₦airaland Forum

Odidigboigbo:
If you truely you are intelligent as you claimed, check her records as a minister and come back again, point out two or three instances where she failed.

Tell us the notable achievements she recorded as a minister. At least she was a minister of education and information. The only thing she was famous for was being an alleged OBJ's girlfriend. Nothing more.

ovieigho:
You are sick

First I’m a Nigerian
I was born in Lagos island maternity hospital
Even thou Tinubu was not born in Lagos

So who is more Lagosian between Tinubu n I
And you are so naive fore saying Lagos indigene are not complaining
Go and ask questions

LOL, ode. BAT was born in Lagos, only that his parents are from Osun state. Go on the street and claim being more Lagosian than BAT. Come back here to tell us what happens

PresidentAtiku:
If the principle of rotational presidency means power should shift to the south, then power should also shift to a Christian.

Buhari has done 8 years for the Muslims.

In the spirit of fairness, it is time for a Southern Christian. Tinubu had this ambition to become Buhari's vice in 2015 but it was obvious the Muslim-Muslim ticket won't fly.

Now he wants to achieve that same ambition to the detriment of Christians. It is unfair and he must be stopped.

Christian Association of Nigeria will soon comment on this.

NONSENSE! What happened to Southern Muslims and northern Christians? I guess those ones are just there to make up the numbers.

Nigerians and cv eh

This same woman has been a minister a couple of times, what was her achievement? We like glorifying bookish people all in the name of "intelligence."

This one that was a failure as minister of education is also talking. Social media has a way of making ants feel like giants sha

SageOfChelsea:
2023 we will know what is consequential and what is not. You think because Buhari did not need votes for the south east to win the election, a Yoruba man will not need it? Just know that the votes from south east and south south is what will determine who becomes president come 2023. The north will be divided once Atiku becomes PDP flagbearer and Obi his vice. You wait!

Lol, so you actually believe obi will still be the vp nominee this time around? Where wike Dey? You must be a political toddler. If you’ve money sha, you may want to stake a bet

Ugonna62:
Who told you that,?its an insult to compare waziri adamawa and that greedy man who have succesfully motgage lagos state as his private estate because he knows he has gullible,lilly liverd and idiotic followers,every other formal governors have moved on with their lives but tinubu has continue to hold tight on the commonwhealth of all lagosians till date, aside replacing himself with his wife in the senate and soon you will start campaigning for his son for governor of lagos,.my bro ur shame dey shame me,.this abaration can only happen in lagos state,even Buhari cannot allow such a greedy and corrupt fellow near our national pause .NEVER

LOL. Just imagine your hypocrisy

Comparing a kleptomaniac who became rich off public service, and no single record of working in the private sector to someone with impeccable track records in the private and public sphere

Aren't you ashamed of yourself and whatever education you underwent as an individual?

RolexOfGeneva:
If we think that only Igbos are opposed to Tinubu becoming president, then you've failed. Every sensible Nigerian that has learnt his lesson from this Buhari regime is opposed to that man becoming president.

stfu. If you voted for atiku in 2019, you’ve no moral right to call anyone out for supporting BAT because even a sick BAT is a far better option than ATIKU

NaijaRoyalty:
I am from Eti OSA and I will tell you that Yoruba will work against Tinubu because he's not our choice and will never be

Lol. Who made you the spokesperson of Yoruba? Firstly, work against APC in eti osa LGA before coming on Nairaland to spew thrash all in the name of commenting

Same boring rhetorics. Bubu’s answers to critical interview questions most times put him off as someone with a closed mind. If Federal policing hasn’t solved the national security problems over the years, the only sensible thing for a leader to do is to listen to voice of reasoning and consider diversifying the system to cater for local needs. But then, it’s Buhari

dmostcheerful:
How old are you?
You probably don't have any family value, truth is with this mentality once you are off cash your woman will threat you like thrash.

Lol, I can already see the kind of woman that you’re. All the best to your husband and his SIMPLICITY

dmostcheerful:
Oga, my husband said it worked for his parents and so far 2yrs+ of marriage, it's working well for us.
I don't know the type of mum that raised you or the kind of female that you roll with, i am just not them.

