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elantraceey:
As long as he's more spiritual than i am, loves God than i do and has a deeper intimate relationship with the Holy Spirit than i do then we're good to go, i'm not interested in any title.

then you are sure to marry me na..lol....dis is good.coming from a lady.

pinkyliceous:
Why not? Are they not human beings?

If he's filled with the Holy Ghost and worships God in Spirit and in Truth, why not?


But he must be a preacher in a living church, not demonic church.

all I can say is hmmmmm...

missingrib:
the preacher tag is just a hard cover..its the personality embedded inside the preacher that matters and BTW the church where the preacher pastors also matter

the church where the preacher pastors matters?how do you mean na.is it about how big the congregation is?

I have actually taken time to ask so many girls this same question I am about to ask you all.but most times,their response tends towards negativity.one response I got from most ladies was "I can't pray,neither can I stand midnight prayers",,"preachers aren't romantic" etc..funny right?.I will really like to get the response of my female buddies on this forum concerning this issue.and if your answer tends towards negativity,please state at least a reason why you can't marry a preacher.but if positive,you will do well to state your reasons please..I ask again..LADIES,CAN YOU MARRY A PREACHER??


lalasticlala

rip

hotspec:
[/color]D fact [color=#000099]D fact D fact that u posted ds thread in a wrong section can earn u a suspension from mods, just as committing sin may earn u suspension from church. It is for u to GO and sin no more

like I said,it was a mistake..lol...so u want suspend me ni.

I overheard a pastor talking about suspending a brother and sister if caught in fornication.now am wondering if its the right thing to do.is it actually right to actually suspend a person from church if sins.and if not,what sin can a person commit that will warrant such treatment.

lalasticlala

just passing

nothing funny about that jorh.

alomo bitters..lol

Kaira333:
Good advice dear but I know my hubby he can neva confront his mum for anything. For instance, there was a day she was wearing leggings and short top as in improperly dressed. Hubby saw her instead of telling her, mum this thing u are wearing is not good look for gown top since its leggings or something like dat. He called me and was like baby go and tell mum dat what she is wearing is not good and visitors will soon come. I was like me ke tell who. I told him she is ur mum please correct her if I do she might misunderstood me. Could u imagine he didn't do that until she corrected herself my using wrapper. I have told him several things she normally do which are wrong but he wouldn't confront her.My major prayer point now should be let omugwo end so dat she can travel back although d way am seeing things she is not planning to travel back dis year sef.

if he cant talk to his mum,then you shoudnt either.where is your father inlaw(hubby's father).maybe he should do the talking,someone has to talk to her.because this will not be that last time you will see your MIL in your house.

Kaira333:
Honestly I don't like complaining about things like dis but I think this is too much. I got married to a man dat is every woman's dream. (Glory be to God) but my mum in law is actually annoying and I think am tired of her problems I need to sort it out once and for all.Dats y am here for better advice. I got married with her daughter dsame month dsame yr but I did only trad. Marriage but her daughter did both white and trad dsame day. It wasn't up to one month dis woman started disturbing me DAT she want grand children. I was like mum am still in my finial year and have not done my white wedding please calm down d person in good position to give u grand child now is ur daughter not me.Hubby told her to leave me alone dat am still in school, Any day dis woman sees me she will be pressing my tummy asking if nofin has entered. Imagine ooooo. Next thing she will say is dat her son is now slim dat I don't feed him well, he will be saying all dis in d presence of her son ooo so dat my guy will start feeling dat his wife is not taking good care of him. I kept on enduring all those things simply because my hubby don't listen to her. He loves me die. As God may have it am done schooling I have done my white wedding give birth to a bouncing baby girl, Due to certain conditions my mum couldn't come to do my omugwo. I wanted to manage my self not to invite anybody but I couldn't due to d fact dat am a first timer and hubby and i dont have any exprience. We needed eldely woman to help.Due to her character hubby sugested we should invite her sister instead of her. I wanted to accept dat but on a second thought i know it will bring great misundetstanding and hatred towards me. I told hubby lets invite her. Hmmmmm Dis woman wont let me be ooo. This time around she said her son is darker now than when she gave birth to him dat am not taking good care of him UPON EVERY THING HE IS DOING FOR ME. The ones in bold letters got me mad. At any slightest talk she will be saying dat in d presence of my hubby.In as much as he still care for me as usual but am afraid this thing her mum is always repeating might affect his character towards me may be at time goes on. I have decided to confront her any times she speaks in dat manner to me but I don't know how to do dat.



Nb not as if I don't care for my hubby as she says Honestly I do, I help him well in his business and also combine dat with my household duties as a wife. Still she won't let me be.



Any person dat has a better way to tackle to issue should please help out. I will so much appreciate dat.



Thanks

your problem is not with your mother inlaw but with your hubby.it is only your hubby that can make her keep quiet.tell your hubby what you have told us and beg hum to please talk to his mum on your behalf..if you mistakenly speak to her insolently in front of her son,he will never be the same again..

bulletproofmonk:
The Fulani Herdsmen crisis is a scam.It is mere propaganda being promoted by proponents of Biafra to soil PMB's Government. How come there are no pictures showing matchete wielding men riding on cows and sacking entire villages.It is a scam jor!

