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Losing a son and husband in short time spaces, how much more can a mother/wife take? My heart bleeds for her.

TooNoisy:
24 hours is more than enough time in a day to be very productive and have at least 7 hours of decent sleep.

It's about prioritizing the important things and ensuring they are done at the right time. That way, one will sleep well.

Your comment suggests that we have a total of 31 hours in a day. We have only 24 hours and the 7 hours of sleep should come out of that 24 hours in a day.

Sarkin:
There's absolutely nothing wrong.
And you need to encourage the lady to break up with your friend and then, renounce your friendship with the 'friend'.

Then, you should go for spiritual cleansing.
Then, seun must ban you.
Then, Buhari ought to revoke you and your Friend's citizenship.
Then, you and your friend must volunteer your body and life to scientific experiments, better still, a no return mission to Mars.

Lol..unfortunately, their mission to Mars will be futile and a waste of money because their thick skull won't be able to assimilate any valuable information from the trip.

Resener27:
Shut up idiot. Your husband is your lord and your master. Take it or leave it. Marriage isn’t for everyone

Well, my husband doesn't see life in this sad and myopic way. Truly, marriage isn't for everyone and I feel really sad for your wife/slave (that's if you have one) as you have the tendency to be a very tyrannical "Lord". Bye!

Coming from a man with a failed marriage. He can go ahead and teach his daughter and other sheeples this trash instead. Nonsense.

SIMPLYkush:
Seyi law...
He is the most unfunny comedian after AY.... his face is a horrimor coupled with that his young obese daughter.... why won't the daughter be fat when when the wife was receiving sperm from different sources

You really had to drag his daughter into your hate speech Was that necessary? You sound really sad and I hope you find genuine happiness real soon.

ziggyzee:
An innocent soul that hasn't found herself. Shes only practicalizing what she sees...As long as she doesn't practice what the parents do in the bedroom. No P

Exactly! She's just three and is at the 'monkey see monkey do' phase in life. She has no idea of what worship really means.

A good character like Rico displayed during his stay in the BB house is worth all the appreciation, accolade and encouragement.

So who do we believe? Oluwaseun's relative or the hospital management? The fellow that complained gave a very clear and detailed description of the events that took place before Oluwaseun's death and the hospital management put it off as mere sentiments. When will human lives matter in this country? This is sad.

Rubbish talk from a selfish man. Family planning is not meant for women only. If he is done having children and she refuses to go on birth control then he should take the step and go for vasectomy or use male condoms rather than leave everything to his wife alone.

Ok. so how is taking back a cheating wife a reason to give the man a standing ovation Women have been taking back irresponsible cheating husbands with children from such extramarital affairs since time immemorial. If the tables were turned, society would expect that woman to 'forgive' that husband and accept the child as hers.

Mr Op aka defender of the brethren, you should try and apply your heart to wisdom instead of seeking to hurt a nursing mother.
Your brother's wife stopped breastfeeding her two month old baby, no sane mother would do that. Instead of you and your brother opting for the easy way out (divorce), please take that woman to a hospital and seek help there. It's very possible she's suffering from Postpartum depression. You and your 'gentleman' brother should read about it and get enlightenment. It's just unfortunate that we don't pay attention to mental health in this part of the world.

teresafaith:
The only thing I see here is a jealous scorned woman, who didn't believe the guy was going to get someone way better than her.

Please add disgruntled to that list. The woman is just pained. She's in the process of divorcing him because he's trash to her yet she's still claiming ownership. Some people seem to forget that the very trash you dispose can be recycled by someone else to a better and more useful product. So much bitterness in one message! Pheeew.....
I'm happy that Yvonne has an offspring to her name. It's worth being thankful for.

tlb99:
Are u minding those idiots that have failed in life and currently at a stagnant point like their daddy, #daddy freeze(daddy of mad and stagnant people)

It's a shame to know that the so called Christians are quick to throw insults and say bad words to anybody who dares question their faith, church or general overseer. Jesus Christ, even in the face of death and humiliation still prayed to the Father asking that He have mercy on the unbelievers as they do not know what they were doing. I quake at the kind of blind and shallow Christianity practiced this days. You can respond to the people who question your faith in simple words without the insults. And Yes, Freeze is right by referring to some of you lot as SHEEPLES because that's what you are in the real sense of it.

P.s I am a Christian.

lelvin:
For Women, marriage is their Balloon d'Or

Lol...Not all women though. Some women see marriage as a lifetime achievement and they will not mind hanging a sign on their neck that says 'HELLO EVERYONE, I AM MARRIED'.

They are both sick people that need to be checked into a mental facility.

kennygee:
Do not sexualize ur daughter, wear her age appropriate clothes, she's too young to be a slay mama or a slay queen, allow kids act their age.

