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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 12:43am On Dec 27, 2022
Sigh! Here I was thinking we would cruise into 2023 with no more drama.
I saw this yesterday but after going through some of the Engineer’s post history, I felt it prudent to wait before posting and I’m glad I did.

The relationship was based on a lot of mistrust from the beginning and on both sides , which begs the question “why did you both agree to do business in the first place?” Up till now, it’s not clear what the agreement was with regards to a payment schedule and at what stage of the job. The contract terms is what determines whether or not there’s a breach.

Best wishes to you both. I’m sure contractors have noted the customer’s moniker and clients have noted the contractor’s moniker lipsrsealed
Ireeee o!

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Family / Re: What Are You Giving Yourself This Christmas? by MMotimo: 6:09am On Dec 21, 2022
The company of my family and good food.
Family / Re: How Can I Move On by MMotimo: 6:05am On Dec 21, 2022
At the minimum, you should return the money you’ve been taking from Tom but you said that’s not an option.

You already suspect that Tom will release your nudes but you don’t want to deactivate your social media accounts because of the followership you’ve built.

You claim to love Jerry but here you are, hiding the extent of your involvement with Tom and the financial benefits which you’ve been receiving for years and which you continue to receive.

You sound like a completely selfish person whose beginning and end is 100% self-interest. Even now, you don’t have any remorse for how you’ve treated both men. You’re simply concerned about saving your skin with zero restitution.

It’s common in situations like yours for everything to implode and for your worst nightmares to come true- you lose Jerry, you have a vengeful Tom come after you and maybe your nudes are spread to your followers.

When you are able to set yourself aside for a moment and put yourself in the shoes of those men, you will gain strength to do what your conscience is telling you.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 4:33am On Dec 21, 2022
olukaygold:

Oga! Whenever you want to Judge. Compare that building with nearly something similar to it before passing your Judgement. I don't even think you'd reason so low like this

Haba! Haba! Haba! This is so uncalled for. Your language is extremely inappropriate. We can agree to disagree, there was absolutely no reason to talk to him like that. Very disrespectful and you owe him an apology.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 10:54pm On Dec 17, 2022
Congratulations, Money121.

This time last year, it was all about N3xt and his drama. Thank God we are not ending this year with another mega drama (knock on wood).

It would be nice to see customers praise the contractors/ suppliers that have impressed them this year so that it’s not about the negative all the time. It’s a good time of year to acknowledge and celebrate those that delivered as promised.

For those that are travelling, we pray for journey mercies, to and fro.

2022 might have been rough but as long as there is life and there is health, there is hope. 2023 is another year. Life is not a sprint, it’s a marathon. It goes up and it goes down. If you have food on your table and people that love you, never take any of it for granted. That is the prayer a lot of people pray daily. For everyone you aspire to be like, there are others that are aspiring to get to your stage. You might not yet be where you want to be but you’re not where you used to be. Maybe your house was supposed to be completed by the end of 2022 but due to one or more reasons, it is not. Still. . . . . go ahead and celebrate what you were able to do in this 2022, be grateful to God for what you achieved. You did it in the one of the most volatile economies in the world so give yourself a pat on the back. Anyone wey say you nor try, make e go run am! #720 to $1 na ya mate?

Don’t forget to acknowledge the life lessons you’ve learnt this year, from your own experience and from others’. Those lessons are there to help your future so that you can avoid the same mistakes.

Life is turn by turn, don’t neglect to celebrate other people’s wins. That they are celebrating before you does not mean God has given them your blessings. God has enough blessings for all, your time will come.

If you haven’t prepared a will, give it another thought. Especially if you have dependants whose wellbeing could be at risk if the undesired happens. All the toiling and sweating is wasted if it all ends up in the hands of those you did not intend it to and your loved ones are left hanging.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 4:04am On Dec 14, 2022
folmus:



HaHahaha!! You've been lenient on him.
I have been searching for your comments on him cheesy cheesy.

Shebi Oyinbo say benefit of doubt, 2 sides to a story
Now we have heard the cut and join explanation lipsrsealed

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 3:56am On Dec 14, 2022
Bros, oro yin ti sun awon eyan. People just dey read and waka pass.

