₦airaland Forum

bid4rich:
Marriage is not for everybody?

Is that one coming from your mouth?

Are you more supreme than God that says 'we should be fruitful and multiply'

is it that you want to encourage people to have a child out of wedlock or what so that the children can be a product of a single mother, abi?


This is how people misleading people and totally forget God and His word


Check the guy well he may be struggling in his own marriage too if at all he has married.

Nonsense!!!

Be easy on the guy. If you read the post well you will notice that he admitted being married, he's also considering a divorce which might indicate that he's not entirely happy in the marriage.

mykelmeezy:
too many over emotional e-diots above



why do Nigerians hate to be challenged



why do we like to justify what is wrong



why do we attack messengers n ignore the message




from freeze statement a broadmind will know he wasn't condemning the challenge


rather the way it has been manipulated and politicised by Nigerians



we shar have too many misplaced priorities in this country






p.s.....im not supporting freeze nor attacking funke....
use sense n quote

Nigerians don't hate it when they are challenged. What Nigerians actually hate is when people challenge them concerning religious matters (their spiritual leader, church and doctrines).

Dear OP can you categorically say your mom dis EBF for your for six months?(No disrespect).
Was Albert Einstein breastfed exclusively for six months?
Was Mark Zuckerberg breastfed exclusively for six months? The most important thing is to find out what works for your baby. A good amount of breastfeeding is fair enough.

Your SIL calling you by name should not be an issue. My 3yr old cousin calls me by name. It is your name so please bear it with joy. You feel bad about this because we come from a society that enjoys and encourages superficial love and respect. As long as the lady treats and accords you the respect you deserve, her calling your name without adding unnecessary prefixes shouldn't be a problem. Confronting her about it might cause unnecessary and avoidable hitches in the relationship between your SIL and yourself.

Congratulations...Cramping during pregnancy is not bad as long as it doesn't come with bleeding. At this stage your body will be experiencing a whole lot as it settles itself for the next nine months.
Also, as much as the Internet in full of useful info for us I'd advice that you should try not to be too busy for your regular and irregular checkups at the hospital. During those checkups feel free to talk to your doctor about whatsoever because they are trained to understand better than the internet. It's for your good and that of your little one. Congratulations once again.

Well said...But let us ask ourselves one important question. Who is going to instill the good upbringing? The parents that are available or the ones busy making money. I grew up with my mother always being around. It instilled some sort of discipline in me because the woman had details of almost everything we did as her children. I said 'almost' because we always had our ways of getting away with some minor stuffs.
Most children of nowadays don't have that privilege. Both parents work and get home late. They are left with teachers for some part of the day, nannies for another part then they only get to spend time with their parents on weekends part of which is spent watching the TV. So when is the good upbringing supposed to be instilled by parents. Children learn from people they spend time with the most. I see some things from children this days and my heart bleeds. I dare not try what they do when I was their age. But it is what it is. Parents can't hunger and thirst for money and expect perfect behaviour from their children. Something has to give. So the issue of good upbringing is a very extensive and delicate matter. May God help parents.

Ayo001:
Sunday Vanguard: Evans, you are a very wicked man. See what you have done to your family. This is judgement time.... Foreign journalist especially British or american will never interact like this silly Sunday Vanguard journalist. Why not kill Evans yourself, fool. Look if something positive is not done to the lives of youths and the economy keep getting hard to cope with, Evan's case is small compared to what will happen in future. We can all see that kidnapping business is lucrative.

And Sunday Vanguard were happy to display their staff's lack of professionalism. The so called experienced staff. The country will live in tho. There are so many things wrong with this country.

Please let me get this straight. Is it Daddy Adeboye's prayers that caused his arrest or the Igwe of Nnewi's curse or was it a collaborative effort?

First of all this picture of hers look scary. But that aside I want to agree with her on this one. A good man won't put his woman in a confused and uncomfortable position. A good man won't put his woman in a situation where she has to fight for him. I mean what if she gets killed while fighting for him? That's bad. So please women try not to fight over a cheating partner. If he got himself a side chick please feel free to get yourself a side 'hen' too. Afterall what's good for the gander is also good for the goose.

Bloggers oya see news o....It's time for y'all to force feed us with all unnecessary details about Mr Eazi and Temi Otedola.
The rest of this week we'll see news like 'Mr Eazi and Temi Otedola look cute together in new photo', 'Mr Eazi and Temi Otedola stare at each other lovingly' and blah blah blah....
Banky W and Adesua's time has passed. Now it's time for Mr Eazi and Temi. #Yaaaaaayyyyy.

Ok thanks for the story but please note that not all women are like your uncle's wife. Next time try to be specific with your post. The title ought to be 'My uncle's wife, trust her at your own peril'.
Thank me later.

Noloss:
Tanx so so much, I appreciate ur contributions. Can u list some of d purnishment.

He's still a child. Just 8yrs I presume. Any mild punishment for a child his age should do. But the most important thing now is to separate him from his set of friends or seat partners in school. Speak to his teacher for help. And try to talk and warn him for an extended period of time before punishing. Please be extremely careful so as not to inflict any bodily harm. He'll turn out great I believe. Cheers.

