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Johntemmy:
How much you trust your wife/husband?
How much do you trust your Girlfriend/Boyfriend?
How much do you trust your fiance/fiancee?


reason behind my question..I have a friend he normally use this words "ti n ba wanile, ni iyawo mi n je iyawo mi, sugbon ti mi o ba ti si ni Ile, mi o mo n kan to oun se leyin mi...fun idi eyi iyawo gbogbo aye ni ayafi ti n bati wa Nile nikan lohun je iyawo mi". means is only when am at home that my wife is belongs to me but immidiately I step out means she belongs to public.
my friend is a Traveller from one state to another and his wife an hair dresser..always busy with customers day and night.
now does it mean my friend didn't trust his wife?
Also do you trust your partner

Your friend being a traveller, does his wife trust him?

Ejenavi18:
In psychology, this is known as Oedipus complex.
It was explicitly discussed by Sigmund Freud in his theory of psychosexual development. I'll suggest you read up the theory online for a clearer understanding of this topic.

"When the Oedipus complex is not successfully
resolved during the phallic stage, an unhealthy fixation can develop and remain. This leads to boys becoming fixated on their mothers and girls becoming fixated on their fathers, causing them to choose romantic partners that resemble their opposite-sex parent as adults."

PSYCH101: Introduction to Psychology

Staying back would be risky.

At the end of day, the lady decides either to terminate the pregnancy or carry it to term.

E no easy.

There is much security implications to this request. I believed you worship somewhere (unless you are an atheist), approach those you worship with about your situation.

The Children Protection Department, if the state where it happened has one should have the prophet and the boy's parents arrested and prosecuted. Sadly, it is not to the boy's wellbeing to be placed back with his biological family as he is better off in a well managed children' home.

Most of such prophets are schizophrenic rather that treat it for the mental illness that it is, the symptoms such as hearing of voices, hallucinations, religious delusion etc are erroneously termed as spiritual gifts!

GuestLog:
Thank you so much. We are doing our best. We give him so much love and care. He is not an abused child but somehow I feel like (God forgive me) he might be impaired or something that is why I mentioned psychologists in my greetings. I pray I'm wrong.

From your first post, I am sensing a neuro-developmental issue that needs early intervention but may also not be it. Just to be on the safer side, let the family seek the professional service of a clinical child psychologist for assessment (where behavioural, cognitive and intellectual testing will be conducted) and treatment. Do read up on Disruptive mood dysregulation disorder (DMDD).

Very possible. Like I posted somewhere else, I have a senior colleague who had her first degree in Economics then went to the UK to do her Masters in Psychology (conversion) then moved to Canada to do her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology. So search for universities that can offer such switch.

Buying job slot?

Hubbysluv:
Got the same mail too
This September is no longer feasible to me with this nonsense this NCAA just did

I just tire like dodo wey dey fry two times

Departing via Benin Republic could be an option if situation remain so in September.

Inspiring.

OE0705:
if only you were in our shoes.
the part of hosting 15people has been scrapped thanks to suggestions here.

I don't have to be in your shoes because I am in my own shoes with resilience.

OE0705:
Sir kindly read my mail, if you have, do you in all honesty think that something to share in a public space?
If you sincerely think so, please I'd like you to succinctly share (summarily) post it here.
Thanks.

You know your financial reality, still you and your husband choose to cast in stone, the plan to host 15 persons with funds you hope to raise from strangers. You don't want your people to know about your situation, what are family and friends for if it is not for good times and rough times?

mariahAngel:
You couldn't think of a better topic to create than one that belittles the sacrifices fathers make for their families.

It reminds me of one of my undergraduate courses, Family Psychology where one of the topics we treated was unfinished business with fathers.There is nothing belittling about the topic, it is something worthy of conversation because honouring one's father doesn't mean doing exactly what he did.

Goddys:
I will do just what you stated. As for job, I'm not putting any hope on that. I know a lot of my colleagues that are back after LLM programme cuz they cudnt secure a job

You know you can always switch career path, you mustn't go for the LLM program if you don't see a future in it. I have a senior colleague, her first degree was in Economics, she went to the UK to do her Masters in Psychology (conversion) after which she moved to Canada to obtain her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, so you see nothing is cast in stone.

You are almost through, at least finish from the university before relocating.

4 years from now, he will also regret supporting Osagie Ize-Iyamu should he become governor as he would have "grown his own wings", that is the circle.

If you want your children to be actively involved in your life tomorrow, be actively. involved in theirs today. Beyond financial provisions, kids yearn for fathers with whom they can establish emotional security.

We have widows in our midst who have become sole providers, having to go out on a daily basis to hustle for their children' welfare but still create a balance that is making them bond with their children, have a listening ear, celebrate their little victories etc Fathers who also offers such alongside financial provisions, are more likely to have adult children who hold them dear to their hearts.

Being an involved father is the greatest gift one can give his child/children alongside financial provisions

OE0705:
The baby is going to be named by our priest/catechist so that event although planned very small is very important to us, we have do it. The eatables at the event is just going to be snacks, and the attendees aren't more than 15. Thanks.

Which one is naming by the Priest/Catechist, is the child not going to be baptized in the Church by the Priest and parents and the child's godparents go home after the baptism?

Fantasies, when you slide back to reality do let us know.

waynee2baba:
passion Tier 2

Tier 2 or not, passion also counts. Like I went back to school to do another degree (Counselling Psychology) from accounting background and I tell you, it was gruelling as a good number of classmates dropped along the way but passion pushed me through. Even for the Social work if the passion is not there, one will always feel drained as I work hand in hand with psychiatric social workers on a daily basis as part of a multidisciplinary team. Moreover her first degree is in sociology, if am not mistaken.

Zeecos:
I completed an MSc in Chemical Engineering last year in the UK. I currently hold an offer for January 2021 to study MSc in Nursing.

Wow, that is certainly a different direction but passion for the new path is what really counts.

akwara1234:
I have to go straight to the point. I run a medical laboratory and last week my friend's son came for some test including genotype. To my greatest surprise his genotype came out AS. Am 100% sure that both his mum and dad are AA because am their family doctor. Am very confused at this moment as am still with the lab result. Should I tell my friend or invite his wife over for questioning? Please matured minds should advice a brother.

Family doctor indeed!

faks10:
Date is fixed... July 27th

Wishing those applying for September/October success.

Why not restructure your mind into washing your boxers whenever you take your bath, making it part of your personal hygiene ritual as they have stains of sweat, semen, urine and faeces.

"She want me facing her and holding her, or herself put her head on my chest. I'm not a romantic fellow and don't want to be. I'm a serious and ethical being. I do not move by mere romantic behavior but by being realist and doing the right thing. if your mind is pure and clean you will be least concerned by things the other people do or live their lives". .......This is a clear case of intellectualization, which is a form of defense mechanism in psychology.

Because he is being subsidized thus his laid back attitude towards providing for his family. In those 2 years he has been out of paid employed, didn't he think it wise to go for vocational skill training(s) that should by now be earning him an income?

Courageous of her.

magnificientzaz:
Good morning all.
I just paid my deposit fees yesterday with a form A at sterling bank (ogudu branch in lagos) and got debited same day.
Thought I should share cos I think sterling service is awesome,exchange rateband charges was fair too.
Is anyone going to Birmingham City University?
Would like to get in touch.

At what rate?