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Politics / Re: Obi Could Have Gone Far, But Obidients Can’t Control Their Mouths - Reno Omokri by MNDY(m): 8:58am On Nov 15, 2022
Reno is very stu.pid. I used to admire him very much as an intelligent man.
It is called Transfer of Aggression. Nigerians are tired and angry with the politicians.
If you feel you can trivialize or criticize this their last golden opportunity to save the country, they will transfer their aggression on you.
Because you are well off does not give you any right to trivialize the determined effort made by the suffering masses to get a better country.
Until someone hurts one of them (this Reno, Deji, Soludo and the likes), they will not understand the gravity of the matter at hand. Social media is for mere banters. Nigerians are really very angry with the situation of things in the country.

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Politics / Re: NBC Fines Arise TV Over False Reporting On INEC And Tinubu by MNDY(m): 5:52pm On Nov 14, 2022
Melezenawii:
It is high time to Sanction Nairaland for fake news that IPOB Terrorists are using

Like Reno Omokri, a very intelligent man I once admired, politics has turned people like you into people that cannot think straight.

Maybe you are logical with or without politics I don't know and don't care to know.

You expect to find details about every human-being on earth on Google?

Many people can go to any length with their privacy that they will block details about themself from getting into public domains if you don't know.
Politics / Re: Presidential Debate Dies A Sudden Death by MNDY(m): 1:21pm On Nov 14, 2022
benzypher:
The truth is none of the major candidates are perfect for this country.

Peter Obi is manageable.
Not those 2 very dangerous thieves.

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Politics / Re: Presidential Debate Dies A Sudden Death by MNDY(m): 1:19pm On Nov 14, 2022
PeterObi4LP:
Some people are cheering Tinubu because of election, but years to come all this will backfire. Presidential Debate everybody is doing peacefully, e reach Tinubu turn him say him no do again. He has already draw the line other future presidential candidate will follow suit.

Tinubu is unelectable

Unelectable - I like the sound of that.
He is mentally unfit.
Romance / Re: Groom Cancels Wedding, Demands For Refund After Discovering Bride Has 2 Kids by MNDY(m): 12:57pm On Nov 14, 2022
alizma:
This time around na Jonah swallow fish no be fish swallow Jonah.
Towards the end of the video, I hear leave my breast eeey, e be like say Jonah decided to press all available breast in return for the money he paid. Lol drama everywhere

cheesy cheesy cheesy
No be small tin.
The fish bones don hook am for throat.
THE BREAST PRESSER THERE DEY TRY CONFIRM THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A SINGLE MOTHER'S BREAST AND BREAST OF LADY WITHOUT CHILD.

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Romance / Re: Groom Cancels Wedding, Demands For Refund After Discovering Bride Has 2 Kids by MNDY(m): 12:48pm On Nov 14, 2022
Jakumo:


I wonder how it is that men can be so overcome with blind rabid lust that they cannot tell the difference between a fit, nicely toned, and busty young woman who has never been pregnant, and a high-mileage matron who has already mothered multiple babies. Those once-gravity defiant perky upturned firm yet jiggly breasts WILL droop and deflate after pregnancy or even after a single abortion. In Nigeria where breast augmentation silicone implantation surgery is still rare, droopy breasts and saggy stomachs will STAY droopy for life, and CAN NOT be missed by a trained observer once that bra comes off.

My hypothesis is that all too often when sexual activity is thought to be imminent, the male cranial brain typically DISENGAGES and goes offline, while the much smaller and easily confused auxiliary brain located in the now-activated third leg, is allowed to take over the acquisition of carnal knowledge duties whenever a willing woman of ANY age starts to disrobe. I can think of no other reason why a rational man would marry a mother of two, yet imagine that she had never once borne a child.




cheesy cheesy cheesy
Agba Wordsmith!

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Family / Re: Would You Still WANT To Be Married To Your Spouse In Your Next Life? by MNDY(m): 12:41pm On Nov 14, 2022
kurlz:



Remember not all women are full house. Wives. They hustle too so?

She has to take care of the home with her job then - Taking care of the home is her role in a marriage.
Career women leave the financial burden on only the man.
The belief that my money is my money and his money is our money in your gender.
A man should only volunteer to assist her in her role in the home if she assists the man in his role too. It has to be reciprocal.

