₦airaland Forum

Cherechy: The person that mentioned SEC up there knows what she's saying. The amount of money those people pack there, e be like blood money. Lol
And the funny thing is dt most job seekers don't know about them. Everybody is hustling FIRS, NNPC, customs etc

190: anytime i see any wild animal, i remember my ex

last time i saw a wounded bush pig - thoughts of her came running through my mind

u3fine: If this Law was made in a PDP controlled state, ACN ( Lai Lai Mohammed) would has castigated d state. He will even say the state wants to break from the Country.

Ganys: Wow, Emirate is No 1, Alhamdulillahi...Ola saad is a Brother from Alfa Agba compound in ilorin, He is a Yoruba/Fulani by tribe, Their hous is adjacent emir's palace. Nice Choice, Youruba/Fulani LOL

Konmight: Nope Bro.....Ola Sa'ad Ibrahim was Course 25 while Onyabor Azubuike Ihejirika was Course 17 at DNA. Ihejirika seniors Ibrahim but it happens like that sometimes(1999 to 2003, VLS Malu and Ogohi). Everyone here at DHQ is surprised that C in C retains COAS cos it has never happened before, but it's The President's call......I wish them all best of luck. I pray that God takes control in Northern Nigeria...Long Live Armed Forces, Long Live Federal Republic of Nigeria.

cikadile: Thank you ladies, and @engrtee for your concern...God bless
I will start by replying @engrtee...I do not think any one, would lie in the cyber world....there is anonymity, and a pool/collection of opinions, plus the jokes....I believe this one can get the best ideas/advice...that said, I was not telling tales

Replying @emiye, I gave the main reason that worried me...and I am sure he must have have his complaints, but that is his story to tell...but I broke up with him, cos of the reasons I gave...it does not mean other things were not wrong, this was the deciding factor for me..

Reading my post again, I will modify by saying that I didn't mean he called me once...he would call, in bits, call duration like 2 minutes on the average how are yous, then when you want to talk he hurries off...I complained and he did the 16 minutes...he told me he does not use more than 200 naira air time a day
Some days before I broke up with him, he called for 1 plus hours( by then there was major friction, and he called for us to settle)I was so sure it was the MTN bonus thing that he used, though he denied it

I cannot
ask a guy for things, that is me...but once, after discussing with my close friends, I told him my friends wanted to see my engagement present(s)...he complained about letting friends into our relationship.And still never got me anything...the truth is, my friends encouraged me to be with him, all of them...though they found it hard to keep supporting him as time went on

I said he is nice, true, but his stinginess and evasiveness affected me so much that my feelings for him lessened, I started avoiding his calls, and told him I was not into texts...(I mean he would text, "sending you roses from here with all my love"...I swear that when a guy's only gift to you was an imaginary bouquet of flowers, you could go crazy)...so I told him I am not a text person

I know I gave up too easily, and that I did not sit him down to tell him, he may have got it, or not if I had done so...but I cannot be responsible for an older than I am fiance's actions like that...I believe men should take charge, and act responsibly..I grew to find out I cannot submit to a man that gave me little cause/incentive to respect him

But, I know he is not a bad guy at all, far from it, but he is not the one for me
I know it will be a sort of scandal, the ensuing returning of the bride price, and the blame games that will come up, but my mind is made up

I think I am too out spoken....can be very stubborn too....just wanted to confess my own flaws too
But in that engagement, my biggest wrong doing was saying YES....


In fact people, I would not lie if you have further questions, I just need to talk here and free myself, cos I swear to you all, I feel so bad for him and his family...it must be embarrassing to say the least, having to explain why I am no longer there...my family too, I know they will worry about me getting married ever.....but what I feel the most is RELIEF
Thanks for reading my long posts

I think I did him him more good by breaking up, cos the way it was, I would have wedded him, and gone ahead to lose all respect for him, cheat on him, or run away from the marriage...and divorces are not easy...and nobody would get why I would divorce a faithful guy...
I wud tel u d honest n bitter truth,am a guy ,I onced dated a lady sometimed wit almost same story,I understand all cos I wasn't spending extravagantly4her which I knw very well.
Later,he met a guy who was spending enof cash4her n alwys calling her not knowing it was d beginnig of tribulation4her,afta somtime dey were very close dat got engaged
,She nva knw ds guy was a guy dat do brutalised women(wife)ds guy beat hm@evry slightes provocation.
Now,ds same gal is beging to com bak to me despite she is richer dan me,I refus bluntly,it was too late,I wil nva go bak 2my vomit.
All dat glitters is not gold.
U made a mistake,y didn't u sit hm down n xplain hw u fee to hm(hink tiwce.

dannywest: Scroll up, I said everything I did but I can see most people on the thread are only interested in looking for who to blame for their plight or for which excuses to give.
Check my last posts on this thread.

dannywest: I passed out from NYSC just this June, I have never written a CV but as at the last time I paid salaries (26th september) there where 7 people on my payroll.
I only started business last february with 6000 naira while waiting to start my nysc. There is no point insulting people who are providing a way out.
As far as expatriates are coming
into this country in their thousands everyday, there is money to be made.

Protesting over not being employed is simply looking for who to blame for a problem you can solve yourself.

Anyone who feels I should agree with the thread can insult me but I just had to speak out.

aduje: It was in 1999, her mum invited me to their house for discussion. I thought the dad and any other family member will be at the meeting. Alas, it was only 'mummy'as we use to call her and my girlfriend's younger sister waiting to hold the meeting with me. 'Mummy' was blunt and straight to the point..."Look my son, I like you and would not refuse you to be my inlaw..but you are taking the wrong lady. This (my girl friend's younger sister) is who I want to give you. I have my reason and I do not need to explain further. Take my advice or leave my family alone". That was the last time I visited the house. I started jilted my girlfriend and the entire family without explanation.

bestower: Who is j martins? or u mean obafemi martins(footballer) abeg this is nonsense,post something better.

crackhouse: Whenever i am making love to her, she will be shouting another guy's name and if i ask her why, she will say it's a slip of tongue. I gat to quit my dear cos i don't wanna have a heart attack.

steffans: U said Exactly wat I thot......No one knows lagabaja...cuz he claims he dsnt remove d mask..hw did u knw it was his house.......SMH.......Next!!!!!!!!