₦airaland Forum

Daeylar:
hopefully it works abeg.
so all these misogynistic fools insulting and degrading women nonstop can go and meet these dolls and leave women the hell alone, women are this, women are that in a relationship, so with these dolls. no need to even date women again, they can continue with their dolls and leave women alone.

also hopefully it works, so all these useless rapists won't bother women again, they can go and rape the dolls, it's always available for them.


why are women disgracing themselves trying to stop these men from having these dolls ffs.

I tire

BuddhaPalm:
The Madonna-whøre complex...

“Where such men love they have no desire, and where they desire they cannot love” ----- Freud

This is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you for saying it.

BALLOSKI:
and here is another twist to it. I'd like to agree with the lines in bold, but not wholly. Men don't fall in love with everything they have sex with.

Sometimes, we think less of sex with those girls we love. Just ask your male friends whose relationship is heading to marriage, they'd tell you they really do not imagine sex with their partners. But they go out hunting New puna for fun.

Interesting. What do you think is responsible for this?

tosyne2much:
I've been fine ooooo.. I never serve finish jawe

I actually want to introduce you to something. Let's talk privately

Okay, Pm me.

rival?

Lmao!

tosyne2much:
How are you doing?

Where have you been?

I'm good, Tosin. You? I missed your italics. You don serve finish?

RuthDaniels:
Lol!

Women aren't in trouble, women are finally free! No more sexual harassment or compulsive intercourse.

In few years time women will have sex only when they want to, there would be reduction or total eradication of sexually transmitted diseases , rape cases will reduce too. No more domestic violence on women.

Women will no longer be seen as sex objects, and freedom to say No to husbands, admirers or boyfriends. Women will be liberated!

I wish I had bells and confetti, but.....

Thank you.

greiboy:
Good points, I personally don't fancy them either, but I just want to troll nairaland ladies. I think it may also be too liberal in a way. I mean it will take some of the most important aspects of relationships like emotion, personal connection out of the equation.

I think it might be a hit in the sex industry though, if they can manage to produce cheaper version capable of competing with the low grade sex workers.

Lol! .

Yes, dolls are already a fetish for some people.

You're right; it will have an adverse social impact in the long run. Young men, especially the shy ones, will seek out the path of least resistance to patronize dolls; and they would not make the effort to develop social skills to get real-life girlfriends. They're the anti-social creeps that do crazy shiit like cut people in half, and become otherwise violent in their frustration.

greiboy:
@ misswrite what is your take on the sex dolls

Personally, I'm not a fan of these sex dolls. No, no, no, no. Dil.dos, maybe; they're essentially vagina massagers. But here there's just too much extraneous material. Bottom line: it's not a person. So I can't. But guys are different and I see how sex dolls can be beneficial if guys decide to patronize sex dolls instead of violating girls; or as a supplement in a relationship. But let's see first, how easy it would be to patronize these dolls without forming an emotional attachment. This kind of personalization might be very unhealthy. it's easier to stay detached from a hand-held device, than from this effigy that has even got a name.

donstan18:
This one go pain ladies ooo , e go pepper dem scara

But wait oo, why e de pain dem self , when they were using Love Machine, vibrators, banana, cucumber, carrot, pencil and tubers of yam, did we complain?, they never knew we were serving a living God!

Now, God dn answer our prayers with a 3D sex doll, and the are complaining ... I even heard you can use sex dolls as Power Bank ... asin, if u de bang am, ur phone go de charge

Kai, see bad market for them, it's so funny to see how women are being intimidated and triggered with a common toy, ordinary toy


Funny set of people who wants men everyday but will pretend they don't, I even heard feminists are now saying that they can cook and clean the house , they even said that small dicks is the best

I even heard that a man sneezed at Lagos and 5 ladies rushed him with first aid box to ask if he was okay Kai ... Power of sex doll

If a man fart, his Bae will rush him and say "Baby I'm so sorry, did the fart wound your nyash


Kai see damage control.... I even heard that sex dolls can give you barrow style, samsung style, shatte wale style, Nokia styles, Aba style, Monkey pox style and mosquito style.

Oluwa has done it


DJ, please play WO for me and my men dem, mk we dance jare

Oya WO, Sexy dolly dolly, WO!!
Awon omo tikaDolly, WO!!!
Ma lo Dollykibo, WO!!!

Lmao!! ,

A sex doll is a masturbation tool. And masturbation isn't cheating.

