Na wa o
Like, she really had to twerk join too

Calibrator:
For this life wey some immediate family members sef dey mental blocklist..... What is a common close friend?




No price is too expensive to pay for peace of mind!

I have one or two very good friends. Even though I can't totally trust humans (no one should), they are reasonable to an extent and I admire that a lot. Unlike many others I regret even knowing because like Arya Star said, they're animals in human form - unreasonable, toxic, competitive and some without common sense.

My cousin whom I go to stay with in Abuja to do one or two things there would not be hosting me well and still be looking for one way or the other to put me down or embarrass me in public at every chance he gets. I had one other friend whom I forwarded a N1k MTN card to, he later called me a bad person and other derogatory names in subs for not sending him money when he requests from me.

Palm-Oil to Lagos from one of these states heavily into its production and selling them cheaply. The profit margin is unbelievable.

Villa12:
Buhari is not going for 3rd term reason why he felt so reluctant and lackadaisical towards that. He has nothing to lose

And Tinubu can't even intervene?
As a candidate under the same party, especially with the already damaged image of their party, one would expect them to be doing normal as we are now approaching the election.

Brendaniel:
He said he condemns the killing but he did not approve the tweet.

This is like coming and going at the same time

Same thing he said then after deleting. He must be very stu.pid. Are we small children for him to bobo like that. He used Deborah's matter to be adding AA at the end of his tweets from then henceforth as approval/authorization.

He tink say he dey wise.

christaddicted:
Trusting this APC government at your peril.

We the newly deployed Stream II are totally confused on what is even going on currently. We were asked to resume in September and up till now, no stipend has been received.

Can common sense not even make them treat us right for campaign purpose at least? Very unreasonable politicians this country has.

Jennyclay:
Your landlady and her daughter didn't pull a gun on your head to lend her 10k or buy meatpie for her. If you don't have money to lend or buy meatpie politely tell them you're a broke man and they would understand.
Broke men with their numerous wahala Nawa o., you hurriedly open a thread because of 10k and #500 meatpie . Shame on you.

You did not need to insult him as a Broke Man. You are not even very sure if he is Broke truly. Even the rich would not be comfortable with unreasonable requests. You ruined your suggestion with insult.

Magnoliaa:


A man who left his wife at home and found succour in the club is an hurt man looking for peace, but a married woman partying with her friends and going to clubs and hangouts is an irresponsible fellow who has turned her husband to a simp, and cannot let go of the independence she enjoyed before marrying.

Nor be say she dey run from troublesome King Ahab husband at home o.

That's beautiful.

Viewpoints on matters about a man and woman can never be the same. The Almighty Creator who made man and woman and every other thing in different ways knew what He was doing. There are different consequences for the actions of a man and woman differently, so are there different approaches to address their issues too.

All these wokeness, struggle for equality and making things same is rebellion against His design, orchestrated by Lucifer, using the woman as a willing tool, just like the apple in the garden of eden story.

Massiveglory:
To defend or follow tinubu, you must delete and destroy your God given ability to reason.

You must turn a blind eye to stark realities

You must kill your conscience .

You must hang your way throat on the tree of tribalism.

Emilokan is a disaster that must not be allowed.

I say this again, if you see yourself defending or pushing for tinubu at this stage, you must see a psychiatric specialist.

My brother, I don't even understand what is really going on. These politicians have taken Nigerians for granted for far too long. They will hear from the masses in February. The people have given them enough chance to do normal.

These very heartless politicians must be very amazed by how the people have become serious to treat their fc.uk-ups henceforth in this country after Buhari's excruciatingly painful government.

Imagine this mentally unfit one trying so hard to force his way in. Bad luck for him because 9ja politics will no longer be business as usual henceforth again. Buhari really stepped on the toes of masses. The people are not ready to be taking more political bullsh.it anymore. I, for one (with my chronic political apathy), made frantic effort to register for my PVC.

If dis man no win dat election eh, the way ah go seriously find way to comot dis country eh

This man made the greatest mistake of his life to contest for this president thing. Very anyhow character that he has used to affect and influence Lagos and Yorubas. Anytime I think of everything wrong with the Yoruba race, I see him as the originator of it all as he is their main champion.
He thinks he can enter national politics and be doing anyhow he likes as he is doing in Lagos and SW politics.
E nor know say national politics all Nigerians are involved. They will so dissect him eh.

Thortp:
So, na Africans be the monkey abi? Choi

yes nau...
plus Oyinbo bin come meet us inside bush with monkeys.
Abi you don forget?

Okenwamgb:
In all fairness, this election isnt about Christian or Muslim president, this election is about Nigeria. Our economy is suffering, the level insecurity is rising by the day. All these can only be fixed by one man, H.E Atiku Abubakar.

I urge all Nigerians to come out to vote for the PDP.

God bless Nigeria!

