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FamilyRe: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by ModestGal(f): 8:04pm On Jun 24, 2020
fabulous85:
so age determines IQ?nice, your IQ is very high✌
I should have said in the same intelligence level
HealthRe: Man’s Suicide Attempt At Ogun River In Abeokuta Aborted (Photos) by ModestGal(f): 7:59pm On Jun 24, 2020
Suicide gone wrong
PoliticsRe: APC NWC: Buhari Not Aware Of Invitation For NEC Meeting by ModestGal(f): 7:57pm On Jun 24, 2020
airminem:
grin
.sis that sister on your dp is my beauty dream o. I love her shape die and gradually building the shape
PoliticsRe: APC NWC: Buhari Not Aware Of Invitation For NEC Meeting by ModestGal(f): 7:55pm On Jun 24, 2020
airminem:
H for haram
I was just booking space ma
PoliticsRe: APC NWC: Buhari Not Aware Of Invitation For NEC Meeting by ModestGal(f): 7:52pm On Jun 24, 2020
Not surprised
FamilyRe: What Are The Odds Of Marrying Your Age Mate? by ModestGal(f):
I can never marry my agemate, they will be too dumb for me. But I know there are also intelligent people out there but are quite scarce. But right from when I was young, I have always been in the same IQ level with people at least 5yeara older than me.
Agemate is not possible for my type

Modified
To all people saying *intelligent people are intelligent doesn't have anything to do with gender or age**, , I'm sorry to say, you sound funny, because you are saying an intelligent child of 11years is thesame to that of 20years.

Of course, age is an important factor in knowledge, you can be very smart right from birth, but you still learn along the years which makes you more matured and wiser as you age.

How would I be dating my agemates, when I was 17years old in 300level or maybe 200? When most of them were not even to be found, it was until I got to 400level that my agemate were in 100level, and the few I tried to connect witjh(friendship) turned me so off. Not saying, we do not have matured people same age with me, but were very scarce to get and I didn't even get one till I graduated just to be friends with. During service, it was thesame, masters,it was thesame.

I'm sure you understood me, you just trying to be negative, please stop quoting me, I don't want your negative energy
EducationRe: Schools Must Setup Isolation Centers Before Reopening - Adamu Adamu by ModestGal(f): 7:45pm On Jun 24, 2020
Lol
PoliticsRe: How African Culture Promotes Poverty And Corruption by ModestGal(op): 7:39pm On Jun 24, 2020
irrefragable:
You can go and learn how, now, it's not too late, and start changing the narrative for the future generation. Please, if you can't do that, don't criticize what we already have. There are so many people nowadays who have the words but not the action to back it up.
You are talking like a dumb person. You are part of the problem, so you think the only way to solve that is for me to turn to a script writer, lol.
Anyway, there are many ways I'm currently taking actions in solving that. I don't even like dumb people, so this would be my last reply to you. Bye
PoliticsRe: How African Culture Promotes Poverty And Corruption by ModestGal(op): 3:32pm On Jun 24, 2020
ambale:
You couldn't have said it better, I always wonder why some persons behave in a very funny manner and ascribe everything to superstitious beliefs.
We do not like to follow the ladder, we just wish to find ourselves on top.
How can I join your movement
Chat me Through my signature please
PoliticsRe: How African Culture Promotes Poverty And Corruption by ModestGal(op): 3:29pm On Jun 24, 2020
Xisnin:
You are right.
I have had this line of thought for a while but often get opposed by many that
"our corrupt leader" is the real cause.
A lot of people are too invested in superstition and unearned wealth.
Expect some attacks from them.
Also, in your last sentence, I think "ambitious" is what you intend to type.
Yes of course, our problem is never our leaders but our societal norms. The people are those that become the leaders and they sprang from the society, that is, the society mould them.
Getting opposed is normal, and that is why we need to come together and raise our voice louder so that people would understand. Please chat me directly through my signature so we can do this
Christianity EtcRe: Am Losing Myself !!!! Help Me by ModestGal(f): 2:53pm On Jun 24, 2020
Btycoon:
Thanks for your contribution.
I'm sorry, I shouldn't be harsh with you like that
PoliticsRe: How African Culture Promotes Poverty And Corruption by ModestGal(op): 2:27pm On Jun 24, 2020
Martinez39s:
grin grin grin grin

