Wait. It seems many members of this forum are uneducated or just lack common sense. Sometimes a lot of comments just doesn't add up to what a post is about and its usually based on condemning anything they read. I think the owner of the site and the moderators should do a better job to screen comments that are always based on unnecessary ranting.

Is there any form of development that can happen without a change in certain policies or ways of doing things. If we all stick to that particular way of life we are used to and still complain about it, then there is a change to such policy to bring development and we still complain then we the masses have a big problem being that we hardly spend time to think about the positive aspect of any new development but quickly rush to exhibit our ignorance by condemning it.

If we continue in this matter and line of thinking then I will be forced to say that we all deserve an iron hand government like this government of PMB who pushes whatever they deem fit to bring a positive development without having to listen to what the masses say because the masses say a lot of trash sometimes out of ignorance.

Maxcollins042:
She must be Igbo. A very innovative and industrious race, they are.

Am speechless. All I can say is shown below.

Dibblez:
I'm I the only one who only read the first line?

Lazy youth. How do you read all the plenty notes they dictate for you in school? Abi you no go school?

MissGhosted:
Men are dogs.

Wow, so you mean your dad is a dog? That must be touching for a dog to be training you through school with hope you will have some sense. No offense darling

There are over a million decent girls in Nigeria that don't need your money and won't ask for it but just expect you as a man to show care and love.
If you keep meeting these hungry girls all the time then I think you should change the kind of places you look for girls. Probably try somewhere different. What baffles me is how much we have all lost focus of the exact way one can actually build or grow a good relationship into marriage.

First of all, how can one pass through secondary school and I didn't find one decent girl to just be grooming small small. Enter university still didn't find and then nysc still didn't have a serious relationship then now working and feels its now the right time to find a woman.

This is why some people have issues in marriage because by the time they get to this stage, its only a matter of luck to find a perfect soul mate because you end up meeting people who will hide certain things from you just to get married and few years into the marriage those hiden characters or things will definitely start coming out.

A bleeched skin is usually irritating and if not careful it smells. I love them natural brown skin anyway.

sonnie10:

True. I reasoned that matter before posting. Got me even more confused. I decided on mine because it posed a question. Your version is just an exclamatory statement.
Thought no one would pass attention.
Am l going to school tomorrow?
Are my going to be rich?

Lol...

sonnie10:
Good thing they are almost age mates.. Not the one that husband would be asking wife, ‘ are my your mate?’

This your "are my your mate" lol really cracked me up I swear.
". Am I your mate" I no come know which one correct again lol.

Bonatheripper:
He did the female hippo a favour

Let us see your own if she is even like a gorilla.

The guy is now looking slim and hungry

gidgiddy:


And what agitators are doing is their constitutional right to protest for what they want. Whether that works or not is for the agitators to decide

What is my business? They can agitate all they want and die in the process as well. I don't think that would affect my life in anyway so they can keep agitating.

gidgiddy:


You dont have to be literate to agitate for your freedom

You have to be literate to agitate with common sense in a way that will work out best.

muykem:
Buhari is in south Africa because of these fools instead of protest against xenophobia. IPOB members and their supporters are mentally unstable people. South Africa should just inform Buhari that this is how Nigerians constitute nuisance that leads to xenophobia.

You should know by now that many of them are typical illiterates that cannot think first before acting. Don't you know that it is only a fool that will follow the foolish instruction of another fool? This is to show you how ungrateful and unreasonable many of them are.

Since I hardly come across bad comments about Mike online, I give the win to him.

PrincessJr:
Learn to ignore sometimes

You are right dear. I just wanted to expose the kid.

tossie101:


Oh shut it pls..
I'm not your dear, I can't be dear to an insecure fellow.
It's so funny how u praise Yoruba to high heaven's in ur right up yet u don't have the guts to call urself a Yoruba.

