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GreaterGraceGG:
How do I know if I'm to loose weight or gain weight? I'm not fat and I'm not slim. Weight was 60kg the last time I checked.

Good Day all

Put in your current weight and height in any BMI calculator to know the right weight you should be. You can use any BMI calculator online. Here is one

https://www.calculator.net/bmi-calculator.html

https://www.gethealthy.sa.gov.au/healthier-you/tools-and-calculators/bmi-calculator/

jenifer007:
https://www.nairaland.com/920221/weight-loss-gain-ladies-trying

The weight loss thread

Thanks mama. God bless you for us.

Oya, let's go there...

GreaterGraceGG:
You are right sis, for my first pregnancy, I met with hubby just one day in that month, because I travelled to school d following day, I was overwhelmed with msc project defence, I did not even put mind in pregnancy, I even told my roommate that I will go and see gynae when I return to lagos, not knowing that I was already pregnant. After defence, while waiting for final project correction, my mates were having get together everyday, I didn't step out of my house, my mood was terrible and I was fighting everybody, they begged me to go out, I refuse. One night, I had this terrible headache plus cramp from sleep, it woke me up and I was like....wait o, I supposed to have done my period na, I calc my dates and got to know that I'm one week late, I told my roommate to go and buy accurate for me, cos I was scared, we sha did d pt together, come and see thick double lines, I was amazed.

If only we can put mind away from ttc, and focus on other things, preggy will stay. (Have sex for fun).

God will answer us soonest

Gbam! That's what we gonna do. Oya asiko to...
Let's move to our weight lose thread biko.

Try remove mind small from this TTC matter

Secondly, we have a sister thread for mamas and papas who wants to lose some weight. Let's make it active again. I remember quite a number of mamas who got pregnant when the were active on that thread. It's about counting your food intake and recording it. You also state your start weight. This helps mamas and papas stay active.

Someone should please post the tread here.

Weight is very important when TCCing. If you are on the higher side, try loose some weight. If you are underweight, then gain some weight. Being underweight can stop you from ovulating or even conceive. Being underweight can also cause miscarriage. Check your BMI. To gain some weight eat bananas and grandnuts etc. Take over 2000 calories per day

We can not overemphasize the importance of moving about, especially when TCCing. Trying to Conceive is a lonely journey and it tends to introduce sedentary into one's life. Because of the shame, pain, etc we want to stay away from people as much as we can.

Sedentary lifestyle can cause more delay to trying to have a baby. Not moving can stop blood flow to the uterus, which can stop proper ovulation and implantation, futher delaying conception. When fresh blood is not getting to the uterus/ovaries this can stop you from ovulating or having quality eggs, good endometrium, etc. It can make you gain unhealthy weight, another thing that can cause delay. Please and please make sure you are not tempted to be in this space.

So it's very important you get moving. Do some exercise, engage in activities that helps you move/active

I want to suggest something, if we are interested, let get some volunteers to help coordinate and make it work. We can create a separate thread if we like.

Rule of the game
Do this at least 30 minutes every day.
Take a walk with a group of friends (TTC or non TTC). Take a Walk with hubby.
Then come and tell/gist us about it. Or just say you did the health walk today and for how long. This will help us stay motivated, on track and commit to it. Let's make it fun. Suggestions are welcome.

What some of us are battling is more than just physical. And when trying to conceive without God or praying, when some spiritual powers and wicked individuals have said or vowed that you can never have a child as long as they live. My dear, your only hope is God/prayer.

So don't just take treatments or suppliments without prayer. Spiritual controls the physical. You have to go win that battle of infertility prayerfully, spiritually. You have to be strong and not tired o. It's even there in the bible that it's when you are strong (prayerfully, spiritually) that you will break the yoke off your neck.

God bless everyone asking for beautiful children/bfp with their hearts desires in Jesus name. Amen!

Also, connect every Tuesday, 9am and pray till satisfaction, keep praying and praying until you are blessed with your heart desires. Pray all the prayers, leave no stone unturned. Mama Hannah did not get tired of praying and praising, even when her fellow women made mockery of her and called her names. That only pushed her to pray more.. Even when she got her heart desires, she kept praying and praising God. The woman that had no children had 7 more beautiful children to the shame of her mockers and adversary! Amen.

God is still in the business of answering prayer. You can fast and even do vigil with these prayers. God grant all beautiful heart desires in Jesus name, amen!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTVUfMCtTPA

Hallelujah Challenge my beautiful mamas and papas. Till the last time I checked, only God is the giver of beautiful children. Don't be tired, praise and pray until you receive what your heart so much desire.

Connect live now. It's a 10 day praise program and today is day 2.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Lro6PGQT1M

Ufemia26:
Ma, please can we chat on WhatsApp?

leave me a message at mommdav2@gmail.com

mirob:
Good morning all, please I have been trying to contact Mommdav but could not reach her, the number that I have with me have been switched off for a long time, hope she is ok.
Just checking on her.

