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CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 12:18am On Nov 15, 2021
chatinent:
You know why I am optimistic about this case that he is innocent?

If I had followed the facts at my disposal from the internet, I could have thought otherwise...but after studying timestamps and his evidences, I felt otherwise.

And that's because I patiently listened to him, and patiently examined his facts.

We cannot say they are doctored since they are part of the case.

I also studied the parts of his three attorneys! Permit me to say, with due respect, they were racist lawyers.


This was why I urged everyone to be patient.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 12:11am On Nov 15, 2021
chatinent:
I took my time and examined it before now. I feel, to a degree, there could still be some truth somewhere beyond white and black.

You want to help too and that's why you are here. Thank you for that. That's why we are all here.

And yes, the complete evidence will show it the full picture.

However, since the defendant is here, it is worth asking him too, you know. It is also worthy to understand that not everyone understands every legal jargon and terminologies too.

A woman is soft at heart. Let's assume he did it or not, could you be soft at heart, hear him directly first, and we pursue a common course whether or not to push ahead?

The first step is hearing him completely.

And believe me, when I said I liked you, it wasn't jokes...cause I have come to know you are understanding.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 12:09am On Nov 15, 2021
Powerhouse5050:
I am in possession of the 1200 pages documents...you help need to locate a simple fact to back up your claim, you can make a request now?
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
Post modification in progress so I’ll just immortalize a few comments and leave the rest in the previous screenshots


chatinent:
Let me explain sth to you.

He was in jail when those lawyers were suggested to him. I mean his lawyers. He wanted a fair trial..and he couldn't go out. He had to work with them. The first three were same White people from Georgia.

After the long run, he wasn't satisfied with their processes...since he was limited. Remember, he is still in jail footing all the bills..some very exorbitant...and it seemed they were only interested in extorting him (my words).

He sacked them and was standing for himself alone. When the judgement was passed, he was standing alone. He couldn't interrupt when the judge was saying all the things to the jury. He was standing alone. The jury never heard his DNA expert results because he would have been acquitted then. Yes, he would. The judge never gave a room for that tho.

The judge got flared up of his incessant legal fightback and translated it to being not remorseful, hence the gory and long sentences!. Who is remorseful about what they didn't do?

The whole world knows Georgia to be a very tight place for Blacks. Those dudes discriminate a lot.

Also it is ideal to note that it was the Police who provided every thing used to label him a criminal. The same police who stopped him and questioned him of his SUV ..which they later didn't talk about again but brought in the rape case. Initially, they questioned him about the SUV..then diverted to the rape case. He didn't want to respond to them because he wanted his lawyer to speak for him since he didn't know what they were up to. They resorted to saying they shall put the whole charges on him (his words).

Think: who rapes sb in the park of all places when he has a lodge he was staying close there with a room?

What he was wearing was different from what the footage showed. Can sb be at two places the same time? They arrested him cos he was closest to the scene.

Why is the police refusing to accept the DNA expert's results...a professional with over 43 years of experience? Is the police hiding sth?

His DNA with that of the results for the vaginal and the cum didn't match! His contained 20, that was 10...and 10 was the rapist! But the police rather termed it inconclusive...and you and I know what being inconclusive meant! Why were they standing on the fence? Science is rather yes or no.

Then this brings another question. What or who is being protected here? Why is this partial? Because he is black? Why is the judge so enveloped with bitterness to serve him such sentence? That meant if humans lived 1000 years, she was ready to give him it to restrict him for life!

This case is since 2017! Do you know what it feels to be behind bars since then...and most painful when you are innocent?

This could happen to anyone.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 11:12pm On Nov 14, 2021
Hammer2021:
Cc psalmz
I remember that thread
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 11:04pm On Nov 14, 2021
Slizzords:
Been a silent reader on this thread since October, am very glad that the rapist was given the maximum sentence. The bah guy is a madman , my grouse with chatinent is that the dude didn't even do enough research to ascertain the criminal had a chance by First of all going through the 1200page transcript.

