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Is the car a gift to Funkybaby and Donmayor? When am I getting mine?

MOBO44,
That thing don deh do you again.

You should have called off the wedding even before writing to Agatha.

It's bad that he would sleep with someone else few months to your wedding, much more so, when that someone is your mother. Somethings are just insupportable.

Yeah right! Your mother 'charmed' your boyfriend. He was under a spell when he took off his clothes . . . when he got down to business . . .when he received the kiss in public BUT woke up to reality only when he saw you. Oh please!

As for your mother,   . . .

IyaBasira:
[b]After all, it's only friends that have obligations towards each other, right?
[/b]

Yes! It's one's duty to 'protect' one's friend. People have obligations towards their friends.

She made it clear to you that She didn't see you as a  friend [at that time] and, as a result didn't owe you any explanation of what's going on. Her duty is to be on her friend's side and there, she was. The friend just wasn't you but the other girl.


You're under obligation to tell her because you say she is your closest friend. . . . . You prolly even would have told her so. It's your duty to protect your friends, if you say you see her as a friend, closest one at that, you owe it to her. The only reason she doesn't owe it to you is because she never said anything about being on your side or you being her [closest] friend. She gave it to you as it is -  I was on that girl's side- and she protected ''her own''.
The problem lies here -  You consider her a friend, She doesn't think so of you. It's like a triangle, while you consider her 'your own', she considers someone else 'her own'.
It's not compulsory that I must be friends with everyone that sees me as a friends. Just like it's not compulsory for me to like everyone that likes me.

If I were in your shoes, I prolly would pay evil with evil- I wouldn't tell her- but, that doesn't make it a nice thing to do.

IyaBasira:
such as that we were quarrelling a lot, she felt closer to the other girl as a friend

Cool!
Even though she didn't handle the situation well, I think I understand her point.

IyaBasira:
" I'm not under any obligation to tell you anything."

Again, I think she has a point, here.
Your 'Closest friend' said she felt closer to the other girl. Therefore, the other girl, at that time, was her own , and her own, she's under obligation to protect.

IyaBasira:
Am I under an obligation to tell her this?

Yes, you are.

Erhmm . . .That's some eye candy there, though.
What if size is all he can boast of?  Skill Zero?

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=546269.msg7087361#msg7087361 date=1288994993]Everyone at one time or another has had to lean over in an examination hall and whisper to his friend or neighbour "hey, whats the answer to number 2?" or "Hey, whats the formular for finding the area of a rectangle?". Where I draw the line is carrying a piece of paper into the hall, buying exam questions, bribing to pass, sleeping with a lecturer for marks, e.t.c.[/quote]!!!

In my house, Pidgin English and Swear words are NOT allowed. . . . . Basically because of my kid brovva.
NL is the perfect place to do these things I can't do at home.

Ability to handle responsibilities [ Financial obligations included] and demeanor [What we refer to as swagga].

Yeah right! Very much the opposite.
It nor be those Fat blom-blom that usually have sharp tongue and think they can intimidate you with their size and weight.

Anyways, I like them 'cause they make me laugh. When a Fat person says something, it always seems funny to me.  . . . Prolly because of how they demonstrate.

snthesis:
u  can take the day off Missy B_aby

wendybaby- **over to you** shake dat ikebe whle u r at it, abeg wind am well!!

What ?? ??

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=545685.msg7084488#msg7084488 date=1288963687]D'Banj is the sexiest Naija man. True or false?[/quote]F-a-l-s-e!

Yorisb:
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I agree plus good upbringing/home training. My sisters would never collect from any man; infact they'd rather steal from me and give to their Fiancé/BFs.

Now, that's foolishness, which is also not a nice thing.

Rotfl! My ribs eh.

safarigirl:
It's very hard 4 me 2 ask any guy 4 money, it's almost degrading if i may use dat word, so i wudn't ask ma bf 4 a cent.

Honestly, I see it that way too.

jay bee:
Currently in love with someone that doesn't want me

Spill! You know you can talk to mama abourrit. 

[quote author=Mr~Cork link=topic=545659.msg7083353#msg7083353 date=1288953720]b]Actualy i fall in love every night, with differient women [/b][/quote]You don kolo!

Once

hackney:
I think its because they concentrate on career development to the exclusion of a love life.

By the time they are what they want to be carreer-wise, of course some
reasonable time would have passed.

Also, from the onset, a man is slightly wary of an overly ambitious female and
unfortunately ambition is what makes one successful.

Men just prefer a soft, moderately ambitious,easy-going female because that, for some reason  projects
calmness, sensitivity and  care.
(not some shrewd boardroom cut-throat Mz of a waspish lady)
That doesnt project ,relaxed fun, babies, romance etc.

!!!

hackney:
Let me chase the greens and get the stress while you keep your softness, baby.

Oya . . . .Come see ma Papa and put a ring on it immediately.

snthesis:
u and your conditions-
i'm wondering d kind of conditions u wud give in d bedroom

_{[size=4pt]hope u had a goodnight rest[/size]}

whats for Bfast- i'm hungry

Conditions in the bedroom . . .Well, I'll let you imagine.
[size=3pt]Yez! I did. You nko?[/size]

No food today. Missy needs to rest.

NaetoC . . . Jim Iyke . . .Peter Okoye. I can't shout. 
Van Vicker should be on this list and Ramsey Noah off it.

Abeg, can someborry caption Peter Okoye's photo. . . . What I have in mind is too dirty.

On one condition.

goodsegs:
i hate it when she continuously ask me for money, it makes  me feel sick about the relationship.

she wasnt like that when i was asking her out, she would hardly eat then if i took her out, she would even ask me not to send her calling cards, she was nicer then and i was always ready to do more for her. , and funny thing is, i cant  lie to her about my incomes, , this last month end, she asked me for money, i said i dont have that i have alot of stuffs to do,  then the fights starts again.

am hating  her  attitude but i really love her

Where are sissies like you from? Jeez! See him whining on NL.
I expect that if one doesn't like a particular character in his woman, he should speak out, and speak out loud enough to pass the message across.
She would fight you? Fight her back. Maybe that way, she would get the message and learn some manners. Where do Y'all pick  these children?
Her parents nor deh? She break hand that she can't work and earn her own money?Why would she think It's her right to spend your money with you?
Seriously, are you considering settling down with her?

It's your fault. . . . .You have a share of the blame.

rhymz:
To be candid, I dont advise anyone to go into long distance r/ship esp when there is no definite time space to be together again. Am in one and damn it, I ve gone 4rm fonder to wander, I am tired of talking to her on phone, kinda boring and monotonous, there is hardly anything of interest to say to eachother besides boring tales of what we did that day plus some funny @$s lies to liven up the conversation. In fact, lately, I ve noticed that the two us of have lost enthusiasm when we speak, we ve even somehow agreed on tacit terms to reduce the number of times we call eachother coz we are fast becoming a bore to eachother. . . 4ck all those fairy tales of if U love and communicate shyit! Shyit is over! Infact, I see it as the beging of the ending, period. Already, I ve adjusted and begining to make myself available again, am sure she too has thought about doing thesame or is even doing thesame, come on, it is human nature jare!

1 out of 10 LDRs works. 'Distance makes the 'Love' grow stronger, indeed'. Dreams!
I like and agree with the last words . . . .It's human nature.

d bigrod:
those lips.shhhhhhh.kai.
missy b,we`ll spend christmas together.

Lmao! You're crazy, Snthesis.

Palava