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gbosaa:
People like you have huge inferiority complex. Those fools will run into problem one day. In your very small world, the best way to build confidence is to intimidate a civilian??

No ppl like me are realist
All this your ranting won't stop them.
They are above the law whether you like it or not

That’s why you suffer. If I see them around here, I’ll say that to them. One on one, they will struggle to get a draw over those civilians they were intimidating.

That's the point
It's never going to be one on one
You touch them they bring back up
I didn't make the rules..

They can’t fight. All bullies can’t fight.

I say again, go try your luck and find out if they can fight or not

Missali:
You rushed to comment without reading hence your comment.

nope it is what is
If you're worth more to him than kpekus he won't treat you like that. Fact.

Missali:
One of the qualities men look out out for in a woman is the ability for her to stay true by him during trying times and a woman who cannot do that is termed a non wife material and slay Queen at best and at worst, a gold digger.
It is believed that when a woman supports her man and he comes to, in turn he will respect her and share responsibilities as he should but often times, this is not the case.

Many at times we have heard experiences from family, friends, colleagues or even gone through it.
Here's mine: I had this boyfriend that was struggling in every sense of the word. We kept on despite his financial shortcomings and I would travel a long distance to see him knowing fully well that the trip expenses and all that came with it were on me. I did not hesitate to oblige favours that I could give and ensured I went out with him during his jobs just to give that moral support.

Things seemed to be going on well until the day I was sitting with some friends and one of them asked how I was enjoying with my boyfriend. I responded with a light laugh and he asked "now that your guy has made it, what is the way forward?"

Me: Made it how?
Guy: Your guy hit over one million in that online betting promo.
Me: Yes yes, it's not easy... Such an unexpected favour at a time like this.

I pretended to be aware and happy but I wasn't myself till the end of the day. Everybody knew the good news except me.
One week, two weeks, one month passed and I got no call from my estranged boyfriend to even tell me what had happened. I refused to call too.

I heard news about how he had become the man about town, declaring free drinks for people he met at our street bars, dashing money to those who came to celebrate with him etc. Whenever someone who knew us sighted me they asked, "are you not M's girlfriend?" and I mumbled any answer that came to mind.
Months later I got a call from him begging to see Me. After many refusals, I decided we meet. He went on his knees apologising, saying he knew I was aware of all that had happened but was too ashamed to contact me. He went on about how he rented an apartment for one girl, was giving out money with reckless abandon, purchased an expensive mobile phone which he ended up selling at an abysmally low price (due to hardship) and how he was popping bottles at bars et al.

The length and breadth of the story was that the money was all gone. The business idea we had brainstormed he made no use of the money to invest. All his friends and girlfriends had left him for good and he felt lonely, he remembered the one who stood by him sincerely.

At the moment he had not a penny, with an empty stomach and looking for a way to get a small job. I could tell he was miserable from his looks alone. If only he had the right company who would have advised him at such a critical time, he'd never have had to go hungry again. I took him to a restaurant and we had a nice meal. He called me a good girl, a loving friend, a confidant blah blah blah.

Ladies, they will come at you with twisted words tell you they want a good woman, a patient woman, a supportive woman etc. Some will even tell you that they can never respect a woman who does not struggle with them. Do not fall for it. Most times, what they want is someone to take their excesses while they move on to cast their net elsewhere. For tens of stories about men who stick by their women when the going got smooth, there are hundreds of untold stories about men who looked the other way.

Playing the supportive role is the case of it may work and it may not. It is not stated anywhere that after standing by him and he leaves for another woman, he will be mobbed. You will simply be remembered as 'the one who once was', that's all.

It is a case of driving into a place with the words "cars parked at owner's risk." Nobody will tell you not to park your car but you hold yourself liable should anything happen to it. Hence, stand by your man at owner's risk.

stop ranting. If guy not loyal it means it's only kpekus you bring to the table. Sorry.

gbosaa:
Any soldier who behaves like you described above isn’t fit to wear the uniform. If you have to maltreat civies to build your confidence then you are an excuse of a soldier and any instructor that teaches, encourages such is a fool.

Oya go and tell them to their face. I dare you

vedd:
If it is meant to save cost, then I support it.