If chatinent had gone through the 1200 page transcript I don't think he'd have want to associate himself with such a madman unless maybe he's been paid or just doing it for the sake of publicity to gain attention to himself, cos I see no reason why someone who is in their right frame mind and who has all the facts at their disposal will want to do such.

Chatinent I hope you know the internet never forgets , your blind support of this convicted criminal is an eternal smear on your name on this forum..I hope you are able to wash yourself clean.

In conclusion I pray God heals the 13year old child, it's quite unfortunate what happened , I hope Mr Bah spends eternity in prison never to roam the streets again .
On behalf of that child who does not know either of us, I say “thank you” for the prayer and thanks for adding your voice.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 10:45pm On Nov 14, 2021
daddytime:
Thanks, bro.

Unfollowing this thread...

I no ever claim to be holy, but on the truth, I'll always stand.
Uncle, I am female cheesy
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
I’ve been wanting to do this for a while now, I guess now is as good a time as any.

I want to thank every person on this thread that was courageous enough to stand up and speak. Some from the beginning, some others swallowed their pride and later admitted to being wrong. I said it on another thread much earlier in the year, only big men/women can say “I am sorry.”

I don’t want to name names because I’d hate to miss anyone but some people are deserving of special mention.

1stGenAmerican, the amazon that broke the deceit open right from the very beginning. For those that do not know, her username means “first generation American “ so like you and like me, she has Naija blood in her veins.

I also want to mention 404dev, that man’s passion for investigation was particularly impressive. If even a tenth of the NPF had staff like that and had the necessary resources to solve crimes, crime-solving stats would be transformed in Nigeria.

I am also going to mention Allegory because her insight, from her first reading, was outstanding. I know how much time I spent before putting the whole story together so I knew right off that this was a particularly sharp mind.

Salutation to Daddytime because this thread became an avenue to share his story once again. You see, people, the crime is not the end. There is the concept of “closure.” Victims of crime will tell you that genuine repentance from the criminal goes a long way to help in their healing and even criminals have testified about the lifted burden when they repent.

In the end, there is a young girl whose innocent view of this world was violently taken from her on that summer day in 2017. For those of you rape apologists and their crime-cuddling associates, spare a thought for her and say a prayer for her.. . . . . . and for yourself

Thanks to everyone who was able to keep up with this thread, I know it wasn’t easy. My prayer is that none of us will ever have front row seating in a heinous crime like this or any other for that matter. That we not have to deal with what this child and her family went through and probably still going through. When you hear “rape” let your first thought be about the victim and the life changing effects that he/she may or may not survive.

Good night and God bless smiley
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 10:10pm On Nov 14, 2021
I have deliberately ignored numerous posters, forgive me if I have not deemed a response to you worthy of my time or effort.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
chatinent:
Mmotimo, maybe you can stop tagging my username all over the thread. Don't make people disrespect you when you think you are right in what you say and how you feel but you allow your annoyance deliberately try to hurt another.

Your points are clear...and you have been repeating them all over tagging me. You have called me all sorts of names. It's fine, I understand.

You have bought the anger. I understand.

You have made your points. I understand.

Rape is a traumatic experience! Yes, it is. There is nowhere I said I supported rape. There is nowhere I said the child deserved to be raped.

In fact, I acknowledged the child was raped. My arguments then were focused on some facts if the evidences were falsified...or sb pulling the strings behind the scene. I was concerned because of the long sentence!!

I wasn't glad the child was raped! I was only concerned then that the right culprit be brought to book.

I only said then that he could be innocent of the crime if those facts he provided were truly falsified.

I understand my roles in this case may have annoyed you. I understand.


You are not perfect either. You have also sinned. You have lied. You have stolen. You have borne false witness. You have also done sth that has lead to graven actions unknown to you. We are all humans. We are imperfect.

You don't keep accusing sb directly of what they are not because you want to satisfy your anger.


I will still respect you.

Thank you.
I only read the first line of this before and didn’t bother with the rest. Now, I have some time.

“ Nobody holy pass” has become the excuse for a multitude of sins - yahoo yahoo, money ritual, polithiefing, influencer profiteering, etc. Nobody holy pass is the reason why you would without a second thought become the mouthpiece of a child rapist abi? And assume that everyone else would do the same thing if they had the opportunity, ko?

