₦airaland Forum

Klass99:
Seven blessings to you MMotimo, too much sense packed in one post. I was sure I had seen her story before, sometime last year. @ The second bolded I am beginning to think that's what she's hoping for.

kopell:
True talk ooo, when people complain in Naija about their leaders I laugh. Many forget power to change is with them, but never participate in the process. For those social media voters here is another opportunity to make change If you believe your vote doesn't count. Please do yourself a fervor this time and vote. If you don't, politicians love people like you. That is what they want. In situation like that, you have no voice in what the do, is as simple as that.

EgunMogaji2:
The dynamics of the current Nigerian financial situation has me scratching my head. I can weather it out but I feel for the average Nigerian citizen on a fixed income.

I used to hear the noise of all kinds of generators in my neighbourhood but I think only me and one other neighbor runs generator anymore.

But I will give it to Nigerians for uikding tenacity. People are still building.

DenreleDave:
AGREED OF WHICH I AV APOLOGIZED FOR

Wenby:
Hey fam, alot of stuffs has been going on in my life lately and is making me feels depressed �,my marriage is just 6 months old but I felt am not ready ,what keeps running through my mind is why did I do it and accept the pressure of family when I wasn't mentally ready, please read through and try to understand am not so good at writing long notes
Have been dating the person I got married to now for the past 6 years we met when he was still struggling with his how he is going to navigate his life etc and in my side I was seeking admission into higher institution,we kept on talking and during those times I was there supporting him, praying etc along the line I get to know the kind of family he is from that they didn't contribute to their children lives be it career education etc,they are the ones that look out for themselves ,it still didn't bother me I was like encouraging him to man up and be focus ,after two years I get to know he didn't have any qualifications aside from short courses certificate he had ,he confess that he couldn't finish his school because no one to assist, I wasn't happy but we keep going I encourage him to get a job at least which he did as a driver,after when I graduated he is still managing with the job and I move to the city to get a job as well but my mind wasn't at rest that how are we going to survive band raise family with this situation to the extent that he couldn't rent a house he has his parents bills and sister bills on his neck ,he is the one paying for a room his parents are leaving ,he has an elder brother who is struggling too could not afford anything ,I started having fear in my heart ,and since I was young because of my background and how we were brought up I vowed never to give birth to any child to suffer,I promise my self if am not sure I can raise my children comfortable I wouldn't birth them I don't want them to suffer like I do ,after a year I moved to the city and started managing a job I encouraged her we get a small place ,a room in the island of Lagos because that is the easiest location to our working place I raised some money which he added ,I rented the apartment and put some stuff so that we can get a place to be relaxing ,fast forward to last year the family started talking we should get married I complained bitterly to my own people that see this and that is what is happening and am not ready mentally financially for this wedding ,they started planning and he was in support but am not happy ,his father is no longer working his mum is doing some petty job ,which they declare they don't have any hope of where they are going to get money but they put their trust in God and some of there family members ,the family raises some money for them which they manage and use to buy stuff they requested , they were doing their thing and not considering my point I told my mum I don't want to settle down a room self contained she started saying all sorts that I should not waste my time ,I encourage my husband we should work more harder and see some positive results before we will embark in any marriage he neglected my words I keep telling it to his face I don't want to suffer am not materialistic but then I want a comfortable life for my self and my kid he ignored and started complaining my expectations are high ,we did the wedding but my people since the whole wedding thing happened there is no joy in my heart ,he still works as a driver,his work location is far to the house he stays there Monday to Friday or Saturday sometime so that he will be able to save because of transport fare ,I work far away too I stay at work Monday to Friday so as to save the little am earning too because of transport fare, we only meet Saturday or Sunday everybody finds there ways on Monday make una advice me oo , am not happy I felt stuck these are the things I was saying before the whole thing happens just because we want to survive right now we can boast that we can raise a kid and family are already on my neck that am I pregnant me I feel like running away
Why is that when women choose comfortability they see it as crime am not lazy I work very hard we share bills most of the time I pay the most ,I don't complain but I thought we could have wait and get things right before taking steps further ,life is dealing with both of us ,Do you guys know the worst part my husband can't think on his own unless they push him, have been complaining about his job since last year that he needs to talk to people or search online to get better opportunity he doesn't take me serious ,he keeps complaining his phone is bad I bought a new phone guys I was on his neck to download indeed LinkedIn etc before he did, he is so comfortable with managing life,he is not bothered or inspired or has vision of how he wants our family to be he just goes with the flow and take whatever life throws at him ,he is comfortable with us living in a room and having children , GUYS PLEASE ADVISE ME � DO YOU GUYS THINK SOMETHING US WRONG WITH ME AM I THINKING TOO MUCH IR DO I NEED TO SEE A THERAPIST , RIGHT NOW GUYS I FELT AM NO LONGER INTERESTED THE FEELINGS AND ALL IS NOT THERE AND I FEELS LIKE STARTING MY WHOLE LIFE OVER AGAIN I FELT HE SHOULD JUST GO GET ANOTHER PERSON , TO THE EXTENT THAT I DON'T ENJOY SEX WITH HIM SOMETIMES IN A MONTH WE HAVE SEX ONCE OR TWICE ,I FEELS IRRITATED
I KNOW MANY THINGS ARE WRONG RIGHT NOW I NEED YOUR HELP
SOME WEEKS AGO I WAS JOKING WITH HIM THAT WITH THE SITUATION OF THINGS THAT MAY BE WE SHOULD GO ONLINE AND FIND NEW CONNECTION MAY BE ABROAD IF HE IS ABLE TO GET FINE AND IF I GET TOO FINE ,HE ACCEPTED AND SAID HE US IS OKAY WITH IT THAT IS EVEN BETTER LIKE THAT ,I SAID ARE YOU SAYING YOU ARE OKAY IF I GET A WHITE MAN ONLINE AND WE GET MARRIED HE SAID IS FINE THAT I SHOULD JUST PROMISE HIM THAT I WILL NOT FORGET HIM AND TAKE CARE OF HIM I WAS � SHOCK AND I WOULDN'T LIE PRESENTLY AM ONLINE MAKING NEW CONNECTION
BUT I NEED HELP AM NOT SURE THINGS ARE RIGHT WITH MY LIFE