ShyCypher:
1. Women love emotions attached to their intimacy - somethin' a sex doll / robot cannot give them no matter how advanced it is. The sex doll cannot control when to slow down, go faster, maintain a style the woman is already feelin', say the things they wanna hear, pull their hair, etc so expect very awkward sex for women with these dolls. The woman will most likely be the one riding & poundin' herself away on the doll. After awhile, it'll seem like tedious work & the aim of sex is defeated.

Women can't detach themselves emotionally from sex? I don't know if that's entirely true. I know you want to maintain this romanticized image of women but here's something which I do not say proudly, only truly: Some women have been doing so professionally for years. And some women can cheat with the driver or gate man for the sole purpose of sex; and they choose these people who are perceivably beneath their social class not just for proximity, but because there's no risk of falling in love. While men always end up catching feelings for their secretaries, house-helps or even a prostitute. (Like in Bridget Jones' Diary, Sound of Music, Pretty Woman); no woman is beneath a guy when it comes to romance. Whereas a woman would seriously be second guessing herself if she starts getting dreamy eyed with the mechanic in view; it doesn't matter how attractive he is in reality. Also, some women can bang their rich husbands for years so he keeps paying for their stuff, without ever falling in love with him.

Women can do sex very nicely with gadgets. Have you not heard how the cucumber has suffered under the lasciviousness of some women? African women in particular, can really let their hair down with a dil.do. Unlike with a man. Some! This is because, in a lot of areas still, African women are judged for being too sexually expressive. So, in most cases, all they can do is pray that he knows what he is doing. She may not woman-up to tell him what she wants, so that he doesn't label her an olosho. Enter dil.do, problem solved. And she'll make it go how she wants it to go.

For me though, I doubt that the sex doll holds much of an appeal. It's too bulky; and only one appendage is really needed. Plus I don't want to have to stare into those lifeless eyes without a soul. After applying pressure to the necessary pleasure points, the rest happens in the head for me. I can be anywhere, with anyone doing whatever thing. So the dil.do is sufficient. It would get the job done.

Men on the other hand don't give 2 fvcks about emotions. They just want a moist and willin' hole they can ram away in & control however they like without complaints & forget about the next mornin' - somethin' sex dolls can offer.

That's a fleshlight. It hasn't been very popular all the while. I am really curious to see how this one plays out, because I believe men have an ego that a life-less thing cannot satisfy. Knowing that the moan is programmed and mechanized; and not a real feed-back . Unless it's like a karaoke machine that gives you points (moaning sounds) as you hit the notes. Then it could be a fun game. Pa! Pa! 60%.......Pa! Pa! Pa!........80%.....Pa! Pa! Pa! Pa!..........speaking in tongues.....that kind of thing. It'll get predictable after a while though.

2. Men naturally are independent and can afford to buy these dolls. A large percent of women (truth be told) depend on men for their upkeep. They sleep all day, go out at night, spread their legs and get paid. With no attention from men, their income will reduce.

True. More women would have to work. But that's a good thing for everyone. Especially the women in question.

3. Women constantly need attention. Men don't. The sex doll will just be lyin' in a corner of the room lookin' at you for a day - somethin' men are prayin' for and women dread.

I've not met those guys you are referring to; the ones that don't like attention. The ones I end up with always want to be cuddled, and kissed and get back rubs - babies! Well, the purpose of a sex doll is clear. None of that for anyone. But girls get attention from their girls, while guys are insecure about man/man bonding.

4. Men will flaunt their sex dolls because they don't give a fvck while women will want to hide theirs because they are used to pretendin' they do not like sex. So most of them will not even use their toys freely while men can pack it along with them when they travel.

Lots of differences...

Women don't need to flaunt their toys. Nobody does. They only need the gadgets in the bedroom, where they can be used as freely as one would like (a dil.do is travel size anyway). Or are men planning to take their sex dolls out on dates? Or have public sex? Remember you're treading a thin line between sanity and mental instability here. If you get too attached to the thing, you'll start hearing voices

Nice.

Lol! .

If you have to ask, you're probably better off with the sex doll.

I'm disappointed in this woman ; see how quickly she caved! Cook, clean and wash? Are we supposed to equate ourselves with sex dolls? albeit with some extra abilities to promote sales. Come on, girls! What is that? . Men should be allowed to play with dolls all they want (#gender equality, #no gender discrimination in toy shops). If dolls would do it for them, they should go crazy (it's better than objectifying women for this purpose); and whenever they're ready to have relationships with human beings, they know where to find themselves a woman. But we should not reduce ourselves to sex dolls with culinary and home-making skills just because they cannot handle a real-life person with thoughts in her head and desires in her heart.

