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Atticusxsz:
Lmao...
Give am wetin? If na belle, that's not an issue but doing that and not being financially buoyant is another scenario altogether.
I'll love to end up with her since she's been there since day one.
Hoping 4 the best in our love life.

Your woman will o. Na you go even run sef. One thing I've observed in stuffs like this is, within the earlier stages, there are stuffs that wouldn't fit in and you tend to imagine and fantasise but with time, effort and understanding... even Satan go turn Angel.

You made the right choice initially by going for personality and love. Because women’s bodies are very unpredictable. It’s foolish to base a relationship on something that fluctuates that much.

But in the end you even got the best of both worlds cos your woman blossomed and became your spec

I am hoping your wishes for me come true and my woman blossoms. To be honest I know it won’t stop me from looking at other women but at least it will reduce it if my woman sef get wetin I Dey look for outside.

I wish you financial success and marital bliss very soon

You are on the right track bro

Atticusxsz:
Thanks bro.
Honestly bro, it's hell of a ride. She just left my place this very minute after spending 3 days with me. Everyone in my neighbourhood knows she's my no. 1, although I've got some other you know.
I've gone through a lot to know how everything that pertains to being in a relationship plays out.
If it's wasn't 4 her stubbornness, i don't think i would've been with her till this very day, even though i pop her cherry. It's her who pleaded nonstop with me to find a side chick so as to keep me happy while serving in asaba in Delta state since it's impossible 4 we to be together until i come around anytime I'm chanced to.
Her love far surpasses mine that's why. It's as if i had this innate mindset that she's for keeps. Even when i was making things difficult 4 her, she's always around and steadfast. Always apologising even when i was at fault.
I knew i had to grow up and give her the respect she duly deserves even if she wasn't originally my spec. Although, there's a lot ahead of us but we're positive. I even jokingly told her today that very soon, she'll be seeing my posch lifestyle on whatsapp and Facebook status with them bitches and she's like, where were they when she's with me 24/7, going through temptations from all quarters etc.
I just laugh and knew she's definitely 4 keeps but if she misbehaves, i wouldn't look back twice and she knows my kind of person. She no dey carry me play and she knows I don't tolerate bullshit o. Imagine babe that's got an account of half a million and wants me to be in charge of it while I've got no dime with me. Always saying I'm strong headed and stubborn 4 not obliging to her request of handling her aza.
I told her i got hustle 4 my own o and this is a babe that i haven't spend anything worthwhile on o. But i know she'll definitely enjoy me soonest. Her type is kinda rare o.

Sounds like you and her are meant to be

I also have thesame spec as you (big shapely bum bum) .. my woman has the blueprint but hasn’t blossomed yet. I cheated once and confessed myself cos I couldn’t look into her eyes and keep lying. I plan never to cheat again forever.. I’m hoping my woman will become my spec at some point. I need her to add weight in specific places

Make sure you marry that girl or give am belle bro

Atticusxsz:
Damned!!! Grand maestro... who says slawormiir ain't knowledgeable in almost all facets of life, huh?
Twale 4 you baba nla... you nail am.

To add a lil something to the aforementioned topic... @ Op... my babe of 5 years now, back then in 2016 wasn't someone i could write home about in terms of physical and sexual attractiveness etc... but as at now, it's as if i want to play and do the do nonstop with her 24/7.

Anytime she comes around, i always want to get naughty with her not minding who's there witnessing the spectacle or reading what's going through my head at that point in time.

She's now far too sexually attractive, got height, got curves and damned so fine with her ebony tone... babe wey mere seeing her dey make me turn on and i wouldn't have imagined the situation to be so in a thousand years.

So, your case ain't any different bro. With time, that small ikebe wey you dey despise now go dey shake like wetin no good... like wetin timaya and naira marley use sing and feature 4 majority of their songs.

I’m happy for you man

What made you stay and how was the experience during those years she wasn’t attractive?