Unfortunately, he is a THIEF

ibkayee:
2019 thread but still applicable to today

Aren’t you guys tired of this masculinity farce? Studies have shown that most guys posting ‘lamentations’ about their relationships on here aren’t using their real accounts, including the OP probably

We are "losing" men! It's no farce.
Losing more and more men will cause more and more damage to the society.
Even if it gives women an upper hand, it will be a major blow to the society.

RenerdLiam:


You are right. But I believe the OP is not talking about speaking out, but rather talking about knowing you are being cheated, but seeking approval from strangers to allow yourself to be cheated. That’s the man OP is referring to as weakling.

Exactly. The speaking out should be his narration of what he did which is sending her packing for cheating. Because if you keep a cheating woman, she will continue the cheating as your punishment for not punishing her (sending her packing).

wizkidblogger:
as in, the way they FEAR WOMEN these days is worrisome

Men should be strong and fearless

It's not that easy.
It can be very painful.
Especially in this part where the man was taking care of his supposed woman financially with his hard-earned money before her disappointment is discovered by him.

pocohantas:


At no point have you all ever been "tigers", you only had women that were very submissive- thus making your pseudo-masculinity obvious. Tiger that was colonised and whipped in the butt, watched their women get fcked by colonial masters, sold themselves for mirrors and combs. Tiger that is in a third world country ravaged by hunger and ordinary malaria. Tiger that can't even boast of good roads and electricity...

Can you see that your masculinity revolves around toto? Something that is inconsequential to fast developing counties?

We are very hungry and bitter people, so we love and fck for all the wrong reasons. It is only normal we experience lots of fake pain.

At what point? Men in the olden days had firm grip on their wives and women.
A man is supposed to always be superior to a woman. Kiss the truth.
What these guys nowadays are doing is pure male weakness.
Nowadays, men are becoming women.
If you want men to make things in the society work first before considering their masculinity, also understand that there are limits to how men can express his masculinity too. But human-to-human, a woman by nature is beneath a man; the man is made to be bold in his dealings with a woman. The woman is soft.

Carcholce:
This is what I have got to learn about sex. If you as a man is very focused and don’t get easily seduced by women and sex. The woman you think does not like sex will automatically find you attractive. But Nigerian men do not even give chance to make this simple and clear observation.

Nigerian guys/men can be very impatient when they want to sha.g a particular woman.
The desperation they exhibit then makes the woman start doing shakara even if she would love to get laid too.
To beat women to their game, operate like them by ignoring, yabbing and making her feel less of herself and next thing you know she's all over you wanting it so much. They get ho.r.ny too. They just know how to play their games very well unlike men.

With their branded coloured shirts and caps as usual.
Rented induced crowds everytime.

deavicky:
don't mind them it will be clear to them very soon. I'm from kogi and I support Obi.
If we are in sane society someone like Tinubu can not even try to show interest on presidency let alone contesting.

I am in Lagos here and I am always very surprised whenever somebody thinks Obi has only Igbo supporters.
Like, is that not foo.lis.hness?
Even Atiku has supporters from other citizens that are not Hausa's.
Tinubu is just one anyhow human-being. No character at all.

Naijanascam:






You are part of the hired clappers and demented hallelujah boys that sees nothing and says nothing and in Sane environment you will be taken to a rehab facility for being a potential danger to the unsuspecting public.....a claimed Chicago trained accountant makes mockery of Statistics and you druggie clapped and you are not bothered about mention of down payment of Roasted corn in electricity transmissions.... that's an Irony and kindly live with your shameless nature in peace

You have time to be replying an urchin.
Funny enough, many educated ones among them do have urchin tendency too.
That's why you find them speaking the best of English on here.
I can understand if a politician is supporting his party candidate because he is forced to.
But for an ordinary citizen that is expected to be reasonable and do the right thing to be playing himself and doing himself because of bribe, sentiment etc, it's pure stu.pidity.

Superwave16320:
When Obi was telling his foolish support that some couldn't walk or talk to Nigerians face2face I didn't see your bigoted Igbo father wailing up n down NL over or Obi is not a mere mortal that can die Tonite only Tinubu is a mere mortal that can die according to your foolish bigoted tribalistic Igbo head.

Now Tinubu tells you how irrelevant n a nonentity Peter Obi is with his fraudulent lying statistics you are hyperventilating in sorrow all over NL. You de ment. Go n die over Tinubu's comment let's see if your will be noticed. So only cursed Igbos that will never be beta for like Peter Obi owns monopoly to insult denigrate n belittle other Nigerians ba ?

May it never be well with you for the audacity to create this thread when you never created one when Obi insulted n denigrated Tinubu. You de mad

But you be mumu o
You and the Yoruba's still thinking Obi is supported by only Igbo's can amaze somebody with una mumu level eh.
I am not an Igbo and I am an Obi-dient. How about that?
How can somebody just be thinking that the supporters of a candidate are from only a particular tribe for God's sake!
Try dey get sense

Difrent:


You think say BAT na Soludo
BATists will give you violence for violence of you try all you did with Soludo with BAT.
If una try any burn down Lagos this time around...una go hear whin
You can only bully or harass someone like soludo

That's such an urchin thing to say.
E dey una blood like una candidate.