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Family / Re: Would You Still WANT To Be Married To Your Spouse In Your Next Life? by MNDY(m): 11:55am On Nov 14, 2022
advanceDNA:


Its wisdom until baba say bring part of junior school fees, part of rent, and part of other financial obligations.......

Because say na dem de born, they will not let someone hear word.
Childbirth is a very big deal but I believe it is made easy with certain strategies too.
To hustle for money nor easy too. No rest and a man's life is even on the line in hustling too.

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Politics / Re: Can Tinubu’s $460,000 ‘settlement’ In Drug Trafficking Case Disqualify Him? by MNDY(m): 11:50am On Nov 14, 2022
Treadway:
I have strong reasons to believe that so called embassy letter is not genuine. Not like it will change anything as na naija we dey, but just for the sake of knowledge.

I have shared some points to note earlier. Here is another, that document has a typo that is hard to ignore. The red flags!

It reads the United States and it's territories

It should be ITS not IT'S

2. The typing alignment is not justified format, even the 1993 document was properly aligned in justified typing format. How could a 2003 not be? Compare the two below.
3. Inec supposedly received a document in 2010 when Tinubu wasn't vying for any post in 2010.

Jyde81 and TWoods when I said you were not very smart like Tinubu your mentor, una see am now. If anarchist grandpa wan forge something, he should at least get someone to do a fool-proof job.

Even though he changed his name because of this matter and can use that to defend himself, if they want to disqualify him, they can still get him through his primary school certificate (a requirement) that he is hiding because of the change of name.
Romance / Re: Man Makes Girlfriend Lose Her Job As Payback For Cheating On Him by MNDY(m): 11:23am On Nov 14, 2022
Magnoliaa:


It may seem as if you have a comprehension issue, but that is not my problem to solve. Do keep it away from my mentions, thank you.

If anything, it is the man that should be dealing with the woman more seriously for cheating on him despite spending on her.

A woman should only amicably end the relationship with a cheating man because she is contributing nothing to the relationship.

She enjoys the sex too if it's about the puss.y. You think you are doing more because you bear the children or for doing simple housechores? It's not easy for the man hustling to get money either, no rest sometimes and his life is on the line sometimes too.

The paternity fraud your gender has enjoyed so far is getting serious attention nowadays, so...

Generally, activities of your gender is making us disinterested in y'all in contemporary times. Many men don't take women serious anymore apart from sex.

Many men no longer even want marriage.

No commitment whatsoever, many men now only just enjoy their time (sex) with the female gender for the time she is around, knowing fully well it's just his turn. Men now operate like your gender to beat y'all to your game. Let's see who will win las las.

Your gender is at the center of it and started it all. Behaving anyhow as the gatekeepers of sex, a very major position y'all hold. Y'all made matters worse by defending yourselves, blaming men too instead of joining voices to condemn your bad activities which can go a very long way to curb them.
Politics / Re: Can Tinubu’s $460,000 ‘settlement’ In Drug Trafficking Case Disqualify Him? by MNDY(m): 11:01am On Nov 14, 2022
Treadway:
I have strong reasons to believe that so called embassy letter is not genuine. Not like it will change anything as na naija we dey, but just for the sake of knowledge.

I have shared some points to note earlier. Here is another, that document has a typo that is hard to ignore. The red flags!

It reads the United States and it's territories

It should be ITS not IT'S

2. The typing alignment is not justified format, even the 1993 document was properly aligned in justified typing format. How could a 2003 not be? Compare the two below.
3. Inec supposedly received a document in 2010 when Tinubu wasn't vying for any post in 2010.

Jyde81 and TWoods when I said you were not very smart like Tinubu your mentor, una see am now. If anarchist grandpa wan forge something, he should at least get someone to do a fool-proof job.