May God the only actual king support osinbajo to lead this nation

I truly see him making some bold changes

He actually ordered all oil companies to relocate their HQs to the Niger delta at some point

We should all tweet at shattered Wale tell him how far lol

Anigreat:





Dick wasn't made for one woman, it was made and designed for multiple women. So you'll be a failure if you stick to one woman in the name of being married to her and she bears the title " wife"

If King Solomon with all his Wisdom in abundance that was a divine wisdom given to him from above couldn't settled with one woman even two women, then why should i, an Olodo, that knows nothing settle with one pusssy, no, i can't and it can't happen...not in this life or next life, if there's any next life.

Opportunity presented itself to you to drill some pusssy and you fuckenly scared because you have a wife. You have disappointed your ancestors even our father King Solomon. Failure like you.

If it is right to have multiple women why do men hide to do it

Clintifydan:
Afonjas really need power to do what? I rather stick with the north than another audio and virtual osinbajo to rule this country

Good choice

The north will also give you state police and restructuring

Good job super eagles

AfroKnight:
Racist nonsense. Perhaps they’ve forgotten their heritage before the advent of Islam. The worship of Ra was what? Their tourism industry (temples and tombs) portray what? So were they practicing white magic and our own black magic?

Racist fvcks.

Present day Egyptians are immigrants to that region. Some have Egyptian blood tho

Mr President, there is a difference between “working hard” and “working smart”

Billions of dollars on rail but nothing tangible for power

You only have 1 honor. You will make whoever your successor is, look very competent cos nothing can be worse than this

You failed on my scorecard sir

Tingotoe:
There's no country in the world where the federal police isn't under the direct operational command of the head of government. The FBI in America answer to the president and not any local authority

FBI is different

States in the USA have their own police force I think and they have nuances in their respective laws

Try and change the white background on those redeemed logos to blend with the main background and you are good to go

hush15:
The solution to electricity in Nigeria is very simple. Dismantle what they call national grid and Regionalize or zonalize it using certain metrics.

Smart post

updatedws:
your gov't approached a German firm, Siemens to build power station in Nigeria.
u guys agreed on most of the terms of contract but as usual, u wanted to pad the contract and began to seek for 30% local content/Involvement.
But the German firm insisted that the power industry in Nigeria cannot Carter for 30% of the contract.
they wanted u the government to hands off totally so that they could do a good and swift job but u d government refused and tore apart the contract.

these are the words of the former German chancellor Angela Merkel when interviewed by Chimamanda Adichie.

Thanks for this insight

I was once ignorant thinking the western nations weren’t willing to help fix our power sector

This government sha

Basicend:
Nigeria needs a lion to lead. . A brave and mad knowledgeable man (Someone similar to Obasanjo).

Only a madman can lead mad men.

Osibanjo is knowledgeable but he is too meek. He will be facing many lions. . Can he bark back and stand his ground. . If he cant'he will not do anything significant.

Let's see how it goes.

Lol

joey150:
We definitely have the bright minds. We just don't know how to get them into where they should be. Our political system is being ran like an organised mafia syndicate. You have to tow the path to stand a chance.

Our civil service needs to be run like a proper organisation where each worker's role is judged on a determined benchmark. This way, it's easy to see who needs to go, who needs to remain, and who needs to be retrained.

The problem is, since we aren't industralising as we should, the civil service has become a major "source of employment." So, you have several redundant and moribund government agencies drawing salaries for doing absolutely nothing.

Poor citizen participation in the affairs of governance has definitely played a big role in the mess we're currently in. As long as people continue to turn a blind eyes to the ills in our current system of government, nothing will change. At least, nothing significant.

Those are great insights. Thanks

I wish you good luck in all

Hope to read more of your insightful posts on here again

post=109062441:
Wailers will always wail.
Nothing makes them happy.....absolutely NOTHING!
Sho!!