This is one smart girl. cheesy
Thank you. Please chat me up through the link on my signature. God bless you
Christianity EtcRe: Am Losing Myself !!!! Help Me by ModestGal(f):
Btycoon:
why do you say that please? I just need you to be candid about this
affiliating a natural occurrence, backed by science to a spiritual stupidity. You can't even help yourself with google, and here crying where there's nothing to cry about.
What do you want us to tell you?
''Go and appease the gods so you can stop seeing your gf in dreams''

You make me wonder if whites are actually smarter than blacks
Christianity EtcRe: Am Losing Myself !!!! Help Me by ModestGal(f): 7:35am On Jun 24, 2020
Btycoon:
Good morning to you all. Am a regular here even though I don't comment but I read what I could on this platform. I am seriously in need of help from any angle on what I can do to solve this big problem am facing.

There is this lady have been dating for the past 7years now and due to this long relationship I made my intention known to her so she won't bother about marriage and also finding the right guy again. Now I do have sex with this girl in my dreams whenever I miss her or rather whenever we both miss ourselves,this has never happened to me before. Actually I have been faithful to her and she knows am not cheating and she isn't cheating also to my knowledge, but the continuous sex in dream with her is giving me depression. A Month before lockdown we didn't have anything and since lockdown started we haven't had any chance to meet she resides in Delta while I reside in Lagos due to lockdown and I can't even see her if the lockdown persist.
I thought of leaving her if that would solve the problem but as a man from where I went to for prayers if she would be a good wife and maybe we are compatible I was told she's good and I shouldn't say I want to leave her and also I have lost interest in having sex with any lady I just found her as the best I want.

Before, I used to have sex with her in dream like Ones a month or 3weeks if we didn't meet,now it is now Every week.

please help my life. I have prayed and I am not seeing anything positive yet. And she's the one I do see clearly in my dreams. Am just afraid.

please help me on what I can do and I don't want to masturbate to relieve myself before I sleep due to stories I do read on this platform of people seeking help to cure masturbation, that would be another problem and having sex in dreams usually cause infertility in man's sperm and spiritually means Lost of good things also.



Help me help me!!!! Please help me need advice .
You are a Mumu, nothing else to say to you.
PoliticsRe: How Igbos Can Rule Nigeria In Future by ModestGal(f): 6:38am On Jun 24, 2020
Hmm
Nigerians are racists. Stop racism, let's all stop voting due to tribes, let's vote who can actually do what is necessary for the development of our Nation.
Though the Northerners have proven they are racists, so they can never have my vote again.
All these politicians have seen this weakness in religion, and tribe and thus use it against us.

We need liberal people in our political offices, we need educated people, we need people with passion, zeal, and courage. We need intelligent minds as leaders.

We need yo change Nigerian constitutions, constitutions keeping us backwards and turning our political leaders to theifs

Racism must stop in Nigeria
Nigeria must grow
PoliticsRe: How African Culture Promotes Poverty And Corruption by ModestGal(op): 6:21am On Jun 24, 2020
B3ACHSIDE:
Most of the things we take pride in or try to hold on to are vanity . Cultures and societies evolve .Change is constant and nothing stays the same . Your grand children may be Mexicans or French .
The meaning of life is love . All humans desire to be loved and enjoy good quality of life. No one desires to be hated ,oppressed ,disrespected ,ugly ,dirty ,poor, or derided in any way . Any thing contrary to this love is the cause of all conflict and retrogression in this world.

A Universal culture and homogenized world where everywhere is developed with no borders and all humans enjoy good quality of life is what is aspired . For example , English is universal and unifying language .
jeans and t shirt were originally American culture but now part of universal culture. Mid century modern homes where originally part of American culture but now part of universal culture. high speed trains where Japanese but now now part of universal culture. Pizza was originally Italian culture but now part of universal culture. green tea was Japanese but now part of universal culture. Calabar Afang soup or Yoruba's amala may be part of universal culture if people around the world love it .
Do not try to force anything . allow the universe to flow naturally. You can not force a person to do what they don't want to do or think what they don't want to think or like what they do not want to like.