Praise Yoruba in my write up? Now you can see I was correct when I said you had no brain. So you cannot read properly and you are hear ranting lol. Continue embarrassing yourself and showing your level of illiteracy lol. Go and read my post again or ask someone around you that is educated to interprete what I post for you if understanding English is your problem. Then maybe you can go and laugh at yourself for messing up lol.

tossie101:

LMAO I said it.. the true afonja in him has finally come out
Insecure set of men ,
weaklings everywhere

My dear go and sleep. You can call me anything you like, I can never reason as you do because you type are the ones disgracing the Igbo race.

DBlackCeazer:
true, it's a good idea. why would anyone even seek compensation for trying to create sanity in his immediate environment. Report anonymously and let the authorities do their job. Trust me, the exploding number of cultist in Nigeria would reduce.

True but the only problem I see in this is that most of those in authority are also in one cult or the other and most cult activities are sponsored by politicians. Only the ones on the street might fall victims to an extent but trust me, its sad because the issue of cultism cannot to totally eradicated because of the backing they have with authorities and politicians.

If you are living in naija then you will die without any woman in your life while waiting for a woman to approach you.
If you say you have money and you are okay, then visit UK and then you will see girls approach you and help you boost your confidence.

If you can't do this, then try approaching them by yourself. My brother e no pass slap, insult or pour drink for your body. She either say she is not interested or she will talk nicely if she is interested.

I think the whole state in Nigeria should do same.

ednut1:
My wife to be is a nairalander . We met on a thread and had to exchange some details. I later read her posts and saw she was an atheist like me. So i later shoot by shot and he score. We dey go canada together next year

Nice, wish you both the best.

Skyfornia:


Have told her but she keep derailing..

Okay I understand. Maybe she is also scared you are not serious. Just take some more time to make her believe she will be safe with you.

Funmmyastic:
I can't even date a Nairalander.

Really?? Do you know if your future husband is here?

Skyfornia:
Yes and we are cool...but I think she is not ready to take it to the next level.

If you are ready to take it to the next level you make that known to her. Abi is she still in secondary school lol.

abdeiz:
Yeah I did. Still in touch tho

You see all these public enemies slandering themselves here... What if I told you that they party under the sheets in secret when no one is watching

Am very sure of that.

Since I have been reading posts on this section I haven't really seen anything relating to any date by two members. I had to wonder if actually there has been any thing like two people who met on nairaland and probably got married instead of the regular bashing of men and women I see.

Have you had a date with a nairaland member before and what was your experience, be it good or bad.

I think it will be nice if we can share these experiences. Please no insults or bashing one another. We can make this thread matured and simple.

Plumstead kwaaaa.. Which kind construction contract be that for plumstead. Another mini Lagos in London.

IamPatriotic:


Is that all you have to say? I'm sure you would have preferred an headline that read like this: "Osinbajo missing at the Independence day celebration" or "Buhari shun Osinbajo during meeting at Independence day celebration" loser!

My brother you are very correct. Now you see the mentality of many people. All they want to hear is bad news and this same people will rush to start complaining and insulting if the topic were to be like you stated. These are Nigerians with no single direction at all. They can hardly differentiate good or bad. All they do is comment low level reasoning to anything they read.

tossie101:



God forbid!
U are afonja u can never be igbo

You see your life? Because I don't agree with your own way of thinking you are there helping me choose where I am from. My dear, learn to be truthful to your own self. You cannot change my origin because I don't reason low like you. Go back and read my post carefully before you start saying trash okay.

The moderators are not that dumb to have put my post in front page if I was being tribalistic like you.

Starz825:
Wat she did was wrong anyway.....
Na all this people with abroad mentality that if they can by any means travel abroad..no coming back . .she japa....


But to the OP, since she wants to be in Dubai and with ur child in her care....it means some good too......you should try to see some good in it....
She resides there......your son is a citizen
Why don't u travel abroad to Dubai to meet them...even if u going to take two weeks off work if that's possible...
Pls don't take drastic action yet... unless the woman has become something else over there in dubai....
Pls try to think through if u can have some weeks off or may be u can get a leave of absence from work

Bros, no be me ooo. Its someone I know sha.

Very cute I must say. But I fear all these military marriage sha. Before the man will make the fine young lady a widow because of Boko Harram