₦airaland Forum

daroz:
my guy, from all indication it shows u two are not in the same class, so forging a relationship based on pity will only lead to trouble at the end, so i personally advice u to politely tell her u are not interested, or better say u are in a very seroius relationship already, even if u are not.

jaysay:
*My thought, 25yrs, still needs to grow more emotionally
and financially. Some at that age cannot deal with the
excesses of a woman well.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Too young in most cases.[/color]

ohaechesi:
Marriage is meant for two matured minds ok, meaning i doubt figuring out a matured young man at 25. of course, ladies are matured at that age and due for marriage

Ndipe:
Traditionally, it's father's responsibility to give out the bride in marriage. That cements his status as the Head of the family. If the man is deceased, then another male family member would take on that role.

Sagamite:
You don't know what he means but you are quick to jump to tagging his question as dumb and throwing some whole load of confused "ifs", all because you are desperate to parade your "superior" liberalism?

Utter clunking rubbish.

martyns303:
Lolz! I said she's pretty doesn't mean i have feelings for. And at this point b4 sum peeps start saying stuffs, [size=15pt]i would like to emphasize the fact that i dn't have looks as u can see 4rm my profile pics[/size], i knw my weakness but i also knw my strenght, i have this gift were ppl talk to me and they just like me. But i was so not expecting romantic feelings this girl, we'r not on the same ''lane'' though she's good looking, except i'll want to take advantage of her affection and use her secretly but that will be sooo wrong of me. She's such a nice person even right 4rm the first day. Am in total dilemma right now, i'll stay up and see if i can get a good advice, let u guys knw hw it goes.

coded777:
^ i dunt think insecurity is the prob here Missy!. seriously.

atampakoeg:
But, something always bugs me, is it right, moral, or even legal in the sight of God, and our parent who sent us to university, to leave our graduate jobs in Nigeria, and go abroad and even stay there doing such jobs that you will not even allow your far junior relative to do in Nigeria?
Look, this is not about anyone forcing you to come back home, no, we dont care if you do. But, me i can not understand why a graduate Nigerian, maybe even with a second degree, will go to London or there about and start cleaning the streets, or the railway lines or even doing "kpeke, kpeke" inside Night Clubs.

atampakoeg:
and how will that person answer to God who gave him or her the ability to go to school and do something better for him or herself.

atampakoeg:
is it even legal in the sight of God, to leave our graduate jobs in Nigeria, and go abroad and even stay there doing such jobs that you will not even allow your far junior relative to do in Nigeria?

How will that person answer God on the day of judgement?

r231:
are we making loff in d kitchen now

Mr Cork:
I have noticed so many single females in most black churches.

Could the question be true? Whats your take on this?

Mr Cork:
Well, I believe to find a man, women MUST look beyond the church

Mr Cork:
Ok I might as well say it. I believe the answer is YES!!! So many single ladies in churches and for some reasons, they always wantto remain single

until the pastor appoints a man for the. true!

Mr Cork:
NO NO NO NO!!! thats very untrue. I am a christian and do not have anything against churches BUT the fact remains that 98% of all churches do

encourage women to be single. Its a fact.