₦airaland Forum

Visocrate:
do you marry without money ? is it not money that does the wedding so if you clock 27 and nothing yet then wait and make the money instead of rushing into it and jumping out the next moment that's for the girls anyway but for men 27 is too early even because a man needs to put somethings in order first before thinking along that line

The question of the right time to get married has been a hot topic in different groups and talk shows over the past few months.

Find out below, 6 reasons you should get married
before the age of 27.


1. Prevent sin:
For those who believe in the concept of purity before marriage. Early marriage is one thing that can help you enjoy sex the way it was designed.

2. You can never really be ready:
You will always want to make more money and be more
comfortable and be a better person to ‘increase’ your options. But it’s even better when you can grow and become better with the person you love by your side, supporting you and propping you up during this journey.

3. You’ll never find the right companion:
Many are in constant search for their ‘one true love’ and this tend to make them spend more years waiting, you’re probably not the right person for anyone. Just learn to improve on yourself.

4. Heartbreak:
Many ladies decide not to try love again simply because a guy betrayed her. sweetheart just one word, “If he deserves you, he
wont leave or break your heart”. Put together the pieces of your heart and move on.

5. Self confidence:
As a lady, your self confidence automatically increases when you are married because you think in a more matured manner
having at the back of your mind that you are a complete woman.

6. Fear of commitment:
Commitment is willingness to give your time and energy to something that you believe in, or a promise or firm decision to do
something. If you are still scared of commitment, its high time you snap out as someday you have to be committed to one thing or another.


Society and some cultures have driven the concept of late marriage deep in the consciousness of everyone because of the alarming increase in divorce which has made marriage a feat for only those with courage.

shudi:
Did you read posters comment in response to your post.? I deliberately left public opinion to judge.

kennydee05:
Na joke naauuhh
But come to think of it, is this how you have been MissBehaving247?

shudi:
Is it a coincidence? The thread reports a man who misbehave after smoking weed and the first person to comment is missbehave247. Comedy full Nairaland! . Lalasticlala will laugh tire at the sight of this.

Precious91:
bad nigga

barrnchedo:
They should just provide an artificial leg for her.

SPG4U:
So please list those things to be discussed....you can discuss all this things with maturity and without sentiments and biasness

baadejoko:
good morning,
I am a man of 27 years old and I am a bit comfortable and will like to settle as soon as possible. The problem here is that 2 girls are in love with me. The first I met her in 2010 without wooing she started falling in love and she was a bit desperate as she was asking for marriage during my service year she was in year 1 then at university. The second girl[b] was[/b] a nurse I met last year in the course of my work she was a student then I ask her she agreed after playing me for 5 months I am getting fed up when she send the 'I don accept' text msg. I am more comfortable with the nurse than the other girl. The first girl always initiate break ups and coming together always complaining of me not [b][s]CARING AND ROMANTIC (I am not truly cos I lost that part of me when I lost my favourite cousin to death in 2009). I am not the lady type sha cos I don't really like something that will take away my freedom.[/s]
The problem now is the first girl after breaking up with me in late 2013, she just show up at my place last week telling me she loves me bla bla bla to a point she was demanding sex as she claimed she was a virgin meanwhile the nurse is working on my psyche up to the point that right now I am a regular church goer (as I abandon everything after my cousin death to the point that cost my first class) but now she is misbehaving just because I shouted at her on phone and not telling her where I am going before time and she has stopped talking to me. She even came to my house cos she was treating a cousin of mine that stays with me, she just 'hi' me.
What should I do to both girl?
THING TO NOTE
1. They are both virgin to me as I have not had sex with them and they claim to be
2. My friends prefer the first girl
3. My family love the other girl as my family lives close to her family in my village
[s]4. I am not a virgin, I am active "clubber" and regular traveller as my job entail[/s]
Thanks
Baajoko (please don't mind my English construction)

blesoh:
Wetin be this

Qweenedo2:
This is definately going to make front page

The police yesterday visited the clerk of the National Assembly, Alhaji Salisu Maikasuwa, over a petition alleging that the Senate Standing Rule was altered illegally.

The media was awash yesterday with reports that the police had invited the deputy Senate president, Sen Ike Ekweremadu to clear his name over the alleged forgery of the said document.

Deputy force spokesman, CSP Abayomi Shogunle, who spoke with the media on the alleged forgery and invitation of Ekweremadu, said the police never invited Ekweremadu to report at the Force Headquarters over allegation of forgery.