At this point, you pity them.
You realize that they need prayers.
They hate everything good.
They hate anything uplifting.
They hate development.
They hate their country.
They even hate themselves.

Lol manna my fellow Chelsea fan lol

Everything you said is on point

Never seen a country with so many haters of their own progress lol

If you associate with people like that you will be a failure and will never strive for better

Peace manna

joey150:
I am glad we share the same opinion.

I think Nigeria as a country is built and ran on a structurally parasitic framework. Our system of governance and government just isn't built to succeed. A system that isn't enshrined on accountability, fair democracy and merit will show little to no growth.

Not to dilly dally any further, we must get leadership right. Ideas and vision mean nothing without the men and women to sacrifice and fight for them.

Our current system of governance discourages merit, citizen participation in governance and accountability. If we don't fix these issues, nothing else would work.

But first of all, we need to get the right people in the right leadership positions. I believe that if we fix our election system, make it more transparent, that we may stand a chance at redemption.

Like you, I've lived outside Nigeria, and know how sane societies are run. We are a long, long, way. Even if we started to do all the right things tomorrow, we would another two to three decades to right our many wrongs since independence.

As for disintegration, I don't think it'll change much. We are curently too underdeveloped to break into parts. However, we can benefit more from fiscal federalism and then move towards disintegration when we are a more developed nation.

However hopeless the situation seems, we must remain hopeful and continue to try.

And I am sure we have honest and bright people who can fill all these leadership roles but the electorate are not in a position to make those critical right choices.

Also don’t you think everyone in our civil service needs to be let go or retrained ?

You were spot on on the parasitic structure of the government and how that stops states from looking inward to generate more revenue. But honestly I don’t see how realistically, the south can convince the north to redistribute funds to the north’s detriment.

Also one only has to see how poor the traffic on this thread is, to know Nigeria ain’t going nowhere

If this thread was about BBnaija housemates or tonto dike or a topic that attracts tribalism, this thread would be in double digits, but no it’s about the single most critical developmental need in this nation and no one cares

omohayek:
Since when has competence and rational planning been a hallmark of Nigerian governments, especially this one under Buhari? This pointless new plant is no more nonsensical than the same Buhari government going out to borrow billions in USD from the Chinese to build railways it is now running at a loss, or refusing to privatize anything whatsoever while complaining about inadequate revenues, or squandering billions on petrol subsidies and "turn around maintenance" on obselete refineries while lecturing Nigerians about the "evils" of importation and begging international agencies for new loans ... This particular venture into stupidity is a drop in the bucket considering all that has gone before it.

That will be very disappointing if the power generated from this new plant cannot be transmitted across the grid. That will be very shameful of this government

I agree the Nigerian government hasn’t shown organization and planning in the past. One only has to look at even newly constructed roads without road traffic markings, zebra crossings or sidewalks. No blueprint, no standard

However I do not have the figures of TCN’s transmission capacity and I don’t know our total generating capacity so I cannot judge on this matter

It wouldn’t surprise me if like you alleged, the new plant’s generated power cannot be be transmitted due to an undersized grid

gabazin080:
You are wrong. Go to any estate on the island, even banana island. You will see we as civilian revealing our gate pass before we are allowed to enter while all military men once you are on uniform or can identify yourself will be allowed without asking to make any calls. Ordinary magodo with their pot holes and unstable power supply is now stopping a CP. that's nonsense

Maybe you mean Magodo brooks but Magodo estate itself (shangisha) has 24hours power uninterrupted. I used to live there so I know

On the potholes.. even ikoyi and Vi get potholes

omenkaLives:
While all other regions are making preparations and plans towards taking over the reigns of power in 2023, a particular region is busy issuing threats and ultimatums to the Nigerian people, or telling us who and who shouldnt be considered for the position, making no moves whatsoever to market one of their sons who's shown serious interest in the race.

At the end of the day, they'd still be the ones to cry blue murder, forgetting the fact that while others prepared they were busy chasing shadows.

