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This man has so much low self esteem. Still suffering from European Mental Slavery

Oga o

Lol

Lol, with schools that doesn't have any source of water and toilets? With schools that students sit on mats?
The federal Government must be joking

Ok

Sometimes, I do not blame all those whites when they insult us, because no matter how I try to blame the leaders I just can't, but blame the People who created such an insane society

We want a brighter future for the coming generation, we don't want this huge unemployment for them, we don't want them to face the challenges we face. We want the best for them, and what we do today determines the system they would come meet

Why is it that Africa is only good in thinking of selling their natural resources and turning the Economy into a Mono? I saw a post on mining gold and selling and I never saw one on plan, or creating companies that would actually turn these products into finished goods like jewelries

Why does Africa only like to sell and sell their natural resources? How many countries have grown through that way?
Look at Congo Republic, they are the highest producer of major raw materials for mobile phones and yet, all they do is sell at cheap prices, buy the refined products at exorbitant amounts.

Many advanced world aren't just focused on what or how to sell their natural resources, but also how
to turn it into a finished product, which would create more jobs, and would be more sustainable for the Economy
Where's the sustainability in just selling and selling? Well, if its any true they want to start minining, they should create an enabling enviroment for turning it into finished products.

Mining gold would be a bad development if we do not have companies that would be making some nice jewelries and other products out of those gold. Because selling to these whites people, they gonna come back to sell the jeweleries to us double the price of the raw materials we sold to them. Also if we have both companies mining and making jewelries out if it, that would be using one stone to kill to birds as we would provide more jobs for the youths and sell out to other countries as well.

I'm sure once they turn towards our gold, they wouldn't stop until they finish it off or its value is diminished in the international market just like they did to our oil. We would face another years of mono economy and no jobs for our youths and our beautiful coming generations.

Must we always be thinking of today alone? What about the future? Stop selling our natural resources and buying it back triple the size. We are tired of this bull crap

What's your opinion on this?

This is a very bad development if we do not have companies that would be making some nice jewelries and other products out of those gold. Because selling to these whites people, they gonna come back to sell the jeweleries to us double the price. Also if we have both companies mining and making jewelries out if it, that would be using one stone to kill to birds as we would provide more jobs for the youths and sell out to other countries as well.

Stop selling our natural resources and buying it back triple the size

Hmmn, warris happening to 9ja?

I'm just hear to read comments and laugh

festwiz:
I am confused! You think you got the virus from updating your phone?

This is not an insult though, but some people should not be allowed to have smartphones.

Ok, you all made my day with laughter

ADEWUMIMichael:
You're trying to tell us you caught Corona virus through updating your phone??


Ọrẹ miiiiiiii igbami wá soro adabiwipe ooni brain

You are funny wallah

Well, this is what happens to an ineffective country.
Most people working under the government are old people. Most public school teachers are old people, they refused to employ young and vibrant people in government parrastatals many lecturers are above 50years of age and old.

Public primary and secondary schools are the worst, most of them are not TECH educated, how can they start online smart classes? Most of the schools don't even have enough teachers, in my state for instance, many of the schools are with teachers that are not enough. And these teachers are not even the TECH smart people, they have destroyed the life of these teachers, they are usually somehow local with funny mentalities.
They don't get any encouragement from the government, no assurance and reassurance, no training, no councillor. All they do to inspect them is go and bring your primary 6 certificate, they will all start running helter skelter, when they want to inspect schools, they will be asking of lesson notes, even the inspectors are not smart people, they are people with funny mindsets.

Just like I said, stress work is not hardwork, the only thing they are doing for the teachers is to instill unnecessary fear in them, I have family members that are old teachers and many people living in my community are old teachers incase you are wondering where I for my information.
These generation still believe leadership is to instill fear in their followers

If they want to do training for them, na so so fear and useless talks they would be instilling in them. Very funny government

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Lone wolf like us, there's really no difference whether the phone is on or off. Nobody dey call before.
And in the event someone does, an extensive rumination on why the person might be possibly calling is carried out. If it's something I can definitely conclude on, and I deem it fit unimportant, the call is ignored

Me too, I prefer chats to calls, my phone is always on silence mode

Cashalhaji:
Yeah can't marry her, but can't even bleep her again, I don't wanna die young

You are right, HIV is still real, likewise STDs. Stay away from that lady, shes not Healthy to be with, I believe you have low self esteem thats why you think you deserve a LovePeddler, brace up your self esteem, you are also smart and intelligent and not having sex everywhere, so there would be girls like you as well who would be intelligent and smart but also not a LovePeddler.

