Thattallgirl:
People need to stop proposing in public places

Do it on a private dinner table or in a spacious room, with flowers, lights (not the type that'll look like shrine), music, cake and chocolates (very important ), non-alcoholic wine etc. Whether the guy kneels or not, as long as there's a ring, no problem Then they dance to the slow music playing in the background...

Gosh, I watch too many Hollywood movies

Yeah you do ,really cool I do the same too ,but I'm not convinced,I know say na naija we dey most ladies here don't really appreciate this stuffs .

Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.

Baba wetin Nigerian girls do you ?

OOzz:
Afonja and wickedness

Why you bringing tribe into this ,speaks of how highly immature you are .

Daprinxy:
The truth is that she has a boyfriend buh she don't just know how to tell you or leave you.is a nature of a girl to be in a relationship and later find someone that possess almost everything she needs in a man and when she do find such guy,she will hardly let you go and also tell you nope because she don't want to loose you and also,she don't wanna cheat on her guy....this kind of girls are almost good girls per say buh the whole decisions are all yours to make brotherly!!!

Thanks for understanding and not calling me a simp bro lol big ups .

Pancakeey:
If that’s you on your profile picture then you’re not that attractive
Lol you can get girls easily so why are you killing yourself for one ?

Yinmu we know your type

Lol how can you possibly know how attractive im or not ,judging by a single picture ?

MJBOLT:

you claim to be an attractive,intelligent bad boy that can easily fvck girls yet you cannot dump a girl that's taking you for a ride

lol man it ain't that easy ,she's different .

Good day nairalanders ,so I met this pretty lady earlier this year before the lockdown started ,I'm in school 200 level ,I toasted her ,got her number and we started chatting on whatsapp often ,she replied me super fast ,had great sense of humour, being really apologetic even when it was my fault and so many other greenlights .
Lol I was falling in love already ,then I grew some balls to ask her to be my girlfriend ,she said dating ain't her thing bla bla bla ,tried my best to convince her but she said no ,mind you I'm damn attractive ,I've got girls without putting much effort and they ended In my bed ,I'm cool ,calm and collected ,kinda intelligent bad boy (dat kind thing ) .

Fast forward to last month when we resumed school ,she was happy to see me and all that ,I was happy to see her too ,we hanged out couple of times and all that, then I reminded her of my still ever blazing affections for her ,this time one on one ,and she said she would love for us to be friends ,I told her I can't be friends with a female I've got feelings for straight up and walked out ,I was pissed like seriously ,she felt sad I could tell from her facial expression that day ,but I had to respect myself and tell the truth.

I started ignoring her for a while ,but then she kept saying what I was doing wasn't fair yen yen yen ,I felt guilty, promised to change ,we started talking again this time I've had several other female friends who likes flocking round me ,seeing me with these girls made things more complicated has she started giving me strange attitude due to the fact that she was jealous and all that . Then I told her if she wouldn't date me what all the fuse about, told her I was tired of being friends and I needed my space ,but she won't just have any of it ,she shows up at my face unexpectedly most times ,she's always pretty every time I get to see her .

Truth is I'm tired ,she wouldn't let me be and I really wanna break free from this girl tori options por gon oloun . But she wouldnt give me that chance i still very much like her that if she agrees though .Nlanders help your boy what should I do ? Ghost her and get a new babe or just play along till she says yes ,I need y'all advice please .

Nothing to gain , just to pass time

Sweetbuns ko sweetakara ni, useless feminist
Better Goan face d buns you're selling werey☹️

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Cause you're a LovePeddler it is what it is �

Guy finish school first na you're
Almost done ,you can apply 4
Post graduate scholarships ,when
You're done in ABU Zaria.

Ok the truth is the guy is scared ,yes he
Approached you first and all and you
Didn't give him a tough time ,you didn't
Even do your normal naija girl shakara,
dat where the problem lies ,he knows
You love him and he is scared of losing u
Cause he doesn't want to get heart
broken ,he didn't believe u could just
Accept like dat ,but since he knows u
Are attracted to him ,he wouldn't want
To get heart broken because he now feels like he has some kinda power over u and that's where
His ego comes in ,so my advice is give him
Space plenty of space and he's gonna
Crawl back to you ,and when he does
Create that I'm too busy for u kinda style
Dat going to make it more fun and adventures
For him .

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GeoSilYe:
Hey Y'all

I dont even know where to start from but I think or I feel like this situation I'm about to explain is a really big issue, well what made it more clear to me so was my mom's reply to the situation at hand.

Instead of beating around the bush, I'd simply go forward to my tale.

I have this really big, weird fear and problem with making friends amongst my female counterparts. I can barely hold a conversation with a female I just met or I know without feeling uncomfortable. I dont have problems with guys because I can be comfortable with discussing things with them but when it comes to girls or ladies like I am, it becomes a problem.

I thought it was a childhood psychological thing but I am surrounded by female siblings however, I'm currently in university at my final year and it is something that constantly bugs me. I can only boast of one female friend that could come through for me in time of need(not often though).

Take for instance, I recently got accommodation issues and I needed a friend I could stay with for the meantime before I could sort things out. Well, the whole thing became more glaring because I barely had a female friend I could call to crash at. Worse was when my mom scolded me on my relationships with people and my character.

Honestly, I'm tired about the whole thing. I feel like on my wedding day, I wouldn't even have a bridal train except if my sisters choose to fill in. I have tried countless times to work this part of me out but I keep on ending back at square one.

If there's anyone that has been in my case before and has successfully conquered please let me know. Other ideas and corrections are highly welcome.

Mods please push further. Thanks.

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I use to be in d same shoes with you bro
I think it's because you worry too much or
Give a bleep about them judging cause u feel
Like u have got weird act of not socializing
Properly with them ,let it go ,try to feel
Free anytime you with any female like
You own her seize the moment bro and Don't
Give a bleep bout what any mofo has to say
Or do just be you and do you ,lastly free your
Mind

Peruvido breast u mean