The president being from your tribe or region just gives our ego’s a boost, with nothing tangible to show for it

I prefer someone from another tribe who strengthens the naira than my tribesman who is clueless and ruins the economy

I choose competence over tribalism

omohayek:
It's highly likely that this project will be completed, simply because it is being built by Chinese firms using Chinese capital (hence no room for the usual Nigerian factor of corruption and incompetence). However, it will make no different whatsoever to the power situation for Nigerians, because for many years now, the problem of power in Nigeria has not been an issue of generation, but of distribution and pricing.

Nigeria already has something like 3 times the amount of generating capacity than the power distributed on an average, but the rickety, underfunded national grid can't distribute the full amount which can be generated, while the discos can't recover their costs thanks to price controls, so most of that generating capacity just sits idle. Adding yet another generating source does nothing to fix these distribution and pricing issues, so anyone jubilating with the expectation that things will soon change is simply giving in to delusion.

So why will the Nigerian government embark on adding this power plant if the power generated cannot be transmitted ? Don’t you think they know that the Grid needs an expansion/upgrade ?

joey150:
1. We already have a basic regional gas supply pipelines. Besides, it wouldn't take more than a year or two to lay gas pipelines to the site of the power stations if the government was indeed serious to solve gas shortages to power plants.

2. Nigeria isn't run in the best interest of Nigerians. This part is very self explanatory.

3. It's easier to show off rail lines than power plants whose construction will probably outlive your tenure.

The Nigerian government isn't built to serve the Nigerian people. It is simply an organised criminal agency established to embezzle petrodollars, hoodwink its citizens, take out humongous loans and pay salaries to an ineffective and bloated civil service.

I agree with your points but I think Based on how well you seem to know Nigeria’s ailment, you might have some ideas on how we can get better so we can be hopeful for the next 10,20years

I am Nigerian and have chosen to live here rather than the northern hemisphere countries where I spent quite some time. So we die here.

Is there any hope on the horizon ? Or do you think there’s nothing to be hopeful about the next two decades ? Or even forever ? Are you one of those who feels disintegration is the only solution ?

joey150:
A 15GW dam would take many decades and billions of dollars to complete. Money, Nigeria does not have.

Also, it would require a very large current of water. I doubt the River Niger can power such a turbine. Already, we are pacifying our neighbours to not dam the River Niger in exchange for supplying them electricity.

Since we have Gas in abundance, we should focus on several small to medium scale gas plants while attempting modest hydro power projects like this.

Even this 700MW dam is taking nearly a decade and half to complete.

Nigeria's power problem is terrible because successive governments have embezzled all the investments meant for the power sector since after independence. This, coupled with an exponential population growth and power demand, means that our energy crisis will be at the very least another two to three decade long problem.

won’t construction of gas supply pipelines from gas plants to all the gas turbines across the country be the biggest challenge ?

Also why are successive administrations comfortable with the power situation?

Why was rail prioritized over power ?

Trendy247:
The problem is not even generation, because currently we generate about 12522MW but only able to dispatch 4000MW

Fact

TCN infrastructures need expansion and upgrade

Peace1993:
one of the demerits of watching porn.

Yes porn modifies your natural sexual preferences

Jorge91:
I know very soon the government will start clamping down on prostitutes, they are just everywhere. wrote this on Twitter few months ago, you can’t even take your little child out without seeing semi naked ladies here and there, from eatery to beach they are just everywhere. If rivers state give start clamping them down at night, they will start appearing day time.

Pussy is too cheap here

Our women are highly devalued

In the uk having money is not all you need to get a woman

You can get turned down a lot even with the dough

We need to uplift our women

Prostitutes will upgrade to Home service

owagbeba:
Why can’t we have a stable power supply?

Why can’t we reform the laws allowing states to generate power under clean energy act?