Everything about Tinubu is never straightforward.
From fake bishops, to age, to certificate, to business, to muslim-muslim ticket.
I type in Ms Word very well and understand justifying a typed work.
I am not a Tinubu supporter. But on this case, I think a portion in the constitution states that an aspirant can be disqualified if his conviction is within 10yrs before he is contesting. This case is over 20yrs old. Other than that, there are serious issues of: Whether forfeiture means plea bargain. Did the US clear him of every wrongdoing because of the forfeiture? etc
Family / Re: Would You Still WANT To Be Married To Your Spouse In Your Next Life? by MNDY(m): 9:36am On Nov 14, 2022
advanceDNA:


Its wisdom until baba say bring part of junior school fees, part of rent, and part of other financial obligations.......

Are you minding her?
They always think finding money to provide for the house is easier than housechores.
Some even feel like cooking is slavery.
I will help her cook, clean and bathe the children sometimes if she can be contributing money too.
Chores are easier than making money but they always see chores as slavery. I don't know why.
If we can switch it, I will go for chores make she hustle and bring money for the house.
Anyways, these are gender roles but one can volunteer to support the other from time to time.
But women seeing their own as slavery can be very annoying.

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Family / Re: Would You Still WANT To Be Married To Your Spouse In Your Next Life? by MNDY(m): 9:05am On Nov 14, 2022
kurlz:



True! But African men especially Nigerians don't reason like this. The woman is made the beast of burden, and even supports financially also, and all some men do is bring money nothing more, yet she's seen as a liability that adds no value.
She changes her name, her body, bares you children all for you, takes care of your home and support the house's upkeep financially, and everyway, yet she is not appreciated. The Nigerian man galivants and frolics outside the marriage, lives like a king and subjects the woman to a slave and a nonentity yet he claims it's only women that benefits from marriage.
African/Nigerian men are clowns.

In the real sense, Who should be scared and tired of marriage? Is it not women?

Try and change this playing the victim mentality.
The earlier the better.
Married women cheat too as much as men do.
Everytime, you women are the only victim in everything according to you people.
Hustling out there is not also easy for the man as much as taking care of the home is for the woman.
These are gender roles for each of them. But they can assist to volunteer to assist the other.
In fact, taking care of the home is easier than finding money. You know this.
Family / Re: Would You Still WANT To Be Married To Your Spouse In Your Next Life? by MNDY(m): 8:55am On Nov 14, 2022
Freshgrace4life:
Not yet married but if I definitely get married to my guy , I will marry him all over again , him just like me with my wahala & naughtiness..

Try and change such personality.
Every man wants peace of mind and will really love any woman that can give it to him.
And respect.
You people and your "wahala" is what is discouraging many men from marriage.
Romance / Re: Man Makes Girlfriend Lose Her Job As Payback For Cheating On Him by MNDY(m): 8:39am On Nov 14, 2022
Magnoliaa:


What world are you living in? A change once in a while? Tch.

It is not a norm for ladies who were cheated on to fight back.

"Watch war room" is an advice to women for a reason. Dress sexy, go on your knees and pray, rebuke the other woman and bla bla bla are sayings targeted at women because everyone generally believe a woman is powerless against a man as a ***. She is the inferior one who is supposed to remain faithful. Even though destructive women make the news for hurting men, they are still minute in comparison to a large number of helpless and penniless women out there.

On the other hand, men who take cheating and stay with a cheating woman to cover their shame are a rarity. They are in the minority, so this dude is just being a man as men have been menning.

And finally, what goes around come around, I guess.

There are many Chidinmas and paternity fraudsters out there to balance the "equation", so merry away.

In all, people should be careful of who they "mess" with. You no know person wey im madness pass your own, or who came from a wicked spirit world and is disguising as a human (like me now, 4E), so watch your company and associates.

PS to whom it may concern: A sautéed thunder will approach your eyeballs if you come into my Mentions to say I am supporting evil or bad. It's a chilled evening; let us give ourselves brain, TY.

You this gender will never cease to amaze me.
The man spends on a woman, she has the effrontery to still be cheating.
That can be very painful you know.
Seeing anything you spend money on not turning out bad is painful, not just relationship.
What do you Nigerian women have to offer in a relationship that you don't amicably breakup for cheating but destroy or react with certain harsh actions sef?
It is men that should be reacting and fighting and dealing with the lady viciously for cheating after spending on her in the relationship.
Politics / Re: Pressure On Kwankwaso To Step Down For Atiku by MNDY(m): 6:34pm On Nov 13, 2022
Naajjii:

Yes na ,as e dey sweet us e dey .......... complete it grin

Because una plenty, your body dey sweet you ba grin

As you guys have refused to use logic, the south will show you guys in 2023 if the outcome of that election becomes another northern president winner.