Obalende:
1. Too many rape victims many who have lost their lives.
2. Women seem to do better jobs than men in almost all fields in the year 2000s as most guys continue to chase quick easy money and look at many jobs as an "insult"
3. Most of society's ills like kidnapping rituals 419 armed robbery one chance are perpetrated by men.
4. Gun violence is dominated by men.
5. Most men are stupid when a woman they find attractive is around them and are controlled by visual appearance of women.
6. African men have excessive pride and ego.
7. Motor vehicle accidents in Nigeria from official statistics are perpetrated by men both as causers and victims.

Why did you become a feminist?

. The first thing I thought after reading your post: she/he is just young and a bit misguided. But if you registered this moniker over ten years ago, you cannot be as young as your post suggests. So......I really don't know what's happened to you.

You seem to imply that women should be treated like human beings because they are better human beings than men (or have a more positive social impact?). Women do not have to be better than men at anything to justify their equal treatment; they only have to be members of the species. Anyone, either male or female, can be bad at their job, given to violence, stupidly in love, jaywalk or drive badly. The emancipation and inclusion of women in the work place is not a silver bullet to eradicate substandard practice or the mediocrity of the human race. Women should not be saddled with that kind of responsibility. What special debt do we owe to society, that we are required to work off our oppression by being excellent? We are all humans, every one of us surely but uniquely flawed; and still, we all deserve to be seen as equally human. Women don't deserve equal regard because they are excellent; they deserve it because they are human.

To your question: self love and personal integrity won't let me accept this oppression. I cannot not react to it or stand up for myself. And if you're wondering what oppression I'm referring to, please read my post on this from my topics.

BiafranBushBoy:
Really?

I can't recall. You mind flashing or sending a message. Make I discuss issh with you.

Okay, will do.

BiafranBushBoy:
lol. . Maybe I mentioned you in my head. Smh.

It was because of your last story. Can I send a personal message? or you have an official email I can reach you with?

Sure. You forget you actually have my number, if yours still ends with 63.

BiafranBushBoy:
And you saw my mention on your story and ignored!!!

Oya say sorry

, Awww....lol. Sorry.

But no, sweetie, I didn't see your mention. Did you? Maybe you meant to, and then forgot. Would I ignore you?

BiafranBushBoy:
Misswrite.

Present.

What's up, Bush? How you dey?

Proudgorgeousga:
miss.write are you the person that wrote an article on feminism here on nairaland,about diff types and intersectionality pls if you are your attention is needed cos I don't have the range.

Yes, I did write an article on feminism. I'm sorry I left you hanging, sweetie; I'm only just getting a breather since morning .

Lol, the truth is, this argument on NL just seems like a vicious cycle. It's exhausting! The outcome is always the same: some people will always choose to shamelessly misunderstand. But I'll go through the thread. I saw the title earlier and.......... so what?

donstan18:
No need for long explanation, that one na for telemundo

Just make your money, the rest will be history for Nigerian ladies, weda u rezemble monkey or not.

You're free to try your luck with that strategy, why not. Best look for a hungry girl who's looking to be fed. You should have enough money to feed the hungry side boo as well; the one who's giving her the love.

exlinkleads:
Though its every woman’s dream to settle down with good looking gentleman as a lifetime partner, Ghanaian actress and producer, Yvonne Okoro has revealed that good looks isn’t her thing.

The award-winning actress explained that she is not the type of woman who would easily fall for a guy’s looks and thinking otherwise about her will be erroneous.

In her reply to a Twitter follower on her page, praying for her and Yvonne Nelson to get handsome men as husbands, Yvonne Okoro replied to correct that notion about her.

“Thank you darling. But I don’t like handsome men. Looks are the last thing I look at, he has to have a heart and a soul,” she corrected.

Reactions have emanated and a good number of people believe she is simply bluffing as it is the desire of every lady to be seen with a good looking man.

What do you think about Yvonne's notion on men? Is she bluffing?


More @ http://www.exlinklodge.com/2018/01/i-don-like-or-date-handsome-men-actress.html?m=1

What shall it profit a woman to be seen with a good looking man, when she's actually living with a beast behind closed doors? A man who is kind, loving, understanding, supportive and generally fun to be around with average looks, is much better than a handsome man who's none of those things. I think she's just emphasizing the importance of heart & soul over looks. Besides, some guys who are handsome are vain and entitled as well, and that's too much baggage for some people.

greiboy:
Alright.

I still want to be your friend off nairaland

At least, you will tutor me in English language. So that my dismal use of English language can improve

Sure. But not on that pretext though. I have nothing to coach you on.