LOL, so your husband works every month and dumps the rewards for his Hardwork into your account

Some men need serious lashing I swear.

dmostcheerful:
Oga I read everything.
You all wants a woman to contribute financially running the family, do you contribute in chores, will you give birth for her?
Will you take care of the kids when they start coming.
Most of you don't even know how to wash plate, how do you expect a woman to wake by 4:30am make breakfast and lunch, leave for 2ork.
Come back by 4pm.
Wash the cloth, keep the house, do school runs and still be financially responsible too.
You need a woman to take care of the home money wise what do you do domestic too?
From that 80k she will make her hair monthly too.
A pack of attachment is 2500 she needs like 2 pack, then 5k to the hair dresser, she buys her tappon, buys her clothing's out of the said 80k.
You people are so selfish here.
Out of all expenses he listed he won't even be spending upto 150k.
He have over 150k to save, what exactly does the wife save too?
Also who should be responsible for clothings?
A man's major responsibility is providing financially for the family.
Making his family comfortable.
A woman's is keeping the family, cooking, cleaning, the kids and so on.
Look I am married too, any salary from my husband's pay goes directly to my account as soon as he gets it, I buy all that is needed for the month, give account and we save the rest.
You can't marry a woman and place financial responsibility on her, the early you understand a woman should do that voluntarily and a man should do chores voluntarily the earlier for you.
Except you 2ants to run back to nairaland with, "please help me how do I solve this problem in my family?"

Your husband’s salary goes into your account? Lmao

weaseloo:
@Poster

To make this list fair, you should know what she depends on herself already, how much she has been able to save, and how much necessary compromises she is able to make to keep a home after marriage. It should be a mutual discussion between the both of you.

The vacation funds and the education funds should be your responsibility. You should be thinking of your immediate needs and vacation should be the last of it. You have given her enough by asking her to take care of the daily food supplements.

This your list does not contain what amount you will be giving her as your wife. Even if it is 5k -10k that small amount will melt her heart and she will end up putting even more in. Most men do now know that women turn into butter when you are good to them.

She should also be looking to get a higher paying job too to support when or before having kids.

Nonsense

Mercychen:
Which money?
Most of them are taxi drivers, pizza delivery man and gutter cleaners. It's girls who don't have levels that want to die on top their neck.

Guys with cool bar na naija you go see them.

Lol, see ignorance. I can bet you’re most likely in one hut in naija spewing this trash. Come yankee, come see legit high-earning young naija guys. I pity you

Ganduje backing on Kwankwaso to fight Shekarau. More of the enemy of my enemy is my friend.

Rugaria:
Are you not ashamed of yourself?
"Not Hausa, Not yoruba"? Is this not culturally permissable in those places?
This is a crime because the people of this area came out to fight it! If you listened well to the man, you will hear him say this is the first time that sought of thing has been reported to them in that village.. And the villagers responded appropriately because they considered it a sacrilege... Caught the man and will be handing him over to the authorities in Owerri. What else do you want?
Meanwhile, Your imams and emirs are busy marrying off kindergartens are you are here running your tribal mouth..
Oponu

LOL, you said it's culturally unacceptable in the East? So all the babes who lost their virginity, who broke their hymen? Baboons??

Ebunoluwa2020:
Have you read Papa Akande's book that was launched recently ? When you finally do, come back to apologize to the author

The author's aim was to counter Akande's narrative, so there is absolutely nothing to apologize to him about. Secondly, if according to excerpt from Baba Akande's book, Tinubu had already suggested PYO over PTB to PMB as at 2011, how on earth does the author want us to believe that it was someone else who brought up the name?? Was Osibanjo that known by anyone outside of the Tinubu dynasty at the time?

Nonsense. You mean a relatively unknown osibanjo in 2015 would have made it to the list of possible running mate to Buhari without Tinubu's input?? Same osibanjo that the author claim Buhari was meeting for the very first time?

All these envelope journalists en

Ybaby:
A1

THANKS ALOT

So grateful.