I think Africans are not implementing the universal culture efficiently,and also not propagating African culture enough for the world to decide which ones to include in universal culture.
Yes, there wasn't anything like a single culture spanning ages, culture changes. Even these whites had different culture before civilization, and they changed the culture to meet the demands of of people
PoliticsRe: . by ModestGal(f): 6:08am On Jun 24, 2020
B3ACHSIDE:
It has been observed that most developments in Nigeria are baseless and wrong priority. With that,Nigeria will always be third world shithole with it's citizens lining up at embassies .
It seems to me that the government aren't focused or have simply chose not to focus on the quality of life of the people, it appears to me that they are more focused on surface vanity projects instead of building the foundation for an organized,lawful and orderly society with good quality of life where no one would desires to migrate out for a better life.
The obligation of the government is to enact and implement: LAWS (child labor,street hawking,vehicle overload,wrongful parking,kidnapping etc etc) ,CITY PLANNING( building codes,zoning laws,waste disposal,water supply,Transportation infrastructure (roads,traffic signs ,sidewalks,drainage,street lights),HEALTHCARE, HCD(education,skills acquisition,employment,youth empowerment social programs) , SECURITY (border security ,public surveillance cameras ,efficient police force, id database), STABLE ELECTRICITY , EFFICIENT TAX SYSTEM. These are the most basic things that matter, not conference center,resort ,highrise building , largest mall ,overpass, Airline,seaport ,or cargo airport. Forget about all of that stuff and deal with the basics.

forget absolutely everything and Chose only two task out of the list above and deal with that within a specific time frame. You can start with SECURITY(border security ,ID database,public surveillance cameras ,efficient policing ) , & STABLE POWER SUPPLY. This can be accomplished within 20 months ,then move on to LAWS,CITY PLANNING, and one more task on the list within another 20 months .
SECURITY
All states should have border demarcation,toll booth entry ,and that would solve interstate Communal clashes, illegal entries,and help boost security . We want a secured and organized society where everything is documented and checkmated. Disband and revamp the police force. Prerequisite for recruitment into the police force should be individuals who studied psychology,criminology and other law enforcement related courses, even so , there should still be additional training,background checks and aptitude test. Individuals should be at least 20 to 35 years old,6 ft tall and fit.
All states should have Id database and all residents of a state should be well documented with an ID. No one should live ,school or receive healthcare or work in a state without proper documentation. For example,if you move permanently from Benue State to Akwa ibom state , you would have to go register at a center and get a stamp of permanent residency . If visiting temporarily for a few hours ,days, weeks, or months ,you would have to be stamped and documented at the point of entry as temporary visitor.
STABLE POWER SUPPLY
Stable power is probably the most important infrastructure which all others rely on. For example Id database and surveillance cameras rely on stable power supply.
It is understood that states do not yet have autonomy for power generation, that sucks and is something that needs to change .
The cost of building power plants and power generation is astronomical only because Nigeria has to pay billions in inflated cost to foreign construction companies. And that's why I previously suggested reduction of cost by using Indigenous civil engineers ,NYSC program,and skilled volunteers to accomplish infrastructure development. With that, a power plants can be built within a short period of time .
Beautiful thought my friend
PoliticsRe: How African Culture Promotes Poverty And Corruption by ModestGal(op): 8:52pm On Jun 23, 2020
Professorcplus:
I took a break from WhatsApp some months now but you can always mention me on any related topic. By the way nice work you got. Keep it up wink
What about FB?what's your FB name?
NL for me is usually a phase, sometimes for years, I would forget it
PoliticsRe: How African Culture Promotes Poverty And Corruption by ModestGal(op): 8:48pm On Jun 23, 2020
irrefragable:
why don't you write movie scripts that think outside the box on how to get rich, and send to these movie producers?
I didn't learn how
RomanceRe: Is Something Wrong With Me? Am I A Genius,exceptional Or A Rare Gem? by ModestGal(op): 2:12pm On Jun 23, 2020
G
PoliticsRe: How African Culture Promotes Poverty And Corruption by ModestGal(op): 2:11pm On Jun 23, 2020
Thelimitbreaker:
You are very right. I strongly believe that the salient panacea to this mayhem is a paradigm shift. We need a mind-renewal. Blacks rarely take strict measures towards developing
themselves. It begins with You and I for change to crystalize in our society
Yes brother, let's do this together with one voice, kindly chat up through my link on signature
RomanceRe: Hey Guys And Girls We About To Indulge In Something Illicit by ModestGal(f): 2:01pm On Jun 23, 2020
Hmmn
Waiting for the bashes below, your grammar is Gbagaun