The first thing I noticed is that you have decided to adopt N3xt’s playbook by disclosing your customer’s name when his moniker would do the same job. That is pure mischief and shows the level of your professionalism. That alone is a turn off for potential customers. When you now add this join-join, caterpillar explanation, you no try at all! Oro o dun l’enu yin, Sir! Your version does NOT sound at all credible!

You even reported his wife to him, orisirisi! After feeding and housing your boy + you getting paid! Oga, e try at all! This your behaviour is very shameful! Do you think it’s all about the naira? How about time value of money, especially in a high inflation economy like Nigeria’s? Abi you think his #80k today is same as #80k of months ago?

Diordaves talked about budgeting skills, that is basic 101 when you are running a business, otherwise you will become a scammer. If budgeting is too hard, borrow a leaf from Money121, owo customer ko gbo do pe l’owo Contractor. Mobilize clients’ funds quickly before you become tempted to marry another wife or buy hair for side chic or buy iPhone 14 for in laws or do Dorime with money that is not yours. That basic strategy will save you a lot of pain. The money for materials, labor, logistics - set it aside from the beginning like who dey pay tithes so that you don’t touch it and spend it without delay for the intended purpose. Learn to separate customers’ money from your profit. Only take jobs you can deliver on, oruko rere san ju wura lo. A good reputation will open doors for you but dis kain kurukere does nothing to help your business. Na here you go dey and newcomer Contractors go dey collect contracts that you should be getting by easy referrals.

If you can’t run a business, let me remind you that not all of us are cut out to be business owners. It’s okay to be an employee if you don’t have what it takes to own a business. Know your strengths and weaknesses so that you know which suits you best . I know I have bad mouth and I’m impatient with bullshit so I wouldn’t do great as a business owner, that is why I jeje work for somebody and collect salary. I sleep well at night, better than the CEO because I don’t have to worry about dealing with customers and customer sentiments. In your case, if you have trouble handling other people’s money and delivering on contracts, then go and work for a contractor and be collecting salary instead of parading as a professional.

Well, we all know how N3xt’s playbook ends. Abo oro la n so fun omoluabi, a word is enough for the wise.





Adedward:
gud morning house, this is adedward i am not here to defend my self but just to clear some point, about Mr xxxxxx complained,
First I will like to thanks God for his faithfulness and thanks all the ogas and daddy's here for ur words,one way and the others, as I said earlier I am not here to defend my self or claim Holy here,
If am silent or mute does dat mean I am deaf, am just giving u mr xxxxxx enough respect as a client,
All what I want to say now,if its not u dat say it or ask me to do dat u should come out here and claim it sir,