Good morning darling. You can reach me on mommdav2@gmail.com

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kgE5IaSVq2I

For those interested. Have a great day fruitful mamas and papas.

May the Wiper of tears and Giver of great children visit you in Jesus name. Amen!

Keephope:
At last, The period finally came today after using dostinex for 7 weeks. getting ready to see doctor for the timed intercourse procedure to start. Can someone share her experience of the Timed intercourse process? thanks

Congratulations dear...

Time intercourse with your gynae is when your doctor gives clomid or letrozol or any other ovulation induction meds, then monitors you with scan till when your egg/eggs are mature enough, he then gives HCG to make you ovulate, then gives progesterone after ovulate.

Mamas with experience will come and tell you their experience.

This circle is your circle in Jesus name..amen!

Thanks sweetie @TripleBlessings

Olamide939:
Please @mommdav @sugah is day 3 prolactin of 22.82 okay?
And progesterone of day 21 of 19.27 okay?
Please I'll really appreciate your response.

Work on prolactin, it's a bit high

Progesterone is okay. Please check and rule out pregnancy

Bobbyunitedfc:
Yes yes yes... My God has done it again, we went for a blood pt yesterday evening and it came out a big fat positive, u need to see how I was jumping and hugging the lab guy, God answers prayers, on Monday I joined Nsppd miracle service and the pastor mentioned my case he said we should carry our baby, meanwhile my wife and i were expecting our period, I told God to replace period with pregnancy, and he answered us, in this TTc journey we need God..


This time my wife and I will carry to term,in Jesus name..

Best birthday gift ever,and best anniversary gift come February 2023.

Congrats.. happy and healthy pregnancy to her.

Wow! God is great..

Check my post on tips for healthy pregnancy..you can also join the pregnancy thread

Oyagbera1:
Please what's the solution to this help

Work on your prolactin.. it's high.
Dostinex, a tablet (0.5mg) weekly or half a tablet twice weekly.

Vitamin B6 50mg daily, take with Bco or Multivitamin, take from after period to when you see another period/circle. When TTCing, take only after confirmed ovulation

Ewedu therapy..

Fertilty blessings love..

Sweetnesstwins:
Thanks mama, that was how my joy was cut short...it is well...we are still waiting on God. Thank you for all you do for us...well since then nothing again.

Don't worry God will do it again and all the pain will become something of the past. Smile, your joy is hear in Jesus name, Amen! Don't be discouraged, hold unto Him and keep praying. Behold your joy and laughter..amen!

Nicejo:
Good evening mama. Please how soon after a laparoscopy or hysteroscopy surgery can one start taking serrapeptase?

You can take from 3 days to a week. My fertilty doctor had me on wobenzym when I did mine then. I added serrapeptase about 3 to 5 days after. Mine was hysteroscopic surgery/operative. The difference is, with hysteroscopic they pass a camera and cutting tool through your vjay. But with laparoscopy they give a small cut around your belly button and bikini line, they may also pass a tool through your vjay.

Preciousify:
Thank you so much.

Tests were carried out on 2nd and 21st day.
Hubby is yet to do SFA.
I did scan Feb. But will do a new one by Thursday. Also did HSG Feb. Tubes are patent.

It's just frustrating.

I know my darling...you shall testify soon in Jesus name. You can chat me up on WhatsApp. You can send the result of the scan you did.

Preciousify:
Hello everyone,
Pls look into my result and tell what what is wrong
It almost a year I had myomectomy, nothing has happened.
I married as a virgin,!!!
I'm frustrated already.
Even people I know committed abortion, have their children already. Some are pregnant. No, I am not judging anyone.
But, it's frustrating??
I kept myself.
All tests are ok
I don't know why pregnancy has not come.
I won't loose hope, everything will fall in place in Jesus name Amen.

Your result is okay./within normal range Hope your test were done on circle day 2/3 and day 21? How is your husband sperm? Did he do SFA/sperm analysis? Let's see your scan if you did any recently. Did you do HSG?

Darling GiftfromGod e go Kuku end in praise..

Sweetnesstwins, I saw that you tried reaching me. Infact that was what prompted me to check your history to remind myself of who you are, since it been long I come in here. This was when I saw you posted on pregnancy thread. When I checked back I you had gotten your BFP. Oh well.. until I saw that you lost the pregnancy

You can chat me on WhatsApp.
You shall laugh last over the enemy of your full scale laugher in Jesus name.

giftfromGod:
Thanksfor the words of advice.
I doubt am ready to go under the knife again , not any time soon. Am tired already. It not even up to three years I removed Huge fibriods. Something of different sizes.
So it too early to do any surgery again. I don't even want to think about it, am tired already. If things continue this way, I think have tried. At this junction, my husband is free to take any decisions as regards having children. I want my peace of mind .
Before imlaws wahala will start, I surrender to God will.

My darling.. don't be tired. You have to keep hope alive. If I were you I will not take no for an answer. You have not even said if the fibroid is inside. Sometimes these fibroids are not entirely removed during surgery. It will now appear as if the fibroid grew back fast, no, it didn't. If it's inside truly, then it's might just be that hysteroscopic surgery that your body have been waiting for that baby/IES to stay. You can send me the scan result let me see, but crop out your name.

