₦airaland Forum

Ask Maiduguri people.
This is the reason we advice you guys to expose the terrorists in your environment, now you have started feeling what Maiduguri people were facing abi.

Nengiraw:
Hello nairalanders, please I need help on this situation. So I’m a lady in her mid 20’s. I’m actually very much set for marriage in the eyes of my family, since society deem it fit to place marriage as an achievement for women, and always bring up your age to remind you to. Anyways, it’s not a priority for me to get married now, as I feel like I’m not ready mentally,and I have a lot of trauma to work on, but I’m also open to it, if it’s in my face and ready. I don’t stay in Nigeria, so my family don’t know if I have a man in my life, so they decided upon themselves to introduce me to a man who is my uncle’s friend that stays in the same country as me. They were more focus on the fact that he comes from a neighboring village from us and that he was a doctor. (Meanwhile he’s actually a nurse, but he told them, that he was a doctor, he also never mentioned to them that he was married and had a child, before they decided to introduce him to me)

So we eventually started talking on WhatsApp, he saw some of my pictures already and he was mesmerized. In fact he was already kind of making me his wife in that moment. So one day he called me and we were just talking,and I heard like a toddler crying so bad and needed his attention, I asked him who was that , he told me it was his daughter, there was this awkward silence for almost five minutes of us not saying anything, so I told him I’ll call him back. I called my mother that day and was mad as hell, that they didn’t disclose such information to me, but from my mother’s reaction she had no idea, and she was also mad and she told me, she will call me back, so she could verify from my uncle, since that’s his friend. Even my uncle too had no idea. To cut the whole story short, he later called me the next day on a video call, and he started telling me about his wife( Yes! She’s still his wife, because I don’t think he has divorced her yet)and how abusive she was, and how he tried to make it work, but she was so crazy and stuff like that. That he’s actually trying to get shared custody of the child. That he’s no longer married to her. I was not really having it, because I just felt like he wasn’t being honest with certain things and on top of that his wife is still in the picture, and I don’t know if I want to settle for that. Also he just turned 40, and I’m 25. So the age gap is too much for me. Also I have not met him in real life, cause he stays in a different state from me, my family still wanted me to be open minded until I see him in person, then I could make a decision if I want him or not. He always sends me pictures of his daughter, and he recently sent me one with his first wife and daughter, I was surprised that he did, and he said he wanted to show me the daughter instead. I still felt like I didn’t need to see a picture of her. I started seeing the red flags of him that I couldn’t settle with. Also the way he talked about the wife was vulgar, and I felt like he didn’t need to tell me about her in that manner.

Now the most recent thing he started doing was sending me random stuff about marriage to my WhatsApp. I usually glance at it,and don’t reply, cause I don’t know why he’s sending me that. The one that gave me a major big red flag from him, is when he sent where Regina daniels( the actress who married Ned nwoko) was talking about marrying her husband a virgin and how it’s important to be a virgin. He then asked me if I was one. Honestly I felt really numb, because I don’t know why he will be asking me stuff like that, when he didn’t really get a respond back from me, he proceeded to send another message telling me, “No mind them sha, virgin no sabi. With a heart eye emoji. I was dumbfounded, I didn’t know how to reply to him anymore. I stopped picking up his calls and I have no intention to meet up with him anymore. Now my family is mad at me, saying that at least I should see him in person, but I don’t want to. In fact I’m no longer interested in him. Please am I wrong for feeling the way I feel? Thanks.

he asked you if you are a virgin? Is he mad? Is there virgins in Nigeria? No wonder the think pain you well well.

God heard the prayers of those naked women.
Fear woman oo

hakeemhakeem:
How is brainless here, you can't even differecate appointment and election.there are candidates and various parties members voted for their choice include your beloved party.

hmmmmm. U just want someone you will gist with abi? The only senate president that was not appointed was Saraki. Every one of them na appointment.

Richfella1:
Even if the policeman is sacked, which most likely will not happen, they've still bleeped him up.

Best to be humble and polite when dealing with the police.

if the is made to pay for his crime the corruption in the police will reduce and we will safe some future victims .

hakeemhakeem:
On a gun point or what?where you at the mas when the election was held at nass

just shut up. Even a brainless human being knows that this year national assembly election was appointment. If your brain cannot work that doesn't mean all Nigerians are brainless.

hakeemhakeem:
It's bitterness while not face akpabio squarely if bat go against it you will be the person to shout executive has no power over legislative

who brought the Akpabio. You guys sounds stupid just because you want to defend tinubu. Tinubu made sure he enforce Akpabio to the people

Atleast people were breathing during Buhari time, fuel was 170, school fees was 35k depends on the federal university. Today people are dieing because of lack of ordinary food.
I rather have Buhari than having a deranged man in aso Rock.
Tinubu announce 25k increment, Gbajabiamilla announce 35k, that shows that the man we called president was just there as figure head. He cannot even remember what he was told to say.

It's left for the supreme court to decide. But if they refused to admit new evidence, it will be used against him in 2027 in case he want to contest again.