He told me he want to do his finishing, I was giving him a little experience i have on it, I told him I have cubicle dat I want to sell,dat I need money I showed him the picture ,I sold it 100k for him,since I need money den, he ask me to come to site next day, I visited the site he show me dat he want to facial ceiling and roof guilder because I was the one did the roof for him 3 years back,I said no problem, with bathroom doors 5 pics,
Cubicle 100k
Facial and connector =440k
5 toilet door with keys =#200k
And he has the nets of those windows with me already, I told him dat its not gud to install the toilet doors frames only without the panel,I told him twice he said dat is what he want dat he can not wait because tiles want to start I told him if u have all the money it will not take time at all, he said dat is what he want, he sent 200k cubicle money and frames for the toilet doors, after three days I make the frames,and installed, we cannot bring the cubicle den because they are still working on tiles den,
After dat he sent money for facial and water connector, 400k which was delivered after 3 days payment, and team arrived for the work next day and started on facial first, when they finish facial,they start the water connector immediately, and mr boye place called me dat they should not do water connector now,dat the arrangements for flooring is going on, I have the evidence here, I ask him when are they started he said until he heard from his engineer help me to ask him house, ist not the one dat ask us to stop it, and how many months they used for the floor, if he told me dat before calling them for starting, I would have divided the workmanship into 2, along the line after some weeks he told me to start working on doors panel, he sent me #80k and bring the glass along, after one week due to transportation from my area the cubicle broke I pics out of it, I called him dat should I do another one pic for him, he said he can't wait dat I should find him his money for cubicle, I said no problem, I brought the five pics of toilets doors, I installed its three of the work perfect and two doesn't due to what I told him before,
Dats is the stage we are before he came here first time he came, and as woman being I try to do my possible best to pls him, I went to his house to start the work back so dat we can be as normal, I brought my boy for the nets and corrections of doors, I find my way to see new person for the water connector since does dat supposed do it den have left and payed, it took me some days before get fund to get other team to do so, and my boy is there to do the nets,I haven't one day called him or her wife to help me give him food, he has enough money to eat if he want, I finally got some one last three weeks to finish the water connector,and we are be able to completed almost 2 side of the building it remains bq and 2 side, and his wife instructed us to leaf the house and we can't be able to sleep there, and those boy want to sleep in the bq, she pushed two of them out dat dey, with her words and permitted me my boy to sleep till morning, dats when is not easy to get another for dat remains work, I told mr xxxx the next day the act of her wife dat night, I said I will be going home if u are around i will come, after one week he cames around he called me,to come and start the work on dat day which is not possible for me but when he got to house dat night he was saw many complained about what we did, I told him dat i will be coming to meet him after church on Sunday, mowe to Atan its not easy but just to please him, I went there I shows me all the errors, I explained everything to him, but assured him to correct what it need to correct, and begged him to give me a week to dat time to round up, but unfortunately come back from his house dat Sunday I had crashe with okada dat took me because of traffic, and I told him about dat, I couldn't meet up dat week anymore, which I told him, dat my want to follow those new team for water connector to fix it for u, u said ist my boy u everything dat need to do for, I said OK no problem if am OK I will come and do ur work, dats is when he started painted him self not me,


To be cleared to u, Mr xxxxx, I don't owing u #720, I have supplied all what u pay for,
Its only glass of 100k which is 80k now, and gets someone to install ur connector and pay them,
I have all the evidence dat we came to install ur water connector u said we should not do dat, do u think its possible to collect money from does guys back never,I have already laid my report with ur wife voice when he was pushed them away,

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 4:03am On Dec 13, 2022
Adedward:
. This is Edward o, I am fully here I will be here tomorrow to explain fully , thanks for everyone's for the input thanks , I did roof I didn't run den
I did ur windows I didn't run den so its after I have supplied u all the materials dat I wan to run, i will bback here this morning thanks

We are waiting for your version of the story. You have become quite the celebrity here. Haba! A new scandal every 3 market days. Village people are either seriously on your case -OR- . . . . . . . . .?

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Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Nizzyartwork Arts And Gallery by MMotimo: 11:46pm On Dec 10, 2022
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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 11:46am On Oct 14, 2022
redgem:


He wasn't the one that did the roofing...he only supplied the roofing sheets from Lagos

Thank you

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 11:45am On Oct 14, 2022
money121:

Only suppllied her roofing sheet we didn't handle the installation, although we took the measurement but she prefer her installer in benin to handle the installation

Thank you for the clarification, Sir. I will modify my comment.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 12:13am On Oct 14, 2022
If and when Bolu messes up, his customers are welcome to publicize it on here. I beg to disagree that nobody knew it was Bolu doing the POP. I am very confident that offline, a number of people already knew and had formed their own opinions about the quality of his work. Should he keep quiet while Rotech77 casts aspersions on his labor and impacts his reputation? I salute his boldness, I would do the same. His calling out his colleagues is a challenge to anyone he has wronged to come out. If you cannot accuse him of poor work, your opinion about his voicing out means zilch. Air his own dirty linen here , that’s the only fair response rather than talking about throwing and bussing.

This is not Rotech77’s first case in the last year. If my memory serves me right, isn’t this the 3rd time he has been called out since summer 2021? That’s like 3 times in the last year alone. Isn’t that how N3xt started? Or should we wait till there are20 accusers? Small time, the advisers will start harassing Akinola98 to delete his posts and cover Rotech777 so that the next customer doesn’t see the previous scandals. If your reputation is worth protecting, that reflects in the way you do your work. Abi should we blame village people for these repeated issues and absolve him of all blame?