You want to be enjoying the oil money and also selfishly want to be enjoying power together too. The southerners will join the anger of bad government with the vex of power shift to resist continuation of another northerner in power in 2023 if a northerner wins.

WATCH AND SEE.
Politics / Re: Pressure On Kwankwaso To Step Down For Atiku by MNDY(m): 6:20pm On Nov 13, 2022
Naajjii:

Mr man go and sit down, we are waiting to see what you will do with your empty threat and ranting. If you are waiting for north to give you presidency you will wait tire. Are you not even ashamed of yourself to be saying that? So if north does not give you presidency you can't give yourselves ? grin. What kind of weakness and mentality is this ?

E dey sweet you abi grin
Because una plenty, your body dey sweet you ba grin

As you guys have refused to use logic, the south will show you guys in 2023 if the outcome of that election becomes another northern president winner.

You want to be enjoying the oil money and also selfishly want to be enjoying power together too. The southerners will join the anger of bad government with the vex of power shift to resist continuation of another northerner in power in 2023 if a northerner wins.

WATCH AND SEE.
Politics / Re: Pressure On Kwankwaso To Step Down For Atiku by MNDY(m): 3:05pm On Nov 13, 2022
Naajjii:

Come and force them to step down !!Why is Obi not using the common sense to step down for Tinubu or why is Tinubu not using the common sense and step down for Obi or why didnt all your southern leaders use the common sense to vote Wike ins tead of Atiku or why are your leaders from the south supporting or following Atiku up and down all over not use the common sense to Support and follow Obi ? grin

You northerners are somehow in your reasoning walai. Is reciprocating the crude-oil enjoyment with power shift too much to ask?

Say the truth: If only southerners come out to contest under all the parties, no northerner will want to vote because his brother is not contesting. But the south voted for Buhari.

That is why people say the sense of you northerners work somehow. Very good at complicating very simple things.

The south has been watching your mentality. The south will take your matter very seriojs in 2023 depending on the outcome of the election. The matter is funny to you. You will understand how serious it is very soon. Since you people have refused to reason well.
Politics / Re: Pressure On Kwankwaso To Step Down For Atiku by MNDY(m): 8:50pm On Nov 12, 2022
Naajjii:

Oga what do you want the north to do for you ? Are you saying northerners just withdrawal from the race or something? Why don't you tell Obi to withdraw for Tinubu or tell Tinubu to withdraw for Obi first then you can face the northern candidates of Kwankwaso and Atiku. Don't you think that is the best way to go instead of the useless ranting and empty threat you are resorting to ?

At party level, common sense should let all northern members of parties to drop their ambition and let only southern members pick the party's ticket for the sake of power shift.
Politics / Re: Pressure On Kwankwaso To Step Down For Atiku by MNDY(m): 2:24pm On Nov 12, 2022
Naajjii:

Mr man go to hell, try and scatter Nigeria who cares,you are just ranting. If you think Buhari a northerner is leaving and Atiku is taking over why don't you do something so that it won't happen. Election is 3 months if there is anything you can do to make a southern president you do it, if can't then you are coward you don't know how to play the game.

Which stupid game?!
The south has played along amicably with the strength of north population expecting that you people can at least use common sense and logic to reciprocate with power shift for the benefit that your region is enjoying from the south.
You will think 2023 will be business as usual until the south will stand up and decide to not take your rubbish anymore.
Your north will suffer the consequences of Nigeria's disintegration.
JUST WATCH AND SEE.
People are very tired and very angry already.
Politics / Re: Wike And Ikpeazu Join Ortom In Enugu For G5 PDP Governors Meeting by MNDY(m): 2:05pm On Nov 12, 2022
CoronaVirusRelo:
I almost thought it was a Labour Party G5 grin grin grin

Every political confusion in Nigerian politics just favours His Excellence, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu!

Isaiah 54:15

"Behold, they shall surely gather together, but not by me: whosoever shall gather together against thee shall fall for thy sake."

