₦airaland Forum

Funmiola95:
I created this acct today for single ladies to learn from my mistakes..
I finished from school some years back, after my final exams I decided to stay back because I was into little business, I sell ladies wears and bags.
On Thursday evening I was outside my hostel when guy pass we exchanged greetings, I fell for him I can't explain why ( I was single) the next evening he saw me we had a little chats, we exchanged numbers.
We became friends, after two weeks the feelings started growing and I fell in love with him( I wanted a serious relationship) I went to his house with my friend spent few minutes and left..the next day my friend had a guest so I decided to go to his place, I pleaded with him that I don't want any sexual itimacy he aggreed, around 5am he started touching me one thing led to the other..after two months I find out he has a gf, before then I dreamt about him it made me feel for him more deeply.
I was very down and I decided to move on I went to bear parlor I drank to stupor some people help me home..the next day he called, he started saying the lady is a cheat, we move on..after some months I relocated to another state I was hunting for job, I travelled to lagos, he calls me every day, we chat the love grows more, he was very broke, I sent him money, after some months I left lagos, on my back a man told me to avoid any relationship at the moment, wish I heed to his advice..

I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man .i had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already

He told me that he want to go home to hustle up, after some weeks he started posting the other girl pic I was very down after everything I did for him, I moved on but it was too late, I was pregnant my initial plan was to abort it when someone who doesn't even me told me she saw me in hospital in her dream
I insisted on aborting but every means I tried wasn't working until I was told not to abort the child.

Hi Poster, it must have taken a lot from you to share your story with us. I believe we are all humans and as such prone to mistakes, glad you are stronger than what you passed through.

God forgives us of our trespasses,may the zeal to forge ahead better,be bestowed upon you. There is a lot to live for, stay positive and make the best out of your life.

Some people had it worse, you would be fine. Keep pushing and never settle for less too.

Cheers.

Ammishaddai:
Keep deluding yourself. Las las, you'll become a social nuisance looking for who to dump responsibility on .

Hey N.I.T.W.I.T!!! Did she beg you for one naira?? You obviously want to show your stupidity on this thread

What’s happens to reading and moving on if you have nothing sensible to say. To the recluse who liked your comment, you both are rotten eggs from same chick

It already looks like he won’t support you when there is an issue of any sort when you guys get married. He wants you to be become an extrovert in one day just to make his family happy doesn’t make sense one bit!!!

With all you have said, you have done well and enough at the junction you both are. His attitude is a red flag sadly, but then do what makes you happy too, if working intensely to do what he wants would then so be it.

I saw this on Zikoko, what a sad story. The hustle is indeed real.

ictplotter:
God don't do nonsense ok, u girls should keep using ur future for yahoo guys because of material things of today, which value will disappear after 3 yrs. N be shouting nothing God can't do. It's really pathetic Nigeria girls didn't learn anything about BlackBerry phone.

Hey nitwit when you grow up and learn how to type in full, you can quote me. It’s obvious you lack SENSE.

Your brain obviously didn’t tell you never to generalize and say what you don’t know. Or perhaps you are so damn broke and a girl rejected you because of that. Take your stupidity off my mentions and change your erroneous mentality

LiegeMan:
but she's normal as in, no sign of being used.

I get, but to the best of my knowledge such persons usually look normal. It doesn’t show physically, it’s a spiritual thing. Try to make haste and go spiritual so she can get help on time.

So in summary the man told her she has been used. It’s quite sad, however there is nothing God cannot do. She should be taken to MFM for intense prayers.

Now this is hilarious so she agreed to marry him because she thought he works in Chevron. Chai!!! see deceit on all levels.

Richywiz:
Dorimeh

I’m not sure you know what you are saying 5ft7’ isn’t a short girl. You probably have other reasons you ain’t saying.

Yawns… and I thought something serious happened

You are a such a clown!!!

Like seriously

What’s this?? This one is obviously not okay go and unwatch it ASAP.

No much difference with Bubu then its the same corrupt vices been used to run Nigeria and its quite sickening.

Yewande the cry baby interesting story more updates biko.

Lol I got same in 2018 when I finished NYSC

Is it still trending??

Tocco:
Government Junior Secondary School, Giza, Nasarawa State.. Days of 9k7 thoughts

Which of the local government was this in??

I served in Government Junior Secondary School, GJSS Lafia in year 2017.