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lilvicky68:
At least it worked for him.. she apologized..case closed..

What would he say before?? You ain’t in his house

The silly comments by guys here says a lot no reason whatsoever justifies what the so called husband did.

Head of the house my foot there are better and matured ways to sort out some issues amicably. So you left the house to go sleep in the hotel due to what your wife did

Very funny!! The man should simply grow up or go take lessons from people who know better not come online to rant.

ashewoboy:
let's talk in private. reply the mail.

What’s there to talk about quit stalking me.

ashewoboy can you stop sending me pms

It’s really sad. I wish people would give birth to the number of kids they can cater for.

This is so sad,because her family is a nobody nothing would be done to the paedophile



Can Nigeria ever get better?? Bad news everyday. It’s sickening walahi.

No I can’t, my dad was a good father to we his kids but definitely not a good husband. Never carried my mom along in his plans, sided his family even there were wrong and many others I can’t say.

His good sides are not cheating and drinking.

uc4uandc:
I don't have 5 years in the flour industry, but I have a good sales record.
Can I apply?

It states male gender

Eyah this is funny

Please go and upgrade your English first so his boyfriend can always call you senior man

Did you say two years and you weren’t able to put the dots together.

Gather yourself together, he is not that into you obviously and has someone else who takes a larger part of his time/attention. A family possibly like some people pointed out.

igwebest23:
My brother I know my wife is my responsibility. But d issue now is that she is making money. She has like 250k saving In her account. Her shop rent is just 90k. And she wants me to pay it. D money she is making, is it ordinary paper. The issue is that ladies of this generation is different from our mum. I live in well furnished two bedroom apartment, paid by me. People are passing my wife shop seeing d level of customer going in and out, d think she is contributing to d family. Is better I marry a girl that is not doing anything that will be submissive to me. I noticed d little money she is making is entering her head.

Haha she isn’t submissive, sorry sir you should have married a village girl. It seems you are igbo I thought you guys always say you know how to take care of your women and spend all the money on them.

Why complaining now?? Well it appears you guys didn’t talk well on finances which is of utmost priority in marriage either your wife works or otherwise. Her role is simply to support you and assist which ordinarily you shouldn’t be the one to tell her to do so.

It appears your foundation wasn’t built firmly hence this issue already wanting to make you end the marriage. You are the man, so act like one and talk to your wife in ways that would make her do what you want even if she doesn’t want to.

cococandy:
Even if she was naked or dressed “indecently”, they had no right to harass her.
It’s almost as if the problem is not women and what they wear but men who always feel they have an opinion on it

Ofcourse they have no right but the North isn’t like Lagos where you dress as you like.

Too many illiterates and local people in the North so it’s not their fault really

I don’t understand she was harassed for wearing abaya these ones don’t have anything meaningful to do with their lives obviously. She wasn’t naked or dressed indecently.

Someone I know divorced his wife due to this reason. I reserve further comments

Nwanna2588:
A brother out of shame is dying in silence after being duped by some fraudsters. They posed as a relative and duped him. He paid almost half a million to 4 account numbers they gave him. The four account numbers are all individual account and all their GSM numbers are out of reach now. Please learned colleagues help me to help him. How can one start a case like that? The deed has been done and it is now over a month. What is the right approach? Please I need a plurality of opinion from those that can help. You can save a soul

This is really sad his account officer is in the best position to assist especially if they have a relationship prior before this occurrence. Or he visit his bank, get a court order, investigation should be done by his bank so he would be informed where the funds went exactly.

It should be taken up from there, however CBN should also be carried along. You said it’s over a month though was anything concrete fine from the start??

The woman who birthed these kids though should have had more compassion. Her husband too is heartless. Why give birth to so many than you can cater for.


I’m sure poverty led to all of these. Six kids in this terrible economy. I hope the kids get the needed help they require, they didn’t ask to be born.

The woman looks scary and the men look like her boys. Seems more like a master and slave relationship.

Is this a comedy story

It’s very interesting.

Happy birthday to her. She would always feel his loss though. Life goes on sadly.

This guy isn’t well I feel more for your parents having to go through humiliation because of you.

The time you want to use to plan whatever revenge it is you seek, use it to plan your life and move on.

Nawa oo this is so pathetic. What kind of mother does this?? I don’t think she is mentally sound. She should be properly checked.

Just here to read comments

Despite everything she still died cancer is deadly. May God grant her family the fortitude to bear the loss. It’s quite disheartening.

Funny thread wahala for who never come Nairaland to ask for advise.

So much for blaming Access bank, your card details must have been compromised. Really sad what ain’t you saying though??