Yes of course.
Only the southwest will make him president.
Politics / Re: Pressure On Kwankwaso To Step Down For Atiku by MNDY(m): 12:58pm On Nov 12, 2022
Naajjii:


What fairness are you talking about ? ISLAM support people working together to achieve common goal. Is that what you are doing in the south? Why is Tinubu from the south contesting against Obi from the south and vice versa? Are you saying no northerner should come out and contest, When the north is as large as the south? Sokoto to Maiduguri is that same as Lagos to Calabar.

Are you saying there is nothing like fairness in Islam?
How many times will Atiku contest?
He did not let Obi have the ticket at party level.
If not for anything, the north is supposed to reciprocate the crude-oil with power shift.
But tribalism and religion will not allow you to understand such things.
You as an individual would ignore fairness and vote Atiku because you are blinded by tribalism and same religion that preaches fairness.
You northerners think you can have your way and nothing will happen.
Southerners will not tolerate that in 2023
Nigerians are very tired already.
Buhari from the north has failed woefully, another northerner wants to take over from him.
If it means Nigeria will scatter, so be it. The south is not taking things lightly this time around.
Politics / Re: PDP Crisis: Why Is Atiku Afraid To Let Ayu Go? by MNDY(m): 12:41pm On Nov 12, 2022
deavicky:
All I can say here is, Nigeria and Nigerian had suffered for too long and too much so God's hands are working.

Thank you very much.
God bless you.
Sometimes, I just pity Nigerians.
People suffering in the hands of their politicians year in year out.
Corruption, incompetence and sheer wickedness of these politicians.
People now leave the country in droves. They are very tired.
God should just listen to the long cries of Nigerians and give them succor in 2023.
The people have suffered for too long in the hands of these people.
Life in other countries is not as painful with suffering like Nigeria here.
Obi in 2023 will be a ray of hope; any other wrong candidate and many people including myself will hurriedly leave this country for good.
Politics / Re: Apostle Johnson Suleman Prays For Peter Obi In Auchi (Photos, Video) by MNDY(m): 11:58am On Nov 12, 2022
fredoooooo:
Liars group of companies .
No be this pastor send something to someone in Italy spiritually? cheesy grin cheesy grin

cheesy cheesy cheesy
You dey craze?
Oya! Remove dat image! grin
Crime / Re: Zanele Sifuba’s Sex Video: Nigerian Embassy Reacts As SA Blasts Nigerians by MNDY(m): 10:47am On Nov 12, 2022
WannaHowzit:


That's the problem with your japaholism - you just jump into any country without understanding or respecting its way of life. SA is a sexually liberated country so why blame the "old woman" when the Nigerian is the one who broke SA rules?

Her privacy and trust in him was broken.

Gosh, SA was not even colonised by the French. What total ignorance is this? angry

1. There is also Sexual Liberation everywhere else in the world.
2. You can't blame your shameless politician for doing the video.
3. You South-Africans just hate Nigerians because we snatch your babes with money.
4. Nigerians are very hardworking over there too, unlike you.
5. Being hostile to guests in your country because of jealousy is a very wrong behaviour.
6. Where else in the world have you seen hosts treating foreigners the way you South-Africans do?
7. It is a very stu.pid behaviour. You guys even kill them. Very very bad.
8. I really really love your Amapiano music. I enjoy it a lot. I love Focalistic very much too.
9. The Amapiano production on CHAMPION SOUND (with Davido) is exceptionally excellent.
10. I can't get enough of that song.
11. We are in a civilized world now. But you South-Africans still behave uncivilized.
12. South-Africa is very beautiful. But I don't think I can visit there because of you guys.

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Politics / Re: Pressure On Kwankwaso To Step Down For Atiku by MNDY(m): 10:16am On Nov 12, 2022
Ezeama400:
THE PROBLEM WITH SOUTHERNERS IS THEY ARE ALWAYS READY AND EAGER TO BETRAY THEIR FELLOW SOUTHERNER IN FAVOUR OF NOTHERNER, THINKING THAT NORTHERNERS WILL RECIPROCATE SUCH GESTURE WHEN THE TABLE TURNS...NO, NORTHERNERS ARE NOT LIKE THAT..