Sweetnesstwins:
Praisssssssssssssssse the Lord

He turned my mourning into dancing

This God turned my night into day

My wonderful sisters I can't believe my eyes

Its BFP.

AF was due on Saturday, I didn't see, and AF has never been late, so today I decided to test, and its two bold lines, God is good.

My darling sweetnesstwins...this was the message I saw that made me congratulated you. I didn't know you later lost the pregnancy. I am so sorry sweetheart. The God that did it before will do it again.

I also saw where you said your doctor did not allow you take progesterone when you wanted to. He said you have to wait till you can see your baby on the scan. Really!!? Some of these doctors are so inexperienced. How can he say that. That is why I don't wait for doctors in some of these things o. Seriously am lost for words right now.

When you get pregnant after a miscarriage or you have TTCing for a while before pregnancy start progesterone immediately o. Duphaston 10mg twice or thrice daily. Sometimes just tablet is not enough, you have to supplement with primolut N injection 250mg, 1ml, twice weekly. This is why you need a good doctor. If you can't afford this then look for a very good experienced pharmacist.

Sweetnesstwins:
Please mamas, help me out, when can one start taking progesterone? Immediately you test positive or until scan picked the pregnancy? When I request for progesterone a doctor told me until pregnancy is established through scan that's when they can administered it, asking in case of next time because I lost it last month.

Momoftwins:
Good morning all

Is there any one who has an history of ectopic pregnancy and is Ttc or had a baby ??

I had an ectopic pregnancy in 2011. Got married last year October and been trying to conceive since then ??

I also treated bacteria in November and February

Any advice please

While other experience mamas in this regard come and reply you let me chip this in. Whenever there is an ectopic sometimes you have adhesions and scars. Do fertilty massage and Castrol oil pack with adhesion suppliments. Make sure there is no infection in place. Untreated infection/PID will mostly cost ectopic pregnancy, adhesions and blockages. It is well.

Mamas receive your BFP in Jesus name. Whatever you are doing do not neglect prayers.

Flakky26:
Dr prescribed dostinex for 6 weeks. 2 tablets weekly because of very high prolactin so as to Induce menstrual period.

I want to ask how long does it take for period to come? I am just 4weeks on taki g dostinex.

You can add other natural methods of bringing down prolactin, like the ewedu etc. Since your doctor is actively working with you I will suggest you talk to him. Fertilty blessings dear. May your BFP come sooner than you think in Jesus name, amen!

Try loose weight if you are overweight. Add some weight if you are underweight. Being overweight and underweight can greatly affect fertilty or stop regular periods.

Questiontime:
Dear House, please who can recommend a good drug to increase sperm motility. A test showed Motility of 20%, sluggish of 30%and dead 50% on a 2ml sperm count. I used a drug called fertile aid for 3monthd but the result is still poor. Thank you.

Fairhaven Fertilitaid and Motility Boost. Very good with great results. Let him use them for 3 months straight, uninterrupted. He must stay away from sugary food, junks and unhealthy food. Drink at least 3 litres of water daily. Onions juice and honey or dates in morning about 20 minutes before food. Plaintain, groundnuts, tigernuts, watermelon, cucumber are very healthy food/fruits/vegetables that boost sperm health. He must stay away from alcohol and smoke. Very dangerous for his sperms. He should spend more time in boxers than pants. Free his instruments and let them breath fresh air always.

mirob:
Good evening ma’am, my HSG result states that I have right hydosalpinx but the left tube is patent, please how do I get all these that you mentioned for fertility massage.
Thanks for your continued support.

You can chat me up on this WhatsApp number
0806 982 8125

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfedx0E8jI0

For those interested, please connect now as Dr Olukoya is live now. Get your pictures ready as well.

Mamas whatever you are doing do not leave Castrol oil fertilty massage out. Infact I came across a lot of mamas who got their BFP while on fertilty massage. Do not do massage and packs after ovulation when TTCing. Stop right before ovulation.

At least 30mins brisk walk daily. Drink at least 2 to 3 liters of water daily. Jugging and robe jumb/skipping rope right before ovulation. You can do 5 days on, 2 days off.

MineMK:
God bless you immensely. Funny enough I just ordered Fairheaven Fetiltea this morning( I'm definitely in Gods mind..(Lol) Would read more on the rest and order . Thank you so much! I feel better...

Great! Fertilitea is to be taken 3 times daily so there won't be room for other teas. Use one at a time. If you are taking Fertilitea no need to take Chinese tea for now.

Castrol oil self fertilty massage is important too. Please don't leave that out.

[quote author=Sweetnesstwins post=80411807][/quote]Sweetnesstwins am so happy for you darling. Congratulations darling. I just came across your name on pregnancy thread. Years of tears and sorrows gone forever. Praise God for you darling

Ademerit congrats love. Just saw that you are a mother now. God bless your LO.