Start hanging around cool men, not people dating Olosho like you, or men that are saying all women want is money, and sex blabla, your esteem would sprang up and you will know you deserve better, someone who would be faithful to you

Never
I don't play mind games and I know what I want. I read people as well and when they don't match what i want, it's a no go area. I don't joke with people's heart, feelings etc, I don't go into friendship that I know I won't be able to return. I don't keep friends with males that have feelings for me, once a guy has feelings for me, I'm blocking him and we won't talk again or see each other till he gets off the state, most of them usually turn the love into very strong hatred though, but I know I'm helping them to wear off the feelings, so it doesn't bother me too much and would continue to avoid them. I don't hear people's secrets, pains, when I will hide mine for them

I don't accept gifts when I know I won't be able to give in return, I simply dodge such gifts. I believe in mutual relationships. Those are my rules and I stand by them.

No one has broken my heart as well because its not even possible. My heart is not a toy that I would give anyone to play with

I'm just here to reserve a sit

alert01:
thing is are you beautiful? you girl will want a drop dead gorgeous Man but your looks is always zero. plus the fact that some of u are dumb keep bringing unintelligent children into this world. Maybe u don't know a beautiful woman gives birth to a beautiful kid. if u are not good-looking yourselfm forget about having a fine man

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, black can be good to me, and yellow is beauty to you. My Point is marry who your heart attaches to, not money. Because you get to see them everyday, you get to live with them every, you see them in your children. Some people like big eyes, some likes small eyes, the features I like is different from what you like. Pretty to me might be ugly to you vice versa, putting your own pretty (features you like) or what your heart desire before money is crucial to a healthy relationship, but still, your own choice to do whatever you like. Peace

James4bright:
Heavy pregnant women work out. I saw a video of a woman who was about to give birth that day, she tried as much as possible to do some little dance exercise that day. Her delivery was safe and perfect.

Those girls are just unproductive.

And it eases labour, there was a colleague of mine as well that actually gave birth within 10minutes because she does all these exercises.
Many women that are very active during pregnancy usually experience shorter labour

James4bright:
Like pregnant women can't run blogs or do some intellectual works. Don't mind her.

Of course, anything that makes her happy and that her doctor is in support of.

Raydans:
You had their time. That Lilian was talking from both sides of her mouth.

How can you claim you're not broke, you're independent and self sufficient and still be noticing that men are stingy at same time. She was even saying it is an achievement to take care of your own self asif you are supposed to be dependent on someone that is not your husband or father in the first place.

Where I gave up was when she was again comparing herself to other women as her reasons of noticing stingy people.
What a damaged, entitled mentality

As in ehn bros, I was stupid o, I think say na better people I dey reply their mention. Na she/he/it open thread, na she dey use another monicker dey mention herself, I never checked the profile, but henceforth, I would make sure I check profile before replying any mention. It is well

This is the stuff I love to read. Beautiful discovery

Liliantalks:
a man physical appearance also matters to me save with financial.

Good for you, and non of my business. And I'm not questioning you for it. Your life, your choice.

But stop getting pained when others opinion differs with yours and even in this case, I'm not sure how my posts have anything to do with you, I read your post and added a point that you yourself mentioned but you are still overly PAINED on NOTHING. Or don't you understand English? Leave the Pains to those I replied and MOVE on, its not your pains.
Or did you create this thread to seek Attention? if yes, I'm sorry, I never knew that. Do what pleases you, gold digging or not, Just move on Gosh. Bye dear
Modified**
kindly forgive me for all my responses, truth is that I was stupid to not have checked your monicker before responding, I checked now and saw you are in competition with RUN GIRLS and many other funny Mentalities coupled with the fact that your account is FAKE. Please forgive me, I have learnt my lessons. Maybe it was even a fully bearded man I was busy replying according to some NLDrs

Liliantalks:
when did this thread turn to empowering women .What kind of painment is this one

Lol, Why are you quoting me up and down on my replies to someone else, I guess you are the one pained here that I didn't agree with being a parasitic whatever. Stop crying fowl, learn to respect other people's Opinion. You are the type that make men shame women
All my quotes in this thread are explanation to when people directly question me

Liliantalks:
no one is saying women shouldn’t be empowered madam. U rather date a man with no investment structure for ur kids with a cute face ? Then think u made the best decision for ur kids .. yes if conditions be as e be , Fine . But don’t make it seem financially stability isn’t most relevant in building a stable functioning home .