I don't think your story is true
CelebritiesRe: Police Nab 58-year-old Man For Impersonating Late Abba Kyari’s Widow by ModestGal(f): 2:00pm On Jun 23, 2020
Sick Nigerians
HealthRe: Mum Of One Commits Suicide After Crying For Help On Facebook by ModestGal(f):
Hmm
Anyone who commits suicide after having a child must be highly depressed. Because children is one reason to persevere

RIP to her, please kindly watch out for family and friends
RomanceRe: What Did You Miss Most About Single Life? Is Single Life Still The Best? by ModestGal(f): 1:54pm On Jun 23, 2020
Nothing, yea.
CrimeRe: Sex With A Pig: Man In Court In Ibadan by ModestGal(f): 1:42pm On Jun 23, 2020
Disgusting
These people are mentally ill
BusinessRe: Good Graphic Designer Needed by ModestGal(f): 10:13am On Jun 23, 2020
nrexzy:
Since you felt it's a scam why comment?
So others would be saved
BusinessRe: Good Graphic Designer Needed by ModestGal(f): 9:25am On Jun 23, 2020
nrexzy:
Read through the post again
Most of you want someone you want to scam, not me and that is why you fall into the arms of people that would design rubbish for you and at the end you keep shouting you have been scammed

Can you purchase something and after eating it, paying. No, you pay before before service or drop half payment. Looking for people to waste their time and dupe ain't good. Anyway, the way I'm seeing you, you can't even pay my money, lol
BusinessRe: Good Graphic Designer Needed by ModestGal(f): 9:17am On Jun 23, 2020
nrexzy:
*A very Good graphics designer needed for a long term project... If you want the pay as you go job please don't contact Me, but if your ready to work on a long term base.. Reach out 09056978554*
How much you want to pay
Most of you want someone you want to scam, not me.
Can you purchase something and after eating it, paying. No, you pay before before service or drop half payment. Looking for people to waste their time and dupe ain't good. Repent
RomanceRe: Why You Must Not Train A Girl In The University With The Hope Of Marrying Her by ModestGal(f): 8:30am On Jun 23, 2020
gentlesinna:
I did it and I regret ever doing it......
I almost commit murder and suicide but thank God for d intervention of my friends and God infinite mercy.
Sorry to ask, are you ugly?
PoliticsRe: How African Culture Promotes Poverty And Corruption by ModestGal(op): 8:16am On Jun 23, 2020
coputa:
What the op posted further confirmed the truth that Africans are lazy people that want manna to fall from the sky,hence,the senceless looting/corruption,rituals,and cheating.Africa will eternally remain a beggarly continent if she does not change her values,Values of hypocracy,superstition,lies,cheating wickedness and hatred. What is luck, it means: Labouring Under Correct Knowledge,this is what the white man does,on the other hand,poor means: Passing Over Opportunity Repeatedly,this is the motto of Africans
What's the way forward
RomanceRe: How Can I Avoid Having A Girlfriend? by ModestGal(f): 8:09am On Jun 23, 2020
FlordFlorez:
Chai who even push this one to front page sef.
I'm guessing it is @ishilove not sure though. That guy too like Romance thread. Always seeing him there

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