a matter of fact I have planned us spending our life together.

Until 2 months ago in May, when we had a fight, not the 1st fight we ever had. We have hard even more serious fights in the past, so as usual I expected the fight to be over and forgotten within 24 hours or at most 48 hours like we used to do.

Unfortunately the fight lingered longer than usual, I demanded for a break after that she also demanded for a break too. We settled everything and continued but since then she is just off, as if she is fed up of the relationship, we still talk on phone, she just left my place less than 2 weeks ago but the relationship doesn't feel like I used to.

Recently I have been noticing this guy she always chats long chats with and I asked her about it we had an argument that day, afterwards she said she would end her connection with the guy, only for her to come to my house this last time and I saw her chat and she was still very much chatting and flirting with the same person, I asked her about it and she lied straight to my face that she was no longer in contact with the guy, I forced her until she opened up to still chatting with him but that there is nothing between them. We also had other discussion she clearly lied about. And to be honest, this lying of a thing is a new development, because she has always been an honest girlfriend. But now I noticed we have lapses in our communication, I sometimes call she doesn't pick, then she would call back giving me excuses, she will be online but won't chat me up(which is highly unlike her), I would chat her up and her reply would be delayed. I have been putting up with all this hoping this episode will pass and all will return back to normal.

Then out of the blues, we had no fight, no quarrel or argument she calls me and asked me what will I do if she demands for a break up right now? I was surprised I told her I would be angry but I will grant her, her wish if I realized she was serious. Then she told me she no long knew what she felt for me anymore, that she doesn't understand her feeling towards the relationship, then she demanded for a time off. I got angry as this was coming out of the blues, I told her that if she want to leave she should leave and if she wants to stay she should stay that I'm not giving her a time off because there was clearly no reason for that. And to my surprise she opted to leave the relationship, I was surprised and angry I agreed to her request, only for her to call me the next day apologising and telling me she doesn't know what has come over her (Mind you she broke my heart for those hours because it all happened unprovoked).

Now my friends are advising me not to let her back that she could do a more hurtful thing in the future that her head is no longer in the relationship but I feel I should give her another chance for old times sake at least. But at the same time I don't want to be hurt again, now I notice me gradually pulling out of the relationship, I hardly believe her, the whole episode has made me to start suspecting her.

So NL help please, reasonable advises please.

This is getting out of hand.

China is seriously a racist country.
Had plans of visiting to do business but I change my mind on that.

I hope this is true
Cos our doctors are seriously be neglected in this country.

Jungle don de mature!

We never learn in this country.

I agree with him
When we have a slowpoke as president, and the army chief is only interested in having his boys shoot innocent civilians instead of the armed terrorist.
I totally agree
To ur tent oh Israel

Ok
Everybody now seems to have a rape history

Lol.
Another scam

Ok

What a waste. We love being used in this country for peanuts

Almajiri1:
By the time they're through with Onyeama, There would be nothing left of Airpeace.

Then you know nothing of financial crime committed but the elites.

Try watching to CNN, then you'll know that even the President of America is corrupt. Just Google ^{Donald Trump's impeachment query}

majamajic:
on terms and conditions of opening account in Nigeria banks , they normally put that there might be changes without notifications , that's it


better start charging your costumers , u can't win this case

So in other words you are telling me to swallow the loss caused to my business due to there negligence?

Ok it all began in the month of September when the CBN passed the policy to charge N50 stamp duty on every transactions carried out on a POS machine. So like everyone else l read it on the internet. Not knowing if it was just mere speculation or if it was real, I patiently waited for my bank to notify me of the update, as I use the POS machine for my business, I waited for this notification before actually taking this N50 stamp duty charge from my own customers as I didn't want to exploit my customers by charging them for some thing I read off the internet, which I am not sure of it's authenticity or if my bank has implemented it.

So fast forward to 7th Nov almost 2 months of not receiving any form of information or update from my bank in regards to the stamp duty.
I began to receive debit alerts from my bank for stamp duty, during this period I received over 50 debit alerts for stamp duty. Debits ranging from N500 to N2000 per debit alert. By the end of that day I had received a debit alert of over N50k (50 thousand naira) from my bank, I rushed to the bank to complain but the best the could tell me was that it wasn't there Branch's fault that notifications and debits come from the head office. But the reluctantly agreed to Lodge a complaint for me but telling me that the don't know how far that will go.

Then today I went to the bank to know what the response on the complaint was but I was told that there was no reply from head office on my complaint lodged on 7th Nov 2019 and today is 12th Nov 2019.
How grossly the bank neglects it's customer.

So please I want to take legal action against the bank, because I cannot bear the loss for there negligence and incompetence at passing information at the appropriate time, informing there customers before taking a dime from the customer's Account.

I know the stamp duty charge is legal but there was no proper information before the began to execute it, and it was not executed over time on a day to day bases instead a whopping 50 thousand naira was deducted from my account within a couple of hours (less than 3hrs to be precise).

So please lawyers in the house advise me on how to go about this.

* Mods please help me push this to fp I need people's thoughts on this.

Useless celebs. Ghana I hail oo...

Anyways

Good morning everyone the hotel I work with in lekki is hiring chefs and the need 6 chefs. If u know u are a qualified chef with experience especially in breakfast and u are interested in the position, u can send out ur CV to this email Tampastaffrecruitment@gmail.com, act fast the interview is coming up this week, remember the early bird gets the juiciest fruits. CHEERS and Good luck to all those interested.

Good morning everyone the hotel I work with in lekki is hiring chefs and the need 6 chefs. If u know u are a qualified chef with experience especially in breakfast and u are interested in the position, u can send out ur CV to this email Tampastaffrecruitment@gmail.com, act fast the interview is coming up this week, remember the early bird gets the juiciest fruits. CHEERS and Good luck to all those interested.

We go to church for different reason. But don't make miracles ur only purpose.
Make ur own miracles.
Anyways everyone the hotel I work with in lekki is hiring chefs and the need 6 chefs. If u know u are a qualified chef with experience especially in breakfast and u are interested in the position, u can send out ur CV to this email Tampastaffrecruitment@gmail.com, act fast the interview is coming up this week, remember the early bird gets the juiciest fruits. CHEERS and Good luck to all those interested.

Good morning everyone the hotel I work with in lekki is hiring chefs and the need 6 chefs. If u know u are a qualified chef with experience especially in breakfast and u are interested in the position, u can send out ur CV to this email Tampastaffrecruitment@gmail.com, act fast the interview is coming up this week, remember the early bird gets the juiciest fruits. CHEERS and Good luck to all those interested.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
One is a gold digging bitcch. While the other is a hard working young lady, who has carved a niche for herself in a male's dominated industry.

You have too much bitterness in you...
Drink more water, and stop the hate..
If you happened to be in her shoes which you pray to be, you would be your village people's best child.
Spread love not hate.

that's always where we will come top 10

5 dollars per article is the standard price you can still charge more

ruggedboy01:
I'm still waiting for a protest from the Nigerian youths, to show their anger towards buhari's comment, Instead of ranting online like toothless bulldogs.


Indeed Nigerian youths are lazy and cowards

pls we the LazyNigerianYouth have better things to do than to go n protest and nothing will change afterwards, instead let's go n queue and get our PVC and send some HardworkingNigerianOldmen to go back home to their grand children.

No he should continue 2 stay under the bridge
dumb question

can't wait 4 the dullard to be on his way back 2 Daura.


#LazyyouthsgetyourPVC

We are all Lazy in Nigerian now, so why publish this? They should call the hardworking whites to take the all the positions

That's a huge loss


That could be someone's life investment oo