BigBashiru:
I thank God for nairaland! Women's dirty little secrets are being continually exposed!!!!

But I understand its natural for a mum really love her children....

DenreleDave:
My first instance: A very popular nairalander loves to show her kids all time which is not bad but she doesn't even mention her husband.....
What baffles me most is this statement; "my money is for me and my kids"...

Marriage dey fear me walahi....

AngelicBeing:
Yahoo boys / money launderers often use Car export business to move ILLICIT FUNDS to Nigeria[b][/b], so if you are doing car business to make money, they will run you out of the business

mufutau55:
Oga mi Sir. Please let discuss house constructions not hookup and ashawo business o.
Thank you.

cc: @Garrydosky04

Hajji M.

hamtabfawaz:
Good Evening house.

Lost my Mum Today

money121:
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kalu61:
Well said.

God you don hear ram and today na Sunday. I pray thee.

money121:
You get it
Come see how mama dey police me with calls yesterday
I was like madam calm down ooo
Ur goods will land to benin by God grace
Glory be to Almighty God it was a successful deal
Both vendor and client are Happy!!
And i think that's the joy of any businessman and serious client

FireRain:
Good Morning wonderful people.
Sometimes ago I saw a short video on how to make pounded yam with no hassles of pounding.
I tried it this morning and it came out well.
I blended the raw yam and made it like Semo and here is the result..a succulent pounded yam with no lumps and Easy too!
My obodo oyinbo people should opt for this
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Mmotimo
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Kudos to Instagram food Vendors�

Godisgreatest1:
There was never a 'fight' with MMotimo, she is way bigger than that. Her analysis were flawless. She nailed it before the bell rang.

DrGoodman:
The mind of a thief works in mysterious ways, especially a sociopathic thief. That's why some thief's will sneak into the house of a lady and steal panties to sniff, instead of her gold chain.

Godisgreatest1:
Just imagine lie that took away my network now i'm on 2G...SMH.

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Adedward:
thanks u everyone here o, it is settled and balance has being paid, with additional #20k compensation for the injured, thanks u very much every one here thanks,