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move on wt ur life

give d gift to someone who will appreciate it

put a stop to her calls.

time will heal ur wounds.

Wish u well.

nikkykaf has said it all.

d guy doesnt love you, just intrested in your money

dear sister run as fast as ur legs can carry you.

God will surely give you a man after your heart.

cheers!

The best mother.

ARUKAKWA, AGBALA NWANYI

idi ok , id i too much

please run as fast as your legs can carry you

she is simply an ingrat, let her commit suicide if she so desires.

pull your self together and look for a decent girl out there.

Engineer?

just cant believe dis wt all the jargons u wrote .

d girl messed up big time.

i just hope she is mentally ok

other wise cant see the rational behind her actions.

Thank God it was not in d the North else

another religious crisis would have started and innocent live and properties lost.

Thank God!

it makes no difference,either way

A player can wait 3 months ,get the sex,then disappear

A serious person can sleep on a 1st date and still continue on to a fruitful,lasting relationship


well said my brother

still thinking of wt should be done to them

will be back shortly.

NL funny people

diverted totally from the topic

I hail u naoooooooo.

i never knew we still have some romantic guys in Nigeria

wow d responses are something else.

well done guys.

y not

as long as i love him and he is the hardworking type

i believe no condition is permanent.

want my advice? tell your friend. I'm not trying to be unfair but you have the advantage of the distance btw you guys. call d girl, sit her down and tell her the facts;
* you don't love her. clearly it was a 1 night stand
* you ain't marrying her. good since she doesn't want to.
* you are not handing the paternity of your child to someone else like Esau sold his birthright to Jacob. you will tell your friend.
*you are not advising her to abort because the guilt will be with you forever.
i can promise you that the wahala you will face now will be nothing compared to what you will face later, if you decide to keep this secret and then one day it rears its ugly hydra head. remember nothing is hidden under the sun. one more thing, i wont be getting into any drinking sin assemblies anymore if i were you, since in that state you clearly loose the use of your mental faculty. it might be anyone the next time, maybe your own sister, cousin (since your friends girlfriend is supposed to be a no-go area too, even if she flirts with you! Shocked, as they say shayo na naughty person. wish you luck. Embarrassed


well said.

August 31st

poster i can sense how u feel, but put ur hop in GOD male companion will only cause you more havoc, cause as humans we are weak in flesh. try to make your self happy dress well eat whatever you have appetite for at that point in time as far as yo can afford it.

God will see u thru.

it has happened to me,

i attended the wedding, bought a wonderful gift for the couple

and made sure my presence was noticed.

with no grudge at all.

How will u feel if you are sick and your wife goes to sleep with her ex?

your answer to the question above is what u should do.

my dressing

yesssssssssssss i do close my eyes.

i have confirmed from my friend, she said her husband is the sexually active type.

she said she tries her best to satisfy him at all times, but still cant figure out why he has to cheat on her.

Personally i feel its one those things we see in men,

past xperience and stories has made me understand that its difficult for a man to keep to just one woman.

my apology to men, but i think its d truth.

A friend of mine has been married for 10 years now has 3 kids but found out that her husband has been cheating on her, says she still loves him but doesnt enjoy sex wt him because she is irritated. I advised her to try and put it behind her, but she is finding it difficult.   
What other advise should i give her.

Please serious comments are most welcomed.

first of all marriage is the coming together of two different individuals, of different background, character, belief, etc; coming together to form a union and become one.  Therefore they require a lot of grace, tolerance ,patience, understanding and endurance to make the institution work.

they must try as much as possible to shun vices like greed, selfishness, i dont care attitude and above all gossips.

Above all; GOD FIRST.

if your sister comes to you n tell you some1 did that to her

hw will u feel

do unto others what u would wish dem to do unto you

i can guess how u feel

i have had similar xperience

i hop u have gotten over it

just move on wt your life.

be strong!

Communication matters alot.

i think d guy should have a heart to heart talk wt his wife

find out wt the problem is and look for a lasting solution to it

please dont even dare, its too too bad

Omo EKo has said it all.

some level of privacy is required

u alone has d answer to dat question. QED

he deserves it but i think pawpaw should also be given an award since they work hand in hand in 9 out of 10 movies.