But it will promote more corruption, slowdown governance and weaken our democracy.

how will it save cost. Local elections will simply spend the difference cos now it's do or die unlike now that voters don't come out for legislative elections

ConsensusGroup:
The reason why there is so much talk and very little action is because a presidential system is designed to make changes slow and arduous.

That is probably why the man wants to change it to a parliamentary system and I completely agree with him.

If you truly want change, this is the way to go.

presidential system is faster than parliamentary o

porka:
Nigeria does not need any parliamentary system of government.

What Nigeria needs is a good electoral system.

Parliamentary system works well where people cherish the principles of consensus building and give and take.

Nigeria is too disorderly for such a system.

Nigerians are cannot trust each other.

There is no region that can survive this system.

Imagine for a second if Nigeria were Germany where the Chancellor is still struggling to form her government after several months of election. (Note - this is not the same as Buhari taking eternity to appoint ordinary ministers.)

Italy and Japan were practically changing prime ministers every 1 or 2 years in the recent past.

Imagine the chaos and the level of instability that would have caused the Nigeria's economy.

And it is not that Nigeria has not practiced it before.

Parliamentary system was what our founding fathers started with in the 1960s shortly after Independence.

It failed woefully.

The military simply took advantage of lack of cohesion to stage their coup d'etat which led to us where we are now.

Nigerian politicians are even more unruly now than they were in those days.

The country itself is just too fragmented now, more than at any time in our history.

How would the APC have functioned in a parliamentary system with their disjointed structure where everyone is the lord?

You can argue for eternity about the cost of running a presidential system, it won't change anything. It is not that the parliamentary system too would be entirely free of costs.

Moreover, it is doubtful if there are verifiable scientific evidence (published researches/studies) supporting the assertion.

Much of the argument on cost reductions have been purely conjectures at best and wishful thinking at worst.

Nigeria needs strong electoral system and this presidential system would just be fine.

This is the 18th straight year we have been on it.

One of the main problems right now is that the traditional watchdogs - the civil society and the media - are not effective with holding Buhari to account on many fronts.

They seem to be struggling with playing their role in the age of new media or they have been bought or cowed into submission.

The Nigeria's media and the intelligentsia were most feared and indeed respected across the world.

Until they fell into Buhari and his government's spell by helping to dish out lies and demonic propaganda - becoming accomplices in disparaging people's characters.

so what is PDP doing with their loot. Abi o they don't know how to buy their own media or they're just more greedy than apc. Chop alone die alone

Sprumbabafather:
Is it impossible to repair the NNPC depot at Emene which had broken down since the past 14 years? Why must south east marketers be made to buy petrol in Warri, PH and Lagos.

This is marginalisation.

when your man was there what did you do. Why do all your men build depot in Lagos. Abi your petrol owners are northerners

9jakohai:
1.Borrowing happened under GEJ regime.

2.Want to know why...Nigeria needs oil to be at $123 per barrel to live sans borrowing.

3. GEJ had oil at 94-120. Bubu had oil at 28-70 USD.

4.Tell me, how do you expect to fund the budget when oil money isn't enough.

5.And even then, Bubu took your savings from $28bn to $34 bn with low oil prices....is that not savings for future generations.

6.If you want a stable economy, vote for leaders who will industrialise nigeria....not APC or PDP

can't vote for capitalists

Iseoluwani:
Where is okocha when u need him

or Kanu. Make dem run for house of reps or governor

Promismike:
I want to plead with every meaningful Nigerian. It's not about APC or PDP. But it's about our future and that of our kids.

Pls If APC can not present another person as its presidential candidate in 2018 order than Buhari, I don't care where the person comes from, East, west or North or south. Pls lets make sure Buhari is voted out.

Just imagine how 8 yrs would be under Buhari. Hardship and suffering. God forbid.
I beg any good and petriotic Nigerian to reason beyond party, religious and ethnic lines.

People are suffering under this administration. That you are privileged to still be with your job or come from a rich home, Eating what you desire to eat everyday does not mean people are not suffering.

Pls lets reason beyond party, religious and ethnic lines and save ourselves and our kids from impending doom and hardship.

What we need is reforms, good leadership and good governance. Don't tell me nations who are successful today suffered as they do the right thing. Noo! Ghana, china, Singapore and many more didn't suffer as they reform and shape their nations into what we envy today. Rather the good leaders they had at the time put up reforms and policies that brought instant and visible progress that accumulated over time. They never suffered as these progress accumulated and became more visible and tangible.