Ladies the poor men will come on this thread and do their best to fight and convince you and if you listen to them.

You just mortgaged your kids future bu yourself.

Avoid poor men... you are better of being bitten by mosquitoes than to have a poor man's child.

Avoid them at all cost. Be intentional about avoiding them dusties.

Once a dusty is trying to approach - act like you forgot something and run for dear life because your life is at stake if you entertain dusties opening thier mouth.

They are very persuasive and desperate so the trick is to flee with all your might.

If you are wearing high heels - remove it and flee (they hardly approach expensive looking women so if you are wearing high heels they will likely not approach you) but if they do.... donot let them talk - just run!!

Your future depends on your legs ability to run.

Run!

LOL, menopause is coming for most of y'all. Remind me the percentage of broke men in Nigeria again

DOTian:
You should be more worried about the skull mining business in your brown roof eldorado..

LOL. The same brown roof Eldorado your uncles, and aunties would die to be in?

Davash222:
Tinubu should stop wasting his time. He can never be President of Nigeria.

They can make him President NURTW south west zone, if he's so desperate of becoming a President.

Seer, It's your use of never for me. You guys said crazier things about PMB. We go siddon here dey look as una prophesy unfolds

kmcutez:
The lady is working and paying the bills, and you still expect her to cook for you and do all the housework? That’s why she is frustrated. The workload is too much. You should play her role, since she is playing your role.

Nonsense talk.

bluefilm:
Story for the gods.

How come every one has read a ghost story but no one has actually seen a ghost?

Is that enough basis to rule out the account of those who reported to have? The world is mysterious; stop seeing things from your narrow prism.

bluefilm:
Story for the gods.

How come you hear these types of nonsensical stories only in Africa?

Nonsense.

You're obviously not well read. Ghost stories abound all over the world. Visit quora and read even scarier ones.

preacherz:
Women aren’t like men that can move on with a better suitor when things go awry in relationships hence it becomes very difficult to handle sudden break ups. A cripple guy can easily marry a normal gurl buh it’s not that easy d other way round. U deserve to be happy buh know u have made someone extremely unhappy and take what comes with it. Karma has been attracted Already

Peace.

LOL, maybe the babe no fine. If she's fine, she will move on just fine, though might be hurt occasionally due to wasted time. And no, women typically move on faster than men.

Xilsbridalhouse:
I hope you are happy you brought your personal issues here as you have received advice that will not only turn you against your wife but might make you consider leaving the marriage.

From what I can deduce from your post, your wife isn’t cheating on you. You could just tell her point black to stop all communications with the so called ex.

I can bet she won't stop. So many women are wired to keep in touch with their ex because most married "who was ready and available," and not who they really loved. SM makes it even easier as compared to the olden days. Until men start understanding this fact and stop being retirement homes, these kind of issues will continue to suffice.

revolt:
Oga stop complaining ...women are built to hook up with the mate that can provide security and comfort for them... As a young man your main focus should be getting your life together. Once you get some bag you'll see the chics flocking around. They're success miners. And this isn't bad ...thats just how they're built.
Infact any man from 18 to 30 shouldnt waste time dating.. spend that time hussling and if you must knack look for some easy pussy and make sure you protect your offspring so one opportunist doesn't steal a childb from you....That will destroy everything you've worked for. Then when you've balanced sit down and look for a sensible girl with good family background and genes then start a family... ( don't bother with she being a good girl. They're mostly all the same just look for a sensible one youncan flow with)... but for now get your life together.

N. O. N. S. E. N. S. E

Vulcanheph:
My brother, you literally said my mind.
Why would I leave this country and still go over there to get involved with a naija babe.... God forbid.

Op just fall the hands of all of us that have plans to JAPA ....

It's more of familiarity basis bro. The average white woman prefers to be with an average white man, too. Nigerian ladies are just materialistic c*nts sadly.

The way some men rush to marry babes with unresolved issues with their exes en. I hope op does not fall into that category. Because if you do, you're technically only living on extra time before she cheats. I pray God upholds your home sha.

Skilled job workers make a kill everywhere. Even in the United States, those guys make much more than teachers on the average.