Who burned down Lagos? When?
People legitimately vex for SARS mata and
they express their anger with small fire
you say na burn down Lagos.

BigBashiru:


Which role. That role isn't set in stone....instead of focusing on role the focus should be on fairness.

True.
These things are neither Laws made anywhere nor punishable.
Just social construct which many deviate from too.
Setting the tone from the very start and being very clear about it can go a very long way to let peace reign among couples.

Sweetplum:

Seems you v comprehension issue. If you so much dislike Tinubu, manage Obi. That's my summation. No Atiku, No Kwankwaso.

I also don't want the north to continue in power in 2023.
Tinubu is not just it at all. The signs are everywhere.
You sounded like you are rooting for him but also battling with tribalism.
That was why I replied you to know where you stand.
But as usual with your type, your mouth is quicker to be rude than polite.

Sweetplum:

Wives now aren't working abi?
What we are saying is you boys of this age are so broke and you are the ones that complains the most. Maybe Buhari hardship reset your brain too.

Why will they not be broke when Nigeria is happening to them?
And why will they not be complaining when their woman will
refuse to temporarily stand in for them as Helper, even when
he is seriously finding ways to make it?
And mind you, we are not talking about boyfriend-girlfriend here.

BigBashiru:


Which role. That role isn't set in stone....instead of focusing on role the focus should be on fairness.

That's when they will come in with the childbirth and gender roles narrative.
If you want to operate marriage like a partnership, childbirth becomes an issue of contention.

BigBashiru:

Where does this notion of a female disrespecting a man becos she is bringing money comes from?? It shouldn't be happening at all..... it can even be structured as a loan....

They understand it as overburden, after birthing/taking care of children for him, cooking/cleaning, hence the disrespect.
They see it that way no matter how hard you try to convince them that it's temporary.

olaeffect:


In my comment I said the pastor maybe addressing a particular case.
I have seen cases whereby some men have become dependent and being taken care of by their wives perpetually, simply because their wifes have the means.
It is thoes kind of situation I believe the pastor is referring to. It is not by money alone that you take care of a woman.
If your wife is the one financing the home then you have to do other things in that home that will amount to her care.
You don't expect a woman to take care of the house, the children, go to work, pay the bills, while you as a man loaf around and do nothing with the claim that loosing your job and being fed by a woman does not make you less of a man.
Oga, such a man is not only less than a man, but a disgrace to the entire "manhood"

There is hardly any man that will happy with that kind of condition.
It is a very big insult that majority of men try very hard to avoid.
Men's main goal in life na to "Blow."
The society sef nor go take am easy on him for being a failure.
I've hardly seen a man in such condition that is not seriously finding ways to make it.

Godmother:


Who said anything about being a full housewife? No woman should even consider that in this present Nigeria.

Also, being a helper is not only when the man is down. It is ALL THE TIME.

As a wife, I have done things I never thought I would and I did them with joy. I did them because my husband is a good man and I want to lighten his load. Sometimes, even when he has, I just rush to do these things to relieve him.

Nigerian men already have the wrong notion of Nigerian women and the thing is your kind will continue to pull to you what you think.

You can't just assume that the man is not planning and working hard or doing nothing to get back on his feet just because his wife is standing in for him and supporting him.

It's not easy and that's why it takes a while for him. But the duration makes many women think he is not doing anything or seriously finding ways. FACT: THE DREAM OF 99.9% MEN IS TO "BLOW."

And when he Arrives, he will assume his role and even want to compensate his woman for everything she did. No man is really happy watching his woman shoulder the whole responsibility. But many men are unhappy with the way their woman abandons everything to the man of the house.

Becoming a failure is the main insult every man tries very hard to avoid in his lifetime. And contrary to your opinion, Nigerian men are very hardworking and are earnestly find ways to breakthrough.

olaeffect:
Hmmm, when a Pastor speaks from the bible but based on the matter he is dealing with at that time; he may likely be misquoted

Pastor maybe refering to a particular members case that he is handli6at hand, where the man of the house is irresponsible and does not take care of his wife at all, but expects his wife to to take care of him because she has the means.

But some irresponsible ladies will now assume otherwise

But it is also part of the Helper women are called too.
Help him finance the home until he gets back on his feet and respect him while at it.
Contributing to the finance for running the home is also part of the Help.
Help is not restricted to only some things, it's a general term.

Sweetplum:
Says a man who's not proud to he responsible.

You better get your a.ss to work.
Wives in the Bible went to farm with their husbands.
The Helper you are called is a general title that is not limited to only cooking/cleaning, birthing/taking care of children.
It also means contributing part of your money to the finance for running the home.