Sentiments all the time! Who did this to us? Customers should cuddle/cajole/pet contractors they paid to do a good job? For real? If you need supervision for the job you are taking as a professional, then disclose that to the customer upfront so that expectations and renumeration are aligned. No offence but it’s absolute nonsense for a professional to expect to be supervised. If you are paid to do a good job, there are no excuses! The buck stops with you. Even in the office environment, your employer wants results, not excuses! You’re either competent for your role or you are not! Abi Rotech777 is an intern, novice builder ni? Somebody bills like an experienced builder and when he messes up, the customer is asked to “work with him “ aka pay him more to resolve the problem like say he has a bottomless ocean of funds.

Redgem, I thought money121 did your roof? Are you saying same roof is leaking?


***Modified***
Money121 only supplied the roofing sheets, he did NOT do the installation.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 11:37pm On Sep 08, 2022
Cold141114:


Very true but....

That's why adequate supervision is necessary sir

If an independent contractor presents themselves as an expert, they should not need supervision. If the client could do it himself/herself, they would not have hired him in the first place. How can you pay a professional and still be expected to supervise him?

If a trades person needs supervision, they shouldn’t be out there taking work that they are not competent to do. Instead, they should be working under a supervisor aka Oga.



My church mind is telling me not to announce that the latest iPhone has just arrived tongue

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Food / Re: What Adjustments Have You Made To Cope With The Rising Inflation (Pictures) by MMotimo: 5:15am On Sep 08, 2022
I load and unload my online cart multiple times.
Takes longer to actually “checkout” my favourite items cheesy

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 1:13am On Aug 20, 2022
topsy23:


What they need is the copper . Copper is very expensive now and one thing that baffles me most is the amount they are are selling those cables .. The last one that happened on my site, the river all [b]cables worth of 975k and sold it as scrap for just 25[/b]k .. imagine that. Unemployment is the main issues in this country.

Awon ne’er do well ota aje angry

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Family / Re: My Sad Observation About The Current Wave Of Inflation by MMotimo: 1:43am On Aug 02, 2022
CYBERSOLDIERSre:


Said who?

And naira is exchanged at $1/680?

Stop that already.

APC have destroyed Nigeria and want to kill everyone.

My statement is factual and I have no interest in converting this into a political discourse.

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Travel / Re: From Oshodi To Las Vegas - Pix by MMotimo: 1:40am On Aug 02, 2022
Aaaaaaaw , so kind of you to do this for our young people. You have a good heart

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naijamanyoutube:
Here you go.

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Family / Re: I refused to by MMotimo: 4:59am On Jul 23, 2022
As long as you remember that we reap what we sow and there are real victims behind every yahoo scam.
Your should expect to experience a lot of evil as a result of this undertaking.

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Family / Re: My Sad Observation About The Current Wave Of Inflation by MMotimo: 4:56am On Jul 23, 2022
This inflation is worldwide and everyone feels the difference in their pockets, whether it’s less savings, cutting expenses, going without. . . . .. it is what it is

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by MMotimo: 4:54am On Jul 23, 2022
EgunMogaji2:


You’re right Sir grin

Sounds like congratulations are in order, Sir!
Eyin iyawo a mo water bed o. . . . . .ain’t nobody praying about eni anymore cheesy

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Family / Re: Should I Get An Appartment From My Savings Or What Should I Do? by MMotimo: 4:49am On Jul 23, 2022
sharon12345:
How?

I made a post here that was meant for a different thread.
Family / Re: Norwegian White Woman Living With A Nigerian Man And Having A Child Together. by MMotimo: 3:54am On Jul 09, 2022
Klass99:


Seven blessings to you MMotimo, too much sense packed in one post. I was sure I had seen her story before, sometime last year. @ The second bolded I am beginning to think that's what she's hoping for.

I claim my blessings and same to you. Thank you
Family / Re: Should I Get An Appartment From My Savings Or What Should I Do? by MMotimo: 3:50am On Jul 09, 2022
Wrong thread

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