All we need is reforms and good governance not suffering in the name of getting things right.

all we need is capitalism

cummando:
Thunder wey go fire this one dey dance FIA by davido.

Shey mugu leleyi ni?

As in do these people think we have macaroni for brains?

yes. What are you going to do. Vote for PDP? That failed for 16 years

Ladyhippolyta88:
And you say you have sense If you like reply me none of my business,get lost.

I say you're displaying your lack of home training. You talking about sense. Clearly you have none.and you will reply me till you realise I have your time like others. At which point you will turn quietly accept defeat. Idiot woman

obinna58:
Nice one anichebe




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pleading with every meaningful Nigerian. It's not about APC or PDP. But it's about our future and that of our kids.

Just imagine how 8 yrs would be under Buhari, Hardship and suffering, any good and patriotic Nigerian should reason beyond party, religious and ethnic lines.

People are suffering under this administration. That you are privileged to still be with your job or come from a rich home, Eating what you desire to eat everyday does not mean people are not suffering.

Pls lets reason beyond party, religious and ethnic lines and save ourselves and our kids from impending doom and hardship.

Dear kind Nigerians, our vote is our power lets join hands together and ensure this senseless man is thrown out of presidential sit for the benefit of our beloved country,
Share this massage and save our nation from already falling doom.

who will you now vote in. Think we'll before you deliver us into PDP hand cos their set no go ever gree comot without bloodshed o

Ladyhippolyta88:
I even thought this matter has ended just shut up.

as long as you're displaying your bad good training it will never end till you shut up fool

Martin0:
Ok oo! No problem!

it's true. Once you don't ignore the signs because of wetin you wan chop it's easy to see

frenzyduchess:
you keep talking about bills, do you know how many Nigerian women pay bills?,but this same women don't shout it at the top of the roof just to keep the ego of their husbands because of the society they find themselves, yet the man will still be carrying his 20ft shoulder pad, mteeeew
By the way, you didn't have to quote me three times

Haba duchess why you lying. A man will pay rent and school fees and food and dstv for 20 years no sound, just let the woman mistakenly pay for 3 months and the whole world will hear. The only time men wear shoulder pad is when his food is not on the table after work.

acenazt:
oga sir. But to command troops a soldier doesn't hav to chawuss Civilians na. Anyways maybe I'm talking as A Police Cadet. Our points of view are basically different.

Very very very different. Your job is to maintain law and order. Ours is to restore it when all hell has broken loose. Requires very different mentality. You need very rugged very wicked ppl for that. Just avoid them wherever they are pluming

Ladyhippolyta88:
In your face sucker,just end it here before I insult you.

so sucker is not an insult in your house. No wonder you Jack good training. Or education. Who knows. Anyway insult me and I will give you double times 100.where I'm from if parents fail to train dia chudren. We do it for them outside.nonsense child

ZombieTERROR:
he looks good



Someone please tell Buhari to fix our health care system..
We have the personnel
We just need infrastructures...


I will not allow yusuf to be flown abroad ooo


I will not allow it

infrastructure costs money
Money can only be made privately
Oyel money cannot Fix anything other than police and roads

Precial419:
AM TIRED OF DESE THREADS. IF A WOMAN DOES NOT HAVE A JOB, SHE IS A LAZY WOMAN AND ALLOW HER MAN TO OPPRESS HER. IF A WIFE IS RICHER THAN HER HUSBAND, SHE IS SURELY BE PROUD AND DISRESPECTFUL. PLS GUYS R LADIES SUPOSE TO BE SITIN ON D FENCE?

they're supposed to be in kitchen and Oza room

acenazt:
15 years ago ehn. You have my respect. Ur current generation of cadets n clowns r just useless. No Arty nothing nothing. They get chawoozed on their pluming due to lack of Arty and O.T

Toh that is why they are encouraged to chawuss civilians. It's all about swag. Cos you need it to command troops and handle emergency do or die situations. It's all about building confidence in the face of great odds. A pity it has to be in public

Ladyhippolyta88:
If this is your life plan you can become a billionaire.My replying you is a waste of time and it is like I am insulting myself all those things you wrote about me shall be your future aim and ambitions.I won't stoop to your uncivilized level of insults.

stoop ke you're the one who started it. I'm just finishing it. Trying to give some of that home training you Jack before you destroy yourself.Shebi it was Sweeting you when you were calling a stranger baby and this one. You can dish it but can't take. All without answering one question. Only knows how to insult. Badly trained horse like you

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

tell him you're married and it's inappropriate. No scene required. Or call your husband over to remind you of your number. That the doctor wants it

Ladyhippolyta88:
No man is sleeping with me until after marriage so no need to think I am a one night stand or a side chick,

Stop lying
No man wants to sleeping your arrogant ass
Even better
You will learn through divorce

I don't move or associate with visionless boys or playboys I move with the serious minded ones and they all encourage me.