@bolded: Some of you think everyone on here grew up the same way you did with zero moral compass. I’m not the epitome of perfection but understand that you and I do not belong in the same class when it comes to morals and scruples. You don’t have to believe me but hear this- My mother put the fear of lying and stealing into her children at a very early age. That is why till tomorrow, myself and my siblings do not lie and do not steal nor bear false witness. Yet, without exception, God has prospered us and blessed our offspring in ways we could not even imagine. Through it all, not one of us has ever been involved in any sort of criminal behaviour or aided criminality. God has prospered us through the work of our hands without us identifying with rapists and criminals.

“Oruko rere san ju wura lo” a good name is better than gold
Ranti omo eni ti iwo nse remember the child of whom you are
Evil communication corrupts good manners

The above and more are what we heard from older family members and friends when we were growing up. These are everlasting values that we teach and preach to our own children. These are the values upon which we were raised. Ultimately, even without those, God has blessed each person, INCLUDING YOU with a sense of right and wrong.

Go back and read about my $1 example on the previous page. Like I’ve said before, ALL WAY NO BE WAY! That is why lots of us have lived abroad for decades and never seen the inside of a police vehicle or a jail or even been interrogated or become a suspect in any crime. Hustling to make ends meet is not a crime but hustling that is completely devoid of scruples and the basics of human decency is. That you would even consider hustling on the back of a 13 year old rape victim is particularly egregious!

The tribalism on Nairaland is bad enough, it is disastrous that rapists, their apologists and all manner of perverts have created a thriving community on this site. To the extent that characters like yourself with a “followership base” see nothing wrong with capitalizing on said Nland yeyebrity influence to advance the cause of a duly convicted and unrepentant serial sex offender.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 7:03pm On Nov 14, 2021
Ola17:
Wait o, Mmotimō is a lady huh
YES!
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 6:54pm On Nov 14, 2021
chatinent:
Mmotimo, maybe you can stop tagging my username all over the thread. Don't make people disrespect you when you think you are right in what you say and how you feel but you allow your annoyance deliberately try to hurt another.

Your points are clear...and you have been repeating them over tagging me. You have called me all sorts of names. It's fine. I understand.

You have bought the anger. I understand.

You have made your points. I understand.

Rape is a traumatic experience! Yes, it is. There is nowhere I said I supported rape. There is nowhere I said the child deserved to be raped.

In fact, I acknowledged the child was raped. My argument then were focused on some facts if the evidences were falsified...or sb pulling the strings behind the scene. I was concerned because of the long sentence!!

I wasn't glad the child was raped! I was only concerned then that the right culprit be brought to book.

I only said then that he could be innocent of the crime if those facts he provided were truly falsified.

I understand my roles in this case may have annoyed you. I understand.


You are not perfect either. You have also sinned. You have lied. You have stolen. You have borne false witness. You have also done sth that has lead to graven actions unknown to you. We are all humans. We are imperfect.

You don't keep accusing sb directly of what they are not because you want to satisfy your anger.


I will still respect you.

Thank you.
@bolded: I’m not your typical Nigerian so go ahead and be disrespectful. My life is nice enough without the validation of “respect “ thank you very much!
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
The following post is not for everybody, especially those that are already psychologically damaged through culture or nurture and don’t see any big deal in a child being violently raped. I speak from MY viewpoint.

Prior to this thread, most posters here had never seen my username before. People that are familiar with my posts know I don’t post much. In fact, because of this thread, this might be the year I have posted the most on Nland. My mission on this thread is about that 13 year old child. I don’t know her but I know plenty like her. I see them at family gatherings, in the schools, out strolling on the streets enjoying their youth, in the parks, etc

Most of us have never been raped, we don’t see or read graphic details of what victims experienced. I read the graphic details of that child’s rape on page 8 (one of the uploaded documents) and everything changed for me. Can you imagine a 13 years old child being forced to experience that? Put any 13 year old girl that you know and love in that terrifying circumstance and see if rage does not well up in you. To be raped so violently by someone bigger and stronger who also threatens to kill you if you say anything. Can you even begin to imagine that child’s terror? Do you know how many years of therapy she’s going to need to survive this without lasting damage to her psyche? Do you realize that most kids that age would not say anything to anyone and live in the fear that was created in them. The violence and threats were essential to Bah making sure she didn’t tell anybody. Psychologists can explain it to you.