Why can’t the central leadership coerce all these “no-good” state leadership to get up and starting working for their state rather than wait for handout from central? Most of the Emirates in UAE run their own power supply scheme. Some emirates like Ajman is not as big as Lagos, yet they have their power plants. See below photo3 Ajman’s power plant.

It’s 2021.... the science of power generation is quite rudimentary at these times. Not a big deal! It’s the same basic science of your tiger generator scaled up a thousand times.


Turkey runs an offshore power turbine (on ship) off the coast of Lebanon to supply power to this nation (Lebanon). Lagos can get one of this. Lagos can afford it. If they can’t, then rent the service. See below Turkey’s Karpowership.

China will be more than happy to build a power plant on each state in Nigeria on a long term repayment agreement; just the way we partnered with them on rail.

Sometimes we need brute force to make a change... the way Sanusi forced everyone to go cashless. Now POS operator is a popular employment scheme around Nigeria, though not good enough, better then staying unemployed.

But what we have is a bunch of clowns who are after their own interest. Their greed stinks! Most often they distract the people with non issues while they are neck deep in the coffers

It’s an APC government, an APC legislature... what are they waiting for?

PS: second photo is shell’s power supply scheme to Aba industrial zone. It’s a limited scheme.

I think they estimated that to fix our power sector we will need about 500billion USD

I think the cost is high that’s why.

Also there isn’t a strong urge to fix it from the government cos of vested interests that will be affected (generator importers etc)

dba18:
First of all you have come to the wrong place to seek the much needed advise you are looking for secondly in your heart you know what to do but you just don’t have the guts to but let me contribute to https://www.nairaland.com/bigbashiru advise: Since you already have doubts in your heart on settling down with her which is as a result of growing lack of physical attraction for her lack of big bum bum & you believe that’s causing sexual un-attraction & that will be a problem as it will lead to infidelity in the marriage, I will say to you as bigBashiru has please just let her go & explain clearly to her that it is you who is the problem, let her know if you deny your self that one thing you will eventually go & find it outside just for satisfaction & it will hurt her in many ways, you might eventually carry all sorts of diseases including HIV & give her. But also as an experienced counselor I will advise you to think carefully of letting her go if she is a good woman (every man knows a good woman if he is honest) & you are compatible in other areas such as in communication, Psychic connection, though processes, other mutual desires such as to grow financial & be more comfortable, does she support your dreams, so you feel free to share everything g with her & does she do the same, does she look up to you & respects you etc.

Because you see these attributes I meant Jones are all important things to a married man as they will greatly impact your FINANCES, PEACE AT HOME, THE SUPPORT YOU HET FROM YOUR WOMAN & THE SEX. Note that as long as you breath there will come a time when due to life’s challenges or I’ll health (you or your spouses) you will be oblivious of Sex & when a big bum bum comes around you will even be disgusts of it as a result of what you are facing so think carefully and on a final note let me give you an open secret most men unconditionally know but deny: there is no woman who can not satisfy a man be it small number bum or big bum bum the opening in between their legs that we men crave for is all the same.

What makes sex interesting asides a man’s zeal to come is the physical performance that is put into it by both parties. If your woman lacks the sexually prowess to satisfy you as the ashawo that you are (� all men are) then discuss it & encourage her to learn with you & be patient as well (except if she is naturally not built for it & would deliberately not want to learn) & if she is willing then trust me by the time she masters how to hold you down you see that big bum bum will only become something you admirer just for the sake…

A clean Toyota Corolla will serve you the same way a Range Rover sports will if you are realistic. [i][/i]

All the best.

You are intelligent

Following

Thanks

ayindejimmy:
Let me let you in on a secret.

95% of men cheat on their wives.

Especially in Nigeria. Just make sure you respect her by being covertly discrete

Did you conduct a poll ?

Doesn’t the police force require a warrant/investigation and conviction before arresting somebody ?

Our institutions aren’t strong enough. The executive are allowed to do whatever they want

Those we enforce the law must respect the law and the division of powers