Ok I'm just seeing this thread and decided to add my two cents. Like some people said, start by finding out his friends and with the help of his teachers cause a separation if them friends are a bad influence. Secondly, I'm not sure what mode of punishment you give him when he offends. If you stay in Nigeria please try some punishment that will make him feel the pain even days after. For example, my dad hardly flogged us but his punishments will reset our brains quickly. I could list them on demand if you want. Make him understand things that can earn him punishment. Also, do not threaten to punish him if you know you won't carry out your threat. If you ever threaten please make sure you carry it out. Finally, at this age you need to do more talking and less flogging(flog when you really have to). Talk, talk, talk, keep talking and don't stop talking. Make him understand that there are repercussions to every action, good or bad. On days when he acts right, he should be acknowledged and on reverse day please do not hesitate to spell it out to him that he crossed the line. This is the age you have to give in your all to moulding that child's life. Well done ma'am. The Lord is your strength.

tabisegroup:
Today is my birthday..leave Dammy Krane alone n show me love

Happy birthday man...Live long and prosper. #WhoDammyKraneEpp.

I'm tired of reading about people dumping their new born babies. It is just the height of wickedness.
That human being you threw away stay inside you for many months, you formed a bond of some sort, you shared a placenta, you went through labour pain and yet you have the heart to discard that human like a piece of rag. If there's any such place called hell, I hope people like that get placed in the hottest part.

joedesigns:
what kind of pathetic trend is this?

grown men crying like babies, this is unnatural!!!

It is indeed UNNATURAL sir. I suppose because he's a man the tear duct becomes blocked.

Penguins of Madagascar, Kung fu Panda (legend of awesomeness), loud house, Spongebob squarepants, Sofia the first, Dora the Explorer, My friends Tiger and Pooh, Goldie and bear, Lion guard, Boondocks, TMNT, Fairy odd parents...Ok lemme stop here because Nickleodeon, CN, NickToons and JimJam are all fav channels.

I see you Sis...FIN rocks.

Lmao...Oga ran out faster than the speed of light even with lather on his body.
No rest for the wicked or the cheaters in this context.

So I'm going to title her epistle as 'Diary of an angry EX'...
She sounds really disgruntled and angry about something. Telling people they need hypo in their heads and not their toilets is just way out of line. If you wishing the dude well, do that sensibly.
Well, I hope Dammy krane learns the most critical lesson in all of this, which is, most people who smile and flock around you don't actually like you.

Adonbelivit......Your husband buys an Iphone for your maid and speaking to Joro is the next thing that comes to your mind. Hmmm.... Joro I see you bro #LinusMba.

He always had that midfield on a lock down... RIP Toite. You will be missed.

Chai Dammy o village people are dancing azonto on top your matter. But I have prayed for you, and when you have returned strengthen your brethren. May God help you Dammy Krane.

Surprisingly, everybody now has a say in Dammy Krane's matter because he got caught. Still waiting for Baba Fryo, Idris and Eddy Remedy to also comment on this same matter.
Eldee I like and respect you, but you really didn't have to comment on what's on ground concerning Dammy Krane.

This is pure evil. First of all how can you beat a human being to death? Secondly this human being is PREGNANT!!! There's no wickedness more than this. And to think that one of the suspects is female just makes it even more heartbreaking.

Now that explains the absent minded nature of his performance in the FA cup finals. Dude was having the wedding fever. Congratulations to him. Wish them a happy married life.

Cooking for your family for the first time in 26 years Choi....That means men like my father and husband that cook on a regular should have a room full of award plaques.
You are in a happy place indeed sir. That's the feeling you get when you participate in family duties and not dumping it on the wife and kids. It gives joy and creates togetherness.

Ok I was going to move along but my mind won't let me so I MUST comment.
I will start by saying you made a wrong decision and you have to face the music FULLY. You were under the influence of alcohol, hard drugs and konji. So sad.
You are not proud of showing the girl you got pregnant to world but very proud to show her your room.
Well, I'm sure you have realised your mistake and if she gives birth to a boy you will train him to think with his head and not his penis. But if she gives birth to a girl you will teach her how to RUN AWAY from guys like you.
Congratulations soon to be dad.

Nice....Got me smiling seriously.

They did right by embarrassing the shameless paedophile but they didn't have to make the child stand beside him. She has already faced enough trauma by being raped, displaying her to the general public is just the height. Very wrong.

Your son will get over it with time. I feel it's more of a psychological thing. He senses someone else is on the way to take his place and reduce the attention he gets from Mummy.
You can help out by always reminding him that his mummy loves him. Your wife can also do same with every little attention she gets from him at the moment. Also try to introduce him gradually to the new member of the family that would be joining soon by sometimes placing his hands on mummy's tummy to feel the baby move, remind him he's going to be a big bro soon(children understand stuff trust me). He might find touching mummy's tummy odd and frightening at first but he'll get used to it with time.
Relax ok, your son will come around soon. Also enjoy the attention he's giving you now as much as you can, dude might not send you as much when baby arrives o (Just kidding).
Cheers.

And yet AGAIN a woman had to respond and defend her husband over an allegation made by his ex...She didn't even allow the brother to say something first. She just had to fight for him. Madam Minister for Defence.
I wonder when women will learn sha.