No serious guy will move with such a confused foul mouthed wench

You are nothing but an otondo,calabingo,and ozuo

Case in point
Your insult vocabulary
Just shows the class you belong to

.And believe me I would rather die than to sleep with you(a man with no future ambitions)believe me my life would not be centered on anyman who does not deserve me.

Good the world would be better without your confusion

Let me say I don't get a husband all I need are children and if I want one I know how to have them(sperm donour).

see d mumu don de confess small small
Baby mama tinz loading
Fuckboys over to you.
Although I doubt fuckboys would want anything to do with you once they hear you speak

Ladyhippolyta88:
Your mentality and my mentality are clearly different no need to argue with a baby who claims to be matured maybe you feel women who work don't need men that is your cup of tea not mine and all the insults you gave to me(what do I say)silence is the best answer given to a fool.

You are the fool arguing aimlessly

And I am happy I am not surrounded with men like you.It is a blessing that your type is not around me.

I would never even sleep with you as jump off. Not worth. It.. Don't worry when you need a man you will come to your senses
You're still young
Fuckboys are still deceiving you
When they've taught you a good lesson your head will come down. Independent my foot

Ladyhippolyta88:
Then stop thinking like a baby.It is not your data or phone I am using so you have no right to tell me what to do,and I never said I was looking for a man they are the one's looking for me and when I am ready they are many to pick from(it is no joke).And I am not arrogant I only speak my mind.

pm your mind is to stop free speech and to throw insult and you don't think that is arrogant. Wow. You're so stupid.
If you have plenty men you will not carry single working lady matter for head

Ladyhippolyta88:
Don't you ever in your life quote me again you just told a lady respect is earned but you want a woman to respect you when you didn't earn it are you not confused.And I know what I want I only used another term, you on the other hand is confused.And I am not talking about domesticity since that is where your childish brain is going to.Confused man.

get off the PUBLIC forum if you don't want to be mentioned

Not even your forum yet you want to be arrogant and intimidating yet wonder why men want nothing to do with you

Ladyhippolyta88:
Don't you ever in your life quote me again you just told a lady respect is earned

Yes

but you want a woman to respect you when you didn't earn it

Where?
Show me where I demanded respect.

are you not confused.And I know what I want I only used another term, you on the other hand is confused.

You wanted red, you used blue. Yet you're not confused. I see.

And I am not talking about domesticity since that is where your childish brain is going to.Confused man.

you didn't say anything. We all know that it's domesticity you're talking about. Oya prove me wrong. I dare you.
What were you talking about.
Just watch as you turn tail and run

Mznaett:
See his tiny d!ck sef...

as if you can handle big one

Ladyhippolyta88:
Me I don't know if I should call it equality although it is the same thing as egalitarianism maybe it is(equality)

See you don't even know what you want

I just want someone who I can share everything with,who I can trust and he can do same I want mutuality.I won't want a relationship where he is the only one making effort or I am the only one making effort it won't make sense it has to be both of us.

So him saying rent and feeding you while you clean up after him is only you making effort abi .?you women are confused

I don't know about other ladies but what I want in my relationship are the three things I listed and mutuality simple.I have listening ears and I pray he does as well there would always be a misunderstanding but I pray that the understandings would be more than the misunderstandings and even if we have any(misunderstanding) we arrest the situation before it escalates.

frenzyduchess:
It has gone beyond the slay queen issue o, this has been on for a long time, only say na now our ladies dey speak out when we come dey see the way our brothers dey change treat women nicely when dem enter abroad.
If una want make we change, make una sef change na, ,Make all of us change together, so the family system will be come more healthy for the next generation. Na make things better me sef dey

una ready to pay bills like abroad women?