Do you know realize that girl might never be able to have normal sexual relations her whole life? Do you know that she might see Bah in the face of every man she meets who considers her sexually attractive?
Do you know that if Bah had just confessed and been remorseful, it might have helped her pain somewhat? But no, he had to put her and her family through the pain of a trial, had her relive the experience again and again.

Do you know that a lot of molested kids grow up to become drug addicts because they are trying to dull the horror of their experience(s). Drug addiction in turn leads them to inability to have a stable life. They go into prostitution and crime to sustain their addictions and give birth to kids that in turn are vulnerable to rapists and the cycle goes on and on.

Do you realize that this child can grow up to hate her body because a sexual deviant chose it for his sickness?

I live in the surburbs, all around my neighborhood are large expanses of wooded area, deliberately preserved as part of the landscape for nature lovers to enjoy. Criminals like Bah look at that beauty and think of such spaces as a cover for rape. That girl could have been any of the teenagers I see around me, middle class surbuban kids just living their lives. Contrary to the stereotypes being parroted by the perverts on Nland, normal 13 year old American girls are not looking for random sex with men in their 30s. That girl did not enjoy the experience and gained nothing but heartache and pain from it. If you believe different, then you are simply a pervert!

Will that girl ever be able to walk by a wooded area again without a panic attack? Without terror paralysing her? Is she ever going to hear an African male accent again without remembering Oyinbogoju? Do you have any idea what her day to day life is even now, 4 and a half years after her experience. Just writing this brings tears to my eyes. That girl might eventually just commit suicide if she’s not able to cope with her terror. Do you know how many people in the US commit suicide daily because they can’t live with their nightmares and pain?

I am not you and you are not me so forgive me if I have zero tolerance for those trying to make a quick buck from this child’s experience. Everyone is welcome to their beliefs and convictions. If you believe that Chatinent got involved for altruistic reasons, good on you but recognize that your opinion means zilch to me and return the favor. I am someone who does a lot of research as a way of life and I also happen to have an uncanny ability to read individuals accurately. I really don’t care whether or not Chatinent’s defenders believe that or not. Criminals have grades and child molesters are the worst of the worst, even in prisons. In my books, all apologists of rapists wear the same crown. Even in the face of conclusive evidence of wrongdoing, Chatinent is still being crafty. My bullsh$t tolerance is zero, I have no patience for it. Most people find it in themselves to tolerate and accommodate BS, not Mmotimo! Ordinary transcript you cannot produce because you know it won’t help Bah’s case yet you are still bullshitting.

I am old school, I don’t do crime in any way, shape or form. I was raised to value contentment. That I like it doesn’t mean I must have it. It’s okay to admire and move on if I can’t afford it. If the cashier forgets to swipe a $1 item from my cart, I bring it to her attention. I don’t take what is not mine and I don’t covet what belongs to others. I don’t believe in profiting from the experience of a 13 year old rape victim and I consider those that do to be no better than the actual rapist .

In this US, you can build a nice life for yourself and family if you are willing to put in the work. It’s not rocket science. The reason why the jails are filling up with Nigerians everyday is because of the “fast buck” mentality. So many of our people are arriving with the mentality to “make it quick” so that they can show off. Oyinbogoju was said to have been involved in crime in Houston before the rape incident that put him away, I don’t have the facts so I can’t comment but Japan got him for money laundering along with the sex crime so we know he’s not a choir boy. That Chatinent would gleefully cast his lot with a duly convicted AND UNREPENTANT child rapist AND make categorical, authoritative statements in his defence says a lot about his own character. To everyone who thinks I should leave him alone, YOU DO YOU AND I’LL DO ME. I was not raised in the era of the internet so I’m sorry, mumu followership has never been my portion.

