ParpahSeventy:
I was thinking like you because I always felt I would cheat on her, I made peace with myself after two years with her, in those two years+, I realized she was everything I wanted even without big breast and nyash, she made for that with every other thing.. When your mindset shift, your priorities will change

Nice.

The bolded is facts on marble..

Peace1993:
one of the demerits of watching porn.

Yes porn modifies your natural sexual preferences

1. After you've actually experience the filth and rot out there in the dating world, you'll appreciate a good woman that loves you. Sadly, we can't choose those that loves us, they choose us. And it's up to you to be grateful for heavenly blessings, or look it in the eye and send it off. Not until you search and search, wasting years in the process, you may not appreciate her now. Dont be deceived by the illusions of abundance of good women, they are scarce. If she is a good woman, keep her. Yansh no be food.

2. With time, she will add up flesh if she wants. I guess she is in her 20's. After childbirth, and of course people in their 30's tends to add weight easily. If she is willing to hit the gym and do exercise that targets the glutes (eg squats), she will look even hotter. Gym is the natural toner of the humans body, advice her to join one. What a shame for one to grow old without seeing the strength and beauty his/her body is capable of.

dont try it if there is no sexual chemistry between..You go suffer wella

Atticusxsz:


Damned!!! Grand maestro... who says slawormiir ain't knowledgeable in almost all facets of life, huh?
Twale 4 you baba nla... you nail am.

To add a lil something to the aforementioned topic... @ Op... my babe of 5 years now, back then in 2016 wasn't someone i could write home about in terms of physical and sexual attractiveness etc... but as at now, it's as if i want to play and do the do nonstop with her 24/7.

Anytime she comes around, i always want to get naughty with her not minding who's there witnessing the spectacle or reading what's going through my head at that point in time.

She's now far too sexually attractive, got height, got curves and damned so fine with her ebony tone... babe wey mere seeing her dey make me turn on and i wouldn't have imagined the situation to be so in a thousand years.

So, your case ain't any different bro. With time, that small ikebe wey you dey despise now go dey shake like wetin no good... like wetin timaya and naira marley use sing and feature 4 majority of their songs.

I’m happy for you man

What made you stay and how was the experience during those years she wasn’t attractive?

Boss pls pass the girl give me if na big nyansh u still dey look for.

Moorish:

I’m happy for you man

What made you stay and how was the experience during those years she wasn’t attractive?

Thanks bro.
Honestly bro, it's hell of a ride. She just left my place this very minute after spending 3 days with me. Everyone in my neighbourhood knows she's my no. 1, although I've got some other you know.
I've gone through a lot to know how everything that pertains to being in a relationship plays out.
If it's wasn't 4 her stubbornness, i don't think i would've been with her till this very day, even though i pop her cherry. It's her who pleaded nonstop with me to find a side chick so as to keep me happy while serving in asaba in Delta state since it's impossible 4 we to be together until i come around anytime I'm chanced to.
Her love far surpasses mine that's why. It's as if i had this innate mindset that she's for keeps. Even when i was making things difficult 4 her, she's always around and steadfast. Always apologising even when i was at fault.
I knew i had to grow up and give her the respect she duly deserves even if she wasn't originally my spec. Although, there's a lot ahead of us but we're positive. I even jokingly told her today that very soon, she'll be seeing my posch lifestyle on whatsapp and Facebook status with them bitches and she's like, where were they when she's with me 24/7, going through temptations from all quarters etc.
I just laugh and knew she's definitely 4 keeps but if she misbehaves, i wouldn't look back twice and she knows my kind of person. She no dey carry me play and she knows I don't tolerate bullshit o. Imagine babe that's got an account of half a million and wants me to be in charge of it while I've got no dime with me. Always saying I'm strong headed and stubborn 4 not obliging to her request of handling her aza.
I told her i got hustle 4 my own o and this is a babe that i haven't spend anything worthwhile on o. But i know she'll definitely enjoy me soonest. Her type is kinda rare o.