That's right ma'am! There's more to females than being 'sexy'.

splenzard:
instead of her to drop hits,


she's dropping kids

You sound really sad and bitter. With this much bile in your system you might not attract much good to yourself. I hope you get well soon though.

First of all Op, There's no thing as 'YOUR PREGNANCY INSIDE HER'. Your gamete and hers came together to become a fetus. The pregnancy is also hers. So get that 'your pregnancy inside her' thingy out of your head. Thanks.
Now that said, I'm a Christian and not one who follows church doctrines hook, line and sinker. Afterall them doctrines were made by humans like me. As far as marriage is concerned, the main people who have active role to play are: the two people getting married and the parents of both parties. As long as these people have given their consents, every other person can forever remain silent including the church organisation. It's sad she had to terminate a pregnancy because of church wedding. Still it's up to both of you to decide whether to carry on or not. Good luck.

This post is from the Misogynist Association of Nigeria. I would have commented further but there's too much testosterone in here so let me move on.

NaijasonEzeiru:
waste of sperm?
What's your name? I want to Google it and see if anything will come up so I can know who actually between you and Freeze is a waste of sperm.

Bro, It's not just about what pops up when the name 'Freeze' is searched for on Google, it's also about the dude speaking the truth in this particular write up. I wonder why people abhor the truth when it's said. I'm pretty sure the person that called him a waste of sperm didn't even read or understand that writeup.

FindaHousehelp:
We could implement such a policy but, firstly, it would restrict them from carrying out their chores. Secondly, we are not quite sure who would keep the keys to the padlock?

Hmmm I see. The keys can be handed to the woman the househelp will be working for and the company can also keep a copy of it. My thoughts though.

So does your company also dress your househelps with iron pants and padlocks too?

Well said..Some men just don't know how to treat a woman. Sometimes it's not as if they treat women anyhow on purpose, they are honestly clueless about to how to act.

Aging but still beautiful

lomaxx:
I really hate it when Nigerians despise the efforts of medical professionals, when they want to tell their stories. The so-called testimonies are half truths, carefully concocted not to be a lie but leaving out the salient events.

You had PCOS. When you have PCOS, ovulation is hampered. So there's no way she could have had a child. What doctors do is when someone with PCOS is ready to have a child, ovulation is induced with a drug, and the couple can have a child.

The mere fact that she has twins is a possible pointer to the fact that ovulation was induced by the doctor. Multiple pregnancies that are not genetically gotten are mostly due to induced ovulation during the treatment for PCOS.

So madam, we are not saying you shouldn't thank God, but give credit to whom credit is due. It is a doctor that managed your condition and has helped you to have children. There's no benefit denigrating them and acting like they didn't do anything

God bless you for this. It is the same God that gave doctors the brain to diagnose and treat people. As much as we want to thank God for healing I feel it's rude and disrespectful to ignore whoever God used to give that healing. This woman was obviously attending doctor's appointment and taking prescribed medications but she refused to mention all that but nicely talked about Pastor Adeboye's program and her husband's prophesy. Well, God bless the doctor(s) that handled her case. Your efforts were not in vain.

MrBrownJay1:
thats a nice way to avoid the embarrassment of possibly being rejected.... kudos to this smart dude!

My thoughts exactly...And Miss coworker carried out her assignment to the letter. Even kissed the ring. Funny. I wish them all the best.

Married people can't possibly tell you everything. It is better experienced than told. But fact still remains that you never know it all in marriage, you are never fully prepared for that journey and even though there can be similarities in marriages no two marriages are the same. The idea is figure out what works in your marriage and apply it.
Bottom line is marriage can be a roller coaster ride filled with the good times when you are in cloud nine and the bad times when you feel like you are about to loose your mind but then you hold on tight and discover that you made it through. Like I said earlier, it is better experienced.

kjhova:
Bad day will be better than what I am experiencing right now but we will always come out stronger.

Villain acting the victim. They always know how to gather pity party around themselves. You should get help.

DabLord:
she didnt get married,she is just like the normal Nigeria girls with numerous boyfriend

The normal Nigerian girl don't have numerous boyfriends so don't be silly ok?

jhudit:
Women see and imagine all these things too. Women don't ever forget. It's only societal conditioning that makes them appear more forgiving.

It's that same societal conditioning that make men think it's unforgivable when their wife cheats. Both gender feel same pain...

Very true ma'am...Both gender was created with a heart, mind and conscience. I won't forgive talk of forgetting. It's an unpardonable sin as far as I'm concerned.

cosmatika:
Dis man is a businessman. Bet me, we'll soon here dat Living faith Church is building a Church auditorium in Freetown or building another university dere

Whether for business or not sir, the people of Sierra Leone need as much help as they can get at this time.