I’m going to have to stop here for now because I have to get to other things.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 6:11am On Nov 14, 2021
Ola17:
If there’s a semblance of comparison, it wasn’t intended.

For the records, daddytimè never did the time, he escaped to Nigeria while on bail.
On the previous page, he said he did the time, so you have confirmation that he didn’t? Escaping bail would suggest there’s a warrant out for his arrest and yet he wrote a book about what he did?
So how is he an ex-convict if he was never convicted?
How does the “escaped to Nigeria “ apply?
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
daddytime:
No, I never ran away.

I got mixed with the wrong crowd, got carried away, got served, did my time, and finally got acquitted because the courts decided I was used by the big guns they already had in custody and extradited to the US.

I took full responsibility for my indiscretions and never shy away from speaking about all crimes, particularly fraud as I know and experienced it.


Any other questions, sir?
@bolded: That is a lot more than chatinent has done for his role in trying to mislead the public!

You did the crime? Check!
You did the time? Check!
You are repentant? Check!

How all of that compares with an unrepentant, violent child rapist is beyond me.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
DOAI
DelTel
Justwise
1stGenAmerican

You are quite possibly conversing with a personality whose brain has been pulverized by tramadol or some other cheap street drug(s). I don’t think anyone can be that obtuse unless their mind is muddled. After several comments, he still does not understand that the rapist has already been convicted, his case done and dusted.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
armyofone:
Powerhouse5050 was really advocating for himself from jail but so far has left ?

Let me continue in ROM
More like chatinent the pointsman advocating for him here, albeit as an incompetent mouthpiece. 2 blind mice, the blind leading the blind. If it wasn’t for 1stGenAmerican raining on their parade before it got off to a start, I’m sure the numerous gullible posters who refused to open their minds, would have opened their wallets to #Freebah.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo: 6:17am On Nov 13, 2021
pocohantas:
They think it is Nigeria abi Nairaland where they defend rape with their lives. Sensible Nigerian men in that same America are never quick to stick out their necks for a brother because they know themselves and what they are capable of doing.

I showed that thread to a Nigerian lawyer in America and his response was, “that guy is lying, he is GUILTY until proven INNOCENT”.

But no, it is Nairalanders[b] without passport and an understanding of the judicial system[/b] that decided to play defense counsel. In their minds, wicked America has targeted one of them for life imprisonment. Some were already playing the racial card, typical!
I have never been able to understand the compulsion to speak authoritatively on things you know nothing about. It’s such a weird disease. Some don’t even understand that his case has been settled, he got his verdict 2 years ago already. They want to re-try the case in 2021 after the convict has already filed 18 appeals that went nowhere and after incontrovertible evidence that nailed him for the crime.

Yet when you say they have no logical reasoning, no critical thinking skills, they get hot under the collar and start a new round of pointless speeches.
FamilyRe: Woman Gets Arrested For Assaulting Rude Child by MMotimo: 6:07am On Nov 13, 2021
Hathor5:
Strong!

Pride is actually the reason why people sometimes allow this kind of provocations get to them.
A 15 year old, young enough to be her daughter has reduced her to a scandalous viral video. Pride cannot undo that but humility could have prevented it.
FamilyRe: Woman Gets Arrested For Assaulting Rude Child by MMotimo: 10:06pm On Nov 11, 2021
descarado:
Exactly.
She thought she was in her village.
I don’t know why it’s so hard for our people to accept that they are now in a different environment and nobody cares what your African upbringing taught you. All that is between you and your children. If you do anyhow, you will see anyhow!
FamilyRe: Woman Gets Arrested For Assaulting Rude Child by MMotimo: 10:03pm On Nov 11, 2021
Uzomarrr123:
My brother, it takes God almighty to over look this nonsense

Many of us will lose our cool if a 15 yr old African child calls us “A fool” in public

Infact , it almost impossible to overlook

Just imagine it , if you were with your mom and that spoilt rat called your mother a fool …hmmm

It not easy to overlook ooo!