Atticusxsz:


Thanks bro.
Honestly bro, it's hell of a ride. She just left my place this very minute after spending 3 days with me. Everyone in my neighbourhood knows she's my no. 1, although I've got some other you know.
I've gone through a lot to know how everything that pertains to being in a relationship plays out.
If it's wasn't 4 her stubbornness, i don't think i would've been with her till this very day, even though i pop her cherry. It's her who pleaded nonstop with me to find a side chick so as to keep me happy while serving in asaba in Delta state since it's impossible 4 we to be together until i come around anytime I'm chanced to.
Her love far surpasses mine that's why. It's as if i had this innate mindset that she's for keeps. Even when i was making things difficult 4 her, she's always around and steadfast. Always apologising even when i was at fault.
I knew i had to grow up and give her the respect she duly deserves even if she wasn't originally my spec. Although, there's a lot ahead of us but we're positive. I even jokingly told her today that very soon, she'll be seeing my posch lifestyle on whatsapp and Facebook status with them bitches and she's like, where were they when she's with me 24/7, going through temptations from all quarters etc.
I just laugh and knew she's definitely 4 keeps but if she misbehaves, i wouldn't look back twice and she knows my kind of person. She no dey carry me play and she knows I don't tolerate bullshit o. Imagine babe that's got an account of half a million and wants me to be in charge of it while I've got no dime with me. Always saying I'm strong headed and stubborn 4 not obliging to her request of handling her aza.
I told her i got hustle 4 my own o and this is a babe that i haven't spend anything worthwhile on o. But i know she'll definitely enjoy me soonest. Her type is kinda rare o.

Sounds like you and her are meant to be

I also have thesame spec as you (big shapely bum bum) .. my woman has the blueprint but hasn’t blossomed yet. I cheated once and confessed myself cos I couldn’t look into her eyes and keep lying. I plan never to cheat again forever.. I’m hoping my woman will become my spec at some point. I need her to add weight in specific places

Make sure you marry that girl or give am belle bro

Moorish:

Sounds like you and her are meant to be

I also have thesame spec as you (big shapely bum bum) .. my woman has the blueprint but hasn’t blossomed yet. I cheated once and confessed myself cos I couldn’t look into her eyes and keep lying. I plan never to cheat again forever.. I’m hoping my woman will become my spec at some point. I need her to add weight in specific places

Make sure you marry that girl or give am belle bro

Lmao...
Give am wetin? If na belle, that's not an issue but doing that and not being financially buoyant is another scenario altogether.
I'll love to end up with her since she's been there since day one.
Hoping 4 the best in our love life.

Your woman will o. Na you go even run sef. One thing I've observed in stuffs like this is, within the earlier stages, there are stuffs that wouldn't fit in and you tend to imagine and fantasise but with time, effort and understanding... even Satan go turn Angel.

Atticusxsz:


Lmao...
Give am wetin? If na belle, that's not an issue but doing that and not being financially buoyant is another scenario altogether.
I'll love to end up with her since she's been there since day one.
Hoping 4 the best in our love life.

Your woman will o. Na you go even run sef. One thing I've observed in stuffs like this is, within the earlier stages, there are stuffs that wouldn't fit in and you tend to imagine and fantasise but with time, effort and understanding... even Satan go turn Angel.

You made the right choice initially by going for personality and love. Because women’s bodies are very unpredictable. It’s foolish to base a relationship on something that fluctuates that much.

But in the end you even got the best of both worlds cos your woman blossomed and became your spec

I am hoping your wishes for me come true and my woman blossoms. To be honest I know it won’t stop me from looking at other women but at least it will reduce it if my woman sef get wetin I Dey look for outside.

I wish you financial success and marital bliss very soon

You are on the right track bro

Moorish:

You made the right choice initially by going for personality and love. Because women’s bodies are very unpredictable. It’s foolish to base a relationship on something that fluctuates that much.

But in the end you even got the best of both worlds cos your woman blossomed and became your spec

I am hoping your wishes for me come true and my woman blossoms. To be honest I know it won’t stop me from looking at other women but at least it will reduce it if my woman sef get wetin I Dey look for outside.

I wish you financial success and marital bliss very soon

You are on the right track bro

Thanks bro. We'll surely attain our heart desires of which I'm definitely sure.

famzynet:
Don't lose a good woman because she does not have yansh. When she gives birth,her yansh will increase. A woman that gives you peace of mind is priority. A woman that you can leave the house for and have rest of mind that all is well. A woman who loves you ,who is kind and accepts you and your family for who you. A respectful and generous woman. A generous woman will always want to contribute her earnings for the mutual good of two of you. If she is naturally good looking,that is a pass mark. You can teach her how to dress sexy for you when she is indoor with you. When you have the resources ,encourage her to make long hairs . That makes most females sexy.

No woman is perfect. Most men who settled down always have one thing that they wish their wives also have but they chose her because she has 70% of what they desire.

Wow, great insights !

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Don't bother getting married to her cause the marriage won't last