IN NIGERIA POLITICS, SOUTHERN POLITICIANS SEE NORTHERN POLITICIANS IN THEIR CAMP AS ALLIES, WHILE NORTHERN POLITICIANS IN THE SAME CAMP SEE SOUTHERN POLITICIANS AS WILLING TOOLS ..

SOUTHERNERS POLITICIANS SHOULD KNOW THAT NORTHERN POLITICIANS DON'T SEE OR VALUE THEM THE WAY YOU SEE THEM..

LOOK AT BUHARI WHO SHOULD SHOW SERIOUSNESS ABOUT 2023 WAS ON A NATIONAL TV TELLING NIGERIANS TO VOTE WHO THEY LIKE BECAUSE HIS FELLOW NORTHERNER IS ON BALLOT..

TINUBU SORRY OOOO.. I HOPE YOU HAVE A STRONG SHOCK ABSORBER THAT WILL HELP YOU IN FEB..

A very bitter lesson is on the way for the south to learn.
They will now understand that these northerners don't give a hoot about the south.
The average Hausaman in the north believes that Nigeria starts and ends with the north.
Politics / Re: Pressure On Kwankwaso To Step Down For Atiku by MNDY(m): 10:13am On Nov 12, 2022
Naajjii:

Atiku will win inshaallah, and you do your worst. Who is scared of Nigeria breaking. How many people in the north the oil money is helping other than the corrupt elites ? Is it hausa fulani or the north that let you fail to support yourselves to present one candidate ?
Why can't Tinubu step down or Obi step down and go for one southern candidate?

So, one northerner will handover to another northerner?
Is that what you like?
Do you believe in fairness in the Islam religion that you practise?
And what do you mean by "the northerners are not enjoying the southern oil-money"?
Your fine roads, schools, hospitals etc there in the north are from the oil-money.

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Business / Re: Loan Sharks Persist With Cruel Recovery Practices by MNDY(m): 9:20am On Nov 12, 2022
Kingstanding:
. In England where I reside you don't need any collateral before your bank gives you a loan once your credit score is good. If the bank in UK loan you like ten thousand pounds and you didn't pay the money back the only thing they will do is to write you and they will never come to your house. Though it will affect the borrower because they will send the persons name to credit and whenever you want to borrow money or you wanna buy something on credit it will decline and it will take good five years before your name can be cleaned.

FairMoney said they operate like this too.
Said they don't defame or shame their customers to contacts.
According to their agent, they'll only make Credit Bureau blacklist your BVN from taking any loan again from anywhere in the future.
And ask you to clear your name from the Credit Bureau.
I owe them.
Business / Re: Loan Sharks Persist With Cruel Recovery Practices by MNDY(m): 9:20am On Nov 12, 2022
Kingstanding:
. In England where I reside you don't need any collateral before your bank gives you a loan once your credit score is good. If the bank in UK loan you like ten thousand pounds and you didn't pay the money back the only thing they will do is to write you and they will never come to your house. Though it will affect the borrower because they will send the persons name to credit and whenever you want to borrow money or you wanna buy something on credit it will decline and it will take good five years before your name can be cleaned.

FairMoney said they operate like this too.
Said they don't defame or shame their customers to contacts.
According to their agent, they'll only make Credit Bureau blacklist your BVN from taking any loan again from anywhere in the future.
And ask you to clear your name from the Credit Bureau.
Family / Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by MNDY(m): 1:21pm On Nov 11, 2022
FalseProphet1:
When you graduate and start earning money in this economy you'll understand how difficult it is to send someone money.

This I have seen.

The day I sent the whole 30k in my account to my sister for school fees, I really hear am dah month.
She had returned home and was crying everyday. Exams just days away and no money at home.
Family / Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by MNDY(m): 1:10pm On Nov 11, 2022
Mindlog:


The side chick is now pregnant why does he want an abortion?

Could be fake means of letting peace reign to make his wife calm down.
Family / Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by MNDY(m): 12:46pm On Nov 11, 2022
Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

I am not defending him in any way.
But could his lifestyle be because he wants a male child?
Especially as a firstborn, for someone like me.
And he was probably hiding his worries.
Many men prefer male child more than female.

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