Why they no go laugh when they know how much is Budget for that rubbish.
Nigerian's are mourning while these criminals are laughing.

forgiveness:
This is not Buhari's administration.

is it not the same Gbajabiamilla that is making this promise?

forgiveness:
Since fg compromised to NLC. There is no basis for strike.

NLC wanted fg to increase the money above 25,000 naira. FG agreed and increased to 35,000 naira.

NLC wanted the money for all workers nit only low ranks, FG succumbed.

Which strike are you expecting again?

They ask for 6 months to formulate new salary structure, that will not result to inflation, provide affordable transportation etc.

even if they promise 1 million for every worker as far as the implementation didn't start now, then forget it. Gbajabiamilla did the same thing to ASSU but when it reach time to pay he denied them

As far as the implementation didn't start the strike will continue.

Fake news
Fake news
Fake news.

favor914:
Let the mumus & their Oblivious supporters go on strike, you people will not receive any salary till January 2024.

Hypocrites https://punchng.com/elections-again-nlc-declares-support-for-obi/?amp

and the people will sit down watching you abi? If the strike last for only one week, what happened in Lagos during ENDSARS will be a child's play.
Go and find out what happened in Sri Lanka.

favor914:
Absolute Nonsense from an Obidient Almijiri crying wolf.

for your own stupidity anybody that is telling you guys the truth is an obidient abi? I am not.

All na wash. It will be the same promise as that of ASSU.

The worst institution in this country is the police. There is no law that stop you from snapping a car or even the police station.
As a lawyer I advice you and fellow lawyers to follow up this case until the police pay for that. Maybe if you are not a lawyer they would have killed you and throw away the lifeless body claiming that you were killed by gunmen or ipob.

Taylor92:
Not a magician how


Shebi his online supporters said he’s on right track that he’s the best president Nigeria ever had


So what are you saying madam


Is he not performing well?

they even say he was the one that build Lagos state and he will build Nigeria same way. Now all what we hear is I will,he will, we will.
The man made dollar at 600 but before hundred days dollar is 1100, is that not a magician?
He made fuel at 170 now fuel is 700, is that not a magician?
What of school fees that you used to pay 35k now is 250k, is that not a magician?
Ordinary pepper and onion that that was 500 is now 5k, is that not a magician?

Merchant247:
But all Obi can present is WAEC certificate, ok ooo

do you even know the name of tinubu primary and secondary school?
If you are doubting peter Obi WAEC results you can go to WAEC and you will get it. But please where can we get tinubu WAEC results? What is the name of his secondary school?
Who are his classmates in either primary or secondary school?

yarimo:
Why won't it be at crossroad after you have stolen enough from Nigeria as vice president

gerrout! What is the work of the vice president? Even Obj send efcc on Atiku but they couldn't see anything. Maybe you were not grown up to remember the relationship between him and Obasanjo at the end of the tenure. If he has stolen as you want us to believe, will Obasanjo let him walk free? Atiku is a great business man he thinks faster before others, his money is coming from his businesses home and abroad.

Obaofaba:
Go ahead please.

Personally, I want the strike to hold, I equally want the government to call their bluffs.

When hunger set in, they will be the one pleading to resume work.

The good news is that not all of them have been paid their salaries.

Please don't say Nigeria will lose a lot of billions, when government had all the billions with them, of what importance is it to the common man?

My point is, NLC and TUC are too greedy just like our politicians.

Of what use is the increment of their salaries to the majority who are neither a staff of the government nor their members?

The masses will only suffer from inflation as a result of the increment of their salaries.

fool. What is the inflation rate today as the salary is not increase.
Do you know what will happen if the strike continue and the government didn't do anything? Anarchy! I hope you can remember ENDSARS.
Is it the military and police that you have not paid their salaries you will order to defend you in an empty stomach?
The fire that can burn the whole country may start with only one matches.
Fear the power of the people if they decide to work together.

Very good NLC. We are solidly behind you guys. Even the military and police are feeling it. Today is 1st October but non of them has collected September salary. If you doubting my visit any barracks closer to you and see.

FaithELEFAN:
Be patient, the government is working

working what exactly? Rubbish! You are seeing wrong thing but you are foolishly supporting them. They had all the 30 days to work their rubbish but they refused and you want to tell us that the government are working. This is the first time Nigeria celebrate independence without salaries. Rubbish!!!!

raskymonojendor:
Tomorrow being 2031 🤣

you are a kid, you will not be able to understand.

You want to protest a ruling done by the best democratic country in whole world? Do you think this Nigeria where there is no law?
In Nigeria the president is the law but in US the law is the law.
Do you think Ekweremadu would have been put in the prison if his case happen Nigeria?
God bless America.

I swear Tinubu no resemble president

These pastors na God go judge una

This is how Gbajabiamilla lied to ASSU then when it is time to pay he denied ever promising them anything.
NLC carry on, we are with you guys.

NLC should not believe these scammers. I am in support the strike 100%