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I just feel for those children.

Sighs.....

davidhandsome:
Hmm, it was not funny for me o...
What made it worse was when they said they were taking us to station...
Me that have never entered station in my life before...

You are very right with recognizing what you are experiencing is PTSD. Continue to talk about it as it will help you make sense of what has happened.

Ariza:
He didn't. Someone asked him on his baby bump thread when he would be paying bride price, he answered when he is ready.

Baba never ready but don born two. Nawa ooo

Maybe the lady is from a family whey no send, so no pressure!

Nice concept.

Gone for life.

Drfernandez:
A woman who says she cannot respect her husband if or because she earns more money than him:

1. Why should your husband not block every means of your growth?

2. Why would you call him an oppressor when he blocks every means of your growth?

I don't want to believe that most of you don't have sense.

You threads will make an interesting graph in a psychology of misogyny class.

meetme01:
Who is a social worker? Google

Social work has 4+ specialists depending on the country. In Nigeria, we have
- Health Social Work
- Social Welfare
- Industrial Social Work
- Community Social Work

All comprise, counselors and psychologist.

Hope that settles you doubt?

While trying not to derail the thread, a social worker and a psychologist do not share the same job descriptions nor training as they are of different fields but work alongside each other because I am one.

For a more effective treatment of mental health issues, we apply the biopsychosocial model which involves the Psychiatrist, the Psychologist and the Social worker.

meetme01:
Let's talk. Depression is a face in life everyone will oneday pass through. It takes a lot courage and opening up to overcome precarious situations like the one you find yourself.

Talk to a social worker.

Not a social worker but a counselling psychologist.

vicdom:

All Obaseki needs is to present his Higher secondary school leaving certificate (HSC) which is equivalent to WAEC and he will be good to go. Osho and Tinubu will be shitting in their pants now

I don't think so, those 2 are seasoned political Houdini. You think they would be going into that "war" with a moral compass? That same certificate saga is what APC will use against PDP should they field Obaseki.

Is online learning going on in public primary schools in the state?

A man who is more likely to marry a woman with children from a previous marriage is one who also have child(ren) from a previous relationship and takes chances with the blended family setup but there is need for a clear understanding regarding financial responsibility of the children where their biological father and his family are still around.

Oluromantic:
There are 30+ ladies you can't have a simple sensible conversation with

It is not gender specific because there are also men in that age bracket who can't and also note that what is a simple sensible conversation is relative.

Any man who is fixated on issues of women who are not yet married or don't intend to get married, just understand that the man is using it as a deflection of his own personal issues and sees writing about a woman's marital status as a coping mechanism which mentally, is unhealthy.

Going through a phase.

I know she would be compensated but hope going forward, any agreement must be documented and signed.

Another tales by moonlight, here s/he is the 20 years old lady intentionally using poor English while in a thread s/he created in May, s/he is the new guy who met a 20 years old mother with a 2 year old child!

OP, on a serious note this switching is not healthy for your mental well-being.

Shoddy job being done.

omobaba101:
He's 8 , but ever since he learnt to hold things he started hitting objects against themselves. He does this anytime he has opportunity to play and he can concentrate on this for a very long time without allowing interruptions. I thought he would drop it going up, but I was wrong!

Is there any psychologist that can help?

I am one but you need to physically see one for your son's assessment and make sure his mum goes with you because she will be very key during the history taking session as there are information only her can provide. I sense he would be assessed for ADHD and Autism.

Omuneizzy6:
Someone Sent Me This;

I have pleaded with my wife not to chew gum but the more I plead, the more she chews and it irritate me. Maybe I should just let her go, but I really love her.
What do I do, please help

Ending a marriage because of chewing gum?

Happy Birthday to him, e no easy at all. I hope your family already have audio and video recordings of him telling stories of your family's history and journey through his eyes.

If the story is true and not one of those twitter tales then it is a messed up family, why should the husband be sending money to the in-laws on a monthly basis what is their son doing with his own money? If am the husband, I will not contribute even one naira to the traditional wedding, maybe they will also expect him to contribute in paying hospital bills when the brother-in-law's wife gives birth. Such entitlement!

No.

Disheartening.

Sad.

Sanitizer:
@Justwise.

I'm not eligible to sponsor my younger brother, so I want to transfer the money to his account. The issue is that the young man might withdraw some of the money before or during visa application.I intend putting the account on LIEN/RESTRICTION. but the money will be available to him when he travels to the UK.

Will this affect the Visa decision?

Why would he want to self-sabotage his chances when it is for his own good?

"Indeed, appropriated and released funds to the office were judiciously utilised in the discharge of its mandate".....Request them to give a detailed account of how it was "judiciously utilised" they will term it as hate speech.

Buhari is still "busy" being shocked.

Ishilove:
I don't want to imagine it. The mind quails

An unhealthy number of female patients we have in the psychiatric wards where I work happen to be incest victims during their childhood and sadly today, they make up a large percentage of our dissociative disorders and schizophrenia cases.

It would be unfair to PDP members who have been loyal to the party and have gubernatorial interest.