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LoveTalk:
Awesome compliment.
Thank you so much.
Don't worry, things will fall in place for you soon.
Don't rush, just take your time.

Thank you

LoveTalk:
Wise and great decision.
I'm single too and I'm not searching

You said you are still single that mean you ain't qualified to dish out relationship advice

My opinion though

LoveTalk:
I was actually balancing both sides

You were not balancing anything, you were pushing a false narrative

But anyway no qualms
Iike I say I am acting like a kid now to try to understand what love is really all about.

I like your episode, since it's coming from a gender that alter my narrative about love, so it's highly appreciated, and I want to read more of it.

LoveTalk:
Boda, genuine and true love is so rare that when you encounter it in any form, it’s a wonderful thing, to be utterly cherished in whatever form it takes.

But your narrative was not saying that earlier, you where actually pushing it as if is a random thing

LoveTalk:
A real man can't stand seeing his woman hurt. He's careful with his decisions and actions, so he never has to be responsible for her pain.

A real man is careful to never cause his girl pain.

He will try hard to provide.

Oh really
This is epic

If in that past decade of my various relationships, I has a girl who stood by me, in then trying time I personally would have gone far by now,
Emotionally financially and spiritually

But not so, I was left with broken hearted to the point that I have alter my narrative about women.

But right now I like a kid trying to learn what love is really about, because now Love actually sound like Utopia to me until I (lambano) it (sorry for that Greek word)

LoveTalk:
Boda, you guys always claim that you're the Head nah.

The head should be able to provide for the body Sir.

That's all I'm going to say for now.

Hmmmm the head you said

But I think the woman was created to be a helper to the man

Since the man is the head your is to help the man stand not to make him fall

LoveTalk:
Let me be sincere with you here.

Not all ladies are after guys' money. In fact, some ladies are richer than a lot of guys out there.

I'm not after any guy's fund as I can even settle the bills but come to think of it, love is sweet when money is involve.

Women love pampering just like a day old baby. No woman wants to date a broke guy.

We might try to cope in the first place but as time goes on, we would need to get some things done and it requires money. We need to look good and so on.

Boda, only lazy girls are always after guys' riches.

Run from lazy and broke ladies. They will leave you at the long run once you can't take care of them anymore.

Hmmmm, you said love is sweet when money is involved, rite?

Then you also said no woman wants to date a broke man, rite?

Now let me ask you a question base on those outline

1. Why is it hard for women to fund the relationship seems the guy is not buoyant enough to do it,? of course you claim to love him, or if both of you are not buoyant to do it, why can't you both contribute together in funding it, rather than running away to next buoyant dude.

2. Why is it that a man have no qualms to date a broke girl but in the other way around is difficult for a lady to date a broke Guy?
A lady who is doing well will rather settle with rich dude, than a broke Guy but a guy we will not do the same.

Does that not show how selfish women are when it comes to relationship

LoveTalk:
Are you trying to say that you've been in relationship with a lady who says that she doesn't need your money?

My dear i have been in various relationships for a period of a decade.

In the onset they will claim they don't need money but love, then they will be love, affection and caring but along the line things will start goin South, because I can't afford to keep the funding coming in, then suddenly love turn sour

So what was it all about in the first place if not money to fund the relationship.

Maybe I will agree I have been meeting the wrong ladies all this while, maybe.

LoveTalk:
I didn't understand

To be honest I'm surprised to hear this from a woman

Love without money in a 21st century atmosphere

This has shown my failure for being in a relationship in past decade with no fruitful result

But it still hard for me to believe, because I have been program for a decade to think in a certain narrative.

So i will be able to change this narrative if I found someone that has the Epitome of your narrative

Some marriage is just a joke, looking good outside, but ugly inside

I tell ladies don't marry man because of their money, they will spike at you, calling you enemy of progress

But we know it's not always jucy as it seems

Most men like to cheat but they don't want their wife to cheat this is outright selfishness

To me what is good for the goose is good for the gender

LoveTalk:
Boda, if you touch transformer nko?

But it true, I'm

Hope this is not online narrative

Because I will enquire offline to find out

LoveTalk:
No, it doesn't.

Guys caused it.

In Nigeria, ladies use sex to secure love while guys use love and money to secure sex

Is this true

I'm surprised to hear this from a lady
I am shock

Let's see how prepare ESN is

But does an average relationship in Nigeria survive love without money?

I'm curious to know

Shut up
When are in relationship because of benefit why will you see the flaws.

The women I actually think the same thing you were seeing why dating him so relax the money is not yours but his to his spending

You are right on this one bro, I basically blame the man for the failure of his home
the problem is that we all married for wrong reasons that's why we're're having troubles in our marriage

The young man is probably on a relationship so don't go and desecrate his relationship

Keep your like to yourself it will do you good.

Sorry to say this I think you are suffering from dementia
And you actually need some mental evaluation

Non-compatibility

Sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex Sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex

That all we heard everyday,
There's more to relationship then sex.
And what make you think that after marriage before sex, that the marriage will last?

I have seen a man who married a grown-up virgin but still problem in the house everyday.
But a lame thinker will thought since he married her as a virgin, the marriage will go well, uh

Well it's not always so, shit happened when you put your focus on a wrong thing, while you should be working on the compatibility between you too you are busy focusing on the wrong side of it.

Understand that we are human, and sex has been ingrained in our DNA, we can almost do it with anybody whether married or unmarried.

But you see your compatibility you can't find that on easily.

I understand that sex supposed to be after marriage not in advance, but you see sex it's not a measuring tools or a criteria to a successful marriage or relationship.

Understand this and you be successful in your relationship.

Unclesmart12:
100% true no fiction

Let's see how it ended

Is this based on true life story or fiction

Ladies are not in the right place to advise their follow lady

debbydams:

Is this your way of condolence

Her refusing to let you have her phone is the signed of cheating so be careful don't think with your anus

The red flag has been shown to you ignore it at your own detriment

Why is it very hard for a woman to accept the truth

Who cause man to fail? Woman

Instead of women to rise up and start winning men trust, rather they'll be pointing fingers at the man, when we all know the history.

Stop prostituting yourself then the world will be a better place
Prostitution is date back as 30BC, for a woman to think of her vagina as a mean of her survival in 21 century, goes to show that their brain function on a squirrel level.

Pardon me when I said that I love a woman body but not their brain, is because a woman is incapacitated to think beyond her vagina,
But you see unless you are tempted the think beyond what you have already master you will never grow,
That's why they are stock in 30BC kind of work because their brain is malfunctioning to think beyond their vagina
Is very pathetic that in 21st century we still having women thinking like this

When women valuing their dignity then men will respect them.

fati2001:
5

if they can come in this form

boy

girl

boy

twins




zzor where are you?

Zzor was sent to oblivion by the wicked mod