I’m proud to be African abeg , we might not be there yet in terms of development and all that

But this one na eyesore , make 14 yr old Dey call person mama “a fool” for public
First of all, I would not be having that conversation with a random child I do not know and I would not be losing my cool either because I am sensible enough to know that is one of the fastest ways to get in trouble with the law and/or find infamy on YouTube. It’s called self-discipline, self-restraint, self-preservation. I am as much African as you are but that doesn’t mean I would allow my pride to get me into trouble with the law. That is complete foolishness, no matter the provocation. Frankly, I have too much going for me to risk it on an incident like that.

To you, it’s an eyesore; in law, it is assault. The law does not care what you think or where you came from. When in Rome, you do like the Romans. If it’s okay in Naija, stay in Naija to practise it, do not attempt to export the behaviour abroad. In the highly unlikely event that any of my kids find themselves in a situation where they are mouthing off at someone and that person puts their hands on them, African or not, I would STOP AT NOTHING to make sure that person feels the full wrath of the law.

If you cannot conform to the laws of your intended destination abroad, I would strongly recommend you stay in Naija! Permit me to ignore any further mentions from you.
FamilyRe: Woman Gets Arrested For Assaulting Rude Child by MMotimo: 9:24pm On Nov 11, 2021
armyofone:
@ MMotimo,

You are right - you keep your hands to yourself and leave that environment immediately you see trouble starting.

Now she will get criminal records that may screw up her career.
Yup! Very avoidable foolishness
FamilyRe: Woman Gets Arrested For Assaulting Rude Child by MMotimo:
She had absolutely no right to slap that child. That is called “assault.” The mistake our people make is in thinking they can do anything abroad that they could do in Naija. The US-imprisoned, Japan-deported, convicted international rapist extraordinaire, Nairaland’s very own Oyinbogoju aka Adedoja Olaniyi Bah aka Adedoja Orani aka Tony More comes to mind. Dude thought he could get away with sexual molestation abroad, a perversion he no doubt honed in Naija.

Just because you can get away with slapping kids in Naija doesn’t mean the behaviour is permitted worldwide. What that woman did is assault 101 and depending on the jurisdiction, that can give you a criminal history. It’s not till you kill somebody that the law deals with you. Learn to keep your hands to yourself. If you deem a child disrespectful, stop responding to the child, remove yourself from the situation. Assaulting a minor is not a small crime, civilized societies protect the most vulnerable, not like Naija where they are the most exploited. Thank God Oyinbogoju is serving 3 life sentences + 76 years for his brutal rape and sodomy of a 13 year old but that’s only because he committed his crime in the US, not Naija where his behaviour would have been condoned.

P.S. Yes, I’m very much about publicizing Oyinbogoju so that his co-perverts and rape apologists here can learn.
FamilyRe: Advice: I Never Knew I Will Do This, But I Have To by MMotimo:
gentlesil:
Well I think I have to share few things to strangers here because I feel very said recently, and it is turning into a serious hatred for my husband that may lead to something else.
I am about 38, have two daughters. I wanted at least one boy, since this two are girls.
But my husband says no more child for now. For economic reason (the economy is very hard on him, he says)
I am really not comfortable with only two girls and he doesn't believe that things may change in future.
Please I prefer mature ladies and married counselor's opinion on this.
Thanks
Your husband is a very smart man. Unlike you, he fears poverty. You are lucky to have him because if your mindsets were the same, it could very easily be headlong descent into poverty and lack and reduced opportunities for your kids. It’s good to see that one of you is thinking straight.

This is not about you or what you are comfortable with. If you have nothing tangible to assuage his concern, then with all due respect, your comfort means zilch! To be brutally frank, mindsets like yours perpetuate poverty in the land. Your husband has made it clear it would put your family at an economic disadvantage and you are talking about your comfort instead of detailing how you are going to erase his worry.
CrimeRe: . by MMotimo:
All the best, OP!

He/she who has ears should listen:
If it’s money you cannot afford to forfeit, NEVER entrust it to friend or family. People change, you can’t rely on them to be the same forever.