Girl, if you can't read and understand well, just leave my mention and stop being hypocritical. You mentioned physically yourself, its so glairing in your post and you are even lieing just because you feel threatened somehow with your choice.

Did I write anywhere that financial stability isn't relevant when I quoted you? Or does telling women to be empowered equates financial stability is a crime, that is how you quoted me saying I'm forcing my believe on someone that practically mentioned me first and trying to force her GOLD DIGGING PARASITIC BELIEFS on me. I only reply after being quoted, I RESPECT people's BELIEFS but wont allow them force theirs on me, so you are wrong AGAIN. Go and sit down abeg, I dislike hypocrites

efosky1246:
It's a man telling you this.

I'd advise you to relax, take a chill pill and think critically about the kind of man, male role model you want for your children. A financially sufficient and responsible one or not.

With this mentality of yours, you are better off being a baby mama. cause you'll only attract weak, criminally minded men.

Where is your coherence and cohesion? What does male role model has to do with women empowering themselves? No, you are the one that is WEAK, you feel threatened by an EMPOWERED WOMAN, you are the type that would be emotionally disturbed when your woman is doing well, man!! you are not Healthy, see a psychologist. You will start showing attitude when your woman's business is doing very well, because you are so insecured.

Let me tell you what REAL MEN DO, they EMPOWER their WOMAN and they take JOY in such EMPOWERMENT. They encourage their women and support them to reach STARS and you both support one another.
And again, I come from families of empowered women with healthy husbands who are motivated to work harder with their wives doing well to make their families a SWEET ONE.

Go to UI, and you will see many men with their women as proffesors, a prof once told us that he strived harder when his wife became a professor when he was still a READER and he LOVES his wife to HEAVEN. Those are real MEN, not men that would be injured when the wives are doing well and turn it into an unhealthy competition.

Your type doesn't deserve a hardworking woman, go and marry your fellow who would spent night and day watching ZEE WORLD and other TELENOVELAS doing NOTHING,. But the problem is that you still won't be satisfied as you will still complain bitterly, this is why I feel PITY for ladies who fall for your LIES and PROMISES of heaven and Earth and they agree to be Jobless when your salary/Earning is not more than a 100k.

You are simply a disease to an hardworking woman, so, see a psychologist before you hurt that beautiful lady

efosky1246:
Just stop being stupid.

There is nothing wrong in seeking out a man that is financially stable when going into a long-term relationship. It's not in anyway tantamount to golddigging or leeching as you seem to believe.

Even when you have your own income. Your man should be a pillar of strength.a fortress that you can rely on. in your lowest moment. There is no better feeling than knowing that your man's got your back in all ramifications.

Women are the most vulnerable in a marriage, and it's only common sense that you make sure to secure the best safety net you can attract. There is nothing wrong with it!!

A man brings structure, stability into a relationship, without seeking for this in a man, you're doing yourself and your unborn children a great disservice.

I don't know if it's your lived experiences that is making you feel like this. But no woman should be keen on being a work mule when in a relationship. You deserve better than you think

Lol, there's no where I mentioned the bolded, all I was saying is for ladies to be empowered and not 100% rely on men for sustainance. And if you like look for a rich man to provide all your needs but make sure you are empowered as a woman. But I don't know what is paining you in my post because you must be so PAINED and ANGRY to have resorted to the word ''STUPID'' when I also never knew your existence prior quoting me.
Lol, where you got it wrong is this **My believe is that, A man should get my back, and Me too have his back** and nothing is wrong in that, it is called LOVE
That is marriage, that is love, friends should get each others back, families should get each others back. Maybe if we are trying to get each others back, poverty would reduce in our society, not some people relying solely on others for their living existence

And my point is still clear, SELF DEPENDENCY IS NOT A CRIME and it helps during emergencies where the hubby might not be available.