Moral of the story - The same way you feel about the junk I just wrote is how Chibok parents and well wishers feel when you ridicule the fact their kids were kidnapped

Selah

thank God you know dis is junk....some of us keep playing with very serious issues.......may God help us nigerians.

hmmmmm......

SirREX94:
Afghanistan/Nigeria still a difficult choice to make between them! Don't you think they're somehow related? In the voice of Britan's PM, they're FANTASTICALLY...... IMAO!

i would rather deal with the talibans by arming myself to the teeth.than deal with this fuel scarcity.man i neva see NEPA for a week now,heat want kill me sef join....afghanistan i COME.....hahahah

general111:
of cuz

i think she just misses your companion as a friend.

general111:
i hope you are right.because i wont leave the girl am with now for her oh..

did you have a good relationship with her before asking her out?

maybe she just misses you.a person can just miss you without uterior motives na.

african magic

christopheru:
it's more expensive. Don't you know fuel is now expensive?

i am a citizen of afghaniztan.dont bother me with the problems of nigeria..lol

lol....i just bought this space for two naira...

yes,if my kids will be born in africa.but i will still make some changes or adjustment in order to suitr this jet age.

Creamish:
If ur sure about ur hubby, then get into d marriage first. U tame strict MILs wit good attitude n respect. I hope for ur sake that ur hubby luvs u and is ready to stand with u when MIL is acting all out mean. No matter what, dont disrespect her. This will encourage hubby to stand by u.

Cheers!

op come take food sharp sharp

very true indeed

kushkingstalin:
kk, tnks Hope the battery is gr8

so far i am enjoying the ride...lol

so what about the autopsy?abi police no sabi wetin autopsy mean?

kushkingstalin:
Hello, where..how..and how much did u purchase the phone?

#18000 in calabar.i blv it should be less in places like lagos and ph..

i just got a fly dune4 phone yesterday,but i know nothing about it.i just wanted to try a new thing.please if you know anything about this phone,pls share...

its funny how people believe that he killed her,but refuse to believe the medical report now.

BluStreak:
The way this present generation throw divorce around leaves much to be desired. Is this how far disconnect we have become from reality? Divorce has become a melodious hyme everyone is singing to now. In this new chant for divorce, no one stops to consider the traumatic effect it will leave on the children from such marriages. It rewires their perception to life and in some cases exposes them to various forms of abuse.

I won't wanna dig deeper into the many horrors of divorce as it affects the innocent children from the union. This however does not mean I encourage domestic violence or sitting tight in violent and life threatening marriages.

Marriage takes a lot of work to make it work. The ADULTS involved should fucckkin be adults and correct their stupidity for the interest of the innocent kids and make that marriage work. Women should learn to be loyal and bridle their tongue, for it will yield better results when they say less hurtful things to their partners. No one can understand your marriage better than you that's in it. Friends most often will encourage you to do what they wouldn't do when face with the same situation you find yourself. Better still they'd want u in the same shoes as they are - afterall, misery loves company.

We can all learn to live in peace and bring up lovely children to make our society a better place.

this is the wisest comment i have read so far.

dad was a military personel.he went for peace keeping in siere leone and liberia sha.many died but thank God he came back home safe..mum made us pray for his safety every morning.we coudnt always wait for his monthly letters which came with death reports of peoples husbands and fathers.come see drama d day he came back.i saw him first before mum on his kaki.my mum ran with wrapper outside and jumped on him.you cant blame her tho...rip to those who lost their lives in a war.

andymola:
Your advice will really save a brother. I'm in a relationship that's causing me pains right now. My woman accepted to marry me. We had done our introduction and have been working towards our marriage later this year. Last month, her attitude changed. She started getting aggressive. I pleaded she tell me what's wrong but she refused. I later found out she was communicating deeply with a certain man who wants to marry her. They communicate morning, afternoon and night. If she visits me, she always puts her phone in silent or sometimes puts it off. In all, she never told him she was in a relationship. This caused us so many troubles. I decided I back off since she's considering another man. She then promised to stop all forms of communication with him.
Always, she complains of been confused cos too many people are asking for her hand in marriage. Since Sunday, she's been very aggressive, she gets so angry anytime I complain abt how men call her. Anything I say now she gets angry. We were speaking on phone this night and she mentioned abt been confused again. That she doesn't want to make a mistake abt life partner. That three men are seriously disturbing her for marriage. I asked her why put other men on the line when she has accepted to marry me and I had done her introduction, she got angry and said she's a woman and she's allowed to entertain other men and asked me to cut the phone.
I'm really confused right now and need your advice. I'm typing with a phone.

supposing you were being pursued by three lions,would you come online to ask whether or not to run?? seriously,women always dream of the day they get married to a certain prince charming.so when after her introduction,she still considers other men.then u r not her prince charming.free yourself from her burden sir.