According to him, the petition was against the procedure and not Ekweremadu.

His declaration coincided with the storming of the National Assembly by a detachment of policemen from Force Criminal Investigation Department (FCID) led by a Commissioner of Police (CP), for investigation of the alleged crime.


Inspector-General-of-Police-Solomon-Arase

The Force CID officers, led by a commissioner of police whose name tag was not displayed on his chest, were said to have left a message for Ekweremadu to appear before them yesterday at Force CID Headquarters, Area 10, Garki, Abuja.

LEADERSHIP recalls that the Nigeria Police had on Sunday invited Ekweremadu to appear at Force Headquarters yesterday following his alleged involvement in forging the Senate rules.

Shogunle disclosed that the police met with the clerk of the National Assembly and some principal officers over the petition.

The police officer confirmed that the meeting took place in the office of the clerk yesterday, saying that a senator petitioned that the Senate standing rule was substituted without the authorisation of the Senate.

Shogunle said the meeting where some senators were questioned followed a request by the police to the clerk to facilitate it. He also confirmed that the petitioner had made a statement to the police over the allegation.

The spokesman who was asked whether the petition was specifically targeted at Ekweremadu said it was not, but “against procedures”.

He affirmed that contrary to the report that the deputy Senate president was invited, the lawmaker was not invited by the police, but he declined further comments, saying that the matter was still under investigation.

The opposition Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) had on Sunday alleged that the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) was planning to use the police to remove the deputy Senate president, a PDP chieftain, from office. The PDP spokesman, Olisa Metuh had alleged that the ruling party was planning to eliminate Ekweremadu.

But the APC spokesman, Lai Mohammed, in a reaction on Sunday, denied the allegations of the PDP, pointing out that the party had no hand in the travails of the deputy Senate president.



I Can’t Be Intimidated – Ekweremadu

Meanwhile, Ekweremadu yesterday declared that no amount of harassment from desperate politicians will deter him from carrying out his constitutionally prescribed duties as deputy president.

He said he was validly elected by the 8th Senate through an election transparently conducted on June 9, 2015.

Responding to allegations by Senator Kabiru Marafa (APC Zamfara Central) that he and some other ranking senators of the 7th Senate forged the Senate Standing Orders 2015, as amended, in the heat of the leadership crisis few weeks back, Ekweremadu submitted that the alleged forgery was an amendment carried out by the 7th Senate preparatory to the take-off of the 8th Senate.

Though Marafa was ruled out of order upon which he based his allegation, another APC senator, Suleiman Hunkuyi (Kaduna North), in his capacity as secretary of the Senate Unity Forum, forwarded a written petition to the Inspector General of Police (IGP) last week on the alleged forgery for thorough investigation.


But Ekweremadu, in a statement issued by his media aide, Uche Anichukwu, said since the news of his purported invitation by the Police broke out on Sunday, he has received calls from numerous

Nigerians across regional and political divides, expressing their solidarity and stressing the need to protect the independence of the legislature.

The statement reads: “In all these, however, let it be known that no amount of intimidation or harassment will deter Senator Ekweremadu from carrying out the constitutionally prescribed duties, which on June 9, 2015, PDP and APC senators willingly elected him in the full glare of the world to perform.

“The deputy president of the Senate further wishes to assure Nigerians that necessary steps are being taken by the security agencies to beef up security around him.

“Senator Ekweremadu wishes to assure all Nigerians and concerned members of the international community that everything is under control and that all democratic steps are being taken to preserve the nation’s democracy and protect the independence of the legislature.”

Dollyak:
I kind of agree with you. Seriously, the more you look at it the more you see how hopeless the situation is. Nigeria is simply too big and diverse for her own good. Available evidence have shown, that this marriage of unequal partners and perhaps force integration was to facilitate British administrative purposes. We have all seen the aftermath of this colonial error which was promoted after independence by our own ingenious compradoes. Our very security apparatus in the country have been compromised or failed depicting a clear case of a fail-state. Hindsight is a wonderful thing.[s] I doubt any of our forefathers would've agreed to this relationship if they knew Nigeria would turn out like this.[/s]


Nigerians have seen it all and it is time to say goodbye,[s] bon voyage, auf wiedersehen, dos wiedjernier, alora graciers, ce-sabata, au re vouire, Adios amigo, ka-emesia, odabör se-anjima, bye-bye!!![/s]

eyeon:
@OP... What was that your question?