And also, if you fall into the categories of Parasites, you should brace up your self esteem and empower yourself

DrFunmisticGlow:
So you want a vulnerable, heavy pregnant woman to be working?

Who raised these caliber of people?

You should ask who raised you to be GOLD DIGGING
Unless advised otherwise by doctors, nothing is wrong for a woman who is within 1-7month to be doing petty works. A pregnant woman shouldn't sit at a place, she needs to move and do
little exercises, that would help in easing her labour and aids shorter delivery.

You need a lot to learn really, this your mentality is so so unnecessary. Have you attended anti natal before? We teach women how to safely exercise and they practice along.

So much ignorance with you and yet, you think you know it ALL

DrFunmisticGlow:
This writeup is so weak. The modest in your monicker ought to be replaced with ignorance or plain stupidity.

Someone told me that if I argue with a fool, they drag me to their level and beat me with experience. I have seen it today.

I'm done with you.

Lol, so I'm a fool for telling you to not 100% depend on a man for your existence. I'm a fool for telling you to empower yourself and not wait for a man before you feed yourself?

And also, this wasn't an argument I started, you quoted me first trying to shove your PARASITIC GOLD DIGGING EXISTENCE down my THROAT and my replies was to tell you, I can't and that I prefer to always prepare for EMERGENCIES, I prefer to be self dependent, I prefer mutual relationship where we both happy. When you knew you were spewing nonsense, you shouldn't have started your illogical movement of forcing your beliefs on me.

I didn't want to continue this with you, but I saw that you needed help

Diane Hendricks, Meg Whitman, Judy Faulkner, Folorunsho Alakija, Funke Akidele, and many women you can GOOGLE to see how they are self made millionares. And again as I have said, that mentality of parasitic existence might ruin you because only rely on GOD and YOURSELF.
You have nothing to loose with this, and if your man is rich and gives you, then it would be an added advantage

Check the picture below to see self made beautiful women and get inspiration from them

DrFunmisticGlow:
Your attempt to emotionally blackmail me with a mental illness is dead on arrival.

It seems you missed the point of my writeup. I said you should look for responsibility as a criteria.

I didn't ask you to look for bill gates or huspuppi. Responsibility is broad, it can be financial, emotional, physical and spiritual.

Yes money ebbs and flows, but a responsible man has a backup plan. A responsible man lives within his means, he is not frivolous. Do you have an emergency fund? An unemployment fund enough to sustain you for six months.

Can your man answer these questions? Maybe it is when you are in a labor room having contractions and you are begging apathetic nurses and doctors to come to your aid because your husband is a financially irresponsible bus driver and you have no money to pay bills. Or you accrue hospital bills and stay in the hospital for one month with a newborn, mosquito biting you day and night.Nobody will send you food, drink and baby essentials due to debt. That's when you eye will clear.
I am tired of seeing such cases and they start when the women say the hogwash you wrote.

Now, I can see where you are coming from, you are so much poverty oriented that you think only a man can help your situation when you are suffering. Are you not even ashamed of yourself trying to force it down me to take money as number 1 criteria''
Anyway, I'm sorry for your situation, but I'm not used to those kind of women, I'm used to seeing powerful self dependent women who even help their husbands in time of distress.
Your type are the reason why Nairaland men bash ladies, now I understand why they do.
In your low dumb thinking, I would go marry bus conductor and during labour, no money for bla bla bla? My families would all be dead abi? ''You even said its that time it would clear for my eyes, lol'' you really think low of yourself sha, please brace up your self esteem. When I'm not even married, I have helped women with such payment because her husband wasn't around and she did CS to deliver her baby. But its because this woman was not having her relatives around to help her.
Were you thinking at all when you were typing this?
So you plan to get pregnant without plans on how you will take care of the baby? What if natural occurrence of death comes? Or don't we have pregnant women who lost their husband?
No one prays for bad things, but it does happen.
Its non of my business what your criteria is, but for the sake of yourself, always have something as income the help you in times of emergencies

This your last post is disgusting and showing how parasitic you want to be to men and how money loving you arw

Chai, Poverty dey for this country o