Above all, learn to respect your money. Treat your sweat like you worked for it. It doesn’t matter if it’s 5K or 26M, respect every single kobo you make and it will change how you make money decisions.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
signature2012:
Many Nigerians easily get emotional when judging some issues like the one about this molester.
All his defenders will be burying their head in shame now.

A serial molester/rapist.

You came to buy 6 SUVs….Lori iro.

You paid Lawyer $150k…..Sakamanje.

I asked him then,where did you get all these money.
He jumped and pass my question.

No be person like me you go they fool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let me even contact the prison wardens to castrate you .
Your prick no suppose to dey hard at all.

Oya,come out of your hiding and tell us this is you in 1825.
I have said that the only reason why Yahoo Yahoo had to be exported abroad is because the government has impoverished Nigerians so much that they don’t have money to give fraudsters, not because there aren’t enough gullible Nigerians in the motherland. Nigerians are some of the most gullible people on this planet and if the average person was very financially comfortable, fraudsters would do brisk business right there in Nigeria without hounding foreigners . People hear 6 SUVs, $150k and their brain cells shut down. Very embarrassing! It has become taboo to ask for the source of any one’s money, even a convicted rapist’s.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
DelTel:
Story that was never told
Chatinent is a hustler, I’m sure he couldn’t care less whether Adedoja is guilty or innocent. 6 imaginary SUVs and 150k decorated with $$$$ signs was enough. He probably thought of this as “another hustle “ for some quick money and maybe hit the gold mine after they recruited the general public to donate money to campaign for this criminal. Probably figured if it didn’t get to that stage, at least he would have made some quick cash early on from the rapist and his cheerleaders before the “project “ collapsed.

Hopefully he got his mobilization fee before their water foundation house of cards crashed irredeemably. It would be the height of stupidity to be the associate/mouthpiece/agent/ advocate of an international rapist with nothing to show for it. That said, Oyinbogoju could have conned him to work for free. Who is the con and who is the conned now lipsrsealed

Message to young people “all way no be way.” The superstitious would tell you that innocent victim’s head is “very strong.” There are some people you treat badly and the punishment go be like juju, flowing from the actual perpetrator to encompass all who aid him to whitewash his crime.

Some old school people like me still subscribe to “show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are.” Mind whom you join your name with, the internet never forgets.
CrimeRe: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by MMotimo:
1stGenAmerican:
So the information about him committing sex crimes in Japan has finally been discovered. While he changed his name, he forgot that he couldn’t change his fingerprints. Looks like some are performing due diligence and some are shining their eyes to the truth.

I knew that many of his supporters were lying about having the transcript because if they would have had them they would’ve known that this history was discovered and presented during his trial.

He was comfortable raping this child because he thought that the US would arrest him then deport him allowing him to get away like Japan did.


Come and see the fun
Cc Mmotimo
Cc justwise
The sushi chicken has come home to roost.
Oyinbogoju aka Adedoja Orani. No wonder I couldn’t find anything about his previous criminal history despite searching online several times. The Japanese report did not name this alias, making it easier for him to hide his history. I just knew that his US crime was too brazen for a first timer. I have no doubt he’s a serial rapist, he’s just been lucky all this time. That innocent child in Georgia, though traumatized, was able to take a particularly monstrous rapist off the streets. May God continue to take care of her, all the days of her life.

He had the guts to say Interpol had nothing on him, after all he was speaking to people who swallow any thing a “rich man” says smh! Classic Naija ne’er do well tortoise brain. After his DNA gave him away in Japan, you’d think he’d have the good sense to desist but maybe his co-travellers on Nairaland told him “ they can’t get your DNA if you don’t ejaculate into the victim” or some other nonsense!
CrimeRe: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by MMotimo: 4:02am On Nov 09, 2021
Kobojunkiee:
Help me tell them oo! undecided
Tons of them here and they have become increasingly bold with their criminal convictions. Just listen to him trying to rationalize sexual assault!
Sane minds cannot afford to be quiet, we have to be loud in order to defeat these perverted